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Thomas S. Alba PHOENICIA - Thomas S. Alba, 19 of Lane Street died Tuesday Feb. 22, 2011 at his residence. He was born July 14, 1991, the son of Nicholas and Gael Venables Alba. A 2009 Onteora High School graduate, he was an avid snow boarder and skate boarder. He had a great sense of humor, was gregarious, and very loving. He had a keen sense of fashion style, and was popular among his friends. Surviving are his parents, brother Nick, cousins, aunts and uncles. A service to celebrate the life of Thomas will be held on Saturday at 12 noon at the E. B. Gormley Funeral Home, Main St., Phoenicia. Friends will be received on Thursday from 7 to 9 p.m. and Friday from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. To light a memorial candle or leave a message for Tom's family, please visit www.gormleyfuneralhom e.com.

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Published by Daily Freeman from Feb. 23 to Feb. 24, 2011.

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Deirdre Venables

April 6, 2011

Hey Thomas,
Stay close.
Love you,
Aunt Deda

Sebastian Myers

March 26, 2011

Tom.
ur still with me my man. Some of the best times of my life were spent with you. i know we will meet again n i cant wait. i wish we had more time together but im happy for the time we spent. you will remain in my prayrs forever. cant wait to see u. Love u tommy pockits. rip

Brian Zaprowski

March 24, 2011

Tom you were the best roomate anyone could ever ask for. I enjoyed every minute that we spent together and will never forget all the things you tought me and did for me. We had some really good times at OCC that will never be forgotten me and Brandon Young talk about you all the time. Love you man RIP Buddy!

Our Memories, Ever So Precious Of You Thomas, Will Live On In All Our Hearts Forever. Godspeed With You Always And Soar To New Heights With The Angels

Robert Alba

March 17, 2011

Thomas, Robert & Nicholas Captured By Grandpa One Winter Day At "Boomers"

Robert Alba

March 17, 2011

Soaring To New Heights On The Rock Wall Climb

Robert Alba

March 17, 2011

Father & Son On A Highway Of Fun

Robert Alba

March 17, 2011

One Day Of Fun In The Sun (Boca Raton, Fl.)

Robert Alba

March 17, 2011

Lisa Parkinson

March 12, 2011

To Gael and Family,
I just heard about this terrible tragedy, so very sorry to hear of your loss. There are not enough words that can convey my sympathy. You are in my thoughts and Prayers.

dakota lane

March 12, 2011

dearest nick and gael and family, my heart is truly with you and so are y prayers daily. if you ever want to talk or if i can offer anything at all please call me 845 688 5211. with all my sincere love, dakota

One Very Special & Memorable Christmas Holiday

Robert Alba

March 4, 2011

Thomas & Nicholas clowning around in the pool.

Robert Alba

March 4, 2011

Thomas, Nicholas, & Robert frolicking in the pool.

Robert Alba

March 4, 2011

Thomas & Nick On Florida Vacation From A Winter Once Upon A Time.

Robert Alba

March 4, 2011

deborah aliotta

March 3, 2011

dear nick gael and alba family our prayers are with you at this time of unbearable lost deborah aliotta and antoinette aliotta

nancy hudler

February 27, 2011

To Gael & Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of great loss. We remember the days of elementary school and the fun times the boys had spending time together and our friendship. Nancy, Glenn, Danielle & Jeremy Hudler

Stevenson Jean-Charles

February 27, 2011

love you and miss you brother

February 26, 2011

Words fail to express the sorry we feel for Gael's, yours, and Nick's pain over this unbearable loss.
Sylvia Leonard Wolf and Leonard Levitan

Anthony& Linda Aliotta

February 26, 2011

Dear Nick ,Gael and the Alba family,Our Sincere heartfelt sorrow for your tragic loss. You are in our hearts and our prayers.....

Kaylin Tierney

February 26, 2011

Thomas, I will never forget study hall. I found myself looking forward to study hall and gym every time we had it just because you made it so much fun. That's where our friendship started and built throughout the school year. Then we would hang out outside of school and you were just always so full of life and made everything fun. There was never a dull moment with you. I still can't believe this, I find myself thinking about it all the time and I just can't get it or you out of my head. I don't understand why this had to happen to you, it's just not fair. Seeing you when you would come home from college was always so exciting. Not being able to call you Thomas or hear you call me Kiki will be so hard. You will never be forgotten Tom, we all miss and love you so much.

Jung Peter

February 26, 2011

Our hearts go out to you Nick and your entire family. We are here for you Nick. We wish we had words to make the pain go away.
Rest in peace Thomas......

Mariah Lopez

February 26, 2011

Tom, Never someone so young, yet so loved by anyone who had the pleasure of sharing a conversation with. You have always been a great friend. Your legacy is here to stay. We love you. Rest peacefully. Gael, we know my father is taking care him up there.

hayley sherman

February 25, 2011

heyy tom...u will be missed. ive known u since the fifth grade and started hangin out a few years ago. we really had some good times tht i definatky will not forget :) i hope you do well up there. miss u already<3

Steven Dawson

February 25, 2011

Dear Gael and Family,

I've been out of town all week and just read the news. Leslie and I are beside ourselves as we imagine your loss. Please accept our most sincere condolences.

lelia feehan

February 25, 2011

I was a mother's helper/babysitter for Nick and Thomas when they were little. They were the most gorgeous children. I fell in love with both of them as well as Gael. Thomas had the most infectious laugh/giggle which would make me start laughing. When I heard of his passing my heart sank for his whole family...especially for Gael who is the best mother I know xoxo

Cody Haaland

February 25, 2011

Tom, You will forever be one of my closest friends. I miss you and will never forget anything about you. I must admit it is going to be tough not hearing that laugh of yours anymore, but I know that you are somewhere better now. My thoughts and prayers go out to Tom's family, be strong. RIP Tom you have effected hundreds of lives with your guaranteed good time attitude and loving heart. Miss you my friend.

Robert Alba

February 25, 2011

How dearly my nephew Thomas will be missed, and so sad that he was unable to attend my nephew Bill's wedding last July of 2010 when I expected to see him then after receiving my invitation to join their family wedding in Pa. My last time with Thomas was at the funeral services of my Father back in 2008, who now with my Mother, has greeted their precious Grandson at the "Gates Of Heaven." I'm certain they and all the Angels gathering in Heaven have opened their Hearts of Eternal Love to comfort Thomas from his unexpected loss of his family here on Earth, while guided into the Heavenly Sphere of Eternal Life that shines among all of our deceased loved ones that will be waiting for us all to rejoin them once again as the family we are all part of,.. in this world and into the next that God has promised us. My prayers & thoughts go out to our entire family, especially the immediate family members of Nick, Gael, and Nick Jr. who have been touched most severely by the sudden impact and unexpected loss of their youngest son & brother. My sadden heart extends to all of you so deeply, and my daily prayers confide in God to bless Thomas in his newborn home of Heaven among our family's loved ones who now welcome Thomas with their unconditional, eternal love and peace. Although his life was cut so short, our loving memories of Thomas will go on forever to be remembered by all of us. Amen.

Rob Wagner

February 25, 2011

Tom was a great man. He was one of my best friends. I have never met anyone so cheery and that could make anyone laugh at any time. Some of my fondest memories are of Tom. He was one of the most honest and caring members of our community. Let him remain fondly in our thoughts forever. To his family I cant imagine the heartache you feel, but know that he was one of finest people I have ever met.

Rebecca Schackne

February 25, 2011

Tom I only new you for a year, but within that year you became one of my best friends and one of my favoret people, you have a huge hurt Tom and I will never forget that about you, I love and will miss you so much rest in peace Tom

Rich Migliaccio

February 25, 2011

Dear Nick, Gael and family. Words can not express the sorrow I feel for your loss. The only solace that I can find is that he is with his grandparents. With love..

Gaby Assis

February 25, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to Tom's family and friends. He was a great guy, someone who made everyone laugh and someone i felt confortable talking to about anything. He's just one of those people who everybody loves. I already miss you Tom .You are never going to be forgoten <3

February 25, 2011

Our thoughts are with you through this difficult time..
Mary Ellen and Rick Schneider(phoenicia)

Kelsie

February 25, 2011

My thoughts and prayer go out to Thomas' family. He always had the school laughing. You will never be forgotten.

Jen Dragon

February 25, 2011

We are broken-hearted for you and your family... No one should have to suffer the loss of a child ever..please know you are in our hearts- Ric,Jen and Joey Dragon

Kayla Wolfrom

February 25, 2011

My heart goes out to all of Tom's family and friends. My one wish is that he could make us all laugh together just one last time. Although his time here was too short, he was still able to leave such a large impact on so many lives. I hope he is watching over us as we cling tightly to all of the memories we've shared with him. His humor and drive to have a good time will never be forgotten. I love you Tom and miss you so much already. Stay strong everyone, and always remember.

Jen Dragon

February 24, 2011

We are broken-hearted for you and your family... No one should have to suffer the loss of a child ever..please know you are in our hearts- Ric,Jen and Joey Dragon

The Edwards Family

February 24, 2011

Our prayer and thoughts to Thomas' family. We knew him for so long and he was such a great guy. We miss and love you tom.

Megan & Justin Alles

February 24, 2011

Tom was an amazing guy. My brother Justin and I will never forget him. Heaven gained an amazing angel. You will never be forgotten. Love && miss you always.

Emmet Smith

February 24, 2011

Im sorry for everybodies lost Tom you were the funniest guy around and everybody loved you. Not once was i around you without a smile on my face. You made everybody happy, much love from new york city. We miss you out here and we will meet again on the other side. My heart goes out to everybody that knew tom

megan gawrysiak

February 24, 2011

its funny that if something bad happened you were always one of the first people i would call, and now i sit here and cry and the only person i want to talk to about it is you, you were one of the greatest people i have ever met, a shoulder i frequently leaned on, and the one person in all of syracuse last year that was there, always, no matter what. i can think of countless memories we have shared, but i know we will talk about them in the future and laugh. and you will tell me youve been watching over us, all of us and have shared in the memories you couldn't physically be around to share. i'm going to miss you, when i get to say "see ya later" it's going to be one of the hardest things i've had to do thus far, but ill be seeing you, you'll always be around, i know that.

Haley Dodge

February 24, 2011

I am sorry for your loss. He was an amazing, funny and fantastic person that everyone loved. He will be missed and always remembered.

Maddie S.S.

February 24, 2011

I haven't seen Thomas in years but I knew him briefly at Onteora. I can honestly say that he was one of the sweetest and funniest kids I have ever known. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Nick Wright

February 24, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. He was such a great friend and he touched so many lives. I will forever remember his amazing personality. My deepest sympathy to your family.

stephanie ricci

February 24, 2011

may you shine wherever you are xo

josh merante

February 24, 2011

miss you bro - Josh Merante

Kristy Benton

February 24, 2011

My prayers and thoughts to Thomas' family. I knew him very briefly at UCCC and my heart broke when I heard of his passing. I am so sorry.

Linda Michela

February 24, 2011

Dear Gael, Nick, & Nick Jr.,
We are saddened to hear of Thomas' passing. Our hearts and prayers go out to you. If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know. Our deepest sympathy, Linda, Dennis, Christina, & Joseph Michela

Anne Cohen

February 24, 2011

We knew the boys when our kids were at Onteora, before we moved to Kingston. I'm so sorry to hear about Tom's passing and know your hearts are broken. I'm sorry you are going through this and hope that the strength of family and friends will sustain you through this difficult time. Our thoughts are with you.

Anne Cohen, Jon, Michael and Lydia Stover

February 24, 2011

Dear Gael and family,
I am so sorry to learn about the loss of your son, Thomas. During these sad and grief-filled days and nights, may you find comfort in the love and support of your friends. I never met your son, but knowing you, Gael, he must have been nothing less than a remarkable and dynamic young man. I hope the memories and times shared with your son, bring you some peace and comfort in the coming days.
My deepest and heart-felt sympathies to all who knew and loved him.
~Nancy Razek~ (Kingston, N.Y.)

February 24, 2011

With our deepest condolences to you all.
Love Lois,Stefan, Nick and Alex Lapinski
We love you Thomas.

Lois Lapinski

February 24, 2011

Thomas was one of the biggest joys of my families life. He was funny, kind, generous and charming from day one. I have known Thomas since the day he was born and my son Stefan and Thom were like brothers. His life was short but oh the joy and love he shared with us all. I will miss you everyday Thomas. It was an honor to have you in our lives. I will look into the sky and know that the brightest star will be you!
Gale,Nick and Nicholas, my heart breaks for you. He will forever be in my heart. We love you.

Greg Howard

February 24, 2011

Gail and Nick - Just wanted you both to know that you are in my prayers!

Lynn Stewart

February 24, 2011

Gael, Nick and Family,
I am deeply saddened by the loss of Thomas. He was a fine young man with a beautiful spirit and a kind nature.
Your family is in my prayers and may the grace of God hold you close during this heartbreaking time.
With condolences and love,
Lynn Stewart and Family
Shandaken, NY

Chelsea Olin

February 24, 2011

Mr. and Mrs. Alba,
My mother (Jill Olin) was Tom's math teacher and I had met him on occasion when I visited Onteora. I am so sorry for your loss. Words can not describe how you must be feeling right now, and my thoughts are with you both and your family in this most tragic time.

With Regards,

Chelsea Olin

February 24, 2011

Mr. & Mrs. Alba,
My mother (Jill Olin) was Tom's math teacher. I met him on occassion when visiting her at Onteora over the years. I am so sorry for your loss, and words can not explain how you must be feeling right now. Your family is in my thoughts during this most tragic & difficult time.
With regards,

Kimberly LaTourette

February 23, 2011

Dear Gale and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys during this tragic time.

Phil Winchell

February 23, 2011

I met Tom a few years ago while I was taking care of their pet dogs for his Mom Gael. Tom was a great person, even though I did not know him that well. Tom had many friends and he will be missed by everyone who came into his life. Rest In Peace Thomas.

Linda America-Scofield

February 23, 2011

Dear Gale and family,
My heart goes out to you in this tragic time! I cannot even imagine your pain...

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