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James R. Rector III

James Rector Obituary

HAMPTON - James R. Rector III, (A.K.A Jimi Jam) 43, passed away to eternal rest, Thursday Sept. 11, 2008, in Fairfax, Va.
Jim worked as a crane operator for Miller & Long, and always loved being high above the city. Jim had a deep love for music and entertaining. He was an avid drummer and had a natural talent for all musical instruments. Jim was also known for his funny jokes, cartoons and a great sense of humor, he could always make you laugh.
Jim was preceded in death by his mother, Harriet L. Smith of Smithfield, Va.; and his uncle, James E. Smith of Hampton.
He leaves behind to cherish his memory his son, James Michael Rector of Burke, Va., and the mother of his son, Veronica Rector, who cared so much for Jim; his brother, Frederick Rector and wife, Anne; his sister, Ramona Watterton and husband, Eric; his brothers, John E. Rector, Daniel Smith and wife, Rebecca; and sister, Kimberly S. Hellmann and husband, William; and his stepfather, Jack L. Smith; as well as a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, three great-nephews and many friends.
Jim will be sorely missed by all that knew him, but his memories will bring comfort and smiles to us all.
A celebration of life services will be conducted at 2 p.m. Sunday, Sept. 21, at the East Hampton Baptist Church in Hampton, Va., located at 1954 Long Green Lane, by pastor Timothy Phipps.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to Jim's son, James Michael Rector, at 106 Westminster Place Williamsburg, VA 23188. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press from Sep. 17 to Sep. 18, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for James Rector

25 Entries

JOHN RECTOR

January 15, 2010

Well as we enter 2010, my brothers passing has made a profound difference in my life and the way I perceive things. I really want to again thank everyone for the kind words about my brother ....about my family! .... We sure do miss his laughter. He was one of the most unique people I have ever met and just fortunate enough to call him my BROTHER! ~ BROTHER YOU ARE DEARLY MISSED!
ALL MY LOVE AND GRATITUDE TO EVERYONE THAT SHARED HOW JIMMY TOUCHED YOUR LIFE.
THANK YOU,
JOHN RECTOR

Steven & Colleen Cox

January 14, 2010

Steven and I have many fond memories of Jimmy through the years. We have known him for over 20 years and through those years there was fun, laughter and some tears mostly from laughing so hard!..Jimmy was an amazingly talented drummer and we've had the privilege to seeing him play both independently and w/ a group. He was always cracking jokes w/ that crazy high pitched voice were you couldnt help but laugh - even if the joke wasnt that funny - :).. Steven traveled accross country w/ him on several occasions and I can only imagine the "impression" the "crew" left on the rest of the world but for us Jimmy left an everlasting impression in our hearts.... It gives honor to Jimmy to know that his extreme talent is alive in his son!.. we will forever miss him and forever remember him!..
" Play on Jimmy - we'll hear you! "

James Rector

October 16, 2008

I will always remember all the times I saw my dad. My best memory of him was at Mam Ma's house for Christmas Eve. Everyone was there, everyone was happy, and it was the season of giving.
The other memory was when I saw him for the first time at Pentagon City Mall. I hugged him the tightest that I have ever hugged anyone or anything before. He also had the same grasp as me so it felt like I was hugging myself.
I will always miss my dad with all my heart. May his soul rest in peace and please god, continue watching over him.

- Sincerely

Anthony Husoskey

October 5, 2008

Sorry James for you loss
Tony Husoskey

John Rector

September 24, 2008

The Family and I would like to express our sincerest Thanks to all that thought of us during this time. Jim was very much loved and it was apparent at the Memorial Service and the comments left here. We are so grateful for everyones prayers and especially the wonderful stories of our brother that we didn't know. Thank you all for sharing! Jim may be gone, but We have little doubt that he will not be fogotten and live in our hearts and memories forever.
MAY GOD KEEP HIM SAFE WITH OUR MOTHER AND HOLD THEM TIGHT!
We Will Miss You, Brother
xoxo

Stacey & Darrel Wenzel

September 24, 2008

Darrel and I have known Jimmy for more than 30 years. He was such a unique, incredibly talented and funny person. He kept in touch with us off and on over the years and it was always good to hear from him. We are so sad that he's gone but find comfort in knowing that he's finally at peace. We loved him and have so many good memories and laughs when we think of him. He loved to reminisce about the old times. May God bless and comfort all the family and friends that he left behind. Jimmy's legacy will continue through us all; especially his wonderful son James. What a blessing this young man is. We pray Jimmy knows how much he touched people and how much he meant to us all. We love you Jimmy and will see you again.

Edd Hausmann

September 21, 2008

In My Pocket

I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.

My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.

They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.

Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.

--- For many this is how we feel. You have touch the souls of so many in the time you were given, one of which was mine. You will truely be missed. ---

Sonya Lovette

September 20, 2008

My condolences to Jimmy's family. Thank you Jimmy for the help and laughter. May you finally rest in peace.

Doug Hughes

September 20, 2008

I had only known Jim for a short time, but in that time I found him to be a kind, loving and caring person. I will think of him often. My prayers are with his family.

Janet Hausmann

September 20, 2008

You may be gone from this world but never from our Hearts. Thanks so much for the laughter. Aunt Janet&Matthew

Missy Sawyer

September 20, 2008

I am so sadden by the news that Jimmy is gone. He will always hold a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prays a with all of his family.

Cindy Jones

September 19, 2008

I still cannot believe that my cousin/friend is gone. You were always in my heart, prayers, and thoughts on a daily basis. I'll never forget all of the good times or the bad ones. You are finally free Jim and I know that you are in Heaven with my dad, your mom, our grandmothers and grandfathers, our aunts, uncles, cousins, and other family and friends. The celebration there is probably phenomenal. Thanks so much, Jim, for all of the caring, compassion, awesome conversations, great advice, and most of all the laughter. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to my cousins and our whole family. I love you all.

Ed Scruggs

September 19, 2008

My condolences to friends and family.

Jesse Evans

September 18, 2008

We are so very sad that our friend Jimmy is not with us anymore. My wife and I kept in touch with Jimmy while he was away, and witnessed to him, prayed with him, encouraged him and loved him. Jimmy had a relationship with Jesus and often spoke of his desire to be free. We will miss you sooo much Jimmy. We are sorry for the family's loss of their beloved son.

Tiffany Volonakis

September 18, 2008

I am still unable to fully grasp that Jim is not on this earth anymore ... that I will never see him cross the street, smiling, saying hi. It's so weird and so sad. I hope with every fiber of my being that he has finally found peace. Miss you, Jim...

Melissa (Polly Dryden) McGee

September 18, 2008

I was saddened to read of Jimmy's death in today's paper. I haven't seen him since high school but I thought of him often. I remember the good times we had at Missy's house when the family lived in Seaford. Thanks for some wonderful childhood memories Jimmy. My deepest sympathies.

Jim was always taking pictures of himself from the crane with his phone and sending them to me...

Jessica Towers

September 18, 2008

Jim was like a brother to me. I loved him dearly, and I am extremely saddened that he has passed, and yet very grateful that he no longer has to suffer. I will never, ever forget him. We have lost such a wonderful friend in Jim, and I am eternally grateful for having known him. I was close friends with Jim for the last 5 years, and since we met, no matter where his life took him, he always kept in contact with me. I know he knew how much I loved him, and I am glad that we were such good friends... MY BROTHA FROM ANOTHA MOTHA! I also send my sincerest condolences to the family, and you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Amy Lozaw

September 18, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to Kim, John and the rest of the family. I will always remember he was ready and willing to play the drums at any given time. I know he is playing his heart out for everyone now, as well as looking down on everyone he knew and loved.

Dawn Stephens Roberts

September 18, 2008

I haven't seen Jimmy in years, but he was always a nice guy and always had a smile for you. My deepest condolences to his family.

Rick (Ricky) Harman

September 17, 2008

I'm very saddened to hear of Jimmy's passing. Although I had not seen him in about 30 years, I still remember him like it was yesterday. Jimmy was a great friend during the time we lived near each other in the Foxhill Townhouses. I will always remember him and the great times we had as kids playing together. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.

TAMMY WETHERELL

September 17, 2008

KIM,JOHN AND FAMILY.....I WAS SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE ENTIRE FAMILY!!!! LOVE,TAMMY

Michelle Hanson

September 17, 2008

I was so very sorry to hear about Jimmy's death. Although I had not seen him in a few years I thought of him often. He had a very nice smile, an awesome personality and was fun to be around. I know that this does not help but he is finally in a happy place smiling down on all of us. My thoughts are with all of his family and friends.

Kevin Carpenter

September 17, 2008

Jimmy was like a brother to me,I will never forget him,he was always ready to rock n roll anyone who knows me would have definetly of known or heard of him. Lots of good times with him,my family and freinds and I will miss him very much. I look back at all the years I have known him and all I can say is I love you buddy! Your FREIND now and forever... Kevin

John Rector

September 17, 2008

THERE IS AN ERROR !!! THE DATE OF THE SERVICE IS SEPTEMBER 21ST AT 2PM .. AGAIN SEPTEMBER 21, 2008 AT 2PM

Ramona Watterton

September 17, 2008

Jim will always be in my thoughts and prayers. I still smile when I think of all our memories. You made me laugh in spite of our differences, and laughter can heal most anything. Thanks Jim for sharing the good times. I will always love you.
Your Sister Ramona.

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