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Ashley Miller Obituary
Ashley was a 1996 graduate of Memorial High School in Evansville, where she played varsity soccer. In 1999, she graduated from Indiana University in Bloomington, Ind., with a degree in child development. Ashley was an advocate of the Montessori Method of education. She was an avid fan of the Indianapolis Colts and Indiana University basketball.
Ashley leaves behind her precious and special daughter, Layla Jane Fogleman, age 6 1/2, and Layla's father, Timothy Bryan Fogleman, who was Ashley's best friend.
In addition, Ashley is also survived by her loving mother, Candy Miller, who was Ashley's closest confidante, and by her father, David V. Miller, both of Newburgh, Layla's paternal grandmother, Barbara Fogleman of Noblesville, Indiana, and by her brothers, Eric D. Miller and his wife, Sara, of Evansville, Dr. Brant Sanders of Evansville, Andrew F. Miller and his wife, Gretchen, of Noblesville, Indiana, Layne V. Miller of Newburgh, and by her sister, Sage D. Miller of Newburgh. Also surviving are Ashley's grandfather, Vincent A. Miller of St. Joseph, Michigan, and Ashley's great-aunt, Josephine Oertwig of Evansville. Surviving aunts and uncles include, Cathy and Michael Thieneman, Joseph and Linda Miller, and Mark and Leslie Miller, all of St. Joseph, Michigan, and Susan and Bill Warran of Horn Lake, Mississippi, as well as nieces and nephews, Will, Griffin and Blake Sanders, Mia and Mason Miller, and Jack, Emme and Cooper Miller. Ashley had friends throughout the United States.
At the time of her death, Ashley was engaged to be married to Michael Bashaw of Fountain Hills, Arizona.
Ashley's life and primary love was centered upon her daughter, Layla, who carries forward Ashley's beautiful freedom of spirit, exuberance for life and Ashley's unconditional love for her family and friends.
There will be a Memorial Mass at 10 a.m. on Wednesday, December 5, at St. Anthony Catholic Church, 704 First Avenue, officiated by Father Ted Tempel. A memorial visitation for Ashley will be held today, December 4, at Alexander East Chapel from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. and on Wednesday at St. Anthony Catholic Church from 9 a.m. until service time. There will be no burial service.
A memorial fund dedicated to Ashley's memory into which contributions may be made for the benefit of Layla Jane Fogleman has been established at Old National Bank, Evansville, Indiana. Condolences may be made online at www.mem.com. Arrangements by Alexander East Chapel, 2115 Lincoln Avenue.
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Michael
August 3, 2025
Happy heavenly birthday Donadagohvi
Michael
November 29, 2024
Donadagohvi, Michael
Michael
August 3, 2024
Michael
Michael
November 29, 2023
"The essence of what you had and who you loved will have already transformed you and forever stay with you."
Layla
August 3, 2023
Missing you extra
Janine Hayhurst
November 29, 2022
Remembering Ashley and her family today. Blessings to you all.
Michael
November 27, 2022
Who you love forever stays with you.
Michael
November 29, 2021
Who you love forever stays with you.
Michael
August 3, 2021
Rebecca Jones
January 11, 2021
Thinking of Ashley today XOXO
❤ Michael
November 29, 2020
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November 29, 2019
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November 29, 2018
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Rebecca Jones
July 5, 2018
Ashley was one of my college roommates. We fell out of touch after school but today upon searching for her online in hopes to reconnect, I found this. I am stunned and just as sad as if we had kept in touch for all these years. To her family, especially her daughter, I am so sorry. How unfair. She was a bright light. One that shone with grace and class. I know that her family was so important to her and that her daughter must have been so loved. I'll always look back on our years at IU together and think of the laughs, the silliness we girls displayed, and of her little red Dodge Neon. She probably shared it more than her parents would have preferred but it's a good thing she did. None of us would have made it to the classes we DID go to without that thing. I'll remember how she taught me about the importance of a good lip color, how to love my red hair, and all about Pier 1 furniture. I'm sad that we no longer get to experience her here on earth. She was a sight for sore eyes and a breath of fresh air for the lost. I hope that her friends and family have found ways to move on in a positive way and can honor her by showing others the grace she' showed us. When it's my time, she'll be one of the ones I'll look forward to seeing on Heaven, where with Faith, that time, it'll be forever. RIP my beautiful red-headed friend.
November 29, 2017
❤ Michael
Stephanie Blundell
January 9, 2013
God Bless you, Layla. I will always remember you and your sweet smile. I think of you, and I hope you remeber me. No words can take away your pain, but I know your Mom is proud of you and watching over you. I am sorry for your loss and pain, that still remains. I am sure you are a stunning and smart young lady now. Take good care of yourself. Love always,
Stephanie Blundell "Stephi"
Janine Hayhurst
November 29, 2012
Remembering Ashley and thinking of the loving family she left behind five years ago. I hope that time has smoothed some of the sharp edges of your loss.
September 27, 2012
I am Layla's 6th grade teacher. The students are doing a writing piece about something in their lives that has caused a change. Layla has chosen to write about you, Ashley. Layla pulled up this website to gather information for her writing. I noticed this guestbook and wanted to share what an amazing young lady Layla is becoming. I am so lucky to have her in my class this year- you should be very proud. -Aimee Hamilton
My mom and dad (Ashley and Tim)
layla
November 12, 2011
My mom and I
Layla
November 12, 2011
layla
November 12, 2011
Thinkin of the day, when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break I'll be missin you...I know you're still livin your life after death...AJM...? everyday that passes is a day that I get closer to seein you again...we miss you with every step I take and every move I make... Mom I miss you everyday and I can't wait to see you again but for now all I know is that you are always with me visible or not ?
you are always in my thoughts
abigail bashaw
November 1, 2011
layla
October 7, 2011
Hi mom
Layla
August 30, 2011
Mollie thank you i miss you so much you should come and vist me sometime and my mom would be so happy that we are staying in contact and thank you for entering in the guest book.
Mollie Lohmann
August 23, 2011
I am so sorry for you.
layla fogleman
February 10, 2011
Mom i will always miss you1
layla
February 10, 2011
I loved my mom and i wish she was still alive
Curtis Blue Jermonti
January 18, 2010
Ashley was my muse. I was priviledged to have Ashley as my client. I was Ashley's hair stylist and when Ashley came into the salon she had the attention of any room she walked into. I was always proud to have Ashley in my chair because I would have a small audience watching me twirl or beautiful red hair in the air and magicly bouncing into place. She modeled for me for a national hair styling contest and it was Ashley's picture that was the winner of the competition. Her photo had recieved attention from all over the world! Truly there are critics as far as Japan praising her! I miss you Ashley and you will always be my number one muse! I dont mean to disrepect by listing my website but unfortuatly my iPhone won't allow me to add photo's. You can tag her photos if you would like. www.curtisblue.com
Mary Wheeler
October 10, 2008
I am from Evansville, In., and I have not been able to forget this incident or the outpouring of love for Ashley. I have thought of Mr. Bashaw since this was published and just wondered how he is doing. I check the guest book occaisionly and if there any new additions and obviously there are several. My mother also new Ashley's great aunt, Mrs. Oertwig. Please, if possible, forward this to Mr. Bashaw and tell him that I still think of his loss and wonder how he is doing. And if he wishes to contact me that would be fine. No need to publish this. Thank you so much. Mary Wheeler
Elaine Fenimore
September 24, 2008
Michael,
The bravest thing a man can do is love a woman. Your words to Ashley are truly beautiful, and I know she hears them.
She has found peace in heaven, and I pray you find your peace, here on earth.
Elaine
Michael Bashaw
March 11, 2008
My Dear Lady Ashley
The wild flowers floating in the purity of water are for you. You tell me the events and circumstances of life are not undirected, nor with out purpose. That we are where we were meant to be, as we were 500 years ago, as we will be 500 years from now.
I believe in our love…. forever hereafter, for eternity I am yours as you are mine. Michael
Judy & Michael Simmonds
December 17, 2007
Anyone who met Ashley was immediately drawn to her not only because of her stunning beauty, but because of her kind, gentle soul. Even though brief, our friendship created an ever lasting memory of her and the fun times that we shared. We will miss her smile and laughter. Her memory is a reminder to us all to keep loved ones always in our heart and prayers. Give them a warm hug when you see them, because a treasure of the heart is one that only you can give. Love always...
Trent Warren
December 15, 2007
My condolences to Ashley's friends and family.
Lisa Bambauer
December 15, 2007
How could someone so vibrant, gentle and maternal be taken away? I worked with Ashley briefly at Rainbow Montessori in Scottsdale. She had infinite patience with children and had such a light. I remember thinking "She is such a great mom". Her daughter, family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Bambauer
Brenda Milton
December 11, 2007
Dear Layla,
You don't know me -- I'm a long-time friend of your Grandma Barbara & your Daddy. I didn't know your Mommy, but I have heard wonderful things about her & how much she loved you. I know you will miss her "like crazy" but just know she rests with God & He has a special place for her. Be strong for her, as she will always be with you in your heart & watching over you. You have a wonderful Daddy and grandparents who love you so very much.
Lotsa hugs, Brenda
Katie Skvara
December 11, 2007
I just found out about Ashley's passing. My prayers go out to her daughter and family during this difficult time.
Booker & Betty Fellows
December 10, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Hank and Maria Wodynski
December 10, 2007
Maria and I were introduced to Ashley a little over two years ago. Over that time we became friends with her and Layla, a charming young lady. The night of her tragedy we talked for almost two hours. We learned more about her goals in life and her desire to be an attorney. Seemed anxious to finish school and was already looking to interview.
We wish our thoughts could be collected to express our sympathy in a way that has not already been done. The words that come to mind would be; too yong, too beautiful, too nice, and too much to live for.
Our sincere condolences go to Ashley's Layla, her family and everyone that loved dearly.
Michael Breton
December 10, 2007
I'd like to say a few words of tribute to this special woman, an attempt from me and on behalf of others who may find it too difficult for words…..
Ashley’s death has stunned, bewildered and tormented those close to her. It’s not enough to say that she will be missed terribly. An adoring partner, mother, daughter, and friend…those of us who knew her are the luckier for it. I know we wish so much for it all to be otherwise, but sooner or later we need to come to terms with this loss and afford her the great measure of dignity she deserves. And while Ashley gave much to us all, I hope we can take comfort in knowing and remembering the happiness our various friendships and relationships gave to her.
Some things are just too difficult to accept all at once and we will do our best to manage our acceptance of the grief and loss we feel. And so Ashley, your friends and loved ones sadly bid you farewell. In the long days now before us, it may help to remember the times we had already shared with you, the things we experienced with you and enjoyed, and to be eternally grateful for that.
Sleep well, Ashley. Your spirit will live on through each and every one of us.
Claudia (Wallace) Sweeney
December 10, 2007
Ashley was a good friend of mine during my time at Memorial and I think of her often. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Joel and Charlotte Morehead
December 10, 2007
Although we were unable to attend the memorial service we want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lauren Tokasey
December 9, 2007
To the Miller family,
I express my condolences to all of you. "The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places." -Ernest Hemingway. Death is always a hard thing to face, but if your family is anything like Ashley, I am sure you will find the strength to accept and always cherish her memory. I knew her vaguely, from her frequent visits to the Water’s Edge, but every time I saw her she had a external glow that radiated from the inside of her which is so rare to see in people during this day and age. Her presence put a smile on most every face in the restaurant and especially on Michael’s.
I wish I had a chance to get to know her better because of what a wonderful person she clearly was, and is through memories. And incase none of the other Water’s Edge staff members find this, I will tell you all that we miss seeing her very much. She is loved by all of us.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers hoping you all find the strength to persevere through this difficult time.
Amy Cunningham (Cannon)
December 9, 2007
I am truly sorry for your loss. Ashely was a beautiful person inside and out and will be missed by all of those who knew her. I will be praying for the entire Miller family during this difficult time.
Janet Wheeler
December 8, 2007
I close my eyes and I see Ashley in my minds eye. So many memories of her as the caring and loving mother of Layla; her lyrical laughter, her beautiful hair shimmering in the afternoon sun as she leans over to swoop up Layla to give her an embrace and greet her at the end of the school day. It would falls across her shoulders and face. The scent of shampoo, strawberries or something fruity and fresh, I can’t put my finger on it, but lovely to smell and admire.
The last time I saw her at Tim’s restaurant with Layla; sharing her wonderful stories and pictures about Michael’s daughter wedding and the trip to Mexico, laughing at her remembering to have Layla bring back sand for my playground’s sandbox and, of course, delighting at her remembering my love of her cooking and accepting her generosity of her wonderful pumpkin bread. She shared so much of herself.
Ashley might be gone, but her essence is not gone. So much of what I see in Layla is her mother. Although it might seen short, only 6 short years as a mother, Ashley had still none the less, left a wonderful mark, and her spirit will live on in her daughter. Layla has Ashley’s spirit, confidence, friendliness and kindness; the love of animals, princesses, yoga, shopping, and reading to name a few. Layla’s smart mind and quick wit, all these are Ashley’s gift to Layla. These things will live on in Layla and some day she, too, will be a regal beauty just as her mother was.
Words can’t not express enough of the sadness that I have been feeling this past week for this terrible lose of life. My condolences seem like shallow words that can’t hold a candle to the light that was this wonderful women’s life. Humbly, I offer them to all that love and cared for Ashley.
Kara Jobes Garrett
December 7, 2007
I remember playing dress up and dancing with Ashley. We had so much fun growing up. She always had such and incredible family. I am so sorry for your loss. You all are in my prayers.
Lorie Wilkinson
December 7, 2007
Ashley was never short of lovely each and every time I saw her. She carried herself with grace and beauty. She will be missed by so many and remembered always.
The Kirkpatrick Family
December 6, 2007
We share your sorrow as you remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Donna Juliano
December 6, 2007
May your memories bring you comfort and may God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
John, Donna, Kodi and Ryan Juliano (Fountain Hills, Arizona)
Roya Bayat-Makoui
December 6, 2007
Ashley will always be among us, I will not refer to her in past tense!
I will always see her as present as the day we decorated our children's graduation party.
With love,
Roya & Arian Bayat-Makoui
Joey Abston
December 6, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Katie (Howard) Manuel
December 6, 2007
Layla, family and friends - my heart goes out to you. My memories of Ashley are surrounded by soccer and the halls of Memorial. It's been over ten years, yet I recall her smile and laugh so clearly. God's peace be with you.
Nancy Crouch O'Bannon
December 5, 2007
To Candy,
I didn't know your daughter, but she sounds like a fascinating person, and she was beautiful. I am very sorry for your loss. And I pray God's comfort for you.
Love, your cousin, Nancy Crouch O'Bannon
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Matt Kuester
December 5, 2007
My deepest sympathies go out to Ashley's family. Ashley will be remembered as a wonderful person.
Ryan Patrick Brown
December 5, 2007
When we laughed together in the afternoons- for a moment- life was simple. Twelve years have passed since, and those memories are as fresh as yesterday. Thank you for Ashley. God bless her friends and family that they might keep their memories as fresh as the day they were made.
Nicole Zenhausern
December 5, 2007
To Michael and family and Ashley's family, our prayers are with you in this difficult time. May God protect Layla and comfort her of the lost of her beautiful mother.Life is too fragile.
Julie (Muensterman) Eubanks
December 5, 2007
Ashley was a bright light in my life. A free spirit. A best friend. She will live in my heart and memories forever. My love goes out to her family and friends and especially Layla.
Barbara VanMarter
December 5, 2007
To Michael, Layla and Ashleys Family, My deepest Sympathy for the loss of such a beautiful woman,I know your hearts are aching. I will hold you all in my Prayers.May you find Peace in all the wonderful memories you shared with Ashley............
DAN KAUFFMAN
December 5, 2007
TOMORROW IS NOT PROMISED TO ANYONE,YOUNG OR OLD ALIKE AND TODAY MAY BE THE LAST CHANCE YOU GET TO HOLD YOUR LOVED ONE TIGHT.SO HOLD YOUR LOVED ONES CLOSE TODAY,AND WHISPER IN THEIR EAR,TELL THEM HOW MUCH YOU LOVE THEM AND THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS HOLD THEM DEAR.TAKE THE TIME TO SAY "FORGIVE ME,""THANK YOU," OR "ITS OKAY."AND IF TOMORROW NEVER COMES,YOU WILL HAVE NO REGRETS ABOUT TODAY.
The Akers Family
December 5, 2007
Our hearts go out to Michael and to all of Ashley's friends and family. She was a beautiful, graceful woman, and will be greatly missed. The last conversation I had with her was about her love of the law and the joy she received from helping others. Love and prayers, the Akers
Holly Anderson
December 5, 2007
To David, Candy, Eric and Brant,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Holly Anderson (Stahl)
Sarah (Elliott) Martino
December 5, 2007
Ashley was a great friend of mine in High School and I am so sad to hear about her passing. She was a wonderful person and will be missed very much. My thoughts and prayers go out to her daughter and family.
Sari Roth-Roemer
December 5, 2007
For Michael and his family and Ashely's family,
My heart goes out to you at this difficult time. It is beuatiful to see the outpouring of love contained in this guest book. May you find some comfort from this caring. You are in my thoughts and prayers,
Jon and Teri Bernhard
December 4, 2007
Our prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. May her memories fill your heart and make you smile.
The Koss Family - Phil, Jacqueline, Phillips, Gabrielle
December 4, 2007
We were all blessed to share in Ashley's life.
To Ashley whom we now remember, may peace and bliss be granted in life eternal. May she find grace and mercy before the Lord of heaven and earth. May her soul rejoice in the indescribable good, which God has laid up for those who fear Him, and may her memory be a blessing unto those who treasure it.
Amen.
Jeff & Julie Purdue & Family
December 4, 2007
Our deepest sympathies to Ashley's family and friends.
Bob and Cynthia Smith
December 4, 2007
David and Candy, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We know that God will hold you and your family in his hands and we pray that you can find some comfort there.
Andrea Boyle
December 4, 2007
Ashley was an amazing person and will be missed by many. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Gina, Jon, McKenzie and Ethan Prunty
December 4, 2007
I am so saddened. I was just getting to know you this past year. Your family, especially Layla, a good friend of my daughter McKenzie's, is in our prayers and thoughts everyday. You will be missed.
Stuart Millner
December 4, 2007
To our dear friends David and Candy, please accept our condolences for such an unfortunate thing to happen. Bren would do anything to be with you and help in anyway possible.
George & Cindy Kasnoff
December 4, 2007
We feel very fortunate to have had Ashley in our lives. We have so many wonderful memories of times together that we will carry in our hearts forever. We loved Ashley very much. The loss is incredible and our thoughts are with Layla, Ashley's parents and family, Michael and his family and all of Ashey's friends. Layla, this is a message just to you...George and I are so happy we got to know the beautiful little girl you are. We loved it when you came over to watch American Idol each week. We will always think of you and can't wait to see your smiling face again very soon and give you a big hug. Remember how much we loved your mommy and know that we are so lucky we met her and you and became your friends. As you grow up you will meet very special people in your life who will make you happy and you will be very thankful that they touched your life. We feel that way about your mommy. She was very special to us and she made us happy every time we were near her. To Ashley’s family, we know how much Ashley loved you all. She talked about you often and knew she was loved. Our hearts ache for you. To Michael, we are here for you.
Jim Lascio & Ria Robles
December 4, 2007
We are so sorry to hear about Ashley. She was a beautiful woman, and so smart and loving. We will miss her warm smile and caring heart. We are so thankful we were able to know her, and send our thoughts and prayers to her daughter, Michael, and the rest of her family. Fountain Hills will miss her dearly.
Julie and Charles Folch
December 4, 2007
Dear Family of Ashley and Michael: what a sad day when we heard of Ashley's passing. It was on a rare, all-day rain in Fountain Hills and it was like tears from Heaven that would not be stopped. May all those who loved Ashley rejoice in her life. May God continue to keep watch over her precious daughter, Layla and hold her in His comforting arms.
Kristina (Kolle) Albrecht
December 4, 2007
Ashley and I had gone to high school together but have lost touch over the years. My deepest sympathy and prayers durring this difficult time goes out to her family.
Jerry, Leesa & Hanna Williams
December 4, 2007
The few times we were privileged to talk with Ashley, we could tell she had a kind heart and a warm spirit. Our hearts grieve for our friends, The Millers & family. No words can really be the right ones, we just want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of despair.
John Hickey
December 4, 2007
Our heart goes out to everyone Ashley has touched. Ashley is an incredible person inside and out. We will miss her and the opportuinity to get to know her even more.
Erika Taylor
December 4, 2007
We would like to send our prayers and sympathy to the entire Miller family.
Matt and Erika Taylor
Wesley Burns
December 4, 2007
Ashley was one of the best friend's I ever had. She made a difference in my life at an important time. I just wanted to thank you her family for making her wonderful for all of us who got to experience her.
December 4, 2007
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