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Michael Martin Obituary

Michael Martin, 16, died on September 15, 2005.
Published by Charlotte Observer on Sep. 16, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for Michael Martin

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165 Entries

Lori Smith

November 30, 2013

You were a very special young man...I still think of you quite often and remember your beautiful smile...You are now with your wonderful mom and I also miss her terribly...I will see you again soon...

Jessica

November 12, 2012

I miss you Michael and think about you often! I'm happy that you and your mom get to see one another again in Heaven. RIP

Denise Whelan

May 8, 2012

The Whelan Family

Duane and Vicky Albers

October 23, 2011

Michael

We met your parent's today at church. You must be so proud of them. Taking you sudden death and turning into a positive for all those meet. Telling their family story to help everyone understand to make the4 "right decision" and to ALWAYS SAY I LOVE YOU, for we never know when it will be our last. Your parents are amazing. Many blessings. Duane and Vicky Albers/Harrisburg, NC

Kelsey Clark

September 15, 2011

Michael, I can't stop thinking of all the good memories that we had, though far too few. These past 6 yrs have flown by with the wind and it's still so hard to believe that you and Andy are not with us. I miss you so much <3

Donna Johnson

September 4, 2011

Sat, Sept 3, 2011 I was called by one of our garden associates to talk to a customer about a donation. After getting up with Michael's Mom and Dad, I was asked about donating some mums to rebuild a flower memorial at Central Cabarrus HS in memory of Michael J. The story was very heart warming and I could see the tears in Michael's fathers eyes forming as he told the story and explained what all this organization does for alot of young adults. I went with this couple around the garden center letting them pick whatever they needed to build this shrine. Home Depot donated this material with lots of love. Michael J, your parents are wonderful and I would have loved to known you and your family. It was a true honor to help replace this memorial in your honor.
Donna Johnson
Home Depot, Kannapolis 3607

Leslie Widenhouse

July 6, 2011

Michael, I was sitting here thinking about you and wishing things could have been different, we all miss you and your mother and father miss you very much, we love you and hope your happy in heaven and know that you are the angel that watches over your mother, ty,, hugss Michael and know that one day your family will be with you and hold your hand as we celebrate the reunion, God bless you Michael

Tiffany Broome

November 7, 2009

Hey Micheal!its me again!I think about you so much!I look at your pics alot!and think about all the times we had when you were small!I hold those memories close to my heart!..and the last time I saw you,at Wayne's viewing,You was all dressed up!You looked so handsome!and you rested you arm on my head and called me shorty!LOL...AND My big hug I got before I left!...I talk to you alot!I hope you hear me!I talk to Tabby and your mom alot to!And I love it!I am getting close with them again,and I'm glad!I've missed out on so much!Your mom is so strong,she is such an inspiration to us all!I truley love them all!I've seen Granny a couple of times,I danced with her to!it was great!..Micheal there is not a day that goes by that I dont think about you!Like Tabby said,you are heavy on our hearts,and we do miss you deeply,and it won't bring you back!and we all wish it would!...We miss you Micheal so much!Everytime I think about I see you smiling at me in my head!And I love that vision,I know you know that!You are all around us!...well I'm gonna go!Love you Micheal!

TABBY HELMS

September 16, 2009

THINKING OF YOU DAILY..MISS YOU DEEPLY..OUR HEAVY HEARTS WONT BRING YOU BACK...WISH IT WOULD...LOVE YOU BRO

Tiffany Broome

September 16, 2009

Micheal,I love you so much and I am sorry that I never really got a chance to get to know you,I have my memories of you when we were young and I will always cherish them!(God must have needed an angel from earth!)You will always be loved and missed!and never forgotton!? Tiffany Broome!Your cuzion!

Laura Tounget

August 23, 2009

Michael I never got the chance to meet you but I have come in contact with your sister Tabby and your mother through my space. Yours was a very touching story and it sounds as though you touch many lives. I know you are in heaven with your Lord and watching over your family....your mother needs you Michael to watch over her and help her through a rough time she is going through...be with her Michael as I know you will. Your mom and dad and Tabby have such great tributes written of you...you were so loved and even in your missing you are loved by so many people.

angel smith

August 16, 2009

I miss u soo much michael, i wish that we could have spent more time with eachother, but i have memmories of you.. and i love u very much!! -angel

your sister

August 15, 2009

I love you michael!!!

Wanda Eudy

March 9, 2009

Bonnie,Mike & family; I know that you miss mIchael everyday.But,just remember that one day you will be with him again.I know that I was not around Michael much but,when I did see him he always made me laugh.My thoughts and prayers are with you everyday.Just remember that he will always be with you.

Tiffany Broome

March 6, 2009

Micheal,i don't really know what to say,but I love you and I wish that I would have taken the time to know you as the great person that you turned out to be!I have alot of regrets!But,I have my special memeories of you when we were growing up and the last time i saw you at Waynes funeral,you were so handsome and we were laughing and talking!I will always carry you in my heart!I wish I could have had the chance to tell you face to face,I love you and miss you!Love Tiffany Broome!

bonnie martin

March 6, 2009

thank you for puting this back.michaelj it has been 3years that you have left us and i miss you more than every. ilove you so much mom

mom

April 18, 2008

michael j my baby boy we miss you so much.thing's are not the same with out you here but me and your dad are doing our best to stay strong.it is so hard to get up everyday but we do it we half to.your sister tabby has had two baby girl's halle and kalle they would love you so just like you would them because you were so good with kid's.corky tabby dylan mom dad love you miss you...........

bonnie martin

April 18, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Lindsay Martin

February 7, 2007

Michael,
I miss you so much, being your cousin. I miss the summers, laughing with you. I miss the christmasses, playing with you in the pool. I miss you more than anyone knows, and think about you all the time. I even wrote a story about you. I love you so much, and will never forget you.

TABATHA HELMS

November 15, 2006

MICHAEL, I HAVE A HARD TIME FINDING THE WORDS THAT FIT THE WAY I FEEL. I STILL CANT BELIEVE YOUR GONE. WHEN I VISIT YOUR ROOM IT MAKES IT REAL. I MISS YOU SO MUCH

garrett gibson

October 2, 2006

michael man where do i start even though i dont live there anymore i hate the thought when i am in town i cant stop to visit you give you a hug and ask how things are going and talking about past times in the neighborhood. i stopped a couple of days ago and talked to your mom and dad and they have turned your house into one big memory of you i just wanted to let you know as a close friend to you how proud of you i'am for all of the goals and achievments you set in life and not one got you down its hard to belive in the two years i have been gone from concord how much you grew up, i still remeber the little michael from when we were kids, but like i said i'am really proud of what you did in life and i know your mom and dad,freinds,family any who knew you feels the same. but while your up there put in a good word for me until then later bra.

Doug Francavilla

August 15, 2006

Michael,

I remember when you first started your ayso career because it was my first time coming back to ayso after playing club for so long. You were my only friend on that team. You were a great friend to play alongside with as well as against when we went head to head in high school matches. But, more importantly, you were a great person. One that could be trusted to lighten a mood or to give 100% every time you worked at something. There aren't many people in the world like that and its was a shame to hear that such a person was lost. Michael you will always be remembered as an ambassador of good not only by me but by every individual you touched. In Chicago your father often spoke about you and your work ethic and what he said to me made me play that much harder during the games and forced me to give it all even when there was nothing else to give. Your father also gave us some items to remember you by and honestly I look at it everyday because it sits in the passenger seat in my car. Whenever I drive somebody they always ask me, "Who is that guy" and I repeat what your father said about you and I also add in my own two cents of who you were and still are. I tell them your story hoping it will touch them and allow them to take a step back and examine their own life knowing that at any given moment it may be taken away. Michael you will always be remembered and I am happy to say that I was able to know such a person like yourself.

#6 forever and congrats on making the Varsity soccer team.

Your friend and team mate, Doug

P.S. look for me under the tree whenever I come home from college.

David Riley

August 2, 2006

Micheal, it has been an honor and a privilege play with you. You were, and still are, a great insperation to the game of soccer and how it should be played. It was difficult in Chicago to be playing with you in spirit instead of having you be there on the field with me. I will always remember #6 when i play. Your friends & family love you.

Peace! -David, #13

Russell Frey

July 30, 2006

Michael, it was a pleasure having you on my soccer team for a year. I noticed how hard of a worker you were and how hard you played. You always wanted to get better. You and your parents have taught me many life lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life. Everyone misses you down here but I know that you are in a better place.

cameron hall

July 17, 2006

I wasn't able to get to know you very well. We were on a soccer team for a fre weeks, but for the last 2months i had the prvilege of having your dad coach me.Besides teacher me many things about soccer, he showed me how strong of a love he had for you and how great of a guy you were. I only wish i was able to get to know you. I've never seen a love so strong between a father and a son, and you both are so lucky to have each other. Hopefully ill see you later in heaven and we can play some soccer up there. Later man,hope your having fun up there

Jonathan Tugman

July 16, 2006

Michael, it would have been a pleasure to physically play by your side in Chicago, but I'm glad you were there in spirit with us. Thank you.

SIS

March 28, 2006

I LOOK AT YOUR PICS DAILY AND STILL WONDER WHY.. I MISS YOU SO MUCH ..I FEEL SO LOST BUT I HAVE FAITH THAT U WILL LEAD OUR WAY ...

John Olson

December 27, 2005

you were a great guy. it was so fun getting to know you on the ayso team. i couldnt wait to play you on our high school teams. man i will remember you.

Brenda Motley Widenhouse-Polk

December 21, 2005

Michael, Oh, how I wish you were with my sister, your grandmother Lorene for Christmas, she will miss you, love you and all the family, Aunt Brenda

TABBY

December 18, 2005

TODAY WE HAD DYLANS BIRTHDAY PARTY...YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE TO HELP HIM BLOW HIS CANDLES OUT....ITS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU..WE MISS YOU SO MUCH

November 18, 2005

MISS YOU SO MUCH...

November 8, 2005

THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMING UP AND YOUR IN HEAVEN,,WHAT A CHRISTMAS YOUR FAMILY IS GOING TO HAVE. I PRAY FOR YOUR PEACE TO YOU AND YOUR LOVED ONES...YOUR ON EVERYBODYS MIND...AS THE SONG SEPTEMBER ENDS PLAYS IN YOUR MEMORY...IT COMES ON AND I THINK OF THE DAY WE LOST YOU WE WILL FIGHT THIS FOR YOU...YOUR LIFE WAS SO IMPORTANT YOU WERE SO MUCH MORE THAN A HAPPY SMILE..YOU WERE OUR LIFE,,HAPPINESS,EVERYTHING..

Ryan Sharpe

November 2, 2005

God, Michael. Where could I even start with this. It's taken me this long to realize it was real. I g uess it's hard to cope with it. My brother since I moved to Briarwood. You started off my only friend and introduced me to everyone. You set my life off on the right foot and never let me get out of line. I can remember everything now better than ever. Every campout we had in my camper or on my trampoline. When we'd all go capming together. It's so much to take in, but when I think about it, I just can't wait till we meet again. Up in heaven, we'll be together for ever. And losing you has made me realize that I've got to be good down here for you, you know? I need to see you again because if I didn't my heart would break again. I love you Michael. I miss you more than anything.

Rachel Parks

October 25, 2005

Happy Birthday Michael!!! sorry im late!!!



Still September!!

TABBY

October 24, 2005

TODAY IS YOUR BIRTHDAY AND YOU ARE REALLY MISSED..I7 YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN TODAY.IT WAS WINDY AND COLD BUT THINKING OF YOU WARMED MY HEART! I MISS YOU DEARLY

Jessica Bruce

October 20, 2005

Michael,

I didn't know you that well but from what i heard you are a great guy and im sure you are lookin down on ur friends and family and watching over everyone...and im sure they all miss you a lot i wish i knew you b/c from what i heard you were and great friend and you were there for people.

DYLAN PERRY

October 15, 2005

ILL MISS CALLING MICHAEL MY BIG BROTHER. I MISS HIM SO MUCH ..MICHAEL WOULD STAY THE NIGHT AT MY HOUSE AND WE WOULD HAVE SO MUCH FUN ILL MISS HAVING HIM AROUND..LISTEN FOR MY PRAYERS

CREAIG HELMS

October 13, 2005

MICHAEL I MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH. I THINK OF YOU OFTEN. WHEN I EAT ,WHEN I WORK ,WHEN I SLEEP.ONLY IF I KNEW HE WAS CALLING YOUR NAME, WE COULD OF SPENT MORE TIME.16TEEN YEARS HAS GONE SO FAST .MAN I CANT BELEAVE YOU'VE GONE AN PAST.BUT I AINT MAD AT YOU,GOT NOTHING BUT LOVE FOR YA!DO YOUR THING BOY. SKATE ON IN HEAVEN BRA. I'LL ALWAYS LOVE YOU. AFTER THIS WHOLE SITUATION I'VE SEEN HOW MANY LIVES YOU HAVE TOUCHED.YOU WERE A VERY SPEACIL PESON.IF ANYONE EVER DISLIKED YOU IT WAS BECAUSE THEY WERE JEALUS OF WHAT YOU WERE OR CAPABLE OF BECOMING. I PROMISE I WILL SEE YOU AGAIN. UNTIL THEN MY FRIEND, ILL KEEP YOU IN MY HEART. I LOVE YOU BABY BROTHER

CORKY

Frances Langford

October 2, 2005

Michael,

oh my god boy where do i start u were so cool,and its a shame ur not here n e more but i know u r in heaven smiling down on ur mom,tabatha,ur dad,and corky and all ur friends u were the best sk8er boi ever and i will miss u dearly

~Frances~

Tara Hajer

October 1, 2005

Michael,

i've rode the bus with you since 6th grade, and I dont know you as well as I should. But from what I do know, you were a great person! always having fun, and making people laugh. My prayers go out to the Martin family and friends. I am so sorry for your loss.

Rachel Parks

September 30, 2005

i didnt know michael very well... but i did of him since we were in elementery school together! and when i heard that he had died every single time i have ever seen him had flashed in front of my eyes!!! We all miss your smiles in the halls man!!! have fun up there!!!

till we see it again! :-D



Wake me when September ends!!

~3 hours!~



Rachel

Anna Johnstone

September 30, 2005

Michael, I still miss you so much!! Please watch over all of us! We love you!!

Ben Pruitt

September 30, 2005

I only knew Mike from passing him in the halls at Central, but my heart goes out to Mike's family and I wish that i could find the words to say, but there are none. I can only say that Mike was a great guy for the time I knew him and I am greatly saddened by the Martin family's loss.

Josh LEDBETTER

September 29, 2005

MICHAEL MAN. I MISS U EACH DAY. U ARE THE MAN AND NOBODY DOWN HERE WILL EVER FORGET U. ITS KINDA HARD W/ U NOT AROUND. BUT I KNOW UR IN HEAVEN SMILIN DOWN

TABATHA HELMS

September 29, 2005

MICHAEL I MISS YOU SO -MUCH!!!!!

Jordan Tucker

September 28, 2005

Hey Micheal,

We will never forget you down there. My mom still remembers when you were in her 2nd grade class. Hope to see you up there soon!

See you soon,

Jordan Tucker

CREAIG HELMS

September 28, 2005

I LOVE YOU MAN,SO WHERE DO I START THIS BOARD IS BROKEN,JUST LIKE MY HEART. I REMEMBER THE TIMES WE USE TO PLAY OH~ I WISH WISH WE COULD GO BSCK TO THOSE DAYS.IN THE FUTURE I CANT WAIT TO SEE WHEN YOU OPEN UP THE GATES FOR ME.WHY DID YOU GO?ITS JUST NOT RIGHT!!! ILL KEEP YOU BY MY SIDE WITH MY SUPERMAN KRYPTONITE..OUR SISTERS BIRTHDAY IS TODAY,YOU SEE~BAD THINGS DONT ALWAYS COME OUT OF SEPTEMBER..WE ALL LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH YOUR HANDS,FACE AND SMILE.......WE WISH WE COULD TOUCH YOU.WE ALL KNOW YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE. ONE DAY WE LL AGAIN SEE YOUR FACE. I WROTE THIS TO YOU,MY BABY BROTHER PLEASE WATCH OVER EVERYONE MAINLY OUR MOM I KNOW YOUR WATCHING ME FROM ABOVE..NOW I HAVE AN ANGEL BY MY SIDE.WHY CANT WE JUST REWIND THIS CYCLE ---I SURE DO MISS YOU --YOUR BROTHER CORKY

Devin McManus

September 27, 2005

I didn't know michael very well, but he was in my algebra class last year. He was a awesome person as far as im concerned. He will be missed by all the people in our school, and by all the people on these pages. May god be with you!!

Brooke McClellan

September 26, 2005

michael was in my homeroom. me him and chris would walk to second period together after hr was over. i didnt really know him...but just that fact that he's not sitting across the room from me anymore, is so surreal. and i hate to see some of my good friends so hurt, because he really touched their lives. But he's in a better place now, never hurting again. to michaels family, good friends, and soccer team i'm praying for yall. remember, if God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.

Ashley Martin

September 25, 2005

Michael,

I only met you once, But I know that you were a really great guy. You had tons of friends and you were loved greatly. Its really hard to know someone and the next minute they arnt there. I will miss you greatly and think of you often. I know that you will never see the light of day, nor hear the laughter of your friends, but all of us will live of lifes thinking of you everyday. we will all miss you, each of us knew you in differnet way but in every way we thought you, you were special to us and will forever have a place in our hearts.





Ashley

Megan Wallace

September 25, 2005

Micheal Micheal Micheal...I'm Going To Miss You Dearly! I Miss Watching You Skateboard and Ride Yer Mini Bike. You Were Always Active And Running Around The Neighborhood. We Always Hung Out Whenever I Was Younger and You Were to. But Once You Went to Middle School That Was It. :-( I'll Miss You Dearly And I knOw yer In Heaven Smiling Down :'( We All Miss You Micheal:-(.



Im Really Sorry Mr. and Mrs. Martin :'(



R.i.P MM && AJ :'(



--Megan Wallace

Scott Haines

September 24, 2005

Hey, My name is scott. I didnt really know michael very well, but i skated with him a few times at the skatepark. Michael helped me with learning how to drop in, my very first time skating. Im sure that Michael was a great kid, because he saw me falling, and out of the kindness of his heart came over and showed me the technique to it. All i can say is that I hope the martin family will be okay and I will be doin my best to keep my prayers up for ya.

LaVanna Kennedy

September 24, 2005

RIP tha best sk8er in tha world!! ima miss tha times i had chillin with michael in briar wood with tiffany, brandy, jessie, and michael.. it was so fun watchin michael out do eva one sk8ing... we love u michael and ever one at central still prays 4 u and ur family... RIP baybie!!



MISS YOU SO MUCH!!



~~with~~love~~LaVanna

Sarah Ramsey

September 23, 2005

i was out of town when i heard about michael and then i just saw his laughing face in art about 2 years ago thats the only time i ever really spent w/ him but he always had me laughing u'll be missed buddy!

Cameron Tucker

September 22, 2005

Michael, hey man. I don't really know what to say. You were such an awesome kid. You were one of the guys that did your best at soccer every day and deserved to play every minute that you did. I wish we could have skated together but it's all good, I know you'll be skating in heaven and I'll get a chance to skate with you one day hopefully, and play a game of soccer with you again. I miss you man but I know your watching over us all and I pray for you and your family everynight. Later bro.

sarah

September 22, 2005

hey uncle mike and aunt bonnie! we are so sorry for the lose of mj in our family..i'm so sorry that we couldn't have stayed longer. i would have loved to see the game!! i love you guys sooo much and we will keep you in our prayers.

Mary-Lou Tabaka-Larson-Getchell

September 22, 2005

Dear Mike and Bonnie,

At times like these we realize how

fragile life is.

It was so nice to meet Michael when

you last visited Minnesota.

My thoughts and prayers are with you

always.

TABATHA HELMS

September 22, 2005

MICHAEL MY BABY BROTHER I WILL MISS YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH,I WISH YOU COULD WAKE ME UP AND WRAP YOUR ARMS AROUND ME AND TELL ME IT WAS A BAD DREAM.I WANTED U AND YOUR FRIENDS TO KNOW HOW PROUD I AM OF YOU AND THAT IT HURTS SO BAD TO THAT YOU HAVE BEEN TAKEN FROM US..I DONT BELIEVE IT WAS YOUR TIME TO GO......YOUR LIFE WAS TAKEN FROM YOU.I WILL MISS YOU SO MUCH AND PROMISE TO TAKE CARE OF MOMA AND DAD.I HAVE TO FORFILL YOUR SHOES IN THE HOUSE NOW..BOY R THEY BIG!!!ILL MISS YOU BABY SO MUCH DYLAN IS SO BROKEN HEARTED WE ALL ARE..YOUR FRIENDS AND CENTRAL FAMILY HAVE BEEN SO SWEET THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR HELPING US THROUGH THIS IM SURE MICHAEL HAD SOMETHING TO DO WITH IT.HE LOVED HIS FAMILY.I HAVE MEMORIES-BUT SHOULD HAVE YOU ILL NEVER LET YOU DOWN..KEEP AN EYE ON ME. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS-YOUR BIG SISTER...TABBY

Caleb Odom

September 21, 2005

I talked with Michael the day of the accident. We were sitting together in 4th period doing our work in the back of the classroom. Laughin' and chillin' out. I skated with him a few times, but never knew him all that well. But i still considered him my friend. I'll never forget that day. I'd give anything to skate with Michael one more time. I feel the deepest sympathy for his parents,friends, and the rest of his family. R.I.P. September 15, 2005.



~ Wake me up when september ends.

This one's for Michael.

Justin Morgan

September 21, 2005

Hi. My name is Justin Morgan. I live in Midland NC but I didnt know Michael. I am so sorry that he died and I will pray about you and his family. He will be in a great place helping protect you. I am a strong christian and im 11 years old. I go to cc griffin and i will pray for you and michael every day at CYC! Michael, I know you see this typing. Have fun playing soccer with God and Jesus. God Bless You!

meagan c

September 21, 2005

wow its like really hard knowing that your gone ... i cant really believe that someone form my class is just gone you and i werent like the best of friends or anything but i think about you everyday you were like one of the coolest ppl to be around and thats def. something that everyone who knew you is going to miss your in a better place now ...may god be with your family love you man



RIP

Jasmine

September 21, 2005

Hi, I didn't know Micheal very well but I did know that Mrs. Howie was one of his teachers which is one of mine. She said that he was a great kid that always made her laugh, which is why most of us are asking why him? But everything happens for a reason, God decided that it was time for him to come and spend an eternity of greatness with him. My heart goes out to The Martin Family, I will keep you all in my Prayers.

Sincerely,

Jasmine Sullivan

sharon broadwell

September 21, 2005

My son played socceer with you last year. You came over to our house a few times. You were a nice young man. We never know when our journey will end and for you it was to soon. We will miss you. God will take care of you. You are in his house now. You wil be miss.

Dusti Kempf

September 20, 2005

Michael...wow...this is has been really hard for me. I dont know where to begin. I dont understand why this happens to such wonderful people. You were truly a blessing to have as a friend...and very sweet boy and so funny. We had alot of fun in class. Its so hard to have just seen you alive and healthy ...its not fair that these things happen...but i know u are in a much better place with our other loved ones...with Andy and Elliot. I will never forget you michael...and not a day will go by that i dont think of you. Everyone misses you here and we love you with all of our hearts

Love you,

Dusti

Suzy

September 20, 2005

One day, I was on my way into Harrisburg, and saw a helicopter hovering overhead, a helicopter on the ground, fire trucks, cops, people standing all around. I thought to myself, "Good God...nothing ever happens around here. The Kennel must be on fire or something."



Fast forward to the evening news, where I saw the "live from the scene" reports, and heard the name Michael Martin. A shiver went down my spine as I tried to convince myself that it could not be the Michael that lives just around the corner from me.



Fast forward again. I'm returning from a mundane trip to Walmart. I round the curve, to turn into my neighborhood, and see cars everywhere...surrounding Michael's house.



Oh my God...oh my god...no! No...NO...NO!



I've lived here for about six years. Michael, Garrett and Jason used to come and visit me. Michael was younger than the other two, and they used to pick on him, and Garrett had some stupid nick name for him, that I can't remember now.



I used to fuss at the kids for cutting through my yard on their bikes. Unlike ALL the others, Michael apologised, said he wouldn't do it again, then as far as I know, never did.



I never saw Michael be anything but a kind and gentle, yet strong spirit. The world will miss out on the man that he would have become.



My heart goes out to everyone in Michael Martin's circle of love.





One last thing...

I've been reading the posts here, about all the friends and love, and Michael being in a better place, and I'm going to say what everybody else is not saying.



Damn it!!! This is NOT fair! Why him? Why now?

Why has THIS person been jerked away from the touch of everyone he has touched? Why in this horrific way??? Just the thought of it makes me angry and frustrated.



I say these things as a person who lost their father in an eerily similar car wreck, and as a woman who has lost a child....so I know all too well what both of these things feel like. The feelings do not go away, but, in time, they do get a little less heavy on the heart.

Brittany Turner

September 20, 2005

I didn't know Micheal. I just thought that I'd tell the Martin family how sorry I am about their loss. Your in everyone's thoughts and prayers. I think Micheal's life was cut short, but he's in a better place now. May God Bless his family and friends. RIP Micheal



May God give you strangth to make it through. We're all here for you.



Love, Brittany

Marilynn Schepker

September 20, 2005

Michael, I hated to hear the sad news! Its like I lost one of my own kids. I only knew you because I drove your school bus #199. Both you and Alan were cut ups!!! Your life was cut way too short and I feel for your parents and friends who will miss you terribly! Love to all of the kids at Central. Love you all.

Bus Driver Lady, Marilynn Schepker

Kendra M.

September 19, 2005

I didn't know Michael at all. There are no words to say how I feel about the whole thing. But I just signed to show my regards to him and his family. R.I.P. Michael.

Carrie Bozard

September 19, 2005

Michael && Andy were very important people in Centrals eyes. I didnt know Andy, but from what I hear he was a GREAT guy. && im sure that he was. I knew Michael from elem. school && just from around school, you could call us more aqaintences more than anything. But its still the fact that its someone I know whos gone... Superman was his nickname..So many great memories that he's had. && all the friends that care about him is amazing. && it took this for everyone to realize how special people are in life. && that you need to tell them everyday how you feel about them && to make sure they know how much you care about them.





Central was a different place on Friday the 16th.. Quiet hallways && class rooms, lunches were very quiet && all you heard was the sobbing of all the people in these boys lives, one including me. The day that this happened started out as a good day, we got our state rings && it was declared Vikings Softball Day... the accident happened right before the parade happend, but we found out afterwards.. it was very upsetting





But i just wanted to pay my respects to the families of Michael Martin && Andy Janda. I tried to make the Visitations but I was unable to attend, which upsetted me. But most of all I send out all my love && best wishes.. And Michael && Andy... Ill see you in heaven.. But most of all... Have fun playing soccer with God.





WE love you && miss you







Rest in Peace - MM && AJ

Stacy

September 19, 2005

I didnt know Micheal. but i knew Andy and i wanted to show my deepest sympathy to Michaels family. You will always be in my prayers. Michael we know that you are in a better place.

R.I.P. Michael

Stacy

Amanda

September 19, 2005

Michael,

We grew up with each other..I've known you my whole life its kinda hard to belive its you thats gone..We are basically like family.Our familys was so close and still is to this day..I'll never forget YOU or your family I'll be thinking of you daily..Your family will be in my prayers..You may be gone but NOT forgotten..

Tiara

September 19, 2005

Michael you were such a wonderfull person, you were funny, sweet, and always trying to turn a bad situation into a good one. We love you and miss you SO much...Now we have another angel to watch over us

Kayla Barnes

September 18, 2005

You will never be forgotten and you will always be in our hearts. When we are at school I know we will miss you being there, with your loveable personality. I can't wait to see you in heaven! My prayers are with your Friends and Family. <3<3

Jessica Shook

September 18, 2005

Wow Michael,

seeing the whole school SOO upset on friday && all the tears, makes me realize how much you will be missed && Andy too. you went to Bethel && CCG with me && even though you were more of an aquantince i'll never forget this. from what everyone says you were an extreamly awesome person, that was always smiling and making people laugh. && thats a great memory to have. you will be truly missed, never forgotten , && always loved.



The Martin && Janda families are always in my prayers.





The Shook Family

Lindsay Mulligan

September 18, 2005

Michael,

I can't even believe all of this... you were my favorite little buddy in keyboarding. All me and you did was joke around about stuff. You had the greatest personality and i can remember the light shining from your face everytime you laughed. That was two years ago...It's so hard to talk about how nice you were, because it's so hard to understand why such a nice person was taken away from us like that. People say everything happens for a reason.. but it's hard to tell that to the parents of a great kid who didn't get a chance to live. I think i speak for everyone that knew you, and even those that didn't.. that we will all miss you so much. Save us a spot in heaven Mike, we love you!

Travis Scott

September 18, 2005

Michael you were cool dude.. I member laughing in class bout everything last year in english.. u could always turn something bad into something funny man. We werent that close but i knew that you were a great person & i will always remember you and i will also be praying for your family. Im sure they are as great as you. Until another day..



Trav

Chelsea Stalsby

September 18, 2005

MicHaEl..man wHere dO i bEgin..people tell me to forget the past but how can i when its the only thing that ever made me smile.-->Im at a point in my life<-where everything is coming together and {FaLLinG aPaRt} at the same time...<-- Everything has be3n sooOOoo hard dOwn hEr3 w/out u thes3 past couple of dAyz..i remember we wOuld always cUt up @ sk3wl..and dO u r3member when i told u ii cOUldnt go to th3 gam3..w3ll i told u i cOUldnt sO that i cOuld sUrpris3 yOu...w3lp babe yOu gave m3 th3 surprise....wh3n i got to the gAme there wAs mUh friend Brittney Green and Megan..and th3y were like game is canceled there was a wreck 2 are dead..and i juz thought oh kno3..i wondered and hoped that it wasnt true and that they were juz badly injured.Well when we got home we got on the computer and to my surprise sUre enuff..You were one of th3 ones n that car ...and i was juz hoping that it was a rumor that u and andy died....but as i sat there pondering on wut they were going to say a prayer crossed muh mynd "Dear Lord plz let th3m be oKay plz"...and then i read the words ..."I'm sorry but they are dead andy and michael both" that was the hardest moment in my lyfe i juz started ballin...and i couldnt control it the tear were pourin from mY eyes...then suddenly i hear sumthyn on the tv bout the wreck and i ran to turn it up...and there was the car crashed soo baddly into that tree...i was so0oo overwelmed with emotions that right then the tears were 20 tymes harder..i really didnt knoe andy that much but i was devestated that both of you guys were gone ...after that i tried callin the hospital and i talked to Michael W. 's mother and she said that kevin and mike were okay...and they were baddly injurded but that they had been blessed that their son was still alive ..i juz wish that was you...But God has his reasons and it was urs and andy's tyme to leave us...have fun up there in heaven...you guys and ur familys will b in my prayers..

ii lOv3 y3w mIcha3l mArtIn!!!

[eX's]&&[Oh's]





it's amazing how someone can come into your life && you wonder how you ever lived without them,&& moments later,that's exactly what you're forced to do...

Chelsea Stalsby

September 18, 2005

MicHaEl..man wHere dO i bEgin..people tell me to forget the past but how can i when its the only thing that ever made me smile.-->Im at a point in my life<-where everything is coming together and {FaLLinG aPaRt} at the same time...<-- Everything has be3n sooOOoo hard dOwn hEr3 w/out u thes3 past couple of dAyz..i remember we wOuld always cUt up @ sk3wl..and dO u r3member when i told u ii cOUldnt go to th3 gam3..w3ll i told u i cOUldnt sO that i cOuld sUrpris3 yOu...w3lp babe yOu gave m3 th3 surprise....wh3n i got to the gAme there wAs mUh friend Brittney Green and Megan..and th3y were like game is canceled there was a wreck 2 are dead..and i juz thought oh kno3..i wondered and hoped that it wasnt true and that they were juz badly injured.Well when we got home we got on the computer and to my surprise sUre enuff..You were one of th3 ones n that car ...and i was juz hoping that it was a rumor that u and andy died....but as i sat there pondering on wut they were going to say a prayer crossed muh mynd "Dear Lord plz let th3m be oKay plz"...and then i read the words ..."I'm sorry but they are dead andy and michael both" that was the hardest moment in my lyfe i juz started ballin...and i couldnt control it the tear were pourin from mY eyes...then suddenly i hear sumthyn on the tv bout the wreck and i ran to turn it up...and there was the car crashed soo baddly into that tree...i was so0oo overwelmed with emotions that right then the tears were 20 tymes harder..i really didnt knoe andy that much but i was devestated that both of you guys were gone ...after that i tried callin the hospital and i talked to Michael W. 's mother and she said that kevin and mike were okay...and they were baddly injurded but that they had been blessed that their son was still alive ..i juz wish that was you...But God has his reasons and it was urs and andy's tyme to leave us...have fun up there in heaven...you guys and ur familys will b in my prayers..

ii lOv3 y3w mIcha3l mArtIn!!!

[eX's]&&[Oh's]





it's amazing how someone can come into your life && you wonder how you ever lived without them,&& moments later,that's exactly what you're forced to do...

alisha ziner

September 18, 2005

I never got a chance to know Michael personally, but he was a part of the CCHS family, so he was a part of my family.



Central loves and misses you, and cannot wait to be with you again

Hannah Fairweather

September 18, 2005

I remember Mike in them middle school days. He was so funny and he always was makin somebody laugh... he will be remembered fondly and will always have CCHS's love! God Bless You, thanks for all you've shared in this lifetime... i'll see you in the next.

Debra Barringer

September 18, 2005

There are no words that I can say to make this better for Bonnie, Mike, Michaels Family and friends. Just know that Michael will be greatly missed. I can say that I am thankful I got the honor of watching Michael grow from the five year old he was when we first met him to the respected young man he became. We love you michael. Bonnie and Mike -Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Holly May

September 18, 2005

Michael aka. Big Head ;;



i really dont have anywords to say right now when im typing this . you were like soo awesome dude . when you && chase use to skateboard on the poll and you were so much better than chase you were like chases idle . then he would fall on his butt but have a make up laugh with it . it was soo much funn and too funny . && at lunch this year i sat right behind you and would always ask me and ashlee for gum ; well i have some gum now to give you if you were here && if you were you would probly be with chase right now skate boarding . well all i know is that ill see you one day . && you and andy are always in my prayers everynight & ya'lls family are too . all i know is that Friday was Hell && i never want to do that again . so i know you dont want us too cry . so im not going to anymore . im just too dry to cry . i even had to wear glasses on friday && youve never seen me with glasses . i looked pretty smart . lol . well .. have fun up in heaven and we'll be there soon . so we can all have the good times over again . =] we love && miss you tons ;; <33



<33--Holly Mayy

Phillip, Dawn, Jacob & Kristen Smith

September 18, 2005

Our family can't even begin to express to you our sincerest pain & prayers for your loss. Jacob just met Michael at the beginning of soccer during the summer, but this team is bonded so closely there were immediate strong ties. The only solace we can have is that he died going to do what he loved so much! Our family as well as many others are to be changed forever and OUR family makes a promise to you that the lessons of life... whether it be driving or to love people unrestricted... will be held close to our hearts because we Never know who tomorrow holds.

troy warber

September 18, 2005

we will all miss you and you will never be forgotten

kent hooks

September 18, 2005

i didnt know michael to well but i tlkd to him at games alot and i knew him cuz he was friends with andy i just wanted to let his family know im terribly sorry and my thoughts and prayers are with tou through your hard times and michael and andy will never be forgotten by me or anybody else

Shannon

September 17, 2005

I just moved here, and he was 1 of the first people that i met...he was in my computer class and he would always make me laugh. We just became friends and just like that he is gone! I'm deff going to miss him...friends and family are in my prayers!!!

Kathryn Johnston

September 17, 2005

Earlier I tried to find the words to write in this entry but could not. At school on Friday I stood with my fellow classmates in shock and in tears for we have lost a dear friend. Micheal was always happy and goofing off with us and I sit here now asking myself the same question as many... Why Micheal? He was a great friend and definately changed my life. I send my love and hope to all of his friends and Family. Best of wishes . It will get better soon. All my love KJ

kathryn johnston

September 17, 2005

I'll miss him so much, he made me, me. And I know he meant the world to so many others! Best of wishes to his family and friends.

jennifer driggers

September 17, 2005

I don't know what to say, michael i knew you for 6 years even though we diden't really talk as much as we should or could have but for what i knew you, you were a great guy. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of michael martin. I know your in heaven and i know you were taken from this earth to be in a better place and your not alone because andy is with you!!!!!

Amanda

September 17, 2005

Micheal you will be missed so much.I barley new you but this neighborhood wont be the same with out you..

R.I.P Micheal Martin & Andy Janda

September 17, 2005

Micheal you will be missed so much.I barley new you but this neighborhood wont be the same with out you..

R.I.P Micheal Martin & Andy Janda

Amy Corsnitz

September 17, 2005

I've lived just down the street from Michael my whole life. We went to the same schools and rode the same bus, we shared classes together, and friends. Michael was in my 3rd period this year, he was always laughing and joking round with our teacher. When I heard what happened I didn't want to believe it, because I've known Michael for so long and I just saw him that day, that I couldn't think that I'd never be able to see him again. I know Michael is in a much better place now, and he's up there having fun and laughing just like he always did. I miss you Michael!

The Martin family and friends with be in my thoughts and prayers.

RIP- Michael Martin, and Andy J.

Sharon Abercrombie

September 17, 2005

Michael...we are going to miss you terribly from our CCHS family. You gave us smiles and good times. Thank you for all you shared.

Michelle Miller

September 17, 2005

Michael, I miss you so much. I'll never forget those days at Bethel..I still remember that you always opened the door for me, even in our younger grades, you were always such the gentleman..It's never goodbye, so I'll see you again sometime.

& To the Martin Family, all of my love and prayers go out to you. Stay strong.

Justin Kimbrell

September 17, 2005

hi i am really sorry to hear about michael i may not have known him very well but it still truly devistates me to see he did not get the long life deserved and my prayers go to your family and friends and us students at central cabarrus will always remember you and andy for being great soccer players. R.I.P 9/15/2005

Amber Corsnitz

September 17, 2005

For my entire life I've lived just down the road from Micheal and his family. We've gone to all the same schools, we've road the same bus, we even played outside together when we were little. But through middle school, and high school, we grew apart. I always saw him in the halls, and we only talked on the bus. We where good friends, and we always had good times. I was shocked to hear what had happened and couldn't belive it. One of the people that I knew all my life had just vanished in a split second. I miss him dearly and will always have him, his family, his friends, and Andy in my thoughts. And I know that Micheal and Andy are both in a better place, watching us from above. We will miss them both greatly, and we will always love them.

stacy haferkorn

September 17, 2005

Ill never forget what a awsome person Micheal was. I dont think he ever said a mean thing to me. So many people are going to miss his personality his smile and just him as a person. My prayers are with his family and close friends. Its strang to know somthing that happened in a matter of 2 seconds is going to change people for a life time, and i know it changed me. Hevean is a better place now that Micheal and Andy are there. Im so sorry to their families and so sorry for not saying goodbye.

Shelby Harkey

September 17, 2005

Michael... I Didnt Know You That Well But I Do Know You Were Such A Great And Genuine Person. You And Your Family Will Always Be In My Thoughts And Prayers.

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