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MARY FERLIC Obituary

Mary Osmanski Ferlic, of South Bend, passed away peacefully at the age of 63 at 6:43 a.m. Saturday, May 7, surrounded by her family at home. She died of breast cancer. She was born Feb. 3, 1948 in Chicago, IL and has lived in South Bend since 1978. On Dec. 27, 1970 in Chicago, IL she married Dr. Frederick J. Ferlic. Survivors include two daughters, Katherine Mary and her husband Christopher Stanek of Santa Fe, NM and their son, Rohan Frederick Stanek; Elizabeth Mary and her husband Nathan Lazenga of South Bend, and a son, Gavin Ferlic of South Bend. Also surviving is Mary's mother, Mary Gavin Osmanski of Chicago, IL; sister, Katherine Osmanski of Chicago, IL; four brothers, William (Karen) Osmanski of Des Plaines, IL, John (Patricia) Osmanski of Galena, IL, Stephen Osmanski of Milwaukee, WI, and Robert (Lori) Osmanski of Chicago. She is also survived by 29 nieces and nephews; and four godchildren. Mary is preceded in death by her father, William T. Osmanski. Mary Osmanski Ferlic's life was devoted to helping others. She dedicated her life to promoting the values of St. Mary's College as a 1970 graduate and later, serving as a professor of social work at St. Mary's for many years. Her proudest accomplishment was being a leader in bringing hospice services to the community. She was heavily involved in Junior League of South Bend, serving as president and involved in the creation of the endowment fund for the organization. She also was a fundraiser extraordinaire helping to raise money for such organizations as The Stanley Clark School, The Center for the Homeless, The Center for Hospice, South Bend Symphony, The University of Notre Dame and many more. She was appointed as a community ambassador to Czestochowa, Poland - South Bend's Sister City and served on numerous boards. She was a community leader, loyal friend and a powerful spirit that touched all who knew her. She will be greatly missed. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 3:30 p.m. Tuesday at the Basilica of the Sacred Heart, University of Notre Dame. Burial will follow at Cedar Grove Cemetery, Notre Dame. Friends may visit with the family from 4 to 8 p.m. Monday at the Palmer Funeral Home - Hickey Chapel , 17131 Cleveland Road, South Bend, IN 46635. Contributions in memory of Mary Osmanski Ferlic may be made to the Center for Hospice, 111 Sunnybrook Ct., South Bend, IN 46637, Junior League of South Bend, Inc., 130 Park Lane, South Bend, IN 46601 or St. Mary's College, c/o Development Office, Le Mans Hall, Notre Dame, IN 46556-5001. On-line condolen ces may be sent through www.palmerfuneralhomes.com.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on May 8, 2011.

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January 28, 2012

I was in grades K-8 together with Mary and just recently heard of her passing. My condolences go to her family and I will keep her in my prayers.

Brother Kenneth Arnold, FSC
St. Athanasius School (1962)

Susan Snyder-Paprocki

October 1, 2011

I just read about Mary's passing in the Regina Dominican Magazine. I went to RD with Mary. When I saw her name, her smiling face presented itself. Mary was always smiling and always directed on doing positive things. That is my memory of her. I am sorry for your loss.

Linda Cotter

May 25, 2011

I knew Mary from Regina HS. We played basketball together. "Mary Oz" was a great athlete, great Senior Class President, great friend. She was a leader, but was one of the gang at the same time. Lots of memories of laughing together and celebrating beating Marywood and Sacred Heart. Her dad was our guest speaker at the Sports Award Night, and her mom was always warm and friendly to all of us. My sincere condolences to all of her family at this time of great loss.

May 21, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the Ferlic and Osmanski families on the death of your beloved wife, mother, daughter, and sister, Mary.
Sincerely,
Denise Mulcrone O'Connor (Regina '66)
Ellicott City, Maryland

Bridget Lamont

May 19, 2011

My condolences to Mary's family especially her children. It was not surprising to read that she was such a community leader since her leadership and concern for others was evident at Regina. What an accomplished woman she was!
Bridget Later Lamont
Springfield

Roseann Mikos

May 16, 2011

Please accept my sincere condolences to the entire family from a long ago classmate (class of '66) from Regina, who remembers Mary as a great classmate. So sorry for your loss.

Carol Ross Barney

May 16, 2011

Please accept my condolences and prayers. Mary and I were friends in High School (RD 66). I have thought of her often and fondly through the years.

Lamb Family

May 13, 2011

Dear Ferlic and Osmanski families,
Difficult to express how heavy our hearts feel to learn of Mary's passing.
We are blessed to have been touched by her spirit. Her soul will be near you always. CJ, Tom, Rick and Scott

Blas, Lisa, & Rose Uber-VDG

May 12, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss Kate, Chris, and Rohan. We love you.

John Nelson

May 11, 2011

My condolences to the Osmanski and Ferlic families.

Tony & Sara Lotruglio

May 11, 2011

To the Ferlic and Osmansky families:
Please accept our condolences on the passing of Mary. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

(Princess #603)

May 10, 2011

Dear Osmanski and Ferlic Families,

Both Dick and I were so sad to hear that Mary had passed.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.


Dick & Linda Brummel

Tom Anderson

May 10, 2011

Osmanski and Ferlic Families.....I had the fortunate opportunity to know Mary and am grateful for that. I know she will be missed but still loved by all who knew her. My prayers go out to her in heaven and your families!

May 10, 2011

Dear Osmanski and Ferlic Families,

I am sorry for the loss of Mary. But this loss is tempered with the knowledge of her enjoying Eternal Life, and I'm sure she will continue to be a powerful advocate for her family and friends.

With Sympathy,
Ann Leonard Molenda
SMC 1958

Rosemarie Stocky

May 10, 2011

Mary was indeed one of the best from SMC class of 1970...she will be missed and we send our thoughts and prayers for we know we have an angel watching over us!

Angela Snider

May 10, 2011

Our family is so sorry for your loss, she was a wonderful person. Angela Rogers Snider & Family

Sue Gudgeon Reilly

May 9, 2011

Mary was the best. Regina Domincan High School, Class of 1966. Saint Mary's College of Notre Dame, Class of 1970.
"Stop in the Name of Love..."
Sue Gudgeon Reilly, Regina and Saint Mary's College

May 9, 2011

Please know that the Osmanski and Ferlic families are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Diane House

Julie Mann (LiVacari)

May 9, 2011

Dear Osmanski and Ferlic families:

I remember my times with Mary when we were classmates at Regina dominican High School, and although I have not seen Mary since we graduated, it was heartwarming to read others' comments about what they recalled about Mary, what she meant to them and the acitivities, charities and boards that she was part of during her lifetime. How interesting to me that already in her teens at Regina that was part of who she was and nothing that was listed such as social work, hospice, etc. surprised me as that was part of her character and what i knew of Mary in high school. Sounds like she further developed those qualities to a greater degree and in broader ways as she moved on to college as well as family and professional life. I am sure she was a wonderful mother, daughter and friend because that is Mary. Here's a little known fact--did you know you mom was a good basketball player, too? I can also remember meeting Mary's mom and dad and visiting them at her home. Mary seemed to get her sweetness from her mother! She will be missed;however, it sounds to me like she left quite a legacy behind with lasting memories for friends and family and wonderful charitable deeds. I am glad my path crossed hers for four very impressionable years of my life....she left quite an impression on me... so glad I was able to express some personal thoughts in a card months ago when I first learned she was so ill.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Julie Mann (LiVacari) Class of 66 Regina

Vince & Susan Fiore

May 9, 2011

Our deepest and sincere condolences to the Ferlic and Osmanski families. Mary will be in our thoughts and prayers.

May 9, 2011

Dear Fred and family, We have fond memories of Mary when we visited South Bend or at the ND - USC games in California. I am so sorry for your loss. She is at peace now. Love Mary and Bob Beeson

Laure and Zach Ganzberg

May 9, 2011

So Sorry for your loss. Your whole family has a special place in our hearts. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Vince Ganzberg

May 9, 2011

She as steady as the sun who loved her children dearly! She supported people when they were down and she always made sure they were not out. Very sad day.
Vince Ganzberg (Brownsburg, IN)

Jim Degnan

May 9, 2011

Starting in high school and through our adult lives, Mary was a good friend to both JoAnn and to me. I am very sorry for her death and for all the pain it brings to the Osmanskis, the Frelics and all of Mary's many friends. She will be missed very much. Jim Degnan

May 9, 2011

So sorry to hear about your mother's passing. You can at least know that she is at rest and free from pain.

Thinking about your family.

Bob Lowy

Becky Sramek

May 9, 2011

Mary was such a lovely lady. She reached out to try to help me when she was suffering so much. She will be missed by many.

Joni Lebiedzinski

May 9, 2011

Dear Fred, I am so sorry for your loss. I was Mary's nurse when she underwent her very first surgery for the breast cancer. I remember her strength, poise and beauty. I am keeping you and your family in my prayers.

May 9, 2011

It is very hard to imagine that Mary Osmanski has left us so prematurely. She was a very strong leader in our class at St. Mary's and always demonstrated her high spirits and abundant energy in countless student government activities, as well as in her friendship with so many in our class. Bless you, Mary!

Becky O'Connor Chandler SMC '70

Andy Jones

May 9, 2011

Mary was a shining light in South Bend. I remember the excitement surrounding the grand re-opening of the Morris Civic which she helped plan. Mary was an extraordinary woman and she will be missed. (I'm sorry I can't be there with you but I'm in Santa Monica with Heather and her new baby, Isabelle.) You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.

May 9, 2011

We are sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Jim and Catherine Clarke

Michael Guenin

May 9, 2011

Ferlic and Osmanski Families,

We would like to share our condolences in this difficult time. Mary was a great woman and will never be forgotten.

Best Regards,

The Guenin Family
Duneland Beach

Duane & Lois Jacobson

May 9, 2011

Mary was a very friendly lady and will be missed greatly at Princess Del Mar.

Sara Miller

May 9, 2011

I loved your mom-I will always remember her smile, her wonderful energy and concern for those around her. I have thought of you all over this Mother's Day weekend. I hope your mom found peace in heaven, my dad will be there to greet her. You are all, and will always be, wonderful messengers of her spirit, she will be alive thru you forever.

May 9, 2011

Love, peace and prayers -
Molly Wickham Hill

Deb Johnson

May 9, 2011

I was very shocked when I saw her obituary in Sunday's paper, My thoughts and prayers are with Dr Fred and Gavin and the rest of the family. I pray God will give you peace during the difficult time (lost my mother 9 years ago today & you must cherish the wonderful memories) love to you all Deb Johnson (know Gavin from the Cove & Dr Fred from Dr Niklinska's office)

Andy, Linda, Jason and Denise Horvath

May 9, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Ferlic family. May you find comfort in knowing Mary is free from pain and up in Heaven with the Lord.

Patty Collingwood

May 8, 2011

I missed Mary in Naples this year, she was so nice and fun to be with, Davinci's on Marco will miss her! Whenever I was with her she always talked about her children and how very proud she was of you! My prayers are with you.

Dick Van Mele

May 8, 2011

My sincere condolences to Dr. Fred & his family. God Bless You

Dan Colucci

May 8, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm taking this time to remember one of the nicest moms to one of the nicest families I remember from childhood.

Pat Gill Webber

May 8, 2011

My deepest sympathies on your tremendous loss. I knew Mary in college and remember her as a bright spirit---she obviously kept that spirit her whole life. Take care of yourselves--Mary would have definitely wanted that. Fondly, Patty Gill Webber, SMC class of 1971

Loree Lindsey-Pack

May 8, 2011

To the Ferlic and Osmanski families you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Your mother, sister and daughter was the best.

Posi Tucker

May 8, 2011

I remember Mary mostly as chair of our Hospice committee for Jr. League of which I was fortunate to be a member and her leadership in bringing Hospice to the South Bend area....her strength, her compassion and her love for others will be truly missed. May her memory be for a blessing.

Carmen Pena

May 8, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Anniversary group

Krista Furry

May 8, 2011

Our deepest sympathy to the family in the loss of a very special lady. She will be greatly missed.
Love,
Krista & Bill

Marcia Dunkin

May 8, 2011

My deepest sympathy to you and your family during your time of loss and sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Maribeth Zelasko

May 8, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you & your family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Gaylen & Jeanette Allsop

May 8, 2011

Our sympathy to the family. God Bless all of you.

Claire & Vic Grabovez

May 8, 2011

Though we were neighbors at Erskine and the Princess, what we remember most about Mary is that she loved the St. Pat parties at the Princess. Can't you just see St. Pat dancing a jig to have Mary there for the next one. Our sympathy pours out to you at this time of great loss.

May 8, 2011

For Fred, Katie, Beth and Gavin- Just want you to know that you are all in our prayers. You have lost a wonderful mother and companion- she worked hard for others and loved to party. She will always be remembered for her love and devotion to the sick and less fortunate. May she rest in peace and may you find strength and comfort in the promise of this Easter season that death is not the end of life but the beginning of a new life with the saints in heaven.
Jay and Pat Dolan

May 8, 2011

My pravyers are with your family. Lisa Osthimer

Jim & Mary Agnes Miller

May 8, 2011

Our sincerest condolences and prayers are with all her family and friends. She will be missed but we pray all find comfort in the peace she has found.

Terry and Rhonda Jackson

May 8, 2011

Our condolences to the Osmanski and Ferlic Families on the passing of Mary.

May 8, 2011

Mary, You were the nicest person that I ever met ! I am going to miss you so much !! Like I told you, You were tops......looks, style, class and personality.....You stood out the most !! You were such a pleasure to be around !!! God Bess You, Mary.........Love, Judy Beckham

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