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Darryl Didier Obituary

Darryl C. Didier of Lincolnshire A Mass of Christian Burial for Darryl C. Didier, 41, will be at 10 a.m. Monday, Nov. 5, at Holy Cross Catholic Church in Deerfield, with a visitation for one hour prior to the Mass at church. Interment will follow in Ascension Cemetery. Visitation is 4 to 8 p.m. today, at Burnett-Dane Funeral Home Ltd., 120 W. Park Ave. (Route 176, one block west of Milwaukee Ave.), Libertyville. Born April 29, 1966, in Milwaukee, he passed away Wednesday, Oct. 31, 2007, at his home. Mr. Didier had lived in Lincolnshire for the past 39 years. He was a member of Holy Cross Parish in Deerfield and also had taught CCD to the second grade students. Darryl was a former stockbroker for Merrill Lynch and found out he had cancer 17 years ago. As a cancer survivor he decided to write a book to share his story that was called "Force A Miracle." He became a motivational speaker after his story was told and would often speak at high schools and even prisons. Most recently, he decided to help children affected by the disease and just finished a new book called "Sammy Hits a Home Run." Surviving are his mother, Jean Didier of Lincolnshire; sister, Brenda Didier and her husband Michael Seiler of Kenosha, Wis.; and his dearest friend, Chris Larson. He was preceded in death by his father, Albert Didier in 2001. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the American Cancer Society or American Brain Tumor Association. For information, 847-362-3009.

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Published by Daily Herald from Nov. 1 to Nov. 2, 2007.

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Chris Larson

November 30, 2007

To my Best friend Guay(Darryl), Whom I've known for over 25 years.I Lost a very dear and irreplaceable friend! We were like brothers..Darryl and I were always there for each other. Darryl was enthusiastic,driven,resilient,caring,thoughtful,courageous,generous and so much more! He never gave up and didn't ever display defeat!

We shared so many wonderful times: sports,vacations,all the times over @ your house!!!!!!!!!, Mom's cooking!!-the best around! An occassional cigar and other celebrations and holidays-We did it all!!!!!!! Thanks for being an awesome friend! Until I see you again "Keep it going-my friend"

To Mrs."D", Brenda and Mike
I extend my deepest sympathy,I send my love...You are my family!!!!

Love,

Chris

Bean Larson

November 30, 2007

Darryl, You were a "Gift from God" you taught me to live,laugh,love and enjoy each day. Thanks for touching my life in so many wonderful ways!

Until I see you again Darryl, may God hold you in the palm of his hand.

To Jean'e,Brenda and Mike, I extend my deepest sympathy and my love. You are incredible people.

Love,
Bean

Darry and Chris at Navy Pier

November 30, 2007

Brenda and Darryl on the faris wheel at Navy Pier

November 30, 2007

Eric Jensen

November 29, 2007

Dear Mrs. Didier and Brenda and all of Darryl's friends:
I heard from my folks that Darryl passed away. They've kept me posted on all of his accomplishments over the years. I recognize his father's influence in those accomplishments as well. I've been thinking about the span of Darryl's influence on the world and realized it's been with him all his life. I met most of the kids in the neighborhood through Darryl. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Ray and Jackie Larson

November 29, 2007

Darryl was one of our favorite people.
What we admired about Darryl was his tenacity and heart. We were always pleased to see Darryl and have him in our home. Darryl was one of best influences and friend to our son Chris. We were very proud of darryl and he will be missed dearly.

Where's my food...

November 27, 2007

Go get 'em amigo...

November 27, 2007

Todd Preusker

November 19, 2007

Darryl Didier is my friend!
Ive known you 27 years, thats most of my life. In all those years i never heard him complain about anything, not when he got sick, not all those years of recovery. Most people say why me? why me? Darryl never came close to that. He said what can i do to help others? He did help make the human condition better, for all! that truly is a remarkable accomplishent. I have never known a stronger person spirtually, mentally or physically. I will miss you Darryl, and know that you will always be pushing me to be a better person. thanks for being my friend.
Todd

Jennifer Vane

November 16, 2007

While I was driving home the other day, I was trying to think of what to say about Darryl. In my childhood, he was just Brenda's little brother. I wouldn't say I knew him that well, but even then he had such a strong sense of himself. I only saw him once after we moved away -- at my dad's wake and funeral. Darryl was one of the first (if not the first) to get up and speak, and he was so eloquent about my dad and his own struggles with cancer, I don't think there was a dry eye in the house. I was blown away. I couldn't believe the cocky kid had turned into such a confident and beautifully positive man! We would get updates from Chris about all of you, and of course, I felt terrible when the news wasn't good. From all of the testimonials, I know Darryl's courage and positive outlook has affected so many people. I hope that is a great comfort, as it was for me when my family members died. He was very special, and I can only imagine how much you will miss him. Just know that I am thinking about you, Brenda and Mrs. Didier.
Love, Jenny

Anonymous

November 14, 2007

I didn't know Darryly personally. But his experience was truly inspiring. He was somebody you would want as a friend.

My condolences to his family and friends.

Anonymous

November 14, 2007

We don't know Mr. Didier or his family, but he sounds like he was someone you wanted as a good friend.

Our families prayers are with the Didier family during this time of loss. We have always taken comfort in this verse:

"He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds." -Psalm 147:3

Jeff Moe

November 12, 2007

It was a very sad day when I found out that Darryl had lost his recent battle with cancer he was a inspiration and I will be missed by many. While I did not know him well our many encounters at Bally's Fitness gave me a sense of his overwhelming sense of purpose. My deepest sympathy to Brenda and Mrs. Didier. Please have some comfort that your son and brother touched many lives for the positive during his short time on this planet. We lost a soldier but God gaining a officer.
God Bless!

Margie Wilson

November 12, 2007

We were so very sad to learn of Darryl's passing. My kids and I gave Darryl a ride to CCD every Wednesday afternoon. (Darry and I both taught at Holy Cross) I remember when the Religious Education office called to ask me if I would be able to give another teacher a ride to class on Wednesday afternoons - she had noticed that we both lived in Lincolnshire. I agreed to the carpool - but as a busy mother of three I'm ashamed to admit that part of me thought - one more thing to do. Darryl turned out to be such a wonderful gift in our lives. My kids bonded with him instantly. He was always in a great mood and he never let anything get him down. We truly looked forward to our Wednesday afternoon car rides. Darryl was a friend, an inspiration and a mentor for my kids. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family. This world will miss such a beautiful, happy, positive person.
The Wilson Family,
Greg and Margie, Tim, Chris and Amy

Melodie Kernahan

November 8, 2007

Dear Brenda and Mrs Didier,

Thank you so much for thinking about me during this time to call me and tell me about Darryl's passing. Just wanted to let you both know how much I adored Darryl over all these years. He has always been such a wonderful friend. We have shared many smiles, laughs and tears over the past 25 years. I will miss him dearly.
You are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless!

Lisa A. Vane

November 7, 2007

Dear Jeanne and Brenda,
When I received word of Darryl from Chris I was in disbelief. I am grateful that I was able to visit with him years back and will remember the good times we all shared in Linconlshire. I think of Darryl as a great family friend and we will miss him.
Fondly,
Lisa A. Vane

Walter (Wally) Sheldon

November 6, 2007

Dear Mrs. Didier, Brenda, and Chris.
It came as a sad day when I heard that Darryl had passed. I have to chuckle just thinking back on all of the time we kids spent together playing outside growing up in Lincolnshire. I will also remember Darryl for being so incredibly positive after his surgery. He always asked about how others were doing during our numerous talks while he was out walking in the neighborhood. Talking to him was a such an inspiration. I have ordered a copy of his book and will remember him always. May our thoughts and prayers be with you always.

Mary Vane McGlynn

November 5, 2007

Dear Mrs. Didier and Brenda,
I was saddened to hear of Darryl's passing. I have many fond memories from growing up in Lincolnshire. On our last visit to Chris's I devoured Darryl's book. Such an inspiration. I hope there is some comfort in knowing how his books will help others in life. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mary Vane McGlynn

A rose for Darryl

Summer Davis

November 5, 2007

Dear Mrs. Didier and Brenda,
Darryl, even though I knew him for a short time, was instantly my friend. He had no judgement, no hatred, and no badness in his heart. This is a rare thing and that it why Darryl has always been in my heart since I met him. I was very sad to hear he was gone and cried a very long time. Just remember, he's not really gone if we keep him in our hearts. I will be in touch soon.
All my love,
Summer

Nicholas and Iliana Ugo

November 5, 2007

Sending out our love and support on your loss. So happy to see that his story will live on forever.

Beth Strotman

November 5, 2007

To the Didier family,
Darryl touched our family's life at Holy Cross church when our son was battling cancer. Luke looked forward to seeing Darryl on Sunday when they would laugh and talk after mass. Darryl was not afraid to reach out and show true compassion to others who were suffering. We will miss him.

Deneen Hesser

November 2, 2007

To the Didier Family: Darryl touched the lives of thousands of people through his book, Force a Miracle. His determination, strength, and ability to care made him a true hero. Darryl inspired us, and we will surely miss his smiles.

Aunt Betty/Uncle Dick Finney

November 2, 2007

We were there when you were born and you were the son we never had. Always thought of you as our own along with Brenda. Now your suffering is over and you sit at the right hand of God. We know He will keep you close and safe. We will miss your undaunting spirit and "Hey, what"s up"?

Maureen Finney-Bergman

November 2, 2007

Dear Mrs. Didier, Brenda, Mike, and Chris,

You are all very much in my thoughts and prayers. Mindy and I have spent so much time in the last couple of days speaking of Darryl. I have a wonderful memory of the last time I saw him and spent time with him at Kiawah Island. Darryl was a very special person, full of life and humor and now all the best qualities that he had will live on in our hearts. I am so very sorry I can't be there but please know that Staff, Summer, and I have you all in our thoughts and prayers. We have a special angel in heaven now looking over us.

melinda fitch

November 2, 2007

dear Mrs.Didier,Brenda,and Mike,
we are so sorry to hear about darryl. he was truely and remarkable man.we will always tresure the memories we have of him.
our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
love always,
mindy and rick fitch

Robert Williams

November 1, 2007

Darryl was my hero and helped me to survive my own brain tumor. Thanks for all of the great memories. You will be missed.
Love Bob Williams.

Kenny Sommer

November 1, 2007

Darryl you always were and will be an ispiration to me and many. You also were a great friend, and a lot of fun to be around. May you have a wonderful life in the Kingdom of Heaven. I will miss you, and always remember so many good times together. You were never a sick guy to me, just another friend who cared, joked a lot, and worked on having a meaningful life. May I see you agian one day, I don't think your going to rest in peace, probable work hard, play sports again, drive a fast car again, be with a wonderful, beautiful lady again, where you have gone. With Love, Kenny Sommer

Cathie & Al Preusker

November 1, 2007

Dear Family & Friends of Darryl,
The Lord bless you and keep you.
The Lord let His face shine upon you, and be gracious to you.
The Lord look upon you kindly and give you peace.

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