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Todd Gunzinger Obituary
He was born in Great Barrington, Mass., on July 15, 1978, the son of Terry and Linda (Camp) Gunzinger.
Our hero, our son, brother and father. A man who gave his all to his two boys with the deepest love. Always willing to give and always seeing the bright side of everything. His glass was never half-empty but always half-full. Loved by all who knew him for he would never hurt anyone. A love of sports no matter what the event. Red Sox, Patriots, Celtics and Bruins; a true New Englander. The days you gave us will grace us forever and always. We can never forget your sense of humor, your smile, your laid-back attitude. You were never in a hurry, but always on time. Our memories of your CHIPS motorcycles and all the games, no matter the sport. Basketball the favorite and always so confident, yet so unselfish. You were our shining star, and your star will shine down on us all for our remaining days. You leave us with a piece of yourself and we will always hold them dear to our hearts.
My brother, Todd William Gunzinger, was the best of men, a great man who loved his children and his family. I loved my brother from the time he opened his eyes till the time God closed them. Brothers -- what does that mean? To me, my brother was my best friend, although now I don't feel like I told him that enough. I can only wish, hope and pray that he knew how much I and the rest of our family loved him unconditionally. I remember playing as kids, and how we so loved to play against each other with whoever was losing, using the "unplugging the stick" trick. What I picture when I close my eyes is him sitting between both of our grandmothers as they argue over which pool to go to. Todd, to me you were the star; you can't possibly know how much it meant to me to see you at whatever sporting event it was -- that was my brother, and I was so proud to have you as my brother. I can only wish and hope that we can see each other and play one more game. You leave us with two beautiful parts of you in which I see so much of you. The angels needed a two guard who won't miss a shot, and maybe someday I'll set a pick for you. I have so many memories and thoughts, I can't straighten them out in my head, but what I know is I can feel the wind whipping through the barn, and you asking me for one more game. I love you, Todd. You will always be with us.
Todd was predeceased by his paternal grandmother, Elizabeth Gunzinger; and maternal grandmother, Lucille Camp. Surviving, along with his parents of Winslow, are two sons, Bryce and Trey Gunzinger; a brother, Kyle Gunzinger of Winslow; a sister, Kami Dexter and her husband, James, of Oakland and their three children, Dominic, Jacob and Nicholas; paternal grandfather, Philip C. Gunzinger; and maternal grandfather, William S. Camp. Todd also leaves special friends B.J. Davis, Dustin Turcotte, Nicky Ward, and Mary and Roger Lockhart, as well as several aunts, uncles and cousins.
Visiting hours are 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. Sunday, Feb. 19, at Redington Funeral Home, 5 Park St., Waterville. A funeral service will be held at 11 a.m. Monday, Feb. 20, at the funeral home. Burial will be at noon Wednesday, Feb. 22, in the Maine Veterans' Memorial Cemetery, Mount Vernon Road, Augusta, with full military honors.
In lieu of flowers, those who wish may make donations in memory of Todd, for his two sons' scholarship funds, to: c/o Terry Gunzinger, 18 Joe Ave., Winslow, ME 04901.
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Roger Mills
February 18, 2021
I remember Todd coming to the ball park ready to play. i wished that I had 11 kids on my team liked Todd. I know he loved Baseball and being part of the team was important to him and he brought more to us than I think he realized. I can still see him , with that big grin that was priceless.
Coach Mills
February 17, 2021
Was thinking about you today. Wish you were here for your family and so that we could remember our baller days at UMA together. Good times. Time flies. My best to Coach G and your fam. Rob W. #31
AM McAlester
September 29, 2020
I did not know Todd, but when visiting my parents graves in the VA cemetery today, I was struck by how young he was and I wanted to know more. I googled his name and found this obituary. he was far too young and he was loved way too much and I wanted to write and encourage you by the fact that I noticed, I saw and I will remember. To Todd's children, be proud of your dad's service, remember always that regardless of the brevity of his life, his impact will be known in many random ways. I was inspired today! Bless you all!
ROGER Mills
May 25, 2020
I can still picture Todd coming to our Senior Babe Ruth games with a huge smile. If I had 13 players with Todd's love of the game and life, I would still be coaching. My best to his family and friends. Coach Mills
Travis Davis
May 19, 2020
Well man it's May 19 2020 I miss the heck out of you. I'd loved to had been qurintined with you. I miss and love you brothers forever..
Travis Davis
February 11, 2020
Hey man I really miss you lately love you man till we meet again
January 4, 2019
Hi Todd, I just wanted to let you know I think of you often, and to tell you your boys are getting so big and talented and so handsome, Mom and Dad are doing such a great job with the boys until we meet again rest in peace knowing your boys are doing great love your 2 cousin Claire Magnano.
Thinking of you daddy
Mackenzie Rowe
February 5, 2017
I love you daddy, I always will. It's been almost 11 years but the I hurt like you just died. I love and miss you forever and always
Mackenzie Rowe
June 2, 2016
I love you daddy no matter what ever happens to me or now you. I will love and miss you forever on until i see you again
bryce gunzinger
December 11, 2013
it'll be ok mum
bryce gunzinger
December 11, 2013
i so sad
patsy woodard
July 15, 2013
I want to say Happy 35th Birthday in heaven Todd, your missed and loved every day R.I.P Chelc will be visiting you today
Linda Gunzinger
July 14, 2013
Todd, tomorrow would have been you 35th birthday. We miss you every day. The boys and I will visit your resting place tomorrow and leave some flowers and they will leave some balloons. I hope that you are able to smile down on your two little boys and know that we take care of them with all the love that we have. Miss you so much. Happy Birthday, wish that you were here so that we could buy you some Chinese food and have an ice cream cake for you. Love you, Mommy
December 22, 2012
The boys are so looking forward to Christmas. They are growing so fast. Bryce is busy with hockey and Dad seems to love it as well. Wish that he knew that you were always watching over him and helping him to be the best that he can be. Trey is growing as well. I think that an engineering career is in the future, that boy can build most anything that he wants out of legos. Missing you as usual. Merry Christmas, my sweet boy. Love you always, Mommy.
Chelcee Melia
July 15, 2012
Happy birthday, Todd. Love and miss you </3
The Gunzinger Boys
Jessica Gunzinger
March 19, 2012
They love their daddy
Jessica Gunzinger
March 19, 2012
Jessica Gunzinger
March 19, 2012
Thinking of you. Missed and loved everyday
December 27, 2011
Christmas of 2011 has come and gone. The boys have all gotten so big. Dominic a junior in high school, Jacob in 5th grade, Bryce in 4th grade, Trey in 1st grade and Nicholas in K. They all like the electronic devices and Dom and Bryce love to skate. Jacob and Trey are doing basketball this season! They both know that this was your favorite sport. Bryce, Trey and Nick are also doing karate and seem to enjoy it. Thank you for the wonderful Christmas snow. We love you so much. Miss you here on earth with us, but know that you are in each of our hearts. Wishing you were here for a little hug. Love and miss you as always, Your Mommy
Linda Gunzinger
December 27, 2011
Christmas of 2011 has come and gone. The boys have all gotten so big. Dominic a junior in high school, Jacob in 5th grade, Bryce in 4th grade, Trey in 1st grade and Nicholas in K. They all like the electronic devices and Dom and Bryce love to skate. Jacob and Trey are doing basketball this season! They both know that this was your favorite sport. Bryce, Trey and Nick are also doing karate and seem to enjoy it. Thank you for the wonderful Christmas snow. We love you so much. Miss you here on earth with us, but know that you are in each of our hearts. Wishing you were here for a little hug. Love and miss you as always, Your Mommy
Chelee Melia
September 20, 2011
I felt like I needed to write some thing to you, Todd. I feel like I don't talk to you enough any more. We miss you, we need you a lot and always know your there, but it's never the same. Getting lost in the memories is the hardest. You were the best, I never told you that and I wish I had.
Love, Chelc
Linda Gunzinger
September 1, 2011
First day of school. Bryce starting 4th grade and Trey in first. Wow! Hoping that you are smiling down on them and holding their hands for the day. Miss you so much. Love, Mommy
Linda Gunzinger
June 25, 2011
Todd, Dad found your old game-boy. Boy were the boys ever impressed that it still worked and they each played a game. They both said that they will treasure it as it was yours and they love to find things of yours. Love, Mommy
Linda Gunzinger
April 14, 2011
Todd, I am missing you so much as another spring is here. Bryce will be playing little league this year seems impossible that he is already 9. Dominic is getting so big, he is taller than me now. Do you remember how happy you were when you got taller than me. I remember you trying to touch the door jamb and when you could, it didn't seem to matter anymore. Miss you and love you. Mommy
Dustin Turcotte
December 25, 2010
Hey buddy missing you like crazy. Wish you were here too share the holidays with us. I love you Todd and still will never forget you. Miss you
Travis Davis
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas Bro wish you were here we shared some of our memories bout you yesterday before doing our gifts We love you & miss you so much..
pat woodard
December 25, 2010
Missing you Todd wish you was here, we love you
linda Gunzinger
December 24, 2010
Wishing you were here with us this Christmas. Missing you like crazy. Bryce and Trey are tucked in a waiting for Santa. Love you, Mommy
Travis Davis
October 24, 2010
Hey Bro I miss you like crazy.. I know you were there then to help.. Aswell as have been after I want to thank you and continue to ask you for your help.Tho there are days I seem stuborn please dont stop helping me.. Love you Man...
pat woodard
October 24, 2010
thinking of you we love and miss you Todd
Linda Gunzinger
October 15, 2010
The boys are now in Kindergarten and third grade. I volunteer at Hope's Place and we all try very hard to get along and be the family you would want us to be. It is not always easy but we do all love each other very much. Thinking of you today but that isn't new I think of you everyday. Love, Mommy
linda Gunzinger
July 13, 2010
Your Birthday is fast approaching and we are talking about which balloons the boys will choose for your resting place. B.J. and Chelcee came by to visit on Sunday. B.J. said that it was hard to believe just how long you have been gone from this earth and we both had a little cry. Miss you every day and wish that you were here in body to celebrate this birthday. Love, Mommy
Linda Gunzinger
June 2, 2010
Todd, Daddy and I went to your resting place on Memorial Day. My my there were so many people there just a reminder that we aren't alone in our grief. We miss you everyday. Love, Mommy
linda Gunzinger
April 2, 2010
As I look forward to another vacation in Florida with Bryce and Trey. I can't help but to reflect on how happy you would be to bring them on a vacation and show them off. Miss your wonderful sense of humor and your warm touch. Love, Mommy
Todd's boys 9/08
Terry Gunzinger
December 5, 2009
Todd: For all those that might visit your sight, I thought it might be nice to show them what you were most proud of in life. I believe you called it your greatest accomplishment in your life, your two boys.....They are precious and loved by oh so many...We love you and miss you every day. Love Dad
December 2, 2009
My Dearest Nephew - We all miss you so much. I can only hope that you are at Peace and with Uncle Bud and your two very special grandmothers. It still doesn't seem real that you are not here with us. Your two precious young sons are such a joy. By the sounds of it Bryce could become a professional athlete with his drive and desire. Trey is just such a sweetheart. Your Mom and Dad are doing a supurb job in rasing them as they did with you. We Miss and Love You - Aunt Suzi and Uncle Mike.
Mary Lockhart
November 11, 2009
Dear Todd,
Today is Nov. 11, 2009 and its Veterans Day. I think of you all the time and I do miss you. I wish you could just walk through our front door to say Hello. The boys are growing up so fast, they keep your parents and Uncle Kyle busy. We all miss you, rest well, and watch over all of us. The Holidays are around the corner, and I plan to visit, and the boys want to do a Wreath for you again this year. We will make a nice one I promise. Bye for now.
Love, Mother Mary
Linda Gunzinger
October 28, 2009
Dear Todd, Thinking of you everyday with love and missing you like crazy. The boys are all excited for Halloween. Bryce choosing to be a power ranger and Trey batman. Nick is a ninja turtle reminds me of you and Kyle at that age and Jake a ninja. We bought Dom a werewolf mask but he won't be trick-or-treating. We are always reminded of the last Halloween that you spent here on earth and what fun we did have. Hope that you will walk beside all of the boys on Halloween to keep them safe. As always all my love to you my sweet boy. Love, Mommy
Jessica (Gunzinger) Thibodeau
July 15, 2009
HAPPY 31ST BIRTHDAY!! Mackenzie and I miss you. Bryce and Trey do too. All three of them have been growing up so fast. Our boys are growing into some fine young men. Mackenzie is growing into a beautiful young lady. Again, HAPPY BIRTHDAY we love you!!
Kyle Gunzinger
April 30, 2009
I has been a long time since I've wrote in this. So much has happened yet time has stood still. Your boys grow everyday into beautiful little men. Bryce is playing baseball and Trey is now starting to grow an interest. I miss you everyday , next year Dominic is going to high school I remember when he was dancing on the big table in China. I think of you everyday my only brother my friend, my hero. I hope that you have reunited with Uncle Bud and smile down on all of us the strength of the wolf is in the pack and ours is missing you both love you little bro
Dom Dexter
April 30, 2009
Uncle Todd,
Ever day i think about you i don't think a day has gone by when i think about what could have been if you were still here.
I love and miss you
-Dom
pat woodard
April 28, 2009
Thinking of you todat Todd, we all miss you love pat and dennis
pat woodard
February 17, 2009
its been 3 years today, we think of you often and miss you todd love pat and dennis
karen zigmand
February 8, 2009
my sweet nephew,
I love you and miss you very much your mom and dad are doing an outstanding job with the boys kami and kyle are also such a big help life goes on but I think of you all the time and wonder what it would be like if you were here I love always and forever aunt karen
CLAIRE MAGNANO
February 7, 2009
HI LINDA AND FAMILY I CAN'T BELIEVE IT WILL BE 3 YEARS ALREADY, TIME GOES BY SO FAST, HOW ARE THNGS GOING WITH YOU AND TERRY AND RAISING TODD'S 2 BOYS GOD IS WITH YOU AND TODD IS THERE TO LEND A HELPING HAND I PRAY ALL IS WELL, TAKE CARE OF YOUR FAMILY I LOVE YOU CLAIRE
Linda Gunzinger
February 6, 2009
My sweet Todd, It has been nearly three years since you left. Not a day goes by that I feel you and see you in your children. Thank God that we have them in our lives. Bryce is so bright and misses you everyday. Trey is a true blessing and has become such a comedian. I know that you look out for them from wherever you are but I wish they could know what a delight you always were. Know that our hearts continue to be heavy without you. But we know that our job is to give your boys the best life that we can. Love you always, Mommy
Chelcee Melia
October 13, 2008
Todd,
It's been way to long.... We all think about you every day. I still cry most of the time I think of you... A few days ago I was talking on the phone and I looked over at my wall and my eyes went right to your picture... It took all I had not to cry until I finally said that I had to go and cried right when my phone shut.... I miss you so much and always think about how life would be if you had never gone away... I know for a fact that it would be wonderful... Just like when you were here... It's always nice to know your here with us but it would be even better to see and feel you...
KAMI DEXTER
September 18, 2008
TIME
Days pass on,
Months go by,
Years slip through my grasp.
I think of you every day.
Has this much time really passed?
To me it seems like yesterday that you went away.
To the world it was a long ago dream that will never again have to be replayed.
Little do they know what goes through my head each day.
Smiles for the world, hurt inside my heart,
They see what they want to see, the strong one from the start.
Time will never stand still, loved ones will slowly turn gray.
Children grow so fast, letting go each day as they play.
As the world spins on, some memories fade from mind,
But my memories of you will be forever frozen here in time.
Mark Gunzinger
March 15, 2008
Sorry to hear of his passing.
Linda Coelho (Plourde)
March 1, 2008
It's hard to believe it has been two years since you left this earth. I was feeling twice the sadness on the anniversary of your death, as it is also the birthday of my friend Heather who died just days before (on the 9th) at the age of just 23. It still seems unfair that God would take two people so young. But I suppose I must accept the things I do not understand, as it is Gods plan.. thinking of you and your family. Love and prayers.
Pop-Pop and Barb
February 21, 2008
Todd,
It's so hard to believe its been two years already. We love and miss you so much.
Love, Pop-Pop and Barb
linda Gunzinger
February 19, 2008
Todd,
It doesn't seem like two years have passed since you left this earth but then I look at the boys and they are growing so fast and then I know that it has to be true. Bejay came with Chelc on your two year anniversary and we tried not to babble too much but we did as we both miss you so much. Bryce and Dad stopped at your resting place on the way back from his hockey game in Lewiston. They were unable to find your marker as there is so much snow. Bryce asked if we could pack a shovel next time we go. That one he is always thinking. I will never get over losing you and I miss you and love you so much I can only hope that you know that. With much love, Your Mommy
pat woodard
February 16, 2008
todd its been 2 years tomorrow since your passing we miss you and think of you every day love pat and dennis
Terry Gunzinger
February 9, 2008
Todd: It will be two years this week since you left us. Never a day goes by without you being the most important thought on my mind. Miss you more each day than the day before. Loved you then, love you now, and will love you for always. Dad
linda Gunzinger
August 30, 2007
Hi Todd, Well, Tuesday was another huge step in Bryce's life that he had to take without you. He began his school career. He was very brave and a little too independent for Nonnie. He wanted to wait for the bus by himself! Of course we convinced him that standing there with him was for us and not for his benefit. I think that he will love school and do well. Wish you had been here to share the excitement of another first. I love you and think of you all day every day. Trey is really beginning to show us his personality and I think that even more will show up as we are able to spend some one on one time. As always love you, Mommy
linda Gunzinger
July 15, 2007
Happy Birthday, Todd! Another birthday without you oh what a heartbreak. The boys Dad and I stopped at your resting place on our way back from Old Orchard Beach. Trey gave me a hug and said, "You miss Daddy?" he seems to have taken on as my comfort. Such a clown he wanted to carry me up the hotel stairs when I told him that I was tired. We tried to do all the things that you would have done with them but as you know we don't have half the energy that you had but we try. Wishing that you were here to celebrate this birthday we always think that we can do better next time but sometimes there is no next time. That is how I remember you at your birthday that the next one was going to be special and then there was no chance to make that for you. I love you and miss you more than anyone could ever know. Love, Mommy
Terry Gunzinger
July 15, 2007
Todd: Today would have been your 29th birthday. We took the boys to Old Orchard Beach for four days then stopped at the cemetary this morning as we do many Sunday's. Trey was saying how much he missed his Daddy and I'm certain he still expects you to come home some night. Sadly we all know that won't happen and we all miss you more and more each day that goes by. I can't help but remember our last trip with you to OOB, and wish you could see the boys smiles as they enjoy each activity. Bryce wants to do it all and then some and Trey just trys te keep up with his older brother. We'll be releasing balloons this afternoon, as Bryce wanted to send one on it's way to you, as we did last year. We hang in there as best we can with every drop of what little energy we have. Happy Birthday Todd Love Dad
Kami Dexter
June 1, 2007
I wanted to let everyone know that I have created a website in memory of Todd. You can visit it by going to todd-gunzinger.memory-of.com. We invite you to share your thoughts and any photos that you would like. I hope you enjoy, it is another way to keep his memory alive for his two sons.
Terry Gunzinger
May 3, 2007
Todd: Each month goes by and none are without the pain of knowing you aren't with us. The boys grow each day and with good weather comes more and more outdoor activities. You can't imagine how much I wish you were here doing all the games and activities with Bryce as I know you would have been so proud of them both. You can tell they will both grow to love sports as you did. Trey trounces around the ball field trying to keep up with big brother Bryce. He wants to do just what his big brother does. Reminds me so much of you and Kyle at those ages. Not much trucks and cars, mostly ball and games. Bryce always wanting to win, and Trey saying "I win" as well. Love and Miss you so. Dad
linda Gunzinger, Todd
April 9, 2007
Todd, the days go by and I still cannot believe that you have gone. I feel as if I'm living in the twilight zone so much of the time. I feel like if I just sleep long enough or pray hard enough you will come back to us. But I know that is not the truth and you are really gone from this earth. I try to take care of your boys the way that I believe you would have wanted but that also is not always easy I love them both so much. Trey reminds me of you as a little one now. He enjoys the little things in life playing in a box or doodling with a crayon. Bryce doesn't really know just where he belongs and longs to have things the way they were before you left. We all miss you and try to get on with life but it is so hard. Love, Mommy
Travis Davis
March 29, 2007
Todd: Hey I know you have seen what has been going on down here and I thank you and god for your help in changeing my life It has not been an easy road thus far I wont stop praying when i need a helping hand it works I thaank god for leting you take my hand and help me see what life here is all about with out that spirtual walk I am so afraid of where I might be today. I keep you in my heart and in my head there still is not a day I dont mention your name to somebody or think it in my head,Again I thank you so much for the helping hand Bro.I miss you everyday and keep wondering what you may look like when we do meet again.Untill then ttyl and I thank god for still being able to ask you for help..
Terry Gunzinger
March 27, 2007
Todd: We missed having this on line for a few days as I didn't get notified that the year was running out and am sure happy to have it back as I look at it daily. Boys are doing good, and we know you keep a close eye over them. Whenever Trey sees a plane or a star he calls it his "Daddy". Bryce is looking forward to playing soccer weekends now and has so much energy. Miss you more than you could ever imagine. Love, Dad
Terry Gunzinger
March 20, 2007
Todd: The days and months pass yet each day I think of you as it begins and you are my last thought at night. Trey wants my attention now, so I must go play with him. Love Dad
linda gunzinger
March 7, 2007
Just wanted to let you know that I got your messages and I feel so much more at peace knowing that Dad and I are doing what you want us to do. I also have been trying to have more fun and to laugh and smile more it does feel better. I still miss you more that any one could ever know and my heart still has and will probably always have a huge hole in it that is where you should be in this life. The boys are doing well and we continue to help them to remember you in all your special ways. Love you, until we meet again. Mommy
Travis Davis
February 17, 2007
Hey bud as you know it has been a year today. I miss you.I have my kids this weekend things are going ok lil rough today but it was exspected tomarrow is the 500 as you know its like your superbowl lol I had to say hello my lil girl has glasses now as you know she is so cute.. Till we meet again Love you man.. :-( miss you so much....
Ann Maffuccio
February 17, 2007
Terry, Linda, Jamie, Cami, Dominic, Jacob, Nicholas, Kyle, Todd, Bryce, and Trey,
We hope the year has brought you some peace since the loss of Todd. We enjoy your entries on Todd's Legacy. God bless you all. Our prayers are with you every day.
Love, Frank, Anita, Laura, Maggie, Jayde, Kristy, Ann, Michael, Dominic, Mike, Lucy, Mick, and Keith
Terry Gunzinger
February 15, 2007
Todd: A year has come and gone and each day has an emptiness that you used to fill. A year has no magic cure for our pain like so many would hope that it would or could. We still take each day as it comes and think of you many times during each day. The boys are doing fine and growing into little people that have their own personalities. Bryce talks so often of what his Daddy could do and often times with a little exaggeration, but always with the greatest of love. Trey has become so loving of us all now, so much different than when we first got him in October of 2005 for good. Our love never diminishes and never will. Till we meet again. Love, Dad
Travis Davis
February 12, 2007
Todd It has been almost a year and it still seems like yesterday. I miss you so much Im doing ok as you know I had a bad day last thursday the inportant thing is I learned from it I wish you were here to talk to when things were going wrong or those craveings come as you know I have turned to church and god for help with my addiction church is a place where i feel free and comfortable. It is a battle everyday. Some days the cravings are worse and I can talk myself out of them but when they are real bad I pray to you and god to remove the addiction and replace it with courage. really I feel you and god are the only two I can talk to that understand and have seen what I was and what Im tring to be.. As you know I see my kids again so by not drinking I have gotten the trust back from the ex to let me see my babies.. I rember you telling me the night at Bejays when I was drinking I said "Todd" Want a beer man and you said well yeah just one then you asked me why I felt I had to drink so much? I rember what I said It takes away the pain and hurtful things in life. Since your passing I have learned that unless you can drink 24/7 the fear will always be there since I have found God I learned differnt you need to ask him for help to recive it. the important thing is your year is on a saturday so if Lisa will help me I want to take the car alone to come see you. I need her help cause all 5 kids will be here. Im not ashamed to come see you just all the kids dont fit in the car and its my weekend with mine and I want to come alone to talk to you.. well bud I miss the heck out of you you were the best friend anyone could ask for even though we had just met 2 months before you leaving it was easy to get to know you. I miss our talks.
I love you Buddie "Til We Meet Again"
Love Always: Travis Davis
Linda Plourde
February 11, 2007
Todd & Family:
Just wanted to let you all know I am thinking of you. I'm sure the holidays were difficult without Todd. I hope the boys are doing well and I just wanted to let you know everytime I think of Todd and your family I always smile. Take care
Love and blessings,
Linda
Kami Dexter
January 31, 2007
After reading Andrea's entry I thought that I would post what happened to Todd. Todd died essentially of a heart attack. He had arterial sclorosis and premature heart disease. The doctor that helped Dad and Mom read the results of the autopsy said that there was probably no signs and that one of the first signs of this is sudden death. Since Todd's death I have known of at least two other cases of this that I can think of right now.
What haunts me most is the idea of dad finding him in the morning and the others in the house being beckoned by his scream. It has bothered me since that day, sometimes I can envision the whole scene. I can remember dad waking me up in the morning as a child and how cheerful he was, singing, making up words to familiar songs and to know that his intent was to wake Todd up is heartwrenching to me. I can imagine the horror of the whole scene. This is even worse for me to think about than the phone call that came into my house just 20 minutes later. Late at night or when I am in a quiet moment I can still hear my father's sobs and my mother's moaning cries in the backround.
Todd's early departure is unbelievable at such a young age but let it be a lesson to all who have families with heart disease. Keep check of your weight, quit smoking or better yet don't start, engage in regular exercise, get your yearly check up done, don't ignore new symptoms. I'm sure that I am missing some other advice. Todd's death is the third person that I know of that died of natural causes before the age of 30 was reached, it is far too common.
Please don't be afraid to ask us about what happened. Sometimes it helps to talk about it. The memory may cause tears but tears cleanse the soul and help us move on to the memories that we want to keep alive.
Love to all,
Kami
Andrea Chesley
January 28, 2007
Todd: As you know I work with your dad. He is an awsome guy! We are all so happy for him and your mom that the boys are safe in their care. Your dad is back to wearing his silly ties (which I enjoy). He does whistle from time to time. This is how I know if he is having a good day or bad day. I don't discuss you being gone. In fact, I never questioned what happend. I feel so bad that you were so young. Reading all these messages makes me greatful for what I have. Take care.
Terry Gunzinger
January 27, 2007
Todd: We quickly approach a year now that you have left us and I must say that no day is better than the other as each one has a hole in it where you used to be. Thank you for leaving us Bryce and Trey as they help us through each one as we know you would want us to watch over them as we did you for 27 years. Love you and miss you: Dad
Deb Crocker
January 17, 2007
Linda & Terry,
Thank you for sharing Todd with me...continue to keep his smiles and love in your heart through your journey in life....he will guide you always!
Deb Crocker
January 17, 2007
Linda & Terry,
Thank you for sharing Todd with me...keep his smiles and love in your hearts as you travel your journey of life....he will continue to guide you always!
Shirley Lewis-Rogers
January 13, 2007
Linda, Terry & family...I think of you so often and keep you in my prayers. I can see and feel the love for your Todd here and how he influenced everyone's lives. His precious little boys are in good hands. Would love to visit with you all sometime and just talk. My love to you all and may the New Year bring you some happy times for all of you. Kami and Kyle's writings are so heartfelt. God Bless You All..Love Cousin, Shirley
linda Gunzinger
January 12, 2007
Well, it's been almost 11 months now. We have been through some interesting times. The boys seem pretty settled and feel this is there home and that is just what we wanted for them. It is a lot of hard work but worth every second. Dad and I started to attend a group at Hospice for grieving parents. Everyone is sad even people that lost their children what seems like a long time ago. We know that we will never be quite the same without you but we try to be somewhat happy for the rest of the family but even they grieve from day to day and try to just get on with the process of living. That's not so easy you know. Love, Mommy
To all of you that read this page thank you and thank you for your kind words and words of encouragement. We have been dealt a lousy hand but we feel all of your wishes and prayers for our families sense of peace. Love Linda
Travis Davis
January 1, 2007
I can't believe that it's been almost a year since you have been gone. We all miss you and New Year's wasn't the same without you here. We decided to stay at the Comfort Inn last night with Lisa's brother and his girlfriend and we wished you was there with us.
Until we meet again!!
Claire Magnano
December 31, 2006
I was thinking of your Todd and his boys and your family and pray for you at this time of the year when we miss our loved ones and can't share it with them, but they are lookng down on us and know we miss them, I think of you often Linda and your family and just want to wish you a blessed new year,and what wonderful grandparents you are for raising Todd's boys God Bless You. Love your cousin Claire Magnano
Terry Gunzinger
December 29, 2006
Todd: I sent out a message a couple of weeks ago, but didn't seem to get through. 2006 has been a very trying year, as you well know for all of us here. We were able to secure the safety and well being of Bryce and Trey and look to the future with them to be a happy rewarding environment for them. They both are growing safely and in all had a good Christmas with no real conflicts. Miss you more with each passing day and I certainly can understand when Kyle says it is hard to show signs of happiness without you having been here to share this with us. We can only make do with what we have and hope and pray that you share with us your peace. Trey often calls out for you and I'm pretty certain he just doesn't know what called you away, as most of us struggle with this as well. You are always in our thoughts and we pray that you are smiling down on us and help us through the next year. Love Dad
Kyle Gunzinger
December 21, 2006
Toddy, I ran into an old christmas tape from somewhere around 1987, life seemed so much simpler then. Truth be told little brother I've tried incredibly hard to avoid anything christmas, I smile for the boys but their will always be a piece missing from times now gone by. On the tape mom goes into all our rooms with the camera and talks to us. I have a hard time thinking about it really, she asks you who's coming and you respond "I know why he's coming, it's the giving time" That sums my little brother up in not so many words, he would do anything for anybody even if it was at his own loss. I'm going to try my best this will be a hard holiday, I felt sick to my stomach in regards to it for a while now, I miss the times when we we're kids and beyond. Someday Toddy i'll see you again please look over your boys, we'll all do our best...we owe you that much for your short yet wonderful time with us, I love you for always and miss you part of me will never be the same.
All my love
Your adoring brother
Kyle C Gunzinger
BJ Davis
December 21, 2006
Two more days and a year has gone by since you and I became "US". Tomorrow we are having our Christmas party at work. I remember last year 9 o'clock break, you brought me in flowers, laid them on my desk, and then took a seat over by the copier with a big smirk on your face. I can still remember what you were wearing. That was the beginning of our close relationship, that started the EVERY night phone calls and the every weekend stays. I know it will be a difficult day tomorrow with the party and the remembering, but I also know you will be there in spirit. I pushed this year for Pizza Hut during our party. So I will have an extra piece of bacon pizza just for you.
Every now and then I will look up from my desk and I see you sitting there and I can actually smell the roses.
Until we meet again sweetheart!!
Luv Ya
Bejay
Travis Davis
December 19, 2006
Hey it has been 10 months since I have seen your smile I want you to know you are in my heart and my mind it is almost christmas I miss you so much I wish you were here to see the boys for Christmas till we meet again! love Travis and Lisa and all the lil ones
pat woodard
December 18, 2006
Todd its been 10 months since you left us all, we all still miss you,I know you are so proud of your parents for what they have done for the little ones, I will give them a special kiss from you on xmas. love pat and dennis
Shirley Lewis-Rogers
December 11, 2006
Linda,Terry,Kami and Kyle: I read Todd's guest book every time there is an entry and what beautiful thoughts are written here about your
Todd. I think of you all often and love the poems and tributes and the fact that his friend, Travis, finds solace in being able to write here also. What fine tributes to a wonderful young man. I know the lil guys are safe and so loved and that is so wonderful. I know this must be a hard season for all of you without Todd, and the star at the top of the tree will be shining down from Heaven on all of you, watching the wonder in those two little boys, whose eyes will be filled with excitement and love. I wish for you a happy Christmas and a wonderful, happy and healthy New
Year and continued guidance from above with your precious treasures.
I think of you all often and so wish we were closer and we could get
together for coffee and just talk.
May God Bless You ALL through this holy season. With Love and Peace,
Cousin, Shirley Warm hugs to all
Travis Davis
December 10, 2006
Hey bud, its been almost 10 months Im doing ok I have a new job as you see..its ok i like the people there great and the money is good.I miss seeing dad though. I used to look for him or Kyle noing that it was time :)) I miss you so much Im getting better day bu day It has to be hard on Lisa though Im tring to change a big thing in my life and I have to do it.. Ill be talking to you about it Im sure.. I need the help I cant fight this alone.. I have family with you but instead I turn to you..because you were so young like me.. I love you Bro.. i need to go I'll talk to you latter.
Travis Davis
November 29, 2006
Hey man I have had a good last two days as you know I talked alot about you today I had to meet with my new couselor It has been two days since I have drank And three days since I have been back on my meds.. Lisa has said she sees a big change in me lately I hope you do to cause I know you questioned my sister about my drinking and you wished I would stop you saw how rough I was being on my self and others these last few weeks I did to thats why I chose to leave the beer alone as hard as its gonna be I hope you forgive me as well as god to for all the hurt I have done to everyone from my ex wife, my kids ,family and lisa as well and her kids all I know is it is time to change and Im looking for you to help me Its gonna be tough but lead me the right way I'll listen.. I wish you were here we could had done a bunch of stuff together.. but for now the 11'oclock news is do to come on I love you and miss you so much!
love always Travis
Kyle Gunzinger
November 22, 2006
I've lost my shadow
I've lost my shadow how can this be
I've lost my shadow and I can't see
I've lost my shadow and things aren't alright
I've lost my shadow his smile was so bright
I've lost my shadow and I miss him so
I've lost my shadow, where did he go?
I remember my shadow playing in the light
I miss my shadow his presence was bright
I've lost my shadow and I don't know why
I've lost my shadow I now constantly cry
I've lost my shadow while he was here life was full
I've lost my shadow and I don't know where to go
I've lost my shadow and when he left
I've lost my shadow he was the best
I miss my shadow wherever I go
I wish I could see my shadow but he is now gone
I love my shadow forever and beyond
I will remember my shadow long after he is gone
Terr Gu
November 21, 2006
Todd: our first Thanksgiving will occur without you here in our world. A trying day for all as each day is a day we deal with so often thinking that you should be here with us. We went to Disney World with the boys and I think it will be a lasting memory for both of them. I'm certain it will be for us, as I remember our trip in 1990 so clearly as if it were yesterday. They are both doing so well and we can only hope that they will continue to grow in good health without the pressures of life affecting them. Bryce is so excited about starting to play hockey that he counts the days to his first session on the ice. He and Jacob are starting together, and I can only hope and pray that they will remain as close as you and Kyle were and that they get to play together as they grow each year, no matter what the activity. Trey will turn 2 on Thursday and last years birthday party is so clear in my memory, just like it was yesterday. He has grown and developed his own personality and has become quite the little man. These next several weeks will be very trying for all of us, as we go to the custody hearing and the holidays coming up, where you were so big a part of last years festivities. We'll get through them, as we have to for the boys sake, but they won't be easy without you here. Love, as always: Dad
linda Gunzinger
November 17, 2006
The last nine months have been tortorous to say the least knowing that you will never again be here in the physical world. Yet I know that you are here with us spiritually. Last night all the boys except Nicholas were here at the house Trey had a bag of Cheese-It's when Dom tried to take a handful Trey looked at him and said,"Get your own bag.," Thanks for the laugh as we all knew that it was you talking through your son. We went to Hope's Place last night and Kami read both of her poems to the group. I think that it gave some of the grieving people there as much food for thought and peace as it did for me.
We continue our quest for Bryce and Trey and again ask for your guidance to do the 'right things'. I love you Todd and miss you like crazy. Until we are able to meet again. Much love, Mommy
Kami Dexter
November 15, 2006
In two days it will be 9 months since you left us, exactly the amount of time a baby is carried. There are so few things in life that we measure in months, a pregnancy, a baby's first year, how long someone has been absence from your life. Sometimes I feel so trapped between the last two measures. So joyfully watching a new life progress month by month, learning new tricks, growing so fast. So mournfully realizing that another life has been gone month by month, still in disbelief, still at a stand still.
I lit a candle for you two Sundays ago and I thought of the show Survivor. At the end of each show when the tribes are at tribal council Jeff Probst says "As long as you have fire you have life." I watched your candle sizzle into life and just thought of this line. I believe that your light shines so much brighter now. It was a beautiful service, so peaceful but so heartbreaking at the same time.
I am slowly working on the memory book for the boys. I did a page about looking for the Christmas tree last year. It always makes me smile when I can forget the now and go back, I lose myself in the pages. Jamie had a hard time looking at the page, emotions are so high. I think that most people think about what can never be again and I find that in doing this book I can get lost in a memory.
Dominic made the travel team for hockey again this year and it reminded me of all the games you came to last year. You bundled the boys up whenever you had a chance and came to watch Dom play. This is not easy with a 1 year old. You know, I knew you were there but did I ever say thank you? It meant a lot to me. I know that you will be there this year too, so thank you ahead of time.
The lines of communication are always open, I listen the best that I know how. I will continue to watch and listen for your signs. I will see you in my dreams.
BJ Davis
November 13, 2006
I know its been a while since I wrote. I talk to you so often, sometimes its harder to write it. Everyone's entries are so beautiful. You were right when you once told me how special your sister is. She expresses emotions tremendously well. I never needed to say words to you however, you JUST knew!! I miss you terribly. Even though life seems as though it is moving on for Chelc and I, it really stands still. There is not a moment that goes by that I don't think of you. Shannon and I talk about you everyday at work. You touched her heart as you did everyones that you came in contact with. You will always be my "great" love. I know now how lucky we were and that it was indeed REAL. I love you.
Luv ya
Bejay
Travis Davis
November 12, 2006
When I have no one to turn to
And I am feeling kind of low,
When there is no one to talk to
And nowhere I want to go,
I search deep within myself
It is the love inside my heart
That lets me know "YOU" my Angel is Here
Even though we are miles apart.
A smile then appears upon my face
And the sun begins to shine.
I hear a voice, so soft and sweet
Saying, 'Everything will be just fine'
It may seem that I am alone
But I am never by myself at all.
Whenever I need my Angel you are near
All I have to do is whisper.....
An Angel's love is always true
On that you can depend.
They will always stand behind you
And will always be your friend.
Through darkest hours and brightest days
"YOU" will see us through
"YOU" smile when we are happy, and cry when we are blue..
Thanks for being my Angel my friend
I will be there for you until the end.
Hey i miss you so much I know you are with me from time to time I hear our last conversation I was sitting in the corner here i love you so much "Till we meet again"
Love Travis
Kami Dexter
November 1, 2006
WELCOME HOME
The light in your eyes shone so bright
that all your surroundings appeared pure and white.
Over your head soared a dove,
You knew you had moved on above.
Friendly, familiar faces said, "Welcome home,
Here you'll find love like you have never known.
Grandmothers rushed forward to take your hand.
They said, "Come and join this wonderful band.
Now you can be whatever you please
You'll never hear another taunt or a tease.
Come meet the Creator who made it all true,
He is waiting to wrap loving arms around you.
The Good Lord took you up in his arms,
you felt instantly filled with his charm.
"Welcome home child", is all that he said,
you knew that you would always be fed,
By the light of his grace
as you looked up into his face.
"Son, in your life you served me well,
I hope you find your new home swell.
Gone are the days of suffering and pain,
you will never feel second best again.
Only those that you left behind
will feel that I have been terribly unkind.
They too will understand someday
when they enter my Kingdom and come my way.
You will have to send them a sign today,
so that they know everything is o.k.
They are suffering and their hearts are broken,
Pick something simple to leave as your token.
When it is found they will know it's from you,
they will feel the light of your love shine through.
Please don't worry about them at all,
I will be with them in case they should fall.
Now, go play in my garden wonderful child,
enjoy your freedom for a while.
Kami Dexter
October 27, 2006
THE PARTING
You went to sleep one cold winter's night, and woke up to a brilliant and dazzling light.
You saw loved ones who'd come to welcome you home, and knew that you would never again have to feel all alone.
Your soul leapt for joy at this glorious chance, but your mind said you had to stay for just one more glance at the people you loved that you would leave in this place. Leave in your dust with a great empty space.
First for the two children all snuggled in bed, warm under their covers, resting their heads. You whispered that you would always be here, assuring them that you will always be near.
Next for the father who'd always been kind, and in the morning your body he'd find. On his heart you placed your palm, and prayed that he would find a calm.
Mother slept quietly at his side, unaware of that the morning would bring a terrible tide. You thanked her softly for giving you life, and apologized for bringing such strife.
Next to brother who loved you so dear, and who thought that you'd always be here to cry with and laugh with and talk and now must enter an all alone walk. You thanked him for all of the love and the joy, and asked him to help look after your boys.
Over to sister who was with a sick child, and sleeping so lightly and a little bit mild. You told that you were with your grandmothers, and asked her to say hi to you grandfathers.
Then to the love you had recently found and whose voice had the sweetest sound. You thanked her for the love that you shared and told her that you always would care.
Last to the friends so near to your heart, you promised them friendship that never would part.
Then happily you soared on your way, into a place that would always be day.
The family and friends you left is heartbroken, it's true, but they know in their hearts that they will always be looked after by you.
Sister
Travis Davis
October 26, 2006
Todd,I miss you so much each day I saw kyle the other day at work I geuss he has been working in portland for awhile... I didnt have alot of time to talk but most inportant I got to say hello. ok bud i wanted to say i miss you and need your help with all thats going on lately you know what Im Talking about i sorta prayed to you at work today while I wasnt busy I think the guys knew what I was doing.. i miss you so much daily..
pat woodard
October 25, 2006
todd, you are still in our thoughts every day, i talked to the boys and your mom a few days ago,the boys are so cute and smart, we think of you dailey Todd, rest in piece pat and dennis
Linda Gunzinger
October 18, 2006
Hi Todd, I was going to write sooner but I have a hard time getting to the computer to work. It has been eight long months since you left us we have seen two seasons come and go hard to comprehend that you won't ever be coming back we miss you. Halloween is just around the corner and the boys are trying to decide just what they want to be. Bryce is now today deciding to be a Patriot he was going to be Darth Vader like last year. Trey I think will wear the Captain Feather Sword outfit that you bought for Bryce last year, yes he is that big. It will seem strange not to have you dressed up and ready to go out trick or treating with the boys perhaps Kyle will take them for you. I just wanted to let you know how good it makes us feel when other people write into legacy to express their feelings of missing you too. You have some really wonderful friends. I love you and never stop thinking of you. Love, Mommy.
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