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Charles Grau Obituary
CJ is survived by his mother, Theresa Marie "Tee" Grau of Crystal River; his father, Charles Grau of Hernando; and his brother, Christopher Grau, who is actively deployed to Afghanistan as a member of The Army National Guard 690th MP Co. of the Crystal River Unit. CJ is also survived by sister, Jennifer, and brother, Anthony of Hialeah, Florida, and many other loving family members and dear friends.
CJ was employed by Townsend Constructors Inc. at Crystal River Nuclear Plant and was a student of CF of Lecanto. CJ was a devoted and loving son, brother and friend to many; but a stranger to none. His love of family was without exception and only surpassed by his love of nature and animals. CJ was an Eagle Scout of Troop 452 where he was able to enjoy friendship, nature and taught respect and love of his country and mankind. CJ will be greatly missed and his love will always remain an active part of our lives and will live on through each of us forever.
The family wishes to thank Twyla Garnett of Hernando, Florida, who comforted CJ at the scene of the accident and the medical staff who assisted CJ and the family during their time of distress. Also, the American Red Cross for their assistance in Christopher's return home to Florida.
With much love and appreciation to each friend, family member and acquaintance, the family requests those who wish to make memorials, please do so to Room For One More Pet Rescue of Florida, by sending a check to Room for One More Pet Rescue Inc., 10822 S. Darcy Path, Floral City, Florida 34436 or an online donation at www.roomforonemore.net in lieu of flowers and in memory of CJ's love and dedication to animals and their welfare and his love for life & nature.
On Friday, February 4, friends and loved ones are invited to join in a Celebration of Life for CJ at Heinz Funeral Home, 2507 Highway 44, Inverness, FL, from 6 to 7 p.m., with visitation with family following from 7 to 8 p.m. There will be no burial service as CJ desired cremation and having his ashes spread among God's creations. As an organ donor, CJ's beautiful blue eyes will still shine and his wish to donate his organs to help others will be realized.
After visitation ends at 8 p.m., friends and loved ones are invited to join the family at the home of Tee Grau and Jeffrey Roland, 105 SE 2nd Ave., Crystal River, Florida, for food and refreshments and sharing of CJ's fond memories. Heinz Funeral Home & Cremation.
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Memories and Condolences
for Charles Grau
Ashley Burdzilauskas
February 18, 2011
Teresa and Chris, Im so sorry to hear about CJ. He was such a great kid and had such a personality. My prayers are with you both. I wish I was there for the support. Love you guys.
February 8, 2011
Teresa Jeff and Chris and family--- The girls and I are so sorry for your loss.We enjoyed watching CJ grow up and be e fine young man.We saw him a few weeks ago at pizza place.He gave us a hug and big smile.We enjoyed him in our 4H years at the club and the fair.We will never forget him.The servive was very nice.It was nice hearing all the wonderful storys of CJ. Again we are sorry for your loss kathy Casey Chrissy Shelby
Judy Oliver
February 7, 2011
I am sorry to hear about CJ. He was a real good kid. My prayers go out to the family.
Rita Proby
February 7, 2011
Tee:
I am so sorry to hear about CJ. Many blessings to you and your family during this time. If there is anything you need, I am here for you. Love you, Rita
Steve Betsill
February 5, 2011
Charlie & Tee, so sorry to hear of your loss. May God give you peace in this time of great sorrow. "Stormrider & Honey"
Celeste and Marty Wolf
February 5, 2011
Dearest Teresa and Chris: It is with deepest sorrow that I write now and send you prayers. Prayers to constantly uplift you both in this and future times of need. Teresa call me whenever you need to... I'm here to listen, to cry, scream etc.... and most importantly for a massage as you will need it later. Remember your friends love you and want to caress you with their love and support, whatever and whenever you're ready. Love You Both! Staying strong is not an option... you'll make it.. I promise, With a saddened heart, we remain here with open comforting arms.
Victor Rivera
February 5, 2011
Charlie and Tee, what do you say to someone that has lost a son. There are no words that I can say to ease the pain. Charlie, I met you at Texas Ranger’s BBQ some years ago and I was impressed that you rode from Florida to Texas for some BBQ. Some people say that it gets better over time, but I just don’t know. CJ, Tee and Charlie (My Puerto Rican brother), you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Six Guns
February 5, 2011
Prayers from the Shirley family in WV. Having lost our 22 year old son just 4 weeks ago, I know how you feel. It is the worst thing I have ever gone through. Just take it one day at a time. It does get a little easier.
Andy Schoeler
February 5, 2011
This is so terrible. I never meet CJ but meet his father Charlie several Years ago. Tee and Charlie, my deepest sympathy for you both. You are in our thoughts.
Ray & Terry Parker
February 4, 2011
Know that our love & prayers are with you when adversity thrusts its ugly head into our placid lives and that you will always be living in the hearts of those you touched.
Patrciia Blom
February 4, 2011
To the Grau family, My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.I knew CJ through my children who worked with him at Torrelli's in Beverly Hills. Whenever he was at my house he was a very respectful young man, he was always quick to smile and spread laughter. He will be missed.
Dawn Szwedziak
February 4, 2011
I am so very sorry about the loss of CJ. I didn't know him very well, but well enough to know he was such a sweet young man. Our deepest sympathy's go out to you.
Dawn & Lexi Nelson
Mark Baker
February 4, 2011
We are so soory to hear this about CJ ...may god give you strenght to get through this...we will be praying for your family...Mark & Charlyne Baker...hotglue & Flamingobabe
Lori Holmes
February 4, 2011
Tee, I am so very sorry for your loss! I cannot even begin to imagine what you are feeling at this time. Please know that you and the rest of your family are in my thoughts and my prayers! I do miss your smiling face and hearing you laugh! It has been quite some time! Please take care of yourself and take comfort in knowing that the Lord is with you and you have many, many friends praying for you and your family.
Lori Holmes (motomama)
February 4, 2011
To the Grau family
To say we were shocked when we learned of CJ is an understatement. We liked CJ so much and recall that evening around the camp fire when he received his eagle scout badge. Whenever we would see him he would always greet us with a big hug. It is with the warmest of thoughts that we send our condolences in remembrance of such a fine young man. We are sorry we are not going to be in town for his service. You will be in our thoughts.and prayers.
Love and prayers,
Gordon & Jo-Ann Condit
Billie Losciale
February 3, 2011
Tee, I was so sorry to hear of your loss, and just could not believe it.....our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Arlene Cabana
February 3, 2011
Mrs Grau we are deeply sorry for your loss. We had the pleasure to know your sons while they were in our 4H Club Ropin the Wind and then Lecanto Outlaws. We had such good times during and after our meetings at the canning plant. We had a wonderful group of young people and have many good memories of the fun we had together. We will keep you and your family in our prayers. Dave, Arlene and Kristie Cabana
Jake Allan
February 3, 2011
Hey ms Grau i miss cj my mom just told me today man can't believe it seems like just yesterday me him and chris were off gettin into trouble and having fun sorry for your loss ill make sure to stop by when i come home
Dave Miller
February 3, 2011
Tee, my heart goes out to you. I know your loss cannot be understood except by you. I can still see him standing in my classroom with his hands in his pockets and abig smile.God be with you.
February 3, 2011
Tee we are so sorry you must endure this loss. Kailin and CJ were such good friends. Kailin will forever miss his friend. Rick and I have always enjoyed having CJ in our lives. We will truly always be here for you in whatever you may need and CJ forever in our hearts.
Rick, Julie & Kailin
February 3, 2011
Teresa we are so sorry you have to endure this loss. Kailin and CJ were such good friends. Kailin will forever miss his friend. Rick and I have always enjoyed having CJ as a part of our lives. Please know that we will truly always be here for you in whatever you need and CJ will always be in our hearts.
Sharon & Slick Concidine
February 3, 2011
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers. I know that this is a difficult time, we've been there when we lost our Laura in 2001. God Bless you all !!!!!
Maria Weiser
February 3, 2011
Dear Ms. Grau,
I didn't know your son, but I want to thank you for honoring his wishes to be an organ donor in your time of unimaginable grief. He truly does honor to himself and your family. He lives on in others because of the gift you chose to make. May you find peace in his memory.
Bonnie Bergeron
February 3, 2011
Tee, I am so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Bonnie Bergeron
Teresa Vickers
February 3, 2011
Tee:
My heart goes out to you and you are constantly in my prayers. Please know I'm here for you if you need anything.
Teresa
Stephanie Grau
February 3, 2011
Speechless, I will be there and i love you guys... Stay strong And keep your head up... Love you Aunt Tee And Chris... See you soon!! RIP CJ I love you and you will never be forgotton!! Your Cus Muffy!!
Greg, Jen and Brody Boice
February 3, 2011
Sorry for your loss. CJ will be missed by all. We really enjoyed spending time with CJ. He was a great person and always a joy to be around.
Lucy Avila
February 3, 2011
Hi Teresa, sorry for your loss. Vic and Lucy want you to know that if you need any please feel free to give us a call.
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