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Debi Durham
November 17, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Karen Teepell
November 2, 2007
To Mary Jo's family,
In all of the years I have done your mom's hair it is like I know each of you personally, she loved her family so much and was always talking about her grandchildren, she was so proud of all of you. I know you will miss her always, but I also believe she is happy to be with Moe, she missed her so much everyday. As a lot of others have said you will all get through this together, your family has so much strength because of her.
She was a exceptional women and I am glad I was able to know her.
Take Care
Karen Teepell
Kaily Giardina
October 27, 2007
Kevin, Cyndee, Kevin and Zach, I am very sorry for the loss of your mother and grandmother. I know what a difficult time this is for you, but please know that we are here for you. Your family is in our prayers, and may you be comforted in knowing that your mom is holding Sarah and watching over all of you. Mark, Kaily and Sam
Jeanette Verba
October 27, 2007
Dear Karen,Mary, Kevin & all their families,
I met your Mom a few times while visiting Mrs. Augustine's over coffee & cookies. I am Cauline's Mother from Florida. We use to laugh together, there we were getting ready to go to bed, when Cauline would come running down stairs to Mo & Karen for a fun night out. To you all please remember the funny times as they will see you through this sorrowful time. Know my condolences & prayers are with you, Jeanette
Philip Serafini
October 26, 2007
Grandma, You were the best grandma anyone could ask for. Always there for me no matter what. I just want to let you know that I love you so much and will miss you even more. You used to say how I made your day when I could come for lunch all the time. Well I want you to know, YOU MADE MY DAY, EVERYDAY!!!!
Love your Buddy, Philip
Rick Ruberto
October 25, 2007
Dear Mary, Kevin and Karen;
What can I say except that the strength and courage you showed during this painful time is a true honor to your mother. She taught you well and as Kevin said; Mary & Karen are great mothers and Kevin a great father, and in my words, three of the most loving cousins one could have, all brought about by the strength, courage, and love of one remarkable lady. I am just sorry I never told her how remarkable she truly was. My memories are many, my love enduring, and her impressions left on me I will take with me wherever I am and with me when we are all together again. I will miss your mother, our family matriarch terribly but I am happy to know who she is with!! :) With all my love, sympathy, and support always, from your cousin Ricky xoxoxo
Brittany Serafini
October 25, 2007
Gram....if only I could find the words to describe how wonderful you were to me and all of your family. Like a second mother always there through the good and through the bad.I can remember all those times Nicole and I got punished and would yell down the vent for you to rescue us...those were the days...Philip, Nicole and I were so blessed to have such an amazing women in our lifes. You helped us grow up and taught us right from wrong...you did everything you could to make us happy...Living upstairs from you for those many years were the best years of my life...I wish you were still here but I know you are in heaven watching over us with your ever lasting love....the memories and love for you will always stay in my heart forever...rest in peace grandma you will be missed,I love you..<3
Scott Murray
October 25, 2007
Kevin, Karen, Mary, Louis, and families. My thoughs and prayers are with all of you. I will cherish always the memories of your mother and being at your home. The friendship, the coversations, and the laughter. How your mother always made me feel comfortable and at ease at your home. Treating me not as a quest. But as part of the family.
God Bless,
Diane and Alex Athans
October 24, 2007
Mary, Karen & Kevin....
Our hearts go out to each of you and your families during this difficult time. Your mom was such a strong and guiding light for each of you and I know that she will continue shining now that she is in heaven with Moe. As you always know, if there is anything you need, we are just a phone call away. You are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. With much love.....
Marie Aungst(Leo)
October 24, 2007
Dear Mary,Kevin and Karen,
I was saddened to hear of the loss of your mon. I still picture her sitting on the porch on Seneca and Roanoke Streets.Any time I went there with my brother she was always so welcoming and always good for a joke or wisecrack.What a nice and funny woman.Cherish the memories and my prayers are with all of you.
Marie
Linda Babcock
October 24, 2007
Dear Mary,
The best Mom in the world leaves behind a woman of strength, courage and love ~ YOU. The very best of her lives on in you and how proud you always made her.
I will be forever grateful for how your mom loved my doll just like one of her own grandchildren. After Marissa's beloved grandma died, your mom became "Gram" to her and helped her heal with her laughter and love.
May God grant you, Phil, Brit and Nicole peace and strength as you grieve her loss
Suzy Woodworth
October 23, 2007
Kevin,Mary,and Karen Ann,
I will miss your mother so much,more than anyone could ever know. I have so many precious memories from when I was a child and even still till this day I feel she was more than just an Aunt to me, she was like a second mother to me. GOD WILL GIVE YOU ALL THE STRENGTH YOU NEED TO GET THROUGH THIS.Your precious Love and memories will be held in my heart forever.God Bless
Love Always your Neice Suzy
Lynn Diana
October 23, 2007
Kevin, Mary & Karen, - I am sooo sorry to hear about your mom. My Anthony told me Tuesday night after leaving the funeral home and I am so sad I didn't get to give my condolences to you in person. I didn't know your mom very well but I knew she was a good woman and loved dearly by her children. Again, I am sorry for your loss and will be thinking of you.
XO,
Lynn
Jean Bauer (BOA)
October 23, 2007
Mary and family: I am so sorry to hear about your sudden loss. May your mother always hold a special place in your heart. Mary, my prayers go out to your family.
Ron Carlson
October 23, 2007
Kevin,Cindy,Kevin,Zack....I am very sorry to hear about your sudden loss, and your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Only time can heal the pain of losing a love one, and such a wonderful person as your mother. I remember all she did for her children and grandchildren and how much love she showed towards you all. Appreciate that you had her in your life and was such a blessing to all that came across her path, cherish the memories, and remember that you will reunite with her again someday.
Tom Nosbisch
October 23, 2007
Kevin, Cindy, Kevin & Zach. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Take comfort & strength during this time in our Lord & Savior, Jesus Christ. Our family and NHC are keeping you all in our prayers.
If you need anything please let us know.
Tina LaFalce
October 23, 2007
Mary,Karen,Kevin, and their families, you all have my deepest sympathy for your loss. There is nothing I can say that will take away your pain. The pain never goes away...but it will get easier. The love and support of each other will help you get through it 1 day at a time. My heart goes out to each and everyone of you. You are in my prayers.. all my love and best wishes. Stay strong for each other.
I will miss her too!
Tina (next door neighbor)
Mark & Veronica Marinaccio & Family
October 23, 2007
Dear Kevin, Mary & Karen,
May God be with all of you during this near impossible time of grief. God has truly gifted all of you with a fantastic mother. She truly knew what it meant to be a mother. She was an icon to the neighborhood. With GOD and prayer you guys will all draw strength from your memories & good times. She was very proud of all of her children. From my family to yours may GOD Grant you Serenity and Peace. She was truly Loved. Mark & Veronica Marinaccio
Maureen (Powers)
October 23, 2007
Mary, Kev & Karen,
Take comfort in knowing your mother touched so many. My thoughts are with you and your families.
Elizabeth Sollitto
October 23, 2007
Mary, Karen and families - We are so sorry to learn of your Mom's death. She was such a special lady! Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
With love and affection Guy, Liz and Tom Sollitto
Jack Michele, Tyler and Austin Macey
October 23, 2007
Karen, Ken, Austin, Chelsie and family, We are so sorry for your loss. You can see how much this has effected all of you. You are very lucky to have had your mom in your life. So don't hang on to the tears. Embrace the happy times and all the wonderful memories! She loved you all very much. Our deepest sympathies,
JOE BONCORE
October 23, 2007
Mary,
I am so sorry to hear about you mother. I know how important family is and please accept my sincere sympathy to you and your family. The pain of loosing a loved one never goes away however it does get better as the years go by. Just remember all the fond memories of your mother and the good times. Your mother is in a better place and will be watching over you and your family.
Randy Johnston
October 22, 2007
Kevin, Mary, Karen and families. I'm so sorry for your loss. I was blessed to have shared your Mother with you all. Words can't express how I feel, especially being so far away. I'm thankful for your friendships and once more I'm thankful for your Mom. I have so many memories to keep and use from your Mom. She touched my life and I will miss her. My you find strength from her memories in the coming days, weeks and years.
Randy and Tracy Johnston
Mark Smith
October 22, 2007
Kevin, Mary and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this very very sad time. I dotn know what its going to be like anymore coming home and not talking to Mary all the time. The street has lost a very special person and she will never be forgotten. She was like a grandmother to not just phil britt and the rest but to every neighborhood kid. I can still remember playing hockey in the driveway with phil and everyone and her just sitting there taking it all in smiles all the time unless we hit the house. I as well as the rest of my family will miss her dearly. I hope to make it to one of the viewing however my work schedule is a little conflicting. I send all my love thoughts and prayers to all of you and we will all miss her very much. Im sure shes smiling away with Moe now and at peace. You all are like family to me and I send my deepest sympathies. You have a strong family and you will all make it through this.
Love,
Mark
Tina, Joe, Abby & Emily Robertson (Urbino)
October 22, 2007
Karen, Kevin & Family...our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family on the sudden death of your wonderful mother. I too know what you must be going thru, as it will be 4 years this week since my mom left us. I hope that you can all share your wonderful memories with your kids and laugh about all the good times...it will make you laugh and cry at the same time. God bless all of you.
Sheryl Ann Kupiec
October 22, 2007
A Great FRIEND to whom I'll miss, We go back many years from marriage, to our children , and yes the death of Our parents , sister's & brother. You have been a ROCK for many of us ,& now your soul has gone from us to Our Lord in Heaven. now rest in the arms of God & have total peace. Your loveing Friend Sheryl {Hejmanowski} Kupiec
Debi Szatkowski
October 22, 2007
Karen,Mary,Kevin and family,
I will miss your mom dearly. She was like a second mother to me. I loved her personality and loved they way she would yell at me like I were one of her own. She really made me feel loved. Roanoke Pkwy will not be the same without her.
I want you all to know I am here if any of you need anything. I love all of you!
All my love,
October 22, 2007
Mary, I want you and your family to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this time of loss. It is never easy saying good-bye to someone who is so close to our hearts, especially when it happens so unexpectedly but know she is at peace and with all of her loved ones who have gone before her. Always know that she may be gone in body but is with all of you in spirt and you will see her again when it is your time to go Safely Home. Lynda Ferriter
Dorothy, Michael and Zack
October 22, 2007
Mary, Kevin and Karen Ann,
after leaving Mary's house last night I went home said my prayers & settled in for the night - the memories of your mom came flooding back. I laughed & cried myself to sleep ~ she could be mean and so full of love at the same time - she would say "GO'N BUMBING AGAIN - don't forget to wear a hat, it's cold". Then we would kiss her on the top of her head before we left.
Who could face loneliness, abandement of love, loss of 2 children, work 2 jobs to make ends meet and be the best mom and dad and grandmother to you & your children ~ Your MOM ~thats who!
When Michael was little and I would have a hard time getting him to sleep, Mary Jo would take him, throw him over her shoulder and pat his back so firm I could hear it in the next room and in two minutes he would be asleep, I use to think she was trying to knock him out ~ it was just Mary Jo's touch and loving way of caring for someone other than herself.
I can still smell the sauce on Sunday and the best meatballs in the world. Sitting on the porch watching the cars go by and everyone would look over and wave to Mrs. Fahey. everyone knew her - everyone loved her! Mary Jo, Ma, Mrs. Fahey - what ever you called her she was someone special to everyone! Although it has been awhile since I have seen Mary Jo we have talked on the phone since I moved back ~ she was quieter, spoke more softly, she seemed tierd.
It is time to rest Mary Jo, reunite with your children, your mom and brother and sisters in heaven and watch from the stars how well Mary, Kevin and Karen take what you have taught them and teach their children ~ thats the circle of life.
Joseph Case
October 22, 2007
I'm Sorry For The Lost of your mother. She was a very Likeable person. Even Toward her Family & friends.
Marissa Babcock
October 22, 2007
This is goes out to my second family,
I am so sorry for your loss for I knew how very special Gram was to everyone. I am so sorry that I can not be there for you all at this difficult time. I wish I could ditch school and come home to be there and support you all, but I am not able too. You are all in my thoughts and prayers . . please take care of yourselves.
-Love Marissa
Hang in there B. I know you will make it through this. I love you
*Love you Gram. Fahey may you rest in peace
Karen Wesolowski
October 22, 2007
Mom,
You are my best friend and my rock in life. I hope that I can be half of the mother to my children that you are to me and I know I will be a
great mom. You gave us so much in life, we were so blessed to have the years we did on earth together.
I missed you from the very second God called you home. I don't know how to live without you but I will try to be happy because I know that is what you would want. There will be many days that I will cry but I will keep the memories of you in my heart. You will be in every step and breath I take in life. Mom, there is a poem that goes "If tears could build a stairways, I would build one up to you just to hold you again." I know you are at peace and with your children, granddaughter, brother and sisters, parents,friends and of couse Dad (Ha Ha). So until we meet again I hold you in my heart always. That you for being the best mother that anyone could ask for God blessed us with you. I will always be your baby.
Give Moe,Sarah,Pops,Dad and everyone else a kiss and hug from me.
LOVE ALWAYS YOUR BABY DAUGHTER KAREN
Austin and Chelsie Wesolowski
October 22, 2007
Grandma,
You are the greatest grandmother that anyone could ask for and we were blessed to have you in our lives. We love you and miss you with all of our hearts. We picked a star out of the sky and it will be your star. Everytime we see this star we will wave hello and send you a great big hug and kiss.
Grandma we love you always and forever. We will keep your memory in our hearts forever.
Love Always and Forever
Austin and Chelsie
Thanks for being the best Grandma in the world
Gelynda Cattarin
October 22, 2007
Aunt Mary Jo, we will always love you, your memory will live on in our hearts forever. God Bless
Love Gelynda,Ron,Dillon and Matty
Karen Wesolowski
October 22, 2007
Mom, you are my bestfriend and my rock. I don't know how to live without, but I know you would want me to be happy. Mom if I can be half of the mother to my children that you were to me I will be a great mom. I will always be your baby and you will always be in my heart and life with every step and breath and decision I make in life. I know you are at peace and with your children, grandchild, parents, brother and sisters and friends. And of course Dad (Ha Ha).
I will try to be strong knowing that you are watching over us all.
I Love you so much and I am sending you a million hugs and kisses and also tears to you in heaven.
I Love you so much and I missed you from the minute God called you home and will miss you forever. So until we meet again I love you.
Love your baby daughter
Karen-Crackers
Kevin Fahey
October 22, 2007
Mom, No words could express what you mean to me.You were my everything through the good and through the bad.I know you are in a better place and have finally found peace.Thank you for being both a Mom and Dad to my sisters and I.Thank You for teaching me how to be a loving parent(Father)and for everything you taught me. If I could have just a fraction of your character and strength I would be truly blessed.Give our baby daugter Sarah and our big sister Maureen a big hug and kiss from my family and I.Until we meet again,Goodbye and may God keep you and hold you. Love always and you`re forever in our hearts.Mom we(I)will miss you more than you will ever know. Your Son.
Kevin Fahey
October 22, 2007
Mom, No words could express what you mean to me.You were my everything through the good and through the bad.I know you are in a better place and have finally found peace.Thank you for being both a Mom and Dad both to my sisters and I.Thank You for teaching me how to be a loving parent(Father)and for everything you taught me. If I could have just a fraction of your character and strength I would be truly blessed.Give our baby daugter Sarah and our big sister Maureen a big hug and kiss from my family and I.Until we meet again,Goodbye and may God keep you and hold you. Love always and you`re forever in our hearts.Mom we(I)will miss you more than you will ever know. Your Son.
Tom & Margie (Rutherford) McEvoy &Family
October 22, 2007
Mary,Kev,Karen and all your families, We were so saddened to hear about the loss of your Mom. I'm really going to miss seeing her when I get Layla from the bus stop. She had that typical Augustine friendliness. Roanoke will be alot less interesting with her gone. But can you imagine the wonderful reunion going on in Heaven right now.You know all those Augustine's are talking, laughing,crying tears of joy, all at the same time.Catching up on everything.
Take care of each other.Our prayers are with you.
Kevin
October 22, 2007
Grandma, I miss you very much. I wish you were here right this minute. I know that you are in a better place now. I will always have you in my heart. Can you give Aunt Moe and Sarah a hug and a kiss for me?
Zachary
October 22, 2007
I love you Gramma. I wish you were here, I really miss you. I wish you were at your house right now so I can come over.
cauline menard
October 22, 2007
Karen, Mary, Kevin, Ken, Austin, Chelsie, My heart goes out to you. You have the best Mother God could have given.
Sharon Kubiak
October 22, 2007
So sorry for you loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. This not good-bye but only a parting for a bit. Someday we will all be with her. Find comfort in our Savior and may He bless and guide you. May He comfort your hurt at this time. Love and prayers,
Doreen Milligan Geary
October 22, 2007
I am soo sorry, my thoughts and prayers are with you always. Your mom was a wonderful person, I first met her when we took the nurses aid classes together 25 years ago. I knew right then what a genuine, loving and caring person she is. All of you gave her alot to love and be proud of.
cauline menard
October 22, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
Joan Markle
October 22, 2007
Mary and family. My heart and prayers go out to each of you in this time of sorrow. Having lost my mom 3 yrs ago-I feel your pain. Believe me when I tell you-life becomes different without her-but you can cherish all the great memories and hold tight as a family-that is what she worked her whole life for. Anything you need-I am here.
Cindy Chmura
October 22, 2007
Mary, Kevin, and Karen ~ My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. I know my aunt is in a better place with the rest of our family. Love ~ Cindy
Louis Augustine
October 22, 2007
To are Loving Aunt Mary Jo.Who we will greatly miss.We know how much you loved us.We know you are home now in peace.
Love,
Louie jr. Joleen and Jenny
Jennifer Anselmo
October 22, 2007
Dear Kevin & Cyndee,
We so sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our thoughts & prayers. May the good memories get you through this difficult time.
Love- Jennifer & Tony
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