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Vivian Luma
November 1, 2008
Happy Birthday, Mary. You're in our hearts and thoughts everyday. We miss you! Isabella and Michael sent up balloons for you on your birthday. You can share them with the angels if you like. I know God and the sweet angels are taking good care of you in heaven. I know now you are singing and dancing while watching over us. Michael and Isabella have two new siblings: Gabriella and Matthew. Gabriella's middle name is Elizabeth just like you. I can only hope she is as brave and strong as you were. Life without you is not the same. You taught us a lot in your short life. Thank you for being such an amazing child and for being so inspirational. Please watch over your cousins - Matthew, Michael, Gabriella and especially Isabella. We love you!
Kim Krolczyk
October 30, 2008
Happy Birthday Mary. I hope you are able to dance with the angels today. I think about you all the time, and I pray for peace for your family.
Love, Kim (Mommy's friend)
Jennifer Pieber
February 28, 2008
Jayson,
I am so, so sorry to hear about your loss. I want you to know how incredibly special you are to me. Last April-the 14th-we came into the ER at Children's Hospital with Owen having complaints of vomiting and neck pain. We were there for about 12 hours, and you ran an array of tests on him. After performing a spinal tap on him and analyzing the chemistry of it, you discovered that the glucose level of his cerebral spinal fluid was low, demonstrating a possible decrease in the circulation of his CSF. With that information, you sent Owen for a CT scan, where a brain tumor was found. He was diagnosed with medulloblastoma. Owen had surgery to remove the tumor in his brain April 19----hopefully the worst day of my life. An MRI prior to surgery showed two large inoperable tumors in his spinal cord in addition to the one in his brain. The past year has obviously been filled with many hellish times. He lost his ability to walk post-surgery and had severe hemiparesis on his right side. Owen received 37 radiation treatments to his brain and spine-the absolute maximum a body can tolerate. He has been through monthly chemo treatments and several infections--throughout everything he has remained pretty jovial. His ability to smile through what he has been through is inspiring to say the least. His father and I divorced last year, so there has been the adjustments that come along with that. The lives of his two older brothers have been basically put on pause, as we have been in the hospital for over 100 days this past year...
BUT---Owen was finished with chemo as of December. He has regained much of the strength on his right side, and has begun crawling and doing some standing with assistance. He still has his broviac in and receives nutrition through it nightly, but as he regains his appetite, we are hoping that will be removed soon. His most recent MRI shows him being clear---even the spots in his spine. I am hesitant to celebrate too much-as you know, cancer cells may remain in his body but not be showing up yet and his chance of recurrence is very high at which point I have been told that any kind of treatment would be palliative and not curative. But I have to focus on the positives and keep a positive outlook. I certainly have many "down" days, but I try to stay strong in front of the kids. I think that's important for them...
I completely believe it was your vigilance, thoroughness and caring that led to Owen's diagnosis. I don't feel that many other doctors would have taken the time and effort into something as "simple" as neck pain and vomiting and let us go home. I see you as Owen's guardian angel. I believe that you were Owen's doctor that day in the ER for a reason. I thank you every single day. I wanted to let you know how much you mean to me. I have asked for you every time we have come in to the hospital through the ER the past year, but we have never managed to come in while you were working. I believe that you took you time with him because of your daughter, Mary. I had brought Owen into the ER with a fever of 105 in September, and as usual, I asked for you. It was the day that you lost your sweet angel, and you would not believe how I sobbed for her, for you, for you family. There is absolutely no sense that can be made of it when a parent loses a child, and I am so, so, so very sorry for your loss.
I can't think of a way to thank you properly. I just really wanted you to know how truly special you are, and how I will ALWAYS view YOU as the one who "saved" Owen. We certainly are not out of the woods, but I can't imagine how things would have turned out for him if Owen's diagnosis been delayed even for one month longer. Thank you so much-I wish I could find words to truly express the extent of my gratitude, but "thank you" will have to do...
yours,
Jen Pieber
http://www.owenpieber.blogspot.com/
December 14, 2007
I miss you sweetheart.
Tamara Roberts
November 15, 2007
Mary it will be almost 8 weeks since you left for heaven. We miss you, your smiles, giggles and love!!
October 30, 2007
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARY!
I do miss you.
Lorraine Vasi
October 20, 2007
Dear Jayson and Jenifer,
Not a day goes by when we don't think of you and Mary. She gave you such genuine love, love that will never leave you. And you gave her such a wonderful home and family to share her days. Mary's smile and courage will never be forgotten. She is with you still, just in a new way. Embrace her love always. We know this healing will be hard. Remember you are never alone - our hearts are always with you.
Love,
Aunt Lorraine and Uncle Anthony
Barbara Luma
October 18, 2007
Dear Jayson and Jennifer
What an amazing gift you gave us.
Mary was a fighter and you fought
right along with her.Because of your care and devotion to our
Beautiful Girl we were able to love her with all our heart,hug
her with all our might and kiss
her until her eyes and giggles said "thats all folks".You never
failed her and no one will ever forget her. Mary was sunshine-and you can never get enough of that.
Mom and Dad
Joe and Nora Newman
October 18, 2007
Jennifer, Jayson and Family,
We are sad to hear of the loss of Mary. God now has another angel. We pray for you during this time of loss and sorrow.
john and nancy armentano
October 15, 2007
Jennifer and Jayson
John and I were so sorry to hear about the death of baby Mary. Our hearts go out to you and your family.
Donna Brozo
October 7, 2007
Dear Jayson and Jen:
I don't even know what to say. I was so sorry to hear the news. You guys are the strongest people I know. I don't know if I would have the same strength the two of you did. Keep strong and I know you will get through this.
Love, Donna, Kelly, Brittany and Deanna
Joseph Newman
October 6, 2007
Dear Jayson and Jennifer,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Mary Elizabeth. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow. I did not have the pleasure of meeting Mary, but I see in the album pictures a loving family whose lives were enriched by having her with them.
Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Kim Simchock
October 6, 2007
Dear Sweet Mary, It’s only been a short time since you left us but yet it feels like forever. I look at your pictures and your beautiful little face and regret not having spent more time with you. You are and were a sweet angel. Nothing can fill the void that your passing has left in all of our lives, but you will always be with us. Jen and Jay, I love you both so much and I am so sorry for everything you’ve been through. I promise to always keep Mary’s memory alive. Jen, you are the best mother, sister, and friend I know. I love you and admire you and I am blessed to have you and your family in my life. Stay strong and know that I am here for you always. Love, Kim
Renee Mendez
October 4, 2007
Jennifer, Jayson, Abby and Charlie,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Although we were not fortunate enough to meet Mary, through pictures Mark and I can tell she was deeply loved-- and very sweet. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mark, Renee, Dean, Nicole and Ricky
Anne Haslam
October 4, 2007
Dear Jennifer and Jason, /donna e-mailed a copy of the Guest Book for Mary Elizabeth. I never met her but I was happy to see her paictures of her and your family. I know that God will give you strength to grieve and that she will be in your hearts forever. She is now a beautiful angel. Aunt Anne
Debbie Johnston
October 4, 2007
I met Jayson in the ER at Children's a couple years ago when my son, Gabriel was there. He told me about Mary. He was as proud of her as any father could be, and filled with so many hopes and dreams. I am deeply saddened by the news of her passing and can only imagine your grief. Take comfort in knowing she is now in the arms of Jesus and is completely healed. All God's children, especially our 'special' little ones are saved by His loving and merciful Grace. You are all in my prayers.
Danielle Molino
October 3, 2007
I know it’s been years since we not only saw each other, but spoke. When I talked to your Mom the other day on business (yes, I still work for the same law firm) she told me what happened. Needless to say, you have been on my mind ever since. I just viewed the photo album, and my heart is breaking for you. I have two children and absolutely couldn’t imagine losing one of them. I know it’s been a good 15 years since we saw each other, but I felt compelled to write to you. I was very sick myself a few years ago (ask your Mom) and I would in a heartbeat go through what I went through again rather than seeing one of my kids suffer. My heart goes out to you and your family. You have a beautiful family! Stay strong for them and know your little girl is now in peace in a wonderful place.
Doris Koharcheck
October 3, 2007
Dear Cousins, Jayson and Jennifer, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious Mary..I did not know her but in viewing the pictures I see a loving family taking care & loving their little Mary. I share your heartache in losing a loved one..My prayers go out to you and your family, Jayson and Jennifer , and to Cousin Charley and Barbra Luma and great-grandma, Cousin Betty Luma..God Bless all of you and give you the strength you need at this most grievous time. All my love, Uncle Joe's oldest daughter,Cousin Doris (Fazio)Koharcheck
October 2, 2007
Gene and Donna Rogers
October 2, 2007
Dear Jayson, Jennifer, Abby and baby Charlie, Our hearts are filled with such sorrow as you attempt to go through your days without your beautiful Mary..our prayers are with you, as GOD begins his healing and strengthening of your hearts and souls. All of our love Aunt Donna and Gene
Francine Hochulski
October 2, 2007
Sweet Beautiful Mary,I feel blessed
given the opportunity to have known you,what your smile did for me-words can't express.I looked forward to seeing you the days we shared together, you will be missed! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Your friend,Fran RN (PSA)
Kim Dunagan
October 1, 2007
I just wanted to let you know how sad I was when I heard the news of your loss. My name is Kim Dunagan, and I am a friend of Kim's at LMS. Even though we haven't known Kim long, please know that we will do our best to help her thru this very sad time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Sheryl Vicenik
October 1, 2007
I wanted to express my sympathy to your family in the loss of little Mary. I'm a friend of Kim's at Leander Middle School, and Kim talks about her family, and especially how much she loves her nieces and nephew so much. We were in shock when we heard the news. We appreciate and are thankful she's here. We will try very hard to help her in this time of sorrow.
Polly irving
September 30, 2007
God Bless all of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Love Polly and Kenneth Irving, Jr.
The Sunesons
September 30, 2007
Dr. Luma,
You were an angel looking after our daughter in the ER at Children's earlier this month. We are so very saddened to hear about the loss of your little girl. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Greta, Steve & Charlotte Suneson
Hilary Garnsey
September 29, 2007
Jennifer and Jayson,
Oh, our dear friends, we are so very sorry for your loss. Please know we are thinking about you and your family and sending our deepest love and support.
Hilary and Ben Peery
September 29, 2007
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Tamara Roberts
September 29, 2007
My most favorite memories of Mary will always be: her smiles, her voice, her giggles and her beautiful personality!!! Mary you will always remain in my heart!!!
love Tammy
Dominica Roberts
September 29, 2007
I loved going to work with mom and getting a chance to play with Mary. I will always remember her beautiful smile!!!!
love dominica roberts
Nancy Ferguson
September 29, 2007
Jennifer and Jayson,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please take some comfort in knowing that your never go through things like this alone. Although, we are not there with you, you are in our hearts and minds constantly.
I hope, in time, your sorrow will lessen and the memories of Mary will bring you great joy.
Maybe there is comfort in knowing her great grandparents will take care of her in heaven. I know Aunt Marie was first in line to hug her.
We love you tons,
Nancy and Maynard Ferguson
Laura Roosa
September 29, 2007
I was really sorry to hear about little Mary. I'm sorry I didn't get a chance to meet her. Your Mom and Dad talked about her a lot whenever I saw them and I feel like I knew her. May God bless you.
Kathryn Baker
September 29, 2007
Jennifer and Jayson our thoughs and prayers are with you.
We never meet Mary but looking at the photo album we can see she was a sweet little girl, who lived in a house full of love.
God has another little angel beside him along with Great Grandma Marie and Great Grandpa Mike and Uncle Mike.
We love you,
Kathryn, Richard, Emily and Sarah
Rose Premetz
September 29, 2007
Dear Jen and Jayson,
You are in my thoughts and prayers, sorry that I never got the opportunity to meet little Mary but your Mom and Dad told me so much about her I feel like I knew her. My love and prayers to both of you, Aunt Rose
Linda & Bo Roosa
September 29, 2007
Dear Jen and Jayson, We were so sorry to hear about little Mary, We can't even imagine what you are feeling. Just know you are both in our thoughts and prayers and if there is anything we can do for you just ask. Our home is always open if you just need to get away. God bless you both.
Sheeba Morales
September 28, 2007
Jen and Jayson,
You are in our prayers. We were very sad to hear of your loss and that we never had the chance to know her. We miss you all so much and think of you often.
With love Cesar, Sheeba, Diego and Daniela
Stephen Shipley
September 28, 2007
To the Luma family,
We just looked at the pictures of beautiful Mary. We are so sorry for you all. You can see the love and spirit everyone in the family enjoyed by having her in your lives. She was blessed to feel and know your love. She will always be with you.
The Shipleys- Lukas, Camilla and Stephen
sandy and ken irving
September 28, 2007
We are so sorry for your loss. To outlive your child is the worst thing that can happen to a parent. I know!my wonderful son Brian died 4 yrs.and 6 mos. ago I miss him terribly! We are in frequent company with Grandma and Grandapa Luma. You may be assured that we will always be there for them. Please accept ou deepest sympathies. Sandy and Ken Irving
Peggy Reddien
September 28, 2007
Jayson, Jen & Luma Family: I was very sad to hear of your "Precious Mary's" death...My thoughts and prayers are with you...May God Bless and keep you close at this time...Peggy CHOB V10
Corey Philpot
September 28, 2007
All the love and affection we can send across the country.
May Mary's memory provide a never-ending source of joy, love and unity within your family.
If there is anything we can do, please, let us know.
Corey and Michelle Philpot
Bruce Helming
September 27, 2007
My heart goes out to you. May you remember the love you shared.
Daniel Peters
September 27, 2007
Jennifer, Jayson, and Abby, my deepest condolences in the passing of Mary. I am sorry that I did not get the chance to meet her, truly sorry. Be strong and know that Mary and her family are in my thoughts and prayers
Jessica, Evaristo, Lucia Hipolito
September 27, 2007
So sorry to hear about your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Joanne Calandra-Sheehan
September 27, 2007
To The Luma Family, I am so sorry for the loss of your Beautiful little
Angel Mary. Jennifer I never did get the opportunity to meet you but I did
See you in passing at Bornhava; we both have something in common we were
blessed with little Angels, The only difference now is that your little Angel
Is watching over you! Be strong and know that you have plenty of people praying
for you and your family..Joanne Sheehan (Little Jimmy's Mom)
Georgia Fiebrich
September 27, 2007
Dear Mary, Jennifer, and Jayson,
We have always loved and missed you. Little Mary, you were blessed to have two such wonderful loving and accepting parents. We are truly sorry you are not with them now. I am sure you brought them much joy, love and wisdom. Jayson and Jenn, you are always in our hearts and thoughts. God Bless. Love, Steve and Georgia
Maria & Louis Mosiello
September 27, 2007
Mary Elizabeth
Your time here was very short, and even though we didn't know you well, we knew you through the loving words of your grandma Barbara and your poppy Charles.
You were very much loved, and we hope your mom and dad find peace and comfort with loving memories of you.
Rest in peace, God bless you.
Halloween
September 27, 2007
Mary and Dad
September 27, 2007
Christmas
September 27, 2007
Mary and Dad -Summer '07
September 27, 2007
Rodrigo Castro
September 27, 2007
To the Luma Family:
¡Lo siento mucho! I am very sorry for your loss. I know what is like to lose a child and I share your pain. My prayers are with you and with Mary, a child who I know was very loved.
September 27, 2007
Jayson, Jen, and family,
My deepest sympathy extends to your and your family during this difficult time. Mary was a beautiful little girl who touched so many lives. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless all of you.
Michelle Weiglein (CHOB Radiology)
Jill Smith
September 26, 2007
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Susie Riordan-Martin
September 26, 2007
Jen and Jayson, I am so sorry for your loss. Both of you and your two other adorable kids are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary (Zander's Mom) Klink
September 26, 2007
Dear Jen and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Mary. She was a beautiful little girl that touched so many lives. May you find comfort in all your memories of her. God Bless you and your family!
Mary and Abby
September 26, 2007
Mary and Abigayle
September 26, 2007
Mary and Mom
September 26, 2007
Sisters
September 26, 2007
Karen (Eaton) Doles
September 26, 2007
Jayson and Jen,
I'm so sorry to hear about Mary. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Beautiful Girl
September 26, 2007
Mary and Charlie
September 26, 2007
Abby, Mary & Mom
September 26, 2007
Mary
September 26, 2007
Mary Elizabeth
September 26, 2007
Mary and Abby
September 26, 2007
Abby n Mary
September 26, 2007
Mary
September 26, 2007
Mary
September 26, 2007
Mary and Mom
September 26, 2007
Kathy Lonergan 806 cpc
September 25, 2007
Dear Dr. Luma and family:
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers----God Bless
Jessica Lawson
September 25, 2007
Jayson,Jen and family,
my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. It was always my pleasure to care for Mary, how wonderful that this tiny soul was able to touch so many of our hearts. May you find comfort in your memories and in each other. Wishing you peace, Jessica Lawson (V9 RN)
Dawn Wingerter, Williamsville Pediatrics
September 25, 2007
Dear Dr. and Mrs. Luma,
My deepest condolances to you and your family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. May your memories of Mary help you through this difficult time.
Lauren Hayes
September 25, 2007
To the Luma Family;
All thoughts and prayers to you all at this time of such sadness. Rest, with assuredness that your little "muffin" is watching from above with love. Lauren Bornhava)
Ellen Crawford
September 24, 2007
Mary- your inner beauty will forever shine at Bornhava.
Jennifer & Jayson, Abbie & Charlie - My heartfelt condolences go out to all of you. May you have the support and love of family and friends to comfort you.
The Derr Family
September 24, 2007
Jayson,
You and your family have our prayers and thoughts. We are so sorry for your loss of Mary.
Lynne Krawczyk & Angie Radoani WCHOB - Radiology
September 24, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. May your happy memories of Mary sustain you during this difficult time.
Steve Ambrusko
September 24, 2007
Mary was and is a beautiful child and will be missed. Her little life was blessed by the unfailing, incredible love and care given to her by her amazing parents, Jen & Jayson. My deepest sympathy and prayers, especially to Abby & Charlie, who now have an angel in heaven to watch over them.
Karen Eddy
September 24, 2007
Mary taught all of us how to fight and be strong. Our thoughts, strength, and prayers are with your family.
Bornhava
Sharon Chodora
September 24, 2007
Dear Jayson, Jennifer and Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family on the loss of your precious Mary. I know words cannot ease the pain you are feeling right now but know that in time your wonderful memories of Mary will bring a smile to your face once again. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Sincerely,
Sharon Chodora
Rachael Sinicki (CHOB ER)
September 24, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with at this difficult time.
Danielle Paradowski & Family
September 24, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Jessica
September 23, 2007
Mary Lou,
I sure will miss you. You were such a sweet, beautiful girl. I'll sure miss your smoochy little face, peanut.
Jayson and Jennifer- My prayers are with you. It was a priviledge to care for your daughter.
Kelly Hennessy & Family
September 23, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Lynda Stidham, MD
September 23, 2007
Sweet little Mary, you are now at peace and playing joyfully with the angels. You touched so many people in your too short life, and we will miss you.
Jennifer & Jayson, my thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and Mary.
Lynda Stidham, MD
Bornhava School Physician
Rosalie Radoccia
September 23, 2007
Mary touched my heart. Mary's soft touch and sweet smile will remain with me always. I feel blessed to have been a part of her life. I send love and strength to Big sister Abby, little Charlie, and ofcourse, Jennifer and Jayson. Fondly, Rosalie Radoccia
(aka Ms. Rose)
Maude Dull
September 23, 2007
She was a wonderful child and I will miss her. My deepest sympathies.
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