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Jennifer Neill Obituary

NEILL - Jennifer E. February 12, 2009, age 34, suddenly, a victim of Flight 3407, dear daughter of James L. and Mary J. (nee Buscaglia); dear sister of Major Patrick L. (Erin) Neill and Brenden L. Neill; dear fiancée of Todd Eacker, P.A.; dear granddaughter of Edith Buscaglia; dear aunt of Jack and Makena Neill. The family will be present Thursday from 2-4 and 7-9 PM at the (Harris Hill Chapel) AMIGONE FUNERAL HOME, INC. 8440 Main St. (near Harris Hill Rd.). A Memorial Mass will be celebrated Friday at 10:30 AM in Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church, 8500 Main St., Clarence, NY. If desired, memorials may be made to the Women and Childrens Hospital of Buffalo, 219 Bryant Street, Buffalo, NY 14222. Share condolences at www.AMIGONE.com
Published by Buffalo News from Feb. 15 to Feb. 18, 2009.

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Joanne Kesselring/Buckley

March 13, 2009

Dear Neill Family and Jen's Fiance',
I am Gertrude Buckley's daughter, Joanne and I came to the mass for Jennifer and felt privileged to be a part of the life of your daughter and family. Both Patrick and Brenden spoke eloquently about their sister and with such kindness and warmth to everyone at the church. I felt their message of love and acceptance was remarkable and really I walked away from the service remembering the important part of life is not how long we have but the relationships we build and the love we share while on our short stay on this earth. How can someone who just lost a sister in the prime of her life have such acceptance, kindness and real gratitude not for what is lost but for what Jennifer gave to us. I recently lost my brother from cancer and I too feel privileged for what he gave to me and the lessons he taught me about forgiveness, acceptance and love of family. I had many months to face his impending death, so I felt at peace when his time came to be with God, I'm not so sure I could have gotten to that place if circumstances were different. I can only say, that listening to both young men, Brenden who spoke so beautifully, charming and insightful about life at such a young age, and Patrick who showed us so much about Jen's life and what big brothers mean to us all, what an amazing job both Jim and Mary did raising such kind, spiritual, wonderful children. I am so heart fully sorry for the loss of your daughter, sister, fiance , and young baby. I do not know the lessons we are to learn on our short stay on this earth, but what your family has taught me in the face of such an incredible tragedy is that we have each other through the good and the devastating. That letting go is such a difficult lesson for us all to learn, and that love and our memories we share with the generations to come, keep our love ones spirits alive as well as the wonderful imprints they have made on our own souls. I felt honored to be at the mass for Jennifer and send my deepest sympathy for all your losses. Your family truly makes this world a kinder, warmer, more loving place to be and for that I am so grateful. Sincerely, Joanne Kesselring

Allison Hudson/Yount

March 2, 2009

Patrick,
I am so sorry for the loss of your little sister and your nephew. No one can understand why something like this happens, but all who know you and your family grieve with you in your loss. My prayers are with you and your parents at this heartbreaking time.

Tim Toy

February 28, 2009

Dear Pat,
Please accept my condolences for the tragic loss of your sister. She must have been wonderful and will be greatly missed. My prayers for your entire family.
Coach Toy

Kathryn Massar

February 24, 2009

Dear cousin Mary and family.I am so sorry about your tragic loss. Although it has been many years since I have seen you I knew when I saw that picture of Jennifer she looked like her beautiful mother. Our thoughts and prays are with you and your family.
Love
Kay Johnston Massar

Ann Cavaluzzi Hanka

February 23, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers!

Fran Capodicasa

February 22, 2009

Jen....May you rest in peace. You will be so terribly missed. Thank you for bringing sunshine into our office with your beautiful smile. God Bless you.

Also my deepest condolences to Mr. & Mrs. Neill & family.

Fran (from the Clarence Sherdian Medical Center)

Jen and Mark Speyer

February 19, 2009

We are so very sorry for your loss. Please except our deepest sympathy. I had the pleasure of working with Jen at Merck. Whenever I saw Jen she always had a big smile on her face. We hope you and your family can find peace at this time.-Jen and Mark Speyer

Bill and Jill Morse

February 19, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. I didn't know Jennifer, but she is and always will be family. Cousin Jim and Mary, know that you are always in our thoughts.

Rich Nassoiy

February 19, 2009

Please accept my sincerest condolences. She was a wonderful young lady. I met her down here in Boca Raton, Florida 3 years ago and enjoyed her company greatly. May you all have Peace in your life.

Adam and Michele Garofalo

February 19, 2009

Brenden and family,
We are so heartbroken that you lost not only Jen but her child. We have been and will continue to pray for you all in the upcoming months. She and her "lil angel" are at peace and no doubt smiling down on her wonderful family. Brenden we are here for you always.

Mary Wolfe

February 19, 2009

Dear Cousin Mary and Jim,
Our hearts goes out to you both at this difficult time. I might have met Jennifer at one time in our family reunions or when I lived in Buffalo. She looks and sounded like a beautiful and special women. Jim, I think of the times you would service the IDS Office on Main Street when I worked there and can remember hearing of your children. I am only sorry I did not get to know her better when I was in Buffalo. Tim and I have been praying for you and your family that the Lord will comfort you at this difficult time and in the days ahead.
All our love and prayers,
Cousin Mary

Jennifer Raps-Dicey

February 19, 2009

Mr & Mrs Neill, and Family,
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I have not seen Jen since high school, but I played basketball with her for a few years and she was just an awesome person. She will be missed dearly, but she will live on forever in our hearts. God Bless!

Jill Licata

February 19, 2009

Jim and Mary~
I am deeply sorry for your loss....Jim you are known to us as Smiley Guy...always having a smile and a wave whenever we see you, whether it be just driving by in the neighborhood, or a hello and kind word at the gym. I always look forward to seeing you because you put a smile on our faces. Jennifer was a gorgeous girl, both inside and out and she will be missed dearly. Please know we are praying for you and your entire family.
God Bless.

Chris & Grace ROUNDS

February 19, 2009

The world is going to miss you, god bless you and your family,you are all in our prayers

LINDA RUMSCHIK

February 19, 2009

TO Todd and the Neill family May god comfort you in your time of sorrow. Remember the love and laughter that Jenn brought to you and everyone she knew. You are in our prayers and hearts forever.

Susan Erk

February 19, 2009

We entend our deepest sympathy for your loss. Jennifer will be greatly missed.
Drs. Mehmet & Susan Erk & staff

Chris Campolo

February 18, 2009

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Neill & family;

I would like to express my deepest and heartfelt sympathy for your great loss!
You had the most amazing daughter and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for bringing her into my life!
My thoughts and prayers are with you always!

AND TO MY DEAR FRIEND, JEN!
I want to say Thank You for coming into my life and being such a great friend!!!! Everyday was better because of you! I looked so forward to our daily multiple conversations, talking about “where are you”, “are we having lunch or not”, “playing pranks on people”(Renee/Sergio), “Talking in our crazy accents and being silly” or “Just talking about life”..not to mention how excited I would get when we would meet at one of our doctors offices and I saw you pull up in that little silver matchbox car (it was hilarious everytime) - whatever it was we talked about or did together made the day so much better!
And the truth is, every time we spoke, every time we hung out, everyday you were in my life..You made me a better person!
And I will cherish our amazing times together! A wise author once said that an individual “has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often, and loved much.”
That wise author was describing Jennifer Neill….you were a success in all you did and you completed all of the lives that you touched!
Jen, you will be the most amazing mother..please give your baby boy a kiss from me and tell him how special his Mom was to me!!!!
Jen, you will be in my heart forever…All My Love!
Until We Meet again! - Chris Campolo

Adam Kolacki

February 18, 2009

I want to express my sincere condolences and deepest sympathies to your family. I worked with Jennifer at Tops Markets and would periodically see her when I visited WNY over the years. She was a sweet person and always brought a smile to those around her. I will miss her, but will not forget her.

Deb (LaBelle)Koch and Joe Jennings

February 18, 2009

Erin, Patrick and family,

We are deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do during this difficult time.

Marisa Vallone

February 18, 2009

RIP Jennifer- you will never be forgotten. I am thinking of you and your family.

Lois and Terry Dobbins

February 18, 2009

Dear Mary and Jim,
Words cannot ever begin to express the sadness and sorrow we feel for you and your family on the tragic loss of your daughter Jennifer and your grandchild.
We hold you close in our thoughts and pray God will give you strength, comfort and special blessings. Wishing you peace, we extend our deepest sympathy to the Neill and Buscaglia families.
With our sincere love and concern,

February 18, 2009

To Jennifer's Family,
My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow. Although I did not know her personally, she was the same age as me and I feel like she was taken from this Earth much before her time. Please accept my deepest sympathy and you will remain in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Sheryl Meyer

February 18, 2009

Dear Mary and Family
My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. You are in my prayers.

Dean Parks

February 18, 2009

We offer our prayers to your family at this sad time. Jennifer was a wonderful and kind person. We are thankful to have known Jennifer.
-AuroraCare of Western New York

Nicole

February 18, 2009

I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your family during this tragic time. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jan and Ray Voelpel

February 18, 2009

Dear Mary and Jim,
We are at a loss for words to express our shock and sadness to you. We extend our sympathy to the Neill/Buscaglia family.

John Riszko

February 18, 2009

To the family of Jennifer Neill: Please accept my sincere condolences at this tragic and devestating loss of a beautiful and wonderful young woman. Jennifer was so kind, caring and generous to everyone who knew her. I pray that in your sorrow you will be comforted by God's love and mercy. May the memory of Jennifer's love for you, her family, be eternal, and give you strength and peace.

Jim and Sue Burke

February 18, 2009

We knew Jennifer as a child in Harris Hill. What a cute little girl! We remember her smiling face. We are so very sorry. We are praying for you all.

Patricia Quinn Fanizzi

February 18, 2009

Dear Neill Family and Todd Eaker,

I am so sorry for your loss. I was a year behind Jennifer in school and have many fond memories of her. I remember her as a beautiful, kind, and funny person with an infectious laugh. May your memories of Jennifer be a comfort to you now. Know that her loss has deeply touched more people than you can imagine, and our hearts are with you.

Chuck Craven

February 18, 2009

Jim and Family,
Words cannot express the sympathy those of us at the 30 Aerial Port feel for you and your family. Know that you and your Family will be in our thoughts and prayers as we go through these very trying times.

Chief Chuck Craven
Niagara Falls ARS, NY

Lisa Kwiatkowski

February 18, 2009

Neill Family ...My deepest Sympathy and God Bless your family..Many of us in Lancaster are praying for you

Pam Blemel-Berchtold

February 18, 2009

To the Neill family and Todd Eacker;

What a loss of such a wonderful person. Jen was incredibly gentle and kind and yet had such a wonderfully colorful spirit. Although time and distance got in the way I remember all of the fun fun times we had with Jen. She will be remembered young and beautiful as she truly was. You will be remembered in our hearts and prayers.

Pam Blemel-Berchtold

Meg Callahan Steckley

February 18, 2009

To the Neill Family,
Throughout the 1980's, I saw your beautiful family in church every week. Your family, like ours, were regulars on the left section of Nativity at 11 o'clock mass. Although I never knew Jennifer directly, we had many friends in common and I knew well of her zest for life. I, and the whole Callahan family, are saddened by your loss and we send our sincere condolences.

Nick Giammusso

February 18, 2009

To the Neil Family!
I am sorry for your loss of Jennifer! I am surely going to miss Jen's "Hi Nick!" and smile when I would see her around town.
The last time I saw Jen was at Macy's in the Galleria Mall about two weeks ago. Jen asked me (in her kind words) how my gorgeous wife and beautiful kids were doing? That was Jen, she always had something nice to say! Great girl who's really going to be missed! Again, I am so very sorry!

Dennis Protas

February 18, 2009

Todd and Mr & Mrs Neill
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dennis Protas RN
Kenmore Mercy ER

Susan Gatewood

February 18, 2009

Dear Jennifer,
My heart breaks. I miss you. I moved back to Buffalo 3 yrs ago and I was wanting to get in touch. My mom died and life got so busy and now I lost my chance to see you again. You always made me laugh, smile and have a good time. From Hooligans to the BAC and downtown. You were a good friend to everyone who knew you. I am so truly sorry and I will be forever thinking of you Jen. I know you are going to be a great mommy to your baby in heaven. Suzie B says hello. That is how we met.

February 18, 2009

The Neill family-
Jennifer
was loved by many in my family, my grandmother, mother, and my aunt
whom stood and still stands as a close and longtime friend of Jens.
It's hard to believe that we will not see her again, and even harder
that we've lost the chance to see her become a mother to what I know
would have been one of the most beautiful little boys. The loss of
Jennifer as well as the others on flight 3407 goes without saying is
truly a tragedy. All the love my heart can hold goes to Jennifer, her baby, your
family and other loved ones of Jen. Though she gone, she lives on in
all of our hearts. I know she will be strongly missed, I also know, she
will never be forgotten. Stay strong.

Carl Rosso

February 17, 2009

In memeory of Jennifer,my thoughts will always be with you as I have always tried to look out for you and help you. Your friend always.
Carl Rosso

mary

February 17, 2009

the neill family-to you i send my prayers to that God is at the door with open arms to say welcome to her and i child so when u look up in the heavens you will see a very Bright Star and a Small twinkling ,blinking star it will be Jennifer and child

February 17, 2009

The Neill Family,
I had the wonderful pleasure of knowing Jen for several years...She was a beautiful person, always happy and always smiling. She and your grandchild will be your angels forever. My deepest condolences.
Kathy (Clarence, NY)

Alana Davids

February 17, 2009

Mr. and Mrs. Neill,
I'm a drug rep and I use to see Jenn all the time in offices. The first time I met her I knew she was amazing. We talked about everything and laughed together like we were old friends. We both commented on how we should hang out and go for dinner. I loved everything she stood for, and was beyond impressed with her! She is perfect and beautiful and I know she will shine down on us from Heaven. I will always remember her with a warm smile. Thank you for having Jenn so she can make my life better. I am very sorry for your loss and for her fiance's loss. God Bless Jenn and the baby.
Love,
Alana

February 17, 2009

Neill Family,
My deepest sympathy is with you in this time of grieving. While I did not know Jennifer very well on a personal level, I did help her on many occasions when she would come into Sephora in the Galleria Mall. She always struck me as an energetic, fun-loving person. She was definitely someone who could just light up a room and obviously very memorable.

I was in a state of complete shock upon seeing her picture on the news yesterday, and remembered what a beautiful and kind woman she was.

Again, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Doug DAddario

February 17, 2009

Jim, it's been a long time but I couldn't let this time go by without expressing my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I wish I had words to comfort you but there are none. I can't imagine your grief but please know this community is with you during this time. God bless you and your family.

Holly Julicher

February 17, 2009

Dear Jim & Mary...I am very sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Terry Pugliese (School #81 aide)

February 17, 2009

Dear Mary and family, Please accept my condolences for the tragic loss of your beautiful daughter, what a tragedy Mary. I was horrified to hear of this, but even more now, to know that it has hit a little closer to home, knowing of her from our talks and hearing about her engagement, and her new job with the new pharmecutical company and how happy you were for her. Its been a long time since we have talked, but your not forgotten, and I will always remember Jen and her family in my prayers.My heart goes out to you Mary as I just had a big loss in my life, my brother and best friend died in October unexpectedly from cancer, its a hard road but we can do it, just think of the good times, and the smiles. and keep our faith in the lord always close to our hearts. Take care Mary and if you need anything please dont hestiate to call.

February 17, 2009

More than any other story from this tragedy, Jennifer's has touched me the most. I did not know her, but we are the same age, and my first baby is due at the end of May. I just keep thinking that she and her baby are together in heaven, protected forever by God's love. Please know that I am praying for your entire family.

Tim Mitten

February 17, 2009

The Neill Family,

I knew Jen for years, meeting her through Shea's Rising Star’s, working downtown and seeing her at many events. She always had a great big smile and I enjoyed talking with her. I last saw her in Summer of 2007 when I visited home/Buffalo, as I moved to Florida six years ago. We spoke in August when I was planning a trip back to Buffalo to see friends...unfortunately she was just returning from a trip then and had a cold, so didn’t meet us out. She will be missed by all.

Dr. James Hohensee & Staff

February 17, 2009

Our sincerest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family!

Jane Meka

February 17, 2009

Mary,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take one day at a time and remember the beautiful days that you spent with your daughter.
Jane Meka

Mary Powers

February 17, 2009

To the Neill Family:
Over the past year or so, I had the distinct pleasure of seeing Jennifer at the salon where we were both frequent visitors. She was one of those people who if you were lucky enough to meet her, you would not soon forget her. While physically beautiful and always fashionably dressed, it was her upbeat and positive personality that made her unforgettable. When she walked through the door,I always smiled because her personality was contagious. Please be comforted by the fact thet,like me, she made countless others smile too! I am so sorry for your loss and will continue to keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary Powers

Lori Morreale

February 17, 2009

To the entire Neill family, Todd and Jennifer's long list of friends,
I have had the sincere pleasure of working with Jen during the past two years. We became friends the first time we met! That was Jen! Always finding a connection with people and making them feel welcome. Jen was a beautiful person inside and out! She was positive, kind, funny and intelligent. She was a great teamate. She was a great friend and she will be sorely missed.
Please have comfort in knowing that Jen's life brought happiness to so many people. Her death will be a constant reminder of how precious life truely is. Sincerely,

Russell Andolina

February 17, 2009

I knew Jennifer personally and she was an amazing woman...always smiling and upbeat...I will miss seeing her and talking to her...I'm so heartbroken...

Shari Noto

February 17, 2009

Dear Neill Family:
My husband and i are shocked and saddened by the tragic loss of your beautiful daughter Jen. I met Jen about 14 yrs ago when i had moved to buffalo from Fl. She was my aerobics instructor and we shared alot of the same interests, (rollerblading,exercising, healthyfood habits, laughing, hair, makeup, etc. etc.) we became fast friends. she was one of my bridesmaids in my wedding when Joe and I were married in July of 1996. I last saw Jen when she had moved to fl for a job. We had dinner at P.F. Changs and i brought my daughter Macy to meet her. Macy was so taken by Jen's beauty and obvious love for children. It was so nice to see her and catch up on each others lives.
I will always remember her as a smart, hardworking, funny, interesting, caring, person who truly loved her family. She was just in love with being an aunt. She couldn't say enough about her brother's children. May God bless your entire family and Know that you will all be in our thoughts and prayers. Shari Noto

February 17, 2009

Jim and family.
On behalf of the Myers Family and Cushing Capital our deepest sympathies are with you and your family. May God Bless.

Jeffrey Burnett

February 17, 2009

You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dr. Jeffrey Burnett

George Burnett

February 17, 2009

Our deepest condolences.
George and Maria Burnett

February 17, 2009

To Jennifer's Fiance' and Family,
I have you in my prayers... take comfort that your baby/grandchild is in his/her Mama's arms in heaven. May God Bless you & give you strength to go on.

Joanne Morse

February 17, 2009

Dear Neill and Buscaglia Family,
Jen endeared herself to us on her visits to "Grams" house. Our hearts hurt at the loss of her. We were blessed to know her. You are in our prayers. Joanne and Janet

Lisa Wojcik

February 17, 2009

So sorry for your tragic loss. The country's thoughts and prayers are with you.

Raelynn Harlach

February 17, 2009

Mr & Mrs Neill,
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Jen was a beautiful person, I played many sports with her in high school, she was just an amazing human being. She will be missed, but her smile will live on forever in our hearts.

Cindy

February 16, 2009

Mary... and Jim

I am so so sorry for your loss. No words can express my deepest sympathy. My heart breaks for you both. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I am so very sorry.

Dr. Chic Smith

February 16, 2009

Dear Jim,Mary,family,and fiance, I am totally devistated by Jen's passing.I can't imagine how badly you must feel.I enjoyed Jen's love and friendship toward me and my family over the last five years.She was the "daughter" I never had.I will never ever forget your sweet,Intelligent,Beautiful,and charming JenJen. God bless Jen and you.Stay strong. Love, Chic

Missy Macdonald Ersing

February 16, 2009

Mr. and Mrs. Neill...

I'm so sorry to hear about Jen. She's one of the few people I know who REALLY lived each moment of her life to the fullest.

I cherish our friendship and especially all the times we ran together. So many times I'd want to stop and she'd motivate me to keep going and run another mile... and how hard she made me laugh.

Oh... and her terrible driving skills... mine aren't much better. We used to laugh about it because between the two of us we kept traffic courts across Western New York in business!

Jen was a bright light in so many people's lives... and her spirit will continue to be. Please know you and your family are in my family's thoughts and prayers...

Sincerely,

Chris & Kim Eacker

February 16, 2009

Todd and Mr. & Mrs. Neill,
We are so sorry for your tragic loss. We were just getting to know Jennifer and our family enjoyed spending Christmas Eve with her. We know she will be greatly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Brittney Eacker

February 16, 2009

Uncle Todd and The Neill Family,

I would like to express my sincere sympathies for the tragic loss of Jennifer. Although we only knew her for a short while, it is clear that she was a wonderful woman. I hope you find comfort in the memories that you shared with her. My thoughts are with you all.

Marianne Ketchmark

February 16, 2009

I wanted to let your family know that you are in my prayers. What a horrific loss and I cannot imagine how difficult it is for you. I knew Jen as we both sold Immunocap Allergy testing together back in or around 2004. She was very intelligent and driven and well liked by our clients. I also used to run into her out around town and at the Clarence bike path. She was a fitness nut like I am and she would often be blading when I was. She will be missed terribly and I hope you can find the strength to get through this as time begins to heal.

Ben Smith

February 16, 2009

Dear Neill Family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Jen and I attended Harris Hill and graduated high school together. I also had the pleasure of working with her back in the day, at the Old Red Mill Inn. Jen had a wonderful personality and was a pleasure to be around. She will be greatly missed by all her former classmates. Pat and Erin, we have been thinking about you and your family everyday since the tragedy. Our thoughts and prayers will continue.
Love,
Ben and Mindy Smith

Annette Pundt

February 16, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you Jen, your family and your friends.
A friend from Cafe Espresso

Donna Szeluga

February 16, 2009

Dear Family and Todd,

Words cannot express our sorrow for your loss. I was at the
Buffalo Airport Wednesday morning in line when I ran into Jen on her way to a meeting in Newark. Always smiling and filled with such enthusiasm is how she was Wednesday morning. Jen was a frequent visitor to our medical practice, extremely gifted and very respected is how she will be remembered by our physicians and staff. Our hearts and love go to you as we will miss her so very much. God bless you all. Donna Szeluga, Practice Manager, The Pulmonary Group of WNY, LLP

Tom Frost

February 16, 2009

Mary Neill and Family- I am soo saddened
at the sudden loss of Jennifer.She will always be remembered for her beautiful smile and positive spirit for life.She always had a nice hello for me and that will be cherished.I can only hope my prayers and the prayers of the community can bring you comfort at such a sad time.Godspeed Jennifer you will be missed...Tom Frost

Jacqueline Rozek

February 16, 2009

Dear Neill Family,
Our hearts ache from the shock of the news. We knew Jennifer through my nephew and she had been to our home in Cleveland Ohio. She was one of the sweetest young ladies we have ever met, with a wonderful sense of humor. We cannot get her or this tragic occurrence of our minds. My mother-in-law once watched Jennifer and her brothers when they were little and also remembers her as a sweet little girl. May God give you and her family and friends comfort and strength and may you find great joy in the memories that she has left with you.
With our sincerest sympathies and heartfelt prayers - God Bless you,
Jacqueline and Jerry Rozek

Dan and Kathy Jarosz

February 16, 2009

We met Jen approximately 12 years ago and found her to be a very endearing and sweet person. Always a smile and always positive....a wonderful person to be around. A truly special young lady that will be missed by everyone who's lives she touched.

Kevin & Amy Johnson

February 16, 2009

You always had a smile for everyone. Our memories will always cherish the thought that you were a friend.

Riverside Men's Shop

February 16, 2009

Jim & Mary,
Are thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this tragic time. Your friends from

Allen Gozdalski

February 16, 2009

What a terrible loss for this world. I knew Jen through school and seeing her out on occasion. She always had an awesome smile and her face just seemed to glow, it was a pleasure to be in her company. She lit up any room she was in, she will be missed.

Cyrus Javid

February 16, 2009

Dear Mrs & Mr Neill,

Your daughter was a special person. So full of life, nothing seemed to ever get her down. As her friend and coworker I am truly shocked and saddened. I cant accept that her precious life ended so soon. I will always miss Jennifer she touched so many lives with her kindness and free spirit. May god bless her soul.

Danton J. A. Cardoso

February 16, 2009

Mr and Mrs. Neil and Family,

Although, I really did not know your daughter, I did know your son, Patrick. However, I do remember your daughter as a young girl over at my neighbor's house, The Cename's and her young antics were always amusing. From what I recall, Jen was a lovely person, and I was saddened to see that she was one of the many in this tragedy. Please accept my deepest condolences and sympathy for your loss. God bless all of you.

Lou Anne Wenerski

February 16, 2009

My deepest sympathies to the Neill Family. I knew Jennifer socially for the last 15 years. She was beautiful inside and out. I will dearly miss my friend. My prayers are with all her knew her.

B.J. Sellers

February 16, 2009

Brenden and the entire Neill Family, You are in our thoughts and prayers. Brenden, I miss the glory days of band with you!

KATHLEEN HOLMES

February 16, 2009

WITH THOUGHTS OF DEEPEST SYMPATHY IN THE LOSS OF YOUR ...........JENNIFER...........
WORDS CAN'T MAKE YOUR SORROW ANY EASIER TO BEAR BUT THEY CAN SHOW HOW DEEPLY OTHERS SYMPATHIZE AND CARE.
THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A SPECIAL PLACE IN THE HEART....WHERE LOVE LIVES ON. MAY YOUR SPECIAL MEMORIES OF JENNIFER BE A COMFORT TO YOU AT THIS TIME.

David & Marguerite Liddle

February 16, 2009

Dear Mr/Mrs Neill & Family,
Word can not express the shock and saddness we feel about the sudden loss of Jennifer. She was kind,beautiful and so full of life. She touched everyones heart. I worked with Jen at Merck where we became good friends and had many laughes together. She was a very free spirited young lady, who always listened and gave advise. We had not seen her when she came back to Bflo but kept in touch through others, our lives get so busy we forget about the people who touched our lives. She will be very missed, but she will always be remembered in our prayers and our hearts.

Nicole Liddle-Famiglietti

February 16, 2009

I am saddened and shocked to learn of Jen’s passing. She was a great girl with a personality that shined and attracted many people to her- she knew everybody! Jen was a caring person and would do anything for anyone. I haven’t seen Jen in a few years; I am happy to hear that she was so successful in life, and saddened by a life cut way too short. I have wonderful memories of a trip Jen and I took to Miami in 2002. She loved to travel. Jen was a great person; she will be missed.
Her family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Annette Lee

February 16, 2009

Jim,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time. We so enjoy working with you and please know you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

February 16, 2009

I still can't believe this tragedy has happened it seems so surreal that she is gone! She always made me laugh. I am praying for your family at this horrible time! She will truly be missed.

Kathleen J Gradwohl

February 16, 2009

Mr & Mrs Neill

Words cannot express my feelings for your lose. You are both in my prayers. My heart brakes for you and your family.As I know Jennifer will be sadly missed.

Love, Jim, Mary and Clare Banigan

February 16, 2009

Jim, Mary, Todd and Family,
We are thinking of your family and praying for your comfort and peace during this very sad and challenging time.
"I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my victorious right hand."--Isaiah 41:10

Cheryl Baker

February 16, 2009

Jennifer always brought a ray of sunshine into our office whenever she called on us. She always went out of her way to say hello to everyone, always so cheerful. She was a sweetheart and I will miss her. I pray for you, Jennifer's family, that you may find some peace during this very sad time. God bless you all.

Heather Fredericks

February 16, 2009

Mr. and Mrs. Neil,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have so many fond memories of growing up with Jen from K-12th grade. Our dance classes and softball games. I even remeber when Mr. Neil raised the little chicks when we were little.
She will be very missed but the memories will last a life time for all those hearts she touched.
With deepest sympathy,
Heather Fredericks (Macdonald) Phoenix, NY

Doreen Mae Horrigan

February 16, 2009

To all who loved Jennifer, I personally didn't know Jen. Though I have a dear friend who does. My heart brakes for all of you. We locally and nationally are sending are prayers for some type of understanding to this tragedy. I heard about what a fun loving person Jennifer was. I am so deeply sorry. I am mourning a loss for my brother and sister in law who lost one of their dearest friends. Mary Pettys. God I wish I could take your pain away. My heart brakes for you, my friend who called her Jen, and all the other people who are grieving.

Sincerely,
Doreen Horrigan

Lynne Trigilio

February 15, 2009

To Jen's family and to Todd...her smile will always be with us. Tuesday nights will never be the same without our Jen. Please remember how much she meant to all of us. Stay strong in God's everlasting love for us all.

ANDREA BRONCATO-SCOLLA

February 15, 2009

Mr & Mrs Neill and Family, Please accept my deepest sympathy to you all. I have known Jen since Harris Hill days and then on through high school where we also were cheerleaders together. She always was so kind and full of happiness, with a smile on her face always! May you know she will live in your heart and mind always and give you the strength you need to be strong. MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY AGAIN.

Christine Meyerhoefer

February 15, 2009

May God bless your family and ease your pain.Know your in the whole countries heart.

Amber &Jeff Krombach

February 15, 2009

Mr.& Mrs. Neill

Jen’s life gave us all memories too beautiful to forget.

May the peace which comes from the memories of the love you shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead for your entire family, Jen’s fiancé, and all her close childhood friends.

Paul and Roseann Cole

February 15, 2009

Dear Jim and Mary, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Jen, was a terrific girl. She always made me feel like a special person whenever she saw me and we would talk. Here is a blessing for you both : May God Bless and keep you may God's face shine on you, May God be kind to you and give you peace. Sincerely, Paul and Roseann Cole

BILL SULLIVAN

February 15, 2009

GOD HOLD JEN IN YOUR ARMS FOREVER;TILL WE ALL MEET AGAIN

RENEE OLEARY

February 15, 2009

TODD, MR & MRS NEILL,
WHAT DO YOU SAY AT A TIME LIKE THIS? MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO ALL OF YOU. JENNIFER WAS SO MUCH FUN AND SO FULL OF LIFE. JENNIFER WILL ALWAYS BE WITH US IN PRAYER. MAY GOD KEEP HER SAFE. WE LOVE YOU TODD AND WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU! RENEE FROM MILLARD FILLMORE SUBURBAN HOSPITAL ED

Amber Patterson Krombach

February 15, 2009

The Neill Family
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you, Jen's fiance, and her close childhood friends.
Jen's life gave us all memories too beautiful to forget.

beatrice Love

February 15, 2009

Dearest Mr.& Mrs. Neill, Words cannot express my sympathy. Please know that i'm praying for you and your family.

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