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Pam Montanbault
November 19, 2010
This poem helped me when I lost my best friend-I hope it helps you.
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Pamela Montanbault
November 19, 2010
Jenny,Steve & family-
I was devasted to hear of your loss- you have been in my prayers daily. I do love you all-may God give you strength.
Thank you to all who have supported our family during this time of grief. We miss Doug and will keep him alive in our memories.
November 3, 2010
November 2, 2010
To the Fernand and Ruble family, I am so sorry to hear about Doug and to realize I wasn't able to be there for his funeral. You will be in our thoughts, prayers and hearts as you go through this difficult time. I am so thankful to be a part of your family. We love you all. Mike and June
Steve Fernand
October 31, 2010
Thank you all for your remembrances of Doug, your prayers, gestures of kindness and support for Doug's family. Through your prayers God has given Jenni and me strength in this difficult time.
We pray for Doug's family that God's comfort, guidance and strength to be evident in their lives.
Sue Hekler
October 30, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with the Ruble family. I knew Doug as a delightful young child. The remarkable young man he grew into will be truly missed.
Sue Hekler
October 30, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with Doug's family. He was a wonderful young man that grew into a terrific, caring man. He will be greatly missed. May his memories bring you comfort, peace, and sometimes even laughter.
Jody Hanson
October 29, 2010
I pray for strength and comfort for your family and all your friends. May they find peace in all the memories they shared with you. Rest peacefully my friend, we'll see you on the otherside.
Gramps and G. Ethel
October 28, 2010
Doug; It is so hard to write words to express how sad we are of you leaving us so soon. As the days go by the shock and pain have not lessened, but in time we will realize and appreciate that you are being with the BEST that ever could be. The Good LORD in Heaven and your own father and Aunt Margie, who also left us at such young ages. You will be in our hearts FOREVER.
Jenni and all the girls: May our prayers and YOUR faith in God give you the strength to get through these difficult times. Then may you have comfort from all the wonderful good memories of what a great person Doug was by all the friends he had made and especially from all the family who loves him. Always here for you.
Scott Fernand
October 28, 2010
The news of Doug first arrived with shock only to be followed by sadness. To the families left behind by his loss, I offer my love for your courage. As difficult as life is to lead, it is eclipsed by the difficulty in the understanding, which I pray shall come soon.
Denise Herkimer
October 28, 2010
My thoughts are prayers are with you and your family. You will be missed.
October 27, 2010
Doug was always pleasant here at Art Van and had a great smile.We sales associates were apt to trade selling techniques and learn from Doug what new technology was on the horizon.Thanks,Doug ~Margee Hutchinson
Phil & Kathy Best
October 27, 2010
Ruble Family,
We were so sorry to hear about Doug Jr. passing away. We want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
October 27, 2010
So sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed talking to Doug here at Art Van. I'm sure he will be missed by all who knew him. Dianne Haddock
Dale and Jan Brandon
October 27, 2010
YOUR FAMILY HAS OUR LOVE AND PRAYERS IN THIS TIME OF NEED, DOUG YOU CAN REST NOW, YOU ARE A ANGEL WITH GOD NO MORE PAIN OR WORRIES, JUST GODS LOVE,
Aunt Marsha
October 27, 2010
Family gatherings won't be the same on this earth. Time with you was way too short, but life is like the blink of an eye when compared to eternity. We'll miss you until then.
Steve & Kathy Smith
October 27, 2010
When we first heard of your passing, all we could do was gasp! Knowing that you and Scott were such close friends just made our hearts ache knowing how many friends you left behind. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ann (Berkimer) Kosloski
October 27, 2010
Jenny, I remember when Doug Jr. was born and then again as a toddler. From all the wonderful tributes and memories posted, I can see that he grew into a wonderful son, father, brother and friend, who touched many lives. I can’t imagine what you are going through, but I pray God lends you and your family His strength to help you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you, my friend.
Jenni Nongueskwa
October 27, 2010
Lisa and girls May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
October 26, 2010
October 26, 2010
Carrie Dechamps
October 26, 2010
My family is praying for all those who mourn the loss of such a wonderful man.
Jeanne (Ralph) Blankenship
October 26, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with Doug's family during this difficult time.
Lance Baldwin
October 26, 2010
I am so sorry to hear about Doug. Doug was one of the kindest people I have had the chance to know. He will be deeply miss by everyone. My heart and prayers go out to his family and to Lisa and the kids. Keep flying high my friend!
Scott and Patty Gierman
October 26, 2010
Scott and Patty Gierman
October 26, 2010
Scott and Patty Gierman
October 26, 2010
Gene & Bev Ovenhouse
October 26, 2010
Our hearts go out to you, Steve and Jenny, as you go through the difficult days ahead. We are asking God to put His loving arms around you and give you peace.
Angie Niska
October 26, 2010
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Kathi Ruble
October 26, 2010
Doug was a very special person & will be missed more than words can express.I am very heartbroken over this loss of such a young life. My love & prayers go out to his family.
Robin Hardesty
October 26, 2010
My heart truly breaks for Lisa, the girls, and all the friends and family. Rest in peace doug.
Melissa Hinojosa
October 26, 2010
I am deeply saddened at the loss of my dear friend. Doug was a talented and caring individual with a strong devotion to his family. He holds a special place in my heart and I'll forever cherish memories of our good times together. May your memories give you strength and peace. My thoughts and prayers are with Doug's family and friends.
October 26, 2010
To Doug's family,
Take comfort in knowing that Doug was loved so much by so many and he is resting in the arms of God now along with his Dad. Carol Ralph
Greg Nixon
October 26, 2010
I was shocked to hear of Doug's passing. He always had something positive to say. He will be sadly missed.
October 26, 2010
Barb, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss. With love, Adriana (Ads)
Pete Stoll
October 26, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family in this most difficult time.
A.J., Heather and Alex Kalka
October 26, 2010
Seems all too soon my friend. Hope to those you leave behind, and pray for the peace we hope you have found.
Michael Smith
October 26, 2010
I was shocked and deeply saddened at the loss of a long time friend. My thoughts go out to his family. He will be missed by all the people he has touched along the way.
October 26, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with Doug's family and friends. I'll never forget the kindness Doug showed me in the short time that I knew him.
Sharon Jenkins
Art Van Furniture
Mike and Cindy Hogle
October 26, 2010
We are sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one.
Pete Stoll
October 26, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family in this most difficult time.
Rene Booker
October 26, 2010
My heart goes out to the family and friends of Doug.
Guy Crossley
October 26, 2010
My dear friend and coworker, I've never been so heartbroken so quickly.We just met 5 months ago and there is such a void now. You were so close to your daughters and expressed your love for them daily.I will pray for your family's healing. You will be greatly missed at Paul's TV. Peace be with you and your family at this difficult time.
October 26, 2010
I praise God for all of you that loved Doug and made his life good. Keep him alive in your memories and stories. John 3:16 Jenni Fernand
Dan and Denise Ruble
October 26, 2010
He will truly be missed and is at peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with all his family and friends.
Dan and Denise Ruble
October 26, 2010
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Chris W
October 26, 2010
... far too young, far too soon. Doug, you will be missed and words cannot express the sorrow. Peace to you and your family.
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