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Tom Curda of Hanover Park Interment for Mr. Tom Curda, 54, will be private. Born Aug. 31, 1951, in Chicago, he passed away Wednesday, May 24, 2006, in Hoffman Estates. He worked for Allstate Insurance Company for nine years as a computer network specialist. He was a member of the S2000 Vintage Forum and also enjoyed scale modeling, cooking and S2K road rallies. He was a great guy who will be deeply missed. He was the beloved husband of Hilda Curda (nee Donk); loving father of Kimberley Curda and Krystal (future son-in-law, Nick Noble) Curda; dear brother of Joann (Kevin) and Sylvia (Rick); uncle of Matthew, Michael, Timothy, Jamie and Ashley; and dear son-in-law of Hilda Donk. In lieu of flowers, memorials will be appreciated for the American Cancer Society, 225 N. Michigan Ave., Suite 1200, Chicago, IL 60601. Arrangements were made by Ahlgrim & Sons Funeral and Cremation Services, Schaumburg, 847-882-5580.

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Published by Daily Herald on May 25, 2006.

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Jonas, Virginija, and Anika Muliolis

May 24, 2025

In remembrance of Tom, I was able to drive his favorite Rt. 26 last weekend, with the ribbon with his name on it still on the shifter of my S.
Life is good, Tom. Miss you.....

Hilly

May 24, 2024

Lieve Tom,
In the cosmos' vast, eternal dance,
Where stars and dreams have their chance,
I know you found joy in the astral expanse,
Your love for space, a boundless romance.

With hands that cooked with seasoned flair,
You filled our home with scents so rare.
A maestro in the kitchen, beyond compare,
Your recipes, a love language we all share.

Cars that vroomed, you´d fix and tune,
A symphony of engines under the moon.
Each purr and hum, a familiar croon,
In every rev, your spirit still in tune.

Family, the heart of your earthly days,
In laughter and love, we found our ways.
Your legacy, in our hearts always stays,
Guiding us like the sun's gentle rays.

And to my hubby, the love never ends,
Through time and space, it transcends.
In every star twinkle, your message sends,
'I Love you more,' as the universe bends
Your loving wifey

your Wifey

May 19, 2023

Lieve Tom, 17 years ago I said good bye to you but I find that I really haven't let you go. You are always still in my thoughts and as your grandsons grow up, you are represented by your traits that now live in them. Wesley will be a Sophomore and Caleb a 7th grader this coming school year. You would have loved going to the sports events with both boys, Caleb playing travel ball and Wes doing the sports announcing at the games. I can imagine you also helping them with wood working, computers and of course cars! I think that is why I miss you more and more because I see how you would have been with your grandsons. Keep watch over us my dear hubby, love you always, your wifey.

Jonas / Virginija/ Anika

May 24, 2022

We remember you so fondly, Tom. Your energy, your sense of humor, and your dedication to the fact that Life is Good. You inspired a bunch of Honda S2000 lovers to create the best driving meet of them all, and we'll do it again in just a couple of weeks, as we drive the roads you loved, look at our family and friends, and say "Life is Good". Rest in peace, my friend.

JERRY/KATHY KREIDER

December 26, 2014

Nice to read your update about family, Hilly. A woman from Atlanta on my recent trip to Turkey takes a little glass animal along on her trips...representing her dear departed +1. She takes selfie photos of them together in various places...and it helps her feel that he is realizing some of his "tourist bucket list". It was very touching and works for her. A little matchbk size S2000 might work for you?

Hilly

December 24, 2014

Two years have passed since I have last visited this site. Your grandsons are growing like weeds. Wes is doing very well in school and has inherited your sense of direction as well as his love for technology. Caleb can't get enough of cars and can tell you the make and model of any car, which is pretty impressive for a 3 year old. How like thier OPA they are. I'm now retired and remember all of those dreams we had of what we would do when we both retired. I'm trying to do some of them, but it isn't the same without you. I miss you still very much especially around Christmas which was your favorite time of the year. This year I got the courage to bake banketletter from your recipe, everyone liked it. Love you still with all my heart.
Your wifey

November 2, 2012

Hilly, all of Toms friends at Cooks Talk still miss him. Thinking of you. I can't believe it has been over five years. Enjoy those grands. Pamilyn

Hilly Curda

October 31, 2012

So today is Halloween 2012. Both your grandsons came in their costumes and looked adorable. It was also very bittersweet because I know you would have been there with your camera catching every moment with them. Wes is taking after you with technology. He actually talked Joann into letting him take her kindle (not that you even know what that is) with him after he trick or treated at her house. He loves anything with technology. Caleb is also taking after you with his love for trains, planes and automobiles (remind you of a movie you liked)? And both boys love speed. I see more of you everyday in your grandsons and it makes me love you and miss you even more. Love you always...your wifey

Jonas Muliolis

May 31, 2011

Hilly, I just wanted you to know that your circle of friends over at S2KI have not forgotten Tom. His spirit lives on in all of us, and in a few weeks he will be racing down Ohio's Rt 26 with a caravan of S2000's in hot pursuit!
All our love to you and your ever-growing family.

Hilly Curda

May 24, 2011

Hi honey, so, today it's five years and I miss you more now then I did then. Life sometimes gets very hard and I miss your shoulder, your wisdom your advice and yes also your laughter and ability for me to see the bright side when all I see is dark. Having said that, the bright side is that your eldest is getting married in October to a wonderful young man. I know you would like him. Your youngest has given you a new grandson, Caleb, and he is adorable. Wes, your other grandson, is growing like a weed and doing great. I so wish you were with me to share these moments. It gets so hard at times. I know you said I was strong, but sometimes I don't feel strong at all. I love you honey and miss you everyday. Your ever loving wifey

Hilly

December 25, 2010

Today is the 5th Christmas without you. I still miss you so much. Your eldest became engaged today, she is so happy and you would really like your future son-in-law. Your youngest is feeling well with your second grandson. Life has a way of moving on, but i still find it hard doing so without you. Love always, your wifey!

Hilly

November 8, 2010

Tom, it's been over 2 years since I wrote...by now mom is with you and dad...you will be an OPA again and your grandson is growing strong and reminds me of you. Both your daughters are doing well and are happy, you would be proud of them. I still miss you every day... Love you always, your wifey!

Hilly

July 4, 2008

Tom, it has been a crazy year and I look at your picture and you are always smiling at me keeping me going. You are now an Opa of a wonderful, adorable little boy. Wesley Thomas Noble. I know you will look after him, he will need it with the challenges ahead of him.

Love you always, your wifey!

your wif(ie)

January 2, 2008

Another year has come and gone. So much has happened. Your family is now getting bigger...come June you will be an OPA. I know you are watching over Krystal and I know you will be watching over your first grandchild. I miss you and wish I could share my excitement with you...I know however,in my heart, that you already know how we are doing.

Jerry Kreider

December 16, 2007

Hi Hilly and family-
Some of the vintage family gathered last night here is suburban Boston....and Tom was certainly among us in spirit! Legal Bill and Barbara were the hosts, but Patty was here from CA; Jim from TX; Granny from MD; me from Philly; Lainey and Rick; and lots of local s2ki folks too. All of us came in spite of the impending 12" of snow, which arrived after midnite on Sunday am :eek: I'm staying w/my dtr nearby and will drive south in the am. I'm sure that Tom might have joined the craziness if he was able!
Sending hugs from the Honda crowd!
Jerry aka paS2K

Kim Curda

December 14, 2007

hi daddy,
this christmas is the first one in which i'll be home in a long time. i barely remember the last christmas that i was home...but i do remember that you were there, healthy and happy, and full of love and smiles. but now, i struggle with going home for the holidays. i am excited to see mom and the rest of our family, but it will feel empty, because this is the first time, for me, in which you will not be there. you've been on my mind a lot lately, and i miss you so much.
krystal and i are cooking christmas dinner - and you know that krystal will do a wonderful job because she takes after you in terms of culinary expertise...me, not so much (lol). but i will try, in your honor. and i'm making those roasted potatoes that you loved so much.
i miss you dad. not a day goes by where i dont think about you. i love you very much.

Hilly

May 28, 2007

I can't believe it's been a year...in some ways it seems like just yesterday that you were still with me. I miss and love you so much.

Hilly Curda

December 25, 2006

Today Krystal will cook the Christmas meal. She is following in her fathers footsteps, you would be so proud! I miss you sooooo very much especially today. I love you always.

Hilly

November 16, 2006

Tom, you would have been so proud of your daughters on November 10th. Krystal was a beautiful bride and Kim and beautiful maid of honor. Your presence was felt on that special day honey.

All my love

jerry k

September 11, 2006

Hi Hilly and family- I didn't know that Kathy and I almost share a special date with Tom. Our wedding anniv is August 29th :-) I wish that you could joint the S2000 family in Gettysburg in a few weeks....all of us will certainly be raising a toast to Tom again. We miss him too :-(

Warm hugs, Jerry (paS2K)

Kim & Lou Tornabeni

September 10, 2006

Tom

was one of my very favorite/special customers at Honda of Joliet. I'm the Curda

Family's Salesperson...yes, my husband, Lou and I sold him his beloved

S2000! He had so much fun with it and we have the pleasure of knowing

that we were able to assist him in that adventure in his life! I

received word from Hilly today...via email that Tom passed away in May.

Lou and I also know Hilly and Kim...they bought their cars from us too.

We have all kept in touch here and there over the last couple of years.

We would like for Tom's family to know that they are all in our

thoughts and our prayers.

Jill McKenna

September 3, 2006

Happy birthday, Tom. I know you're at peace, whole and healthy forever. And to your dear wife and family, Tom's cyber-friends miss him and send you all the best wishes for comfort and peace. May his memory and the support of your friends comfort you all.

Sharon Richardson

September 1, 2006

I hope Tom had a wonderful birthday, and that he is enjoying wherever he might be. I only knew him via CooksTalk, but respected his spirit, his attitude, and his determination. We miss him.

Krystal Curda

August 30, 2006

Dad, so sorry I haven't written in a while, not knowing you've stuck around in cyberlife. Should've known, huh? I'm wearing one of the shirts that reminds me of you..."Live your life" I'm trying to follow that advice,but it's hard. I'm maintaining the wedding plans we've made, only because you were a big part of that process...and we will be sampling from that delicious Latin menu! I should be happy that so much of my surroundings remind me of you, but sometimes it's hard to deal with. I just keep living each day knowing that you're in peace. Hope I'm not letting you down; that I'm not as strong as you'd hoped. I love and miss you. Happy Birthday. I know you're celebrating somewhere.

Hilly Curda

August 30, 2006

In 35 years I have never missed your birthday and I'm not going to miss it now either. I can't give you any physical gift, but I can continue to give you my love. I miss you more then words can say my hubby. I wish you were here by my side healthy, mischievous and carefree like you have been for all those years that we were together. You might not be here in the physical world but your memories are with me all the time. I wake up and go to sleep seeing you in my thoughts. I love you so much..Happy Birthday Tom... my love, my life, my hubby.

Kim Curda

August 30, 2006

hi daddy. i wanted to write something really nice here, a poem, something, for your birthday, but i am struggling. i don't understand why i can't get the words out - i am your writer daughter after all. but i am struggling...i guess because it still hurts so much that you are gone. but i know that you aren't suffering anymore, and that alone brings peace. so, for now, i will leave you with this - i remember your birthday last year, how we all went to see blue man group, and how excited you were during the show, and how we went to the mexican place that made margaritas at our table after. it was a great nite, wasn't it? i wish i could say more, or write better, but words are failing me at the moment. so...happy birthday daddy. i miss you so much. and i love you more than i can ever say.

Mam Donk

August 28, 2006

Aug.31 Is you Birthday



In tears I saw you sinking.I watch you fade away.You sufferd so much in silence. You fought so hard to stay. You faced your task with courage. You felt your hope descend. Still you kept on fighting,until the very end.

So after you said goodbye,to all who loved you. Then you closed your eyes and when I saw you sleeping so peaceful free from pain. I could not wish you back, to suffer that again.

I think of you often!

I miss you very much!

Happy Birthday Son.

Love Mam

Matrix (Marco and Denise)

June 29, 2006

Tom was a good friend even though we only had the pleasure of meeting him once. We will always remember his happy demenour and contagious smile.



The S2000 Vintage club has lost a valuable member and a good friend.

Hilly

June 29, 2006

Happy 32nd Anniversary honey....I love you and miss you.

Matt & Barbara Janowicz

June 21, 2006

To Hilly and all of Tom's family,



Words can not express but only convey our sincere condolences to you. We did have the pleasure to know Tom in person as well as on-line. We will miss him more than any words that I could type. His memorial ribbon will "live on" in our S2000 for as long as I own it in his memory.

Pamilyn Hatfield

June 2, 2006

I only knew Tom through the Cooks Talk Forum. He was a strong,loving, funny guy. He will be missed sorely. Whenever he posted about his family and especially Hilly, there was something in the post....you could just tell how much he loved her. I am so sorry for your loss.

Kathleen Smith

June 2, 2006

One more admiring fan of a gracious man that touched another cyberlife.



Respectfully,

Tim Macholl

June 2, 2006

I know that we will all miss Tom, though I had not seen him in years I have many fond memories from my childhood. His smile was infectious and his cooking always good.

Rest well.

Nancy LaRoche

May 31, 2006

We'll miss Tom's posts on CooksTalk. His kindness and wit will be missed!

Tomcatt and Teal'c

May 31, 2006

Ralph and Jodie Nardone

May 30, 2006

We have known Tom via the Internet for five or six years, and in that time we came to know him as a kind, gentle soul. His generosity and good nature will be missed by many. Our sincerest condolonces to his family, rest well in the knowledge that your beloved husband and father is at peace.



Tom, may you rest well. We miss you already.

Rob Mietus

May 30, 2006

My deepest sympathies to all of Tom's family. I only knew him briefly but he was always there to help! He will be missed.

Rob Radlein

May 30, 2006

The last communication I read from Tom, he was proudly telling his friends about driving in his Honda 2000. My relatives are in the Chicago area and I had hoped in the future to visit Tom and Hilly but sadly it's not to be,now and I regret it. My deepest sympathy and condolences to Hilly and the family.

Joann Annable

May 29, 2006

Tom was my brother and even though it was through marriage I never thought of it that way. He was in my life since I was 10 years old and was a great brother who would always be there when he was needed. Tom always tried to smile even to the end when things were rough. I will miss him a lot and so will my family.

Mickey & Bill Macholl

May 29, 2006

Tom and Hilly have been my friends since high school -- we went to prom together and shared much throughout the years.



He fougt a good fight, and will be missed. His love of his family was obvious and he will be missed.



Rest in peace Tom

Craig Quattlebaum

May 29, 2006

So very sad to here of Toms passing. I never had the pleasure to meet him in person, but we did converse on the phone a couple of times, and by email and scale modeling boards. I know Toms passion was his family he spoke so lovingly of. Tom touched many lives and he will be missed, my life is richer from knowing him. My deepest condolences to all his family.

R van den Berg

May 29, 2006

It was wonderful to 'meet' Tom through the on-line community at Cook's Talk. His special spirit came through, even before I found out he was so ill. The world is a better place for having him there, even for such a short time. Hugs to all who will miss him.

Lynn Ritger

May 29, 2006

The news of Tom's passing comes as an enormous shock to me. Back in 2001, I was looking for a way to get to the IPMS National Convention in Chicago. I had corresponded with Tom a few times online, and when he found out I wanted to attend but had no money for a hotel, he and his wife Hilly graciously opened their home to me, a complete stranger, for four days. They were absolutely wonderful people, making my stay as comfortable as one could possibly wish, and Tom and I shared many interests including modeling, old aircraft, and sportscars. I wasn't aware he had picked up an S2000, but it doesn't surprise me a bit... he still had his old brown RX-7 back in 2001, and he really enjoyed that car. Tom was a fantastic modeler, a thoughtful and knowledgable friend, and most of all, a loving and devoted father and husband.



You will not be forgotten, my friend.

Adele Walker

May 29, 2006

I have only known Tom through Cooks Talk, but I take away from his posts courage and strength, and especially humor and a great will, during an obviously difficult time in his and his families life.



Warm thoughts to the family, from FLA.

Ian Crawford

May 29, 2006

Like many others here, I never met Tom, nor even spoke to him. We did correspond via the internet, sharing an interest in scale model-making. In an environment noted for intemperate behaviour, Tom's calm, sensible good-humoured approach stood out. I shall miss him enormously, and my sympathy and thoughts go out to his loved ones.



Godspeed, Tom

Steven "Modeldad" Eisenman

May 29, 2006

A long time friend who enjoyed life, his family and modeling and rides in his car at twice the speed of sound.



Hilly was trying to make arrangements to get him a ride in the B-25 Yankee Warrior over in Michigan. I'm heartbroken that he was not able to do it.



He is at rest and hopefully looking down upon us all from a vantage point finer than the nose of a B-25.



Tom was in a great deal of pain, and the chemo was messing him up badly. I will miss Tom, but I feel relieved that his pain is gone. But our pain at his loss is just begining.



Tom was a founding Member of the Jackals internet modeling club.



He also never got to finish his B-25A in natural metal. You promised me you'd do it.





God bless and keep Tom and give comfort to his family.

Beth B

May 29, 2006

Tom shared his love of family and cooking and tools and adventure with so many people. I'm grateful that I had the opportunity to get to know Tom online. What a marvellous loving, and loved, man.

Bob & Fran Craig (Chef Robert & NanaC)

May 29, 2006

We will always regret not getting a chance to meet Tom in person at the Cooks Talk Midwest Fest, because he was too ill to attend. We count it a privilege to have met him on-line. He was the personification of grace, courage, and even humor in the face of such a discouraging illness.

Jennifer Davis

May 29, 2006

Tom was an inspiration to those who knew him, even if only through the internet. He had the wonderful and rare gift of pure optimism, and a unique ability to reach out and pass it along to others.

I will miss him.

Christine Birck

May 29, 2006

Dearest family of a wonderful, always inspiring man, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Although I only knew Tom on Taunton Cooks Talk Forum, he brightened my life and his life and memory will inspire me continue live life to it's fullest everyday, as Tom did. God Bless.

Sondra G

May 29, 2006

Tom had so much joie de vivre, it shone through his every post (CooksTalk Forum). He is missed greatly, and will always inspire me to be better than I am.

Sally Newton

May 29, 2006

Tom was a regular, very active member in Cook's Talk, where I had the privilege of interacting with him. He will be sorely missed.

Evelyn Mourelatou

May 29, 2006

Tom and I shared cyber-space together - amazing how a person can touch you with all this new technology about. Yet, Tom did just that. His posts at CT always had a tenderness about them, a touch of something that would always leave a smile. He certainly brought me many smiles. A strong man in his gentleness. That I should be able to cope with such dignity any of the problems life should throw at me........

Sue Duff (aka Wolvie)

May 29, 2006

Tom was such an inspiration to all of us at Cook's Talk - he will always be remembered for his positive attitude and indomitable spirit.

Karen Paris

May 28, 2006

I never had the opportunity to meet Tom in person. As part of the CooksTalk family, however, he let us know who he was..and WHAT a man he was! Tom loved to cook, loved to try new things and get new gadgets...egged others to get them, as well. He loved his S2000. More than anything, he loved his family and his kitty. All the facets of his life joined together to bring more joy and more togetherness to his family. Tom enriched many lives, it's clear. I'm so pleased I had the opportunity to meet him.

Rhea Santos

May 28, 2006

I did not know Tom at all; however, I always enjoyed his posts on the Cook's Talk forum. His courage and positive attitude have been inspiring.

Deborah Boles

May 28, 2006

I only knew Tom through the forum,Cook's Talk.I enjoyed his food posts and admired his tenacity in describing the health challenges he faced.My thoughts and love go out to his family.May you gain some strength from the positive joy we at Cook's Talk got from knowing him.Deborah Boles,New Brunswick,Canada

Debby Taylor

May 28, 2006

Dear Tom--You were such a very special person and touched our hearts deeply with your grace and humor and unfailing courage in the face of difficulties most of us could only begin to imagine. God bless you and comfort your family as only He can.

Ann Lozier

May 28, 2006

I never met Tom in person, but knew him through his posts on the Taunton Cooks Talk Forum. He fought this disease with amazing grace, courage, and dignity. I was very sad to hear that he lost his battle. He was an inspiration to many of us. I will miss him.

Jill McKenna

May 28, 2006

Tom was an inspiration. I'm proud and grateful to have "known" him, even though it was only through an online community. What a fabulous example of strength and grace under tremendous pressure. I hope his family will be comforted by knowing how many people admired him and how much he will be missed.

Sandra McKenzie

May 28, 2006

I'll bet there are hundreds of us who, like me, know Tom through an Internet forum. At Taunton Press's Cooks Talk forum,we took delight in Tom's humour, his zest for living, and his love of his family. He inspired us with his courage in fighting cancer, and his grace in admitting when the battles were more than he could handle. Tom, we'll miss you!

Jean Brayman

May 28, 2006

Tom was a much loved and admired part of our Cook's Talk Forum family. I will remember him fondly even though we never met in person.

My sincere sympathy to his family.

Sharon Richardson

May 28, 2006

I never met Tom, and only knew him online. He was, and always will be, an inspiration to me, with his courage and his remarkable outlook on life. I shall miss him.

Hilda Donk

May 26, 2006

Tom was a great Son for me. We had so many good times together. I will always remember the great times we spend together on our trips. Special the last trip to Disney . It was so wonderful to see you smiling face even with all your pain. You always was a loving husband for Hilly and Father for Kim and Krystal . I always will remember the teasing we did to each other. We laughed so much even when you were so sick when you looked up and winked. You always could hold me so tight, to let me know that you loved me, special after Dad died and I needed to be hold in some strong arms. Thank’s Tom when you holded me and said goodbye on Tuesnight I knew you loved Dad and me just as much as we loved you. I will miss you so much. Mam

Hector Camacho

May 26, 2006

I count it among life's greatest privileges to have known a man like Tom. There was no pretense in him. My heartfelt condolences to the family he so deeply cherished.

Sandy Prioletti

May 26, 2006

Tom was such a great team member with his technical contributions and his constant positive attitude. He had many friends at Allstate who kept Tom in their thoughts and prayers. He spoke often of his pets, how proud he was of his daughters and what a great partnership he had with his wife, Hilly. My deepest sympathies to all of Tom's family.

Sam & Carmen Traficant

May 26, 2006

You only meet a few people like Tom in a lifetime. He was truely a magnificent person, we will never forget him and his SMILE!

May he rest in peace.

Kimberley Curda

May 25, 2006

My dad was an extraordinary man. His love for life and his family/friends showed in everything he did. Dad was always so supportive of my sister and me, and he and my mom had a love between them that I can only hope to find one day. Dad, I love you so much, and I miss you. Your spirit will live on in my heart, and I will never, ever forget your magnetic smile, your silly dances, and your infectious laugh. Dad, I promise I will live by your motto: "Live today like there is no tomorrow" - you certainly did that, right to the end.

Tom Karlen & Myra Stachowicz

May 25, 2006

Tom is an inspiration to many of us for the strength and humor provided to the S2000 Vintage Group

Jerry Kreider

May 25, 2006

Hilly- We met Tom first of the Internet; then in person a couple times in a little silver car. He was a pillar of strength! God bless you and all of Tom's family.

Robert & Elizabeth Alper

May 25, 2006

Tom was a good man and Tom was a good friend. We shared many thoughts, experiences and ideas.



I will miss Tom.



Rest in peace.

Krystal Curda

May 25, 2006

My Dad was a wonderful man. His spirit lives on through all of us. It's amazing to see just how many lives he's influenced and how many hearts he's touched; we are forever fulfilled for having known him.

Dad, I love and miss you, and I'm proud to be your daughter!

Mary Ann Parchim

May 25, 2006

I had the privilege of working with Tom for his entire career with Allstate and can attest to not only his outstanding work ethic, but his down to earth attitude and advice. He was a close associate and a good friend and I will truly miss him. My sincere condolences to his family. He was so proud of all of you and your accomplishments.

Darlene Barrett

May 25, 2006

My best memories of the past few years all revolve around you. Thank you for being my friend. Jim and I are much the richer for having known you.

Elaine LaBelle

May 25, 2006

To Hilly and family.



Our deepest sympathy on your loss. We are also members of the S2000 Vintage group and we know how much you will be missed by all who had the pleasure of meeting you and even by those you only met on the internet.



You will be with us on every drive.

Deborah Sola

May 25, 2006

This is from MsPerky (Deborah), one of Tom's many friends on the S2Ki.com Vintage Forum. Tom loved his Honda S2000 sportscar and everything associated with it, including fun meets and drives with other Vintage members. His courage in the face of adversity is to be admired by all, and he will be greatly missed by his Vintage family. He will be celebrated at the upcoming Vintage Spring Fling in Watkins Glen, NY, an event he hoped to attend with Hilly. My condolences to Hilly and all of Tom's family in this time of sorrow.

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