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Thomas Grider Obituary

HAMPTON - Thomas Holan Grider Sr., 84, beloved husband and father, passed away quietly in his home Aug. 11, 2008.
He is preceded in death by his wife, Barbara Ann Grider; two sons, Tommy and Kenny; and one daughter, Concetta.
He is survived by his three daughters, Debbie Cooke and husband, Eddie, Cecila Reynolds and husband, John, Patricia Bradley and husband, James; and his three sons, Roy Grider and fiancEe, Ellen, Robert Grider and fiancEe, Doniate, and David Grider and wife, Christine. He is also survived by 21 grandchildren and 19 great-grandchildren.
He will be sadly missed.
A family service will be held at a later date. Cremation Society of Virginia is assisting the family. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press on Aug. 13, 2008.

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Debbie

September 6, 2008

Daddy,
I miss you so very much,i know you are in a
much better place now,but that does't stop the pain that Im going though,I wil miss you for the rest of my life Daddy I just don't think that I will ever get over losing you .we had so great time togather when you where with me dering your last months ,I know god had his hands in this cause he was the one that lead me to the hospital .it really hurts me to watch you get sicker and sicker but I would never have change one thing.at time I get very upset because I think that I could have done better for you .daddy thank you for coming to stay with me ,I will never forget you,you will all ways be in my heart & soul for life. Daddy I love you
your daughter
debbie

brittany marshall

August 21, 2008

my grandfather was a strong and fearless oldman i have seen in a long time

Anonymous Friend

August 16, 2008

Although I did not know Mr. Grider personally, I knew how much he meant to you and how he touched your lives. He is in a better place now and one day the circle will be unbroken. DL's poem of August 15th is very beautiful and I know he is in her heart as well as all his family. You are blessed to have had quality time with him these last weeks. My deepest sympathy and prayers to the family during this grieving process.

Debbie Cooke

August 15, 2008

Memories Of My Daddy

I feel a warmth around me
Like your presence is so near,
And I close my eyes to visualize
Your face when you were here,
I endure the times that we spent together
And they are locked in my heart,
For as long as I have memories
We will never be apart,
Even though we cannot speak anymore
My voice is always there,
Because every night before I sleep
I have you in my prayer.

I love and miss you each and everyday.
Your Daughter Debbie.

lorie cooke

August 15, 2008

Grandpa, the three months you were with us, i got to know you and know what its was like to have a grandparent.. and it was amazing. I really do cherish those 3 months you lived with us. I think about you everyday. I think about all the stories you told me. I never really told how much i love you.. but i do i love you so much. But your in heaven now with grandma and jesus. I know you watching down on us. I love you so much. Ill see you again someday in heaven. <3

your granddaughter,
Lorie Cooke

Debbie Cooke

August 14, 2008

Daddy its another day without you , but my heart misses you so ,every where i look i see you.daddy .i really miss the times that we had togather,when we would spent hours in the swing just you and me talking about all kinds of stuff.oh how i would give to have those times back,but only if you where all well I Love you Daddy your daughter Debbie

Steve/Ingrid/Ron -Miller/Lund

August 13, 2008

David and Family,

May God bless your family in this time of sorrow. Yall are in our thoughts and prayers. David, if you need anything just let us know.

With Love,

Ingrid & Steve Miller
And
Ronald Lund

Erin Malcolm

August 13, 2008

Daddy, Uncle Bobby, Aunt Debbie and the rest of family,

My heart goes out to you guys at this time and in the days ahead. May God bless you guys in this time of sorrow. You yall are in my thoughts and prayers. If you guys need anything please let me know. I will gladly be there. I love you guys alot and more than you know.

Love your Daughter & Niece,
Erin Malcolm

Doniate Marshall

August 13, 2008

Robert,David,and Debbie, I am very sorry for the loss of your father. If you need me I will always be there for you. Pop is no longer in pain and he is with your mother. It was wonderful to see that when he needed the most that everyone pulled together as a family and gave each other the love,support and will to continue. Love always Doniate

Debra Osborne

August 13, 2008

Debbie, Bobby, David and familys
I just want to let you all know that i am thinking of you all at your time of loss of your father, he is in a much better place now (HEAVEN)!!!! No more pain no more suffering, i bet he is up there dancing with your momma right now looking down at us telling us not be sad he is happier than he has ever been, I love you all, i am here if you need me and here if you dont. Love, Debbie Osborne

Debbie Cooke

August 13, 2008

Daddy I now you are in heven with momma.And you are in longer in pain.But I just wanted you to now that the past three months it ment the world to me.If I had to do it all over again I would not change anything.I miss you & love you so much.


I love you daddy from your

daughter Debbie

From the staff of Home Health Svs.

August 13, 2008

Dear family members:
I am deeply sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences are with you. In the spirit of the Apostle Paul, we read: "For all things I have the strength by virtue of him who imparts power to me." Philipians 4:13 (The New World translation of the holy scriptures)

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