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HUGHES, SAMUEL CALVIN Samuel Calvin Hughes, 52, a lifelong resident of Birmingham, departed this life Saturday, February 9, 2008. He was born April 6, 1955 to Alberta and Floyzell Hughes. He went to West End High School where he was a member of the marching and concert bands, band president, Outstanding Junior and a National Achievement Scholarship Semifinalist. From there he went to the University of Alabama and majored in Journalism; minored in History. Sam was a member of the Million Dollar Band and served as section leader of the clarinet section. As a student, he was able to polish his lifelong love of history, politics and sports - especially the Alabama Crimson Tide. As part of a history class project, he brought Vivian Malone Jones back to the University for the first time since she became one of two Black students to successfully enroll in and integrate the University of Alabama. During his senior year, Sam was a student assistant in the Sports Information Department working under the tutelage of Charlie Thornton, sports information director for Coach Paul Bear Bryant. In the spring 1976, he was named the Outstanding Male Journalism Student and went on to graduate in May. It was also at the University of Alabama his sophomore year that Sam met and started dating Deborah Chenier, a freshman Public Relations major from Tuskegee. They were married on March 31, 1978, and would have celebrated 30-years of marriage next month. Their only child is Jessica, who is in her final semester at Auburn University majoring in Architecture and was the apple of her father's eye and a great source of pride. After graduation from the University, Sam worked for South Central Bell in the Headquarters Public Relations Department, and then in 1982, he joined Civitan International whose world headquarters is located in Birmingham. Over the course of 26+ years, he had a number of job responsibilities. His last was as the Director of Conventions and Meetings, a position that allowed Sam to travel around the world selecting sites and managing conventions for Civitan's worldwide membership. Sam was a longtime member of the Action Civitan Club, serving in a number of Board and officer positions, and Big Brothers/Big Sisters for a number of years. He was also heavily involved in a variety of groups within the Southside CME Church family, including the Sunday School Department, Mass Choir, Men's Choir and the Trustee Board. He leaves to cherish his memory Deborah, his wife; Jessica, his daughter; his brother Noel (Sharilyn) of Westfield, New Jersey, and their family; sister, Jean of New York City; and a host of other relatives and many friends around the Birmingham metro area, Tuscaloosa, Selma, Detroit, Chicago, Connecticut, Louisiana, Mississippi and other locations throughout the world. In lieu of flowers, donations are being accepted in his name at the University of Alabama so a deserving Journalism student may also earn a degree from his alma mater. Donations can be sent to: Memorials for Samuel Calvin Hughes, The University of Alabama, Office of University Advancement, P. O. Box 870122, Tuscaloosa, AL 35487. Respect can be paid Friday afternoon at Arrington Funeral Home from 1:00 to 5:00 p.m. only. Respect can also be paid before the funeral Saturday at Southside CME Church, 713 Martin L. King, Jr. Drive SW, Birmingham, AL beginning at 10:30 a.m.; the funeral will begin at noon. Rev. Cheryl Goliday, officiating. Burial will follow at Elmwood Cemetery. Arrington Funeral Home, Inc. directing.

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Published by AL.com (Birmingham) from Feb. 13 to Feb. 15, 2008.

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Carol Wolters

March 17, 2010

As many have said, Sam may be gone but he will never be forgotten. It is still unreal that he is not at Civitan International. They had a HUGE hole to fill with his loss. They have done a very good job, but no one will ever replace Sam himself. It seems like yesterday, in a bad dream, to learn of your loss. I have re-read the memorial tributes, and if you mention his name I know that all of us would have a heartbreaking moment of yearning to have him with us again.

I hope that time is helping you to deal with this huge loss. Thank you for sharing him so MUCH with all of us, we are all richer for having known him. The world is poorer for his absence. But hopefully if we carry on in his memory, we can multiply what he would do for thousands of others in the future.

Best wishes for you in this new life you must lead. I know he is watching over you, and us, with love.

William Felder

May 5, 2008

My heart is truly heavy, you see, i learned of Sams' passing only a few days ago. We were among a group of classmates at Lane Elem. brought together for a special enrichment. There were 11 of us in all. Sam and i became good friends, we lived a couple of blocks from each other, accross from the old Ullman high. Which we attended for two years, it was later bought by UAB. I would like to say Sam learned to play the clarinet along with a couple of other friends. because we were close. We were all in the Elem., High school band. He also enjoyed playing basketball, i don't know if he kept it up. At the time, we enjoyed it at our age. His mother thought he stayed in the house and read too much. You see, i thought Sam was one of the most fasinating people i had ever met. He once told me at our young age, he read the entire encyclopedia. I truly wish i had been able to see him before it was too late. I located him thru a church member of South-side CME who knew him. I never got the chance to see him. Though it was my intention. I just recently found out about his passing thru a classmate. Again i would like to express my deep sympathy to Mrs. Hughes, Ms. Hughes. Though i've never met you, i feel connected.
William Felder

Kim Moore

April 28, 2008

I was very saddened to hear about the passing of Sam. I got the opportunity to meet Sam when I was in Junior Civitan in 1986. I again had the wonderful pleasure of talking with him again when I was the Chair's Representative to the Junior Board in 2002. Sam was a wonderful man with a very caring and giving heart. His dedication to others was evident. He gave unselfishly for many years to the Civitan mission. To his family, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kim Moore
Appalachian District (1985-2003)

Carol Dorn Sanders

April 15, 2008

Deborah and Jessica:
I just learned today about Sam's passing, and I want you to know how profoundly sorry and sad I am. I was a Junior Civitan International Officer back in 1982 when Sam first started with Civitan. Sam, Louie, and Jim were and are all dear friends of mine and always took great care of the juniors. I will never forget Sam who truly had one of the best smiles around. It was totally infectious. May you find a bit of peace in knowing how many lives he touched in his short but wonderful life.

David Poindexter

March 25, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I remember fondly the several times I met Sam at various Civitan functions over the years.

Linda Lilly

March 21, 2008

My daughter Lynn Leitch called me early in the morning crying, I could not understand a word she was saying. When she calmed herself she finally told me she just got an e-mail about Sam. I was in total shock. Lynn and I got to know Sam when we started going to Jr. Civitan Conventions. Sam and Mary Luck had it all together for the kids during these conventions. Everyone had tons of fun, learning, playing and working together. Once Lynn graduated high school in 1999, she talked me into joining with her into the Fairfax Civitan Club and we started going to the adult conventions. We were both very excited to see Sam at the convention once we arrived. We had no way of knowing that the same people did the kids and the adult conventions. Friendships were re-newed and each year we would find Sam to exchange pictures from the last convention and give Sam our newest crab pin that was made for pin trading.
We will miss Sam greatly..."Words can only hint at what our hearts feel...but can not say...

V. Ramirez

March 13, 2008

May the Lord bless, keep and comfort you now and in the days ahead. Trust in God; hope in Him and you will never be alone.

June Dangerfield

March 10, 2008

I am still in a state of shock, as I know all Civitans are. I can not imagine a convention without Sam scurrying here and there, making sure everyone else was taken care of.

I have read some of the wonderful things that we as a group have had to say about Sam and have learned many things about him other than what I know of his Civitan life. Especially what Dee Hutsler wrote about Sam and his love of roses. Well, Civitan has lost one of it's brightest and most beautiful roses. He will perpetually be in bloom for me.

To the family, my deepest sympathy and best wishes. God bless you all.

June Dangerfield
Charleston Lowcountry Civitan, SC

Sammie Queen Hawkins

March 9, 2008

Deborah & Jessica,
As President of the West Knox Civitan Club and the Lenoir City Civitan Club in East Tennessee (Appalachian District) I want to take this opportunity to express our sympathy at your loss. Sam was a wonderful friend to all of us and he will be sorely missed. Please know that you both are in our thoughts and prayers.

Victor & Polly Forestier

March 9, 2008

Dear Deborah,
May the cherished memories from the past sustain you in the future.
God bless you and your family.

Jim and Dawn Yerkey

March 7, 2008

We were so sorry to hear about Sam passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jim & Dawn Yerkey
Alexander City Civitan Club

Charles Rutledge

February 29, 2008

Is this the same Samuel Hughes who was a 5th grade classmate of mine at Lane School in Birmingham, Al.?
I've wondered whatever happened to that brilliant little classmate from Mrs. McDaniel's class. Boy, was he SMART!!!! So sorry for your loss!!

Marilyn TerBorg

February 27, 2008

We are saddened by Sam's passing. We can't imagine a Convention without Sam! He will be missed by all who knew and loved him.
Heart of Florida Civitan Club

Lyle Armstrong

February 25, 2008

Sam was a great Civitan and a great friend. Yes he was a friend to Civitans and non Civitans. He went a way above the call of duty to help people. He will be dearly missed by his Civitan family and his non Civitan family.

Charles and Lorene Markland

February 25, 2008

We never met Sam but we enjoyed talking with him several times on the phone. We were shocked to learn of his passing. He was always very helpful and kind. We send our heart felt sympathy to his family.

Dan Alexander

February 24, 2008

It is with great sadness that I learned of the passing of Sam. He was a wonderful person that always had a smile on his face and a warm place in his heart. Sam will truely be missed by all of those that knew him. I give my condolences to the family, in this time of greiving. Please rest assured knowing that he is a better place where there is no pain or suffering and his spirit is still around us.

Don & Chris Bergen

February 23, 2008

To the Hughes Family,

Civitan has lost a great asset to to the organization and Don and I a great Civitan friend. May God be with you as you will be in our prayers.
Don & Chris Bergen
London Bridge Civitan Club
Lake Havasu City, AZ
also
Pikes Peak Civitan Club
Colordo Springs, Co.

Neal & Debbie Randall

February 22, 2008

Our prayers are with you during this time.I only met Sam twice and he has always impressed me as a man of good moral standing.We all will miss him and have been blessed for your family to have shared him with us (Civitans). May God bless you and heal your heart .

Tommy & Phyllis Dake

February 21, 2008

Our thoughts & prayers go out to Deborah & Jessica. We will miss Sam's smile & laughter & we'll remember all the good things we learned from Sam.

Tommy & Phyllis Dake

February 21, 2008

our thoughts & prayers go out to Deborah & Jessica. We will miss Sam's smile & laughter & we'll remember all the good things we learned from Sam.

Gwendolyn Chambers

February 21, 2008

Our prayers are with your family!

Robyn White

February 21, 2008

Wishing you both the blessing of Christ's peace when dealing with this great loss - he will be sorely missed by all Civitans.

Harold & Jean Davison

February 20, 2008

Our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I have known Sam since 1982 when I went to the Governor-Elect Academy. We both have gotten to know and work with Sam at multiple Conventions over the years and he was always there with a smile and a hug. Sam was the only person to be elected as an honorary member of the Min-Owa District and we have the picture to prove it!
We will be at this next convention but we will miss the traditional hug from Sam when we arrive.
Our prayers are with you.

Sandie Shapiro

February 20, 2008

Deborah and Jessica,
Sam, will be sorely missed along with his wit, wisdom and joy for life.
May you find joy & peace knowing that he was loved by so many around the world.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sandie Shapiro
California Governor 2004-2005

Bob and Pat Hatem

February 19, 2008

Dear Deborah and Jessica - Though we have never met, Bob and I know you are Civitan family. And, in your time of sorrow, we join our hearts with yours in prayer. May God sustain you in the coming months and hold you in the palm of his hand.

Anita Pereira

February 19, 2008

Dear Deborah and Jessica

On behalf of Canadian District West, we offer our condolences. Sam was a special person who many of us will missed dearly. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Anita Pereira
Governor

Wayne & Nell Howell

February 19, 2008

Sam was an inspiring leader and a great Civitan! Our time at the 2006 Governor Elect Academy was a rewarding experience thanks to Sam. We will all miss him. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family. I am confident that he now very busy organizing a new Civitan Club in Heaven!!

Jeffery Edge

February 18, 2008

Sam was a true friend to me and to others, he will be dearly miss by Civitans all over the world. If any one ever needed help, Sam was always there. Civitan won't be the same without him.
Jeffery Edge Governor MS North District 1991-1992

Val & Wayne Dorey

February 18, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Gil & Barbara Black

February 18, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. God bless you!

Nancy Petersen

February 18, 2008

To Sam's Family ~ We are deeply saddened to hear of Sam's death. I found him to be a very bright individual who had a very engaging smile and personality. His excitement and support for Civitan was extraordinary. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Sam will be remembered by all those whose lives he touched.

Minnesota Valley Civitan Club

Ruth Walker

February 18, 2008

I will surely miss Sam Hughes as a
Civitan International Employee. He was always ready to assist and knew who you were when you called. He will not be forgotten because his influence has been spread through the Civitan world. My prayers are with the family and with International for the loss of a staff member.

Marcella Bertrand

February 18, 2008

Dear Deborah & Jessica,
May loving thoughts and prayers comfort you and bring you peace, in this time of sorrow. With hearfelt sympathy.

Athens Ladies Civitan Club

Phil Ward

February 17, 2008

Stay prayed up and have a good attitude about the situation!

Mary Isabell

February 17, 2008

My heart beats for every friend ...
To: Deborah,Jessica and Family
Sam was a friend and a true Civitan. I met Sam in Olso is 2000.I've looked forward to seeing him at each convention.He will certainly be missed. May you feel God's presence during this time of sorrow. I am remembering you in prayer.

Janice Sullivan

February 17, 2008

I only met Sam once, about 10 years ago at President-Elect Training at the Nashville Civitan convention, but he left his impression on me. He was funny, but serious in his commitment to Civitan, and he passed that on to me that day. As I am now again President-Elect, I will think of him often.

Edward & Renea McClure

February 17, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of Sam's passing. He and I were in the Million Dollar Band together at The Univeristy of Alabama. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Nancy & Dick White

February 17, 2008

Conventions will just not be the same without Sam. He was always on the go running from one event to another, making sure everything was running smoothly and according to schedule, all the while maintaining his contagious smile. What a wonderful job he did in this capacity! Whenver we called him at International with a question, he not only answered it, but was always interested in us and how our club was doing. We will miss him and extend our sympathy to his entire family.

Carolyn Souther

February 17, 2008

I first met Sam about 20 years ago when he attended a District meeting in Albuquerque, NM. He was a great guy, very knowledgeable and I always enjoyed being in his company. I again had that pleasure just a few weeks ago when I attended the GE Academy in January. I feel honored that I got to spend some time with Sam and am still in shock that he is gone. I know everyone will miss him deeply.

Eva Elisabeth Wilhelmsen

February 17, 2008

Thank you Sam for sharing your life with us and leaving Civitans around the world with memories that will live on forever. Thank you for what you did for Civitan. Sam was a good friend for many years, which I am thankful for. My thoughts and prayers go to his family.

JOHN STROUD

February 17, 2008

Deborah & Jessica,

It was with a heavy heart hearing of the passing of Sam. I had the distinct pleasure of knowing Sam for 16 years through Civitan. Sam always seemed to have a smile on his face was ready to help anyone. His passing is not only a loss to you it is the loss of a great man to Civitan and the world. My wife Jean and I are both Past District Governors of the California District, she 1983-84 and me 2003-04, so we knew Sam well. Our thoughts go out to you and wish you much strength.

Susan Belcher

February 17, 2008

Dear Deborah and Jessica,
I am so sorry for your loss. Sam was a wonderful man and a fellow Civitan of mine. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of sorrow.

Mattie Fraser

February 16, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with Deborah and Jessica and all of Sam's family at this difficult time. Sam will be missed by all who knew him.

Bill & Sharon Buscher

February 16, 2008

Deborah and Jessica,
Words alone cannot express the love we had for Sam. Our deepest sympathies to you for your loss. For many Civitans, Sam was Civitan International. Sam had a way to make every Civitan feel special. Thank you both for sharing Sam with Civitan. He will be missed, but never forgotten. Our prayers are with you at this difficult time. May God touch you and help ease you pain.

Kate and Butch Kaske

February 16, 2008

We will always remember Sam as being a wonderful and devoted Civitan. Our prayers and condolences are with you Deborah and Jessica. We have all lost a great friend, and we will really miss him. God Bless you both.

Frank and Avis Schoelen Domingue

February 16, 2008

Sam Hughes was an outstanding Civitan.
When we think of Civitan International,
Sam is "one with CI".
We, our family and our clubs: Acadian Civitan Club and Civitan Club of Lafayette, La. have enjoyed Sam at CI, at the conventions,and in our parish, Lafayette, La.
Sam Hughes will be deeply missed.
You have our deepest sympathy and God bless his soul and your family.

Kathleen Gonzalez

February 16, 2008

My heart goes out to all his family. I have known Sam for over 20 years. In fact, way back to when he was working with my dad or mom Jim and Ella Rose Alexander. Myself when I was Governor 2000-01 he was most helpful with me and my whole family. He will truly be missed by all. He will always be remembered with a caring heart and a smiling face. God be with you til we meet again in God's house.

Jo Fraser

February 16, 2008

Sam will be greatly missed by his many friends in Civitan. He was always there for us when we needed him. May God give you comfort during this sad time in your lives.

Gil Simmons

February 16, 2008

Sam had a positive effect on everyone with whom he came in contact. I am fortunate to have known him. Deborah and Jessica, I will be praying for you.

Alisa Sparkia Moore

February 16, 2008

What a terrific person and what a terrible loss. I met Sam when I was serving in the GSW District as a club builder almost twenty years ago, and then again as the Chesapeake PR Director and a club builder. He was always supportive and was a life-long friend. He will be missed.

Rhonda Thomson

February 16, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of Sam's passing. I also knew him from the time I was a Junior Civitan. He teased me about being Canadian and pronouncing words differently. I was looking forward to seeing him again in June at the Civitan convention. My thoughts are with you today, Deborah and Jessica. He will be missed.

Noel & Sharilyn Brown

February 16, 2008

As Sam's brother I was simply amazed at the sincere appreciation and out pouring of love from Civitan for him. He truly served his family, his church, and Civitan at the highest level.

Tracey Goverman

February 16, 2008

Dear Sam's Family,
I am shocked and sadden to hear of this news. I am so sorry for your loss and my heart and prayers go out to you and your family at this time. Sam will be truly missed by all who knew him.
President Henderson Civitan Club, Henderson, Nevada

Sandy Lucas

February 15, 2008

Like so many frends of Sam's, I was shocked and deeply saddened by the tragic news of his death. Your sorrow is shared by all of us.

My Heartfelt Sympathy

Morgan Moore

February 15, 2008

All Civitans mourn your loss.

Oran Tyler

February 15, 2008

Sam was a great friend to me personally and to all of Civitan. During my terms as governor I could always depend on Sam for counsel and guidance. He will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to you.

Tameria Yarborough

February 15, 2008

I will alwyas member Mr. Hughes' sense of humor. He was very welcoming to me when I became a member of Southside. I will keep his family in my prayers as they deal with this difficult time.

Kathy & Larry McVay

February 15, 2008

While it seems almost impossible to imagine Civitan International without Sam, his legacy will go on forever. I'm glad I have so many fond memories of "Sam experiences" over the past 25+ years - I can think of Sam and smile in my heart. To all his family and friends - we share in this time of sadness.

Tim and Debbie Juhlke

February 15, 2008

Deborah and Jessica:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Sam will be missed by all Civitans. I was International Director in 93-95 and a governor who got to know Sam well.

Sandi Prater

February 15, 2008

Dear Deborah and Jessica,
We are so sorry and saddened by Sam's death. He was always so friendly and kind and had the most beautiful roses. Our whole street will miss him and we want to be a help to you. I loved the way Sam's eyes would light up when he talked about Jessica. I'll never forget the 18 wheeler truck that would stop at your house once a year delivering the girl scout cookies. You and Sam both have given so much to the community, and we have been blessed to call you neighbors. We have been praying for your family and will continue to do so. Sincerely, Sandi (and Weyman Prater)

Greta Halphen

February 15, 2008

Deborah and Jessica,
Sam knew that he had a true Cajun on his hands when we talked about my curling iron melting in Oslo. From that convention on I looked forward to seeing him at each convention afterwards and the G.E. Acadamy. He will be missed greatly!God be with you both!

Dee Hutsler

February 15, 2008

Sam Hughes was tough and smart. And he had a real social conscious about what was right and wrong. Several years ago, a beer company put out a series of commercials on Man Laws. These are laws made by men about improper etiquette between beer drinkers. For instance, should real men put a lime in their beer? Should men carry several beer bottles by putting their finger in the top of the beer? Sam created his own man laws when guys misbehaved. Once in a public bathroom at a football game, guys were yackking about teams or beer. Sam announced to the men in the facility that it is not right to speak to each other in a restroom. Sam called it a Man Law: “No talking in the restroom. Just do your business and leave.”

Now the humor noted above may not seem like evidence of a social conscience but it was. Sam often said. “That just isn’t right!” This was said sometimes in jest but as often, it was said when Sam saw a need in the community. He took Christmas gifts to children at Cornerstone School in Birmingham even sometimes wearing a Santa outfit. He participated in Meals on Wheels delivering meals with Jessica on Thanks giving Day. He organized Canned Food drives for the ACTION Civitan Club every year. He had a real soft spot for the needy and those less fortunate. He would personally buy turkeys for needy families during the holiday season and deliver boxes of canned goods.

His aforementioned newsletters were always filled with complements for members who participated in civic projects. He appreciated other folks who, like him, wanted to make the world a better place. And he would let members know that their efforts did not go unnoticed. He was an employee of Civitan but he was a very good Civitan. He spoke highly of both Civitan as an organization, and Civitan volunteers for their efforts in communities around the world.

In his spare time, Sam cultivate roses. This “soft spot” was the complete opposite of Sam’s “Man Law” thing and his many other manly interests. But that was Sam. He was not one dimensional by any means.

His strengths led us to respect him but his weaknesses such as kindness, and support for others is what led us to love him. Sam allowed us to see his humanity and he helped others in spite of their humanity. Sam was a good man, a good father, a good husband, a good Christian, and a good Civitan. -END-

Peggy Harrison

February 15, 2008

Deborah and Jessica,
We have such fun memories of Sam from the neighborhood snowball fight during the unsual snowstorm years ago. And I will never forget the day he stood in the driveway announcing to me that Jessica had been accepted into Auburn, much to his dismay! I saw him come home from work many times but I am sure he has truly gone home now! Praise God!

Betty Haralson

February 15, 2008

God bless you, Deborah and Jessica. Our loss and yours is heaven's gain. What a great friend to all of us Sam has been; not just to us Civitans, but to all that knew and loved him. It won't be the same without him. Ted joins me in sending our thoughts and prayers that God will comfort you both.
Betty Haralson,
2006-07 International President
Charleston, TN

Norma Johnston

February 15, 2008

All of our lives are richer for having known Sam Hughes. We will all truly miss him. On behalf of the 2008 GE's please accept our sincere condolences on your untimely loss

Leonard Travis

February 15, 2008

Heaven got a "Good One" in Sam Hughes. I will miss him as will others. Those who never met him and those who come after us will never know what they have missed.

Cornelia Ferguson and Family

February 15, 2008

Deepest Sympathy.

Adrian Edge

February 15, 2008

Sam was always a kind pleasing man
He was willing to do whatever he needed to do to help.
I first met Sam at the GE training in 1983.He was new with Ci
But fit right in with the groupe
We will miss you dearly Sam
Adrian Edge Past Region one Director

JUDY & EDDIE TRANT

February 15, 2008

Please accept our sincere condolences. Sam was always so kind to everyone and a wonderful writer. Our prayers are with you.

Yvonne Weldon

February 15, 2008

Deborah and Jessica,
I worked with Sam since April 1981 and he will be greatly missed here at International. He was a good man.

Gloria Street

February 15, 2008

Deborah, Jessica, and Family,
Words cannot express the heart-felt sympathy I have for you today. Down through the years, I have seen a spiritual growth in Sam. I believe that he was truly anchored in the Lord. This was shown through his works which was full of humility, his testimonies, and motivational songs of praise. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. May it bring comfort to you to know that others care and share in your loss. May God bless and sustain you today and the days ahead.

Joel Moody

February 15, 2008

Dear Deborah and Jessica:

I offer my deepest sympathies to both of you on Sam’s passing. I knew Sam for about 18 years dating back to my time as a Jr. Civitan in Alex City. I really got to know Sam the year that I worked for International. He was a mentor and my friend. I will always cherish the memories of attending church services, and his BBQ. He will be missed.

Glory Nelson

February 15, 2008

How wonderful it must have been to have someone who could encourage, inspire and uplift your spirit the way Sam could. Words can not express how much he'll be missed. To Sam's family and those of us who loved him as we at Southside CME, prayer will see us through.

Bob & Wendy Robinson

February 15, 2008

Wendy and I were shocked and dismayed to learn of Sam's passing. He was a wonderful friend and will be greatly missed by all who knew him. To Deborah and Jessica, our hearts go out to you and you will be constantly in our prayers

Lyth Hartz

February 15, 2008

Dear Deborah and Jessica,

I am truly saddened to hear of Sam’s passing. I served as the Governor of the Mon-Owa District in 1984 & 1985. He was a very valuable person to me in that role. I was always able to contact Sam for the help I needed. As we were close in age to each other we also had great fun together at Civitan functions. He was definitely my favorite staff member. I am so sorry for your loss and for Civitan’s loss. He will truly be missed. May your fond memories sustain you at this time. You are in my prayers.

Sallie Ephraim McMillan

February 15, 2008

To the Samuel Hughes Family, You have our sincere sympathy in the loss of your loved one.God is able to heal your wounded spirit. Just continue to trust Him. Mr. and Mrs Leon and Sallie McMillan

Shirley and Bill Stone

February 14, 2008

Deborah and Jessica, We will miss Sam tremendously. He blessed our lives and we will always remember his smile that would light up a room. We cherish the memory of Sam and Jessica meeting us in Norman for lunch before the Oklahoma / Alabama football game.

Dr. Bill Rentz

February 14, 2008

I have had the pleasure of knowing Sam for a number of years through Civitan. He was certainly one fine gentleman and my prayers are with you and Jessica. My church has already done some praying for Sam in his illness and now in your missing of him. God will be with you!

Jennifer Williams

February 14, 2008

Deborah and Jessica,
I only worked at Civitan for a few years but during that time I realized that Sam was truly one of the nicest, most sincere people I had ever met. He made me feel like a part of the team right from the start and was kind and helpful until the day I left. May God keep you and bless you during this time. You are in my prayers.

Robert & Barbara Beck

February 14, 2008

The Blessings of personal growth I gained from making Sams friendship can never be measured. My wife and I have such great memories of our interactions with Sam. Peace be with you Deborah and Jessica and We hope your hearts are Full of Great memories. Much love to you in Civitan, Past Gov 2007 Robert & Barbara Beck

Charles & Elizabeth Currie

February 14, 2008

Daer Family, please accept our deepest sympathy. Sam will be missed by many, Elly and Charlie Currie, Homestead Civitan Club

Valerie Spence

February 14, 2008

Deborah:
Please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband. I am sure after 30 years you feel your immeasurable grief. I sincerely hope that you are able to find peace in the lord and know that you will see him again in Christ.

Apostle Paula Thomas Calhoun Robinson/White

February 14, 2008

My Prayers are with you in your time of breavement. Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. May God Bless you and keep you, as you look to the hills from whence cometh your help. Grace and Peace in Jesus' Precious Name Amen

Terri Honeycutt

February 14, 2008

Sam was one of the greatest friends anyone could ever have. He helped me so much as he did all governors that worked with him. He was always so kind and caring. He will be missed terribly. My prayers are with the family.

bonnie mortrude

February 14, 2008

Sam helped me with special requests for the past 10 years of conventions, because my husband for the last 10 years, needed a little extra consideration, though not a Civitan. Sam, we will try to do this '08 convention without you, because you would have wanted us to come and enjoy. I have been having second thoughts because you won't be there, and my Jim is 86yrs now. Jim is agreeable to the event and so we will go, but, your presence will be sorely missed. We will always reminisce of our Sam, and his attentions to us, unconditionally

Chuck Blasgen

February 14, 2008

I had the privilage of knowing Sam as a trainer of the District Governors in 1986. Sam was always there helping and explaining in his own way. At the end of your conversation gave you a great big smile and great to see you handshake. Yes Sam your even missed in the Midwest.

Chuck Blasgen Past Dist. Gov. Midwest

Bob Friesner

February 14, 2008

What a wonderful man. Excellent with people. Excellent Speaker. Enthusiastic and caring. One of the most noble people I have ever met.

Roger and Nancy Leo

February 14, 2008

Deborah and Jessica,

Our condolances on your recent loss of your husband and father. Words cannot say what is going through your minds now of not seeing him today. Remember the good times. We did not go to conventions very much, but was in Detroit,and am looking forward to Canada--will try and remember him while there that he was part of this convention. God bless!

R. David Joslin

February 14, 2008

I met Sam in Orlando last fall for the first time. He had that ability to make you feel you knew him all your life. I suppose God needed him to make reservations for others coming his way. God bless the loved ones he left behind. R. DAVID JOSLIN FAYETTEVILLE, GEORGIA

R. David Joslin

February 14, 2008

I met Sam in Orlando last fall for the first time. He had that ability to make you feel you knew him all your life. I suppose God needed him to make reservations for others coming his way. God bless the loved ones he left behind. R. DAVID JOSLIN FAYETTEVILLE, GEORGIA

Carol & John Wolters

February 14, 2008

Deborah and Jessica and family, It seems unreal that Sam is gone, but he will never be forgotten. I enjoyed knowing him and teasing him since at least 1984. So glad that he had a Detroit convention in 2006 to share time with his family in Michigan. You will continue in our thoughts and prayers as you deal with his absence. God has a new helper now, probably organizing Civitans in Heaven to watch over all of us! You all will continue as part of our Civitan family.
Carol Wolters, Michigan District Governor, 1989-90

James "Bubba" and Margaret Lewis

February 14, 2008

To Deborah and Jessica, thank you for sharing Sam with us. We will always remember his smile. Our lives were enriched from knowing him. He loved God, his family, and his church. Our prayers are with you. Sam is now praising God in heaven. Be strong in the Lord, and may he comfort you now and always.

Julia Noland

February 14, 2008

To Deborah and Jessica...Sam has been part of our extended Civitan family in West Virginia for 20+ years. I grew up in the organization and can't imagine it without him. Please know that we are thinking of you.

Aud Aasland

February 14, 2008

Sam was a person I remember very well from my time on the Board.
My thougths are with all the family

Aud Aasland

February 14, 2008

Sam was a person I remember very well from my time at the Board.
My thougths are with all the family

Dale deReign

February 14, 2008

Sam was one of the kindest people I met at Civitan World HDQ. I met Sam whe I was training for Governor of the former Oklahoma-Kansas District on 2003-2004. He took us Governor-elects to his favorite bar-b-que restaurant. Sam will be missed.

Veronica Brown Brown

February 14, 2008

To Deborah & Jessica,
My family is offering condolences to both of you. Your husband and father, respectfully was a wonderful person. We feel a great sense of sadness and loss. Sam was a wonderful person. He had such a uplifting and genuine spirit.It is our prayer that Sam's faith in God and his legacy will sustain both of you during this difficult time.
Annie D. Hall, Veronica Brown, Anthony Martin & Darius Brown--Sam's Church Members at Southside C.M.E

Mona Lee

February 14, 2008

Sometimes life seems so unfair. Sam is one of a kind. Great man and will be missed by so many. My heart goes out to his loved ones. Peace be with you. Know that he will live on in so many hearts.

Bill Wall

February 14, 2008

My heart goes out to Sam's wife. She participated in my brother-in-law's wedding many years ago when Hallie and I worked at the University. Hope you take comfort in the thoughts and prayers of Sam's many Civitan family friends.

Joanie Griffin

February 14, 2008

Deborah & Jessica - my thoughts and love go out to you. Please know that Sam made a huge difference for thousands of people.

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