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Eugene Hayes Obituary

HAYES-Eugene F. December 2, 2007, beloved husband of the late Mary A. (nee Paddon) Hayes; dearest father of M. Diane (Gary) Smith, David L. (Gail) Hayes and Kevin P. (partner, Johnny Vargas) Hayes; grandfather of Geoffrey, Brandon and Timothy; brother of Lillian (late John) McNamara and the late J. Norman Hayes; survived by a sister-in-law, A. Rita Hayes, nieces, and nephews. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated Wednesday at 10 AM in St. Timothy's Church, East Park Drive and Ensminger Road, Tonawanda, NY. If so desired, contributions may be made to St. Timothy's Church. Online register at www.Amigone.com

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Published by Buffalo News from Dec. 3 to Dec. 4, 2007.

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Paula (Bagen) Bates

December 7, 2007

To all of Gene's Family, So sorry to hear of Gene's passing. He had been out recently to visit my parents (Tom & Mary). It was a terrific surprise for them, since dad's stroke. They are sorry they couldn't make it to the service to say goodbye, however. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all. He & Mary were such a lovely couple! God Bless.

Fran McNamara

December 4, 2007

Eugene Francis Hayes was a wonderful man, and the twinkle in his eye coupled with his inner strength were a rare combination. He was always a joy to be with.

Speaking for his sister Lillian, I can say that no brother was more revered and, even in her decline, she remembers him vividly and lovingly.

One positive to his death is that he will now be able to be with his father, his mother, and dear brother Norm as well as Aunt Mary.

Our thoughts and prayers are with Diane, David, Kevin and their loved ones.

You'll always be a part of us, Uncle Gene!

Fran & JoAnn McNamara

Mike Carrato and family

December 4, 2007

David and family: our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dave and Julie Panepento

December 4, 2007

Dave, we’re sorry to hear of your loss. Our condolences go out to you and your family. We have fond memories of our times together and wish you all the best.

Barbara Gallinaro & John Attardo

December 4, 2007

David and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Diana & William Hawthorn

December 3, 2007

David and family, May God bless you during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Kate DeMerle

December 3, 2007

Diane and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. Love you,

Jacci Reed

December 3, 2007

I worked with Gene for many years with Dept of Labor. He always had a smile and was fun to work with. I have many wonderful memories of our working years together. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Carol Kilanowski

December 3, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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