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Debra Starr Obituary

Debra Michele Starr Debra Michele Starr, died Saturday, November 27, 2010 at the age of 49. Debra loved many genres of music including jazz, blues and rock. She was an animal lover who volunteered as a docent at Potter Park Zoo and took special care of family pets. Debra enjoyed travel, having visited California, New York City, Saratoga, Stratford, Ontario and many special places. She was preceded in death by her parents, H. James and Phyllis Starr. She is survived by two sisters, Kim (Tony) Cortez and Pam (Tom) Ward; nephews, Adam Cortez and Dustin Ward; nieces, Rachel Cortez and Jenna Ward. She is survived by her lifelong best friend, Laurel (Ashland) Waidlich. Visitation will take place on Monday, November 29, 2010 from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. at the Gorsline Runciman Funeral Homes, 900 E. Michigan Ave., Lansing, Michigan. On line condolences may be sent to: www.gorslineruncimanlansing.com

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Published by Lansing State Journal on Nov. 29, 2010.

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Amy Krycinski

December 15, 2010

Dear Pam, Tom, Dustin, Jenna, and all:

I didn't know Debi well (might have met her once, years ago) but it is especially hard to lose someone during the holiday season. Not that any time of year is good.

Thank you for remembering her best friend in the obituary notice. I've been reading some books on grieving lately, and non-relatives are sometimes left out, even if the person was close to the deceased.

May her soul find peace.

Lisa Charlton

December 6, 2010

Pam (and Kimmy),
I have such vivid memories of spending time with Debra, and the two of you after my family moved to Grosbeck when I was 7. Debra became one of my first friends in the neighborhood, and your house became a haven for me. We all survived as children of the 1970s suburban "me" decade in our own way. I will always think of Debra as a bright,thoughtful, rebellious, blonde-tressed girl, who retained her love of animals and others after overcoming so many obstacles. I send positive thoughts and prayers your way. I must believe Debra is finally at peace. Know you are loved by many.

December 4, 2010

Dear Pam and Kim,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of Debbie and will treasure them always. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Suzette Piersante-Watson

Judy McCarthy

December 2, 2010

Dear Pam and Kim,

I was deeply saddened to hear that Debbie had passed away. Your family was the first to welcome us to the neighborhood when we moved from Detroit to Lansing in 1975. I will always remember Debbie as the smart, friendly girl with the beautiful blonde hair. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.
Sincerely,
Judy(Ashland)McCarthy

Cathy Cook

December 1, 2010

Dear Pam & Kim & Family, I am so sorry for your loss. In 1974, Debbie was the first one to really take me in as the new kid on the block. I so enjoyed spending time with her & your family at home and in Gaylord. Praying for you all! Love, Cathy Williams Cook

Anne Hultgren

December 1, 2010

Pam and Kim: My mother just phoned to tell me the sad news about Debra. Although we've been separated by years and distance, I have many fond memories of your family and times spent together. My deepest condolences for your loss.

Warmest Regards,
Anne Hultgren

Jim Culver

November 30, 2010

Pam and Kim: So sorry to hear about Debra. Please accept our profound condolences. Have known all of you since you were born and considered both your parents as dear friends. They are mentioned in my book and I would like to send you a copy if you care to provide me with an address.

November 29, 2010

Pam and Kim, my deepest sympathy.
John Carver

Amy Holmes

November 29, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Debra's passing. I know your parent's welcomed her with open arms. Kim and Pam, you will always have your sister's memory close to your hearts like that of your parent's. Keep those memories close to your heart and they will live on through you and your children.
God Bless,
Amy Holmes

November 29, 2010

Kim,my deepest sympathy may peace be with you and your family at this most diffcult time sincerely and all my love MARY ESTRADA

Johanna White

November 29, 2010

Pam & Kim:
I was deeply saddened to hear of Debbie's passing. May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love to you both,

Dan and Fred Enghoffer

November 29, 2010

We just want to say our deepest prayers go out to your family. We have known her for quite a while. Her and her sister, Kim used to come to our home and have a great time. There was a lot of laughter back then. May God be with your family.

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