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Judith Ann Clarke Dreher

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NEWPORT NEWS - Judith Ann Dreher of Newport News passed away on Sunday, Aug. 24, 2008, while recovering from major surgery.
She was born in Wichita Falls, Texas, on Nov. 30, 1939, to parents Jesse and Edward Clarke. Judith attended North Texas State University in Denton, Texas, and then moved to Dallas, Texas, where she met and married Donald Nelson Dreher on July 13, 1962. They were happily married 29 years before Donald's death in 1991. Together they raised three daughters, Rebecca Lynn, Catherine Louise and Deborah Burke.
She worked as an administrative assistant in the medical field and was a medical transcriptionist for many years. Judith wasn't satisfied with merely knowing how to spell difficult medical terms, she knew what they meant as well. She was a walking encyclopedia on many subjects with an insatiable appetite for knowledge. She wrote numerous stories and poems and we all thought that writing was her true calling. She loved to wordsmith and she was the queen of organization. She had too many interests and talents to possibly list, but a few of her favorites were reading, sewing, crocheting, knitting, volunteering, puzzles, music and history. Some of her signature sewing items included her blue jean quilts and Grammy Jammies for each of her grandchildren, her custom Christmas stockings and she was especially proud of the Grinch costume featured on her church's parade float last Christmas. Judith belonged to the James City Community Church in Williamsburg, Va., and enjoyed making and donating prayer shawls for those in need for her women's ministry group called Martha's Hands and Mary's Heart. She loved and cherished her close friends at church. Judith renewed her love and commitment to God and was baptized in the Lord again last summer. Known as Grammy to her grandchildren, she was loved for her stories, trivia, music and silliness. She had loving and uniquely special relationships with all of her grandkids all of which received their own nicknames from her.
Judith is predeceased by her father, Edward; her father, Elden; and her husband, Donald.
She is survived by her mother, Jesse Scanland of Rio Rancho, N.M.; brother, Roger and wife, Sharon Scanland, of Orem, Utah; sister, Sara and husband, Dick Booth, of Rio Rancho, N.M.; sister, Penni and husband, Tom Pitre, of Cave Creek, Ariz.; brother, Scott and wife, Pauline Scanland, of Santa Fe, N.M.; daughter, Rebecca and husband, Richard Thomas, of Austin, Texas; daughter, Catherine and husband, Michael McKinney, of Yorktown, Va.; daughter, Deborah and husband, Rory Hammond, of San Antonio, Texas; grandchildren, Joey (JoJo), Michael (Enkel), Zachary (Roo), Donovan (Tigger), Rory Jr. (Owl), Annalyn (Piglet), Ethan (eBear) and Jenna (Little bird).
A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. Friday, Aug. 29, at James City Community Church in Williamsburg. The family will receive friends from 6 to 7 p.m. Thursday, Aug. 28, in Amory Funeral Home, Grafton. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press on Aug. 27, 2008.

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Sara Clements

September 4, 2008

To my wonderful cousins:
In my conversations with your mother, I had a small taste of what it might have been like to blessed with a mom like her. She was one who consoled me with such feeling, laughed with me with such mirth, picked me up when I had fallen and dusted me off, to set me gently back down...on my knees...turning me to Him who really gives us the Strength we need. I can only imagine how much more you must miss her.... I pray that her healing touch might be felt in your lives, as it has always been in mine, and that our Savior's love will lead us all to healing, hope and happiness.

Julius Council

August 29, 2008

Dear Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Remember that while dark nights do come, joy always comes in the morning. Let your hearts not be troubled, for God has done what he said he would do, and has called one of his children to be with him.

Glenda Greene

August 28, 2008

Cathy,
You will know that to be absent on earth is to be present with the Lord for those that believe! Hold onto your faith in God and treasure all of those priceless memories of the years spent with your Mom. May God bless you & your family as you go thru these difficult days.

Carol Suder

August 28, 2008

Dear Cathy,
At this time of mourning, my prayers and thoughts are with you and yours.

Yvonne Weiss

August 28, 2008

Dear Cathy & Family,
I would like you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. God will heal your pain and guide you in the right direction in days to come. If there is anything I can do for you or the family please do not hesitate to call on me. God Bless you and the family.

- Stern Family

August 27, 2008

Dear Dreher family,
I would like to express our sadness in your time of mourning. I know that the loss of your loved one brings times of difficulty and despair but hope your feelings of pain are healed quickly. Your family is in our thoughts and wishes that you are well.

From the staff of the Concordia Group

August 27, 2008

Dear family:
I do feel your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences. Psalms 34:2 " I sought the Lord's help and he answered me: he set me free from all my terrors."

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