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Robert H. Ralston Jr. October 28, 1941 - October 26, 2011 Mystic - Robert H. Ralston Jr. (Bob), 69, of Mystic, formerly of Enfield, died unexpectedly, October 26, 2011, at Lawrence and Memorial Hospital. Bob was born in Hartford, CT, on October 28, 1941, elder son of the late Helen Sowinski Ralston and Robert H Ralston, Sr. After graduating Ellington High School in1960, he attended Manchester Community College and Porter and Chester Institute, graduating with a degree in Manufacturing Engineering. He served in the U.S. Army from 1968 to 1970. Bob worked as a Manufacturing Engineer at Pratt and Whitney Aircraft/United Technologies, retiring in 1993 and then consulting for them until 2008. He lived in Enfield for 30 years before moving to Mystic in 1995. Bob was an avid boater and he most especially loved his Block Island retreats on the vessel "Ba Da Bing!" Bob is survived by his loving wife and first mate, Donna Lussier Ralston; his son, Robert H. Ralston III and his wife, Doreen; his daughter, Cheryl Langan and her husband, Kevin; daughter, Bethanie Ries; son, James Brodowski Jr. and his wife, Angela; and daughter, Kari Howard and her husband, Bill. He leaves behind 10 grandchildren who loved and adored him: Lauren Ralston, Valerie Ralston, Brandon Langan, Samantha Langan, Paige Langan, Elizabeth Langan, Joshua Ries, Griffin Ries, Logan Howard, Evan Howard. He is also survived by his precious Bichon Frise, Bing Crosby Ralston. Also, he is survived by his one and only brother, Douglas Ralston and his wife, Joan; as well as many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his first wife Elizabeth Sikut Ralston. The Ralston family will receive family and friends from 1 PM to 5 PM on Sunday, October 30, 2011, at the Mystic Funeral Home on Route 1 in Mystic (51 Williams Ave.) A Celebration of his Life will be held Monday at 10:00 AM at St Mary Mother of the Redeemer Church, 69 Groton Long Point Rd, Groton, CT. Military honors will immediately follow the mass. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Bob's memory to: L&M Joslin Diabetes Center, c/o Office of Development, 365 Montauk Avenue, New London, CT 06320 or Block Island Health Services, PO Box 919, Block Island, RI 02807. Please visit www.mysticfu neralhome.com to leave an online message of condolence and for directions to the funeral home.

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Published by Norwich Bulletin from Oct. 28 to Oct. 29, 2011.

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Dick Bragg

November 23, 2011

Donna and family, sorry to hear of Bob's passing. My days with Bob go back to working in East Hartford and in boating. Always known as "a blow boater" in Bob's terms, we kept in touch and came to be "neighbors in Mystic". Bob loved boating so much and he was so happy with his years with you, Donna and sharing that passion. Bob was a friend to many and never more than to his mentor and life long friend "Bergie". God bless you and family.

Jimmy Economou

November 18, 2011

Donna,
My deepest sympathies, very sorry to hear about Bob. He will be sadely missed by all his friends in the boating community.

gail williams

November 11, 2011

Donna and family,
Bob will be missed by all he encountered. So with sadness, I pass my thoughts and prayers along to all of your family and friends that Bob has touched. He was a part of my" Mystic Family" and I will miss him. Love to you and your family. Gail

November 5, 2011

It is with great sadness that I send my heartfelt thoughts and prayers to Bob's wife and family.

Lynne Sayet Cohen

November 3, 2011

I'm very sorry to hear of Bob's passing. Bob is a great guy to know. I had some really good times with Bob, both at work and out of work. I would receive a funny joke from Bob from time-to-time and it would remind me of his good nature. I worked with Bob on several projects; he always found a way to ease the pressures of the job. I will always keep Bob in my thoughts. Bob's family will be in my prayers.

Tom DeNino

Irene Olszewski

November 3, 2011

Cheryl and Bob,
I was so very sorry to hear of your dad's passing. I am remembering the many great times I had with him and your mom growing up. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

November 2, 2011

Dear Family.
I just learned of Bob's passing, and I am deeply saddened.
Bob and I were friends in working projects, that Bob taught me how to accomplish.
we had many laughs together.
He gave me his framed photo of that great "Ba Da Bing".
Thank you Bob, for being my friend.
Dave Symolon

November 2, 2011

Donna and family, We are so sadened for the loss of our good friend Bob. His presence was such a joy out on B.I. We are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers and extend our deepest sympathies.
Love, Ron & Karin Chalecki, Stu & the Crew and all the other Block Islanders.

Susan and Jeffrey Sikut

November 1, 2011

We are very sad for the loss of Uncle Bob!

November 1, 2011

Donna and Family,
Our thoughts have been and continue to be during this difficult time. We are so sorry for your loss and pray you find peace in your heart. Love,
Karen and Stephen Hardy

October 31, 2011

I AM VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF BOB'S PASSING, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE FAMILY. A FELLOW CLASS MATE, CLASS OF 1960.
MARY KLOCK, PORT ORANGE FL.

Irene, Mary & Kate, Assessor's Office

October 31, 2011

Dear Donna & Family,
We are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers and extend our deepest sympathies during this sad time.

Chris Dunn

October 31, 2011

Dear Donna and family we want to express our deepest sympathy to all of you. We will certainly miss Bob at Payne's Dock on our July 4th trips. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Chris, Tracey, Abi, and Bailey Dunn from Son of a sailor

Chris Dunn

October 31, 2011

Dear Donna and family we want to express our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We will certainly miss seeing Bob at Paynes Dock. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Chris, Tracey, Abi and Bailey Dunn from Son of a sailor.

Gary & Carole Benard

October 31, 2011

Dear Donna & Family
Our deepest Sympathy to you and your Family. We are so deeply saddened and Boating & Golfing life will never be the same. We have wonderful memories and will keep them in our hearts forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

laura wirtz

October 31, 2011

Dear Donna and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Bob was a great guy, that we'll never forget. Peter, Laura & Jenilee Wirtz

Kris Young

October 31, 2011

Donna and Family,

We are so saddened to hear of Bob's passing. We really enjoyed spending time with him in Mystic and BI. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Bob truly was a great guy and will be missed by so many.
Vann & Kris

Jack & Lynn

October 30, 2011

Bobby, Cheryl, Donna and family,
Our hearts are broken at this sudden loss. I have lost a best friend. We will treasure our memories forever.
Love,

October 30, 2011

Donna & Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. So very,very sorry for your loss. George, Tina & Georgie (Marina)

BARBARA BURZYCKI

October 30, 2011

DONNA AND FAMILY = SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. BARB & FRANK BURZYCKI

Mimi & Rus Dunbar

October 30, 2011

Donna & The Ralston Family,We are so saddened with Bob"s passing. He was a big part of our lives the past few years. The golf, dining out, the arguing, boat repairs, drinking, and boat trips. We are not looking and forward to a summer without him. Words cannot express our deepest feelings: we loved and lost a true friend. Rus & Mimi

October 30, 2011

Ralston Family,
So sorry to hear of Bob's passing. I'm so glad I had the opportunity to spend some time with Bob and Donna at our high school reunion just a year ago.
My condolences to you all.
Jeannie Vansickle

Gail & David Hantman

October 30, 2011

Donna and Family,

David and I send our deepest sympathy in your sudden loss. Bob was loved by many and will be remembered for his ready smile and love of life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

October 29, 2011

Donna & Family,
We are all deeply saddened to hear of Bob's passing. The memories of the great times with you, Bob, Bing, Ba Da Bing and your boating family will continue forever.
God Bless.
Bob Herd

Denis Desrosiers

October 29, 2011

•Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Ralston Family during this difficult time in your lives.
•Bob will surely be missed, he was a good boss and friend as well.
Denis & Nancy Desrosiers

Sally and Lloyd Orlow

October 29, 2011

Dear Ralston Family,
We are deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your husband, father and grandfather.
We are grateful that we got to spend some happy moments with Bob and Donna at our recent EHS class reunion in Windsor Locks.
All our thoughts & Prayers go out to your whole family during this very sad time.
God Bless,
Sally and Lloyd

Anne Denley

October 29, 2011

I was saddened to hear of Bob's passing. please accept my condolences at your time of sorrow. He was an EHS classmate.

October 29, 2011

Donna and famlies, We are so sad to hear of your loss. Bob was a wonderful man and will be deeply missed by many. During our boting adventures we will always think of his love for the water and boating. We will be thinking of you at this time of sadness.
Debby and Jay Leonard

Erich Pilatti

October 29, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Ralston Family during this difficult time in your lives.

Wendy-Ann (Rossi) Polderman

October 28, 2011

Cheryl & Bob My deepest and most sincere condolences for your loss. There are never words to ease the pain that comes with the loss of someone you love. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

Bobby Stanford

October 28, 2011

Donna and Family,
We were shocked and saddened to hear this news. Please know that our thoughts and deepest sympathies are with you, now.
We love you and Big Bob, dearly.
Love,
Bobby, Linda and RJ Stanford

Brian & Jan McConville

October 28, 2011

Dear Donna & Family, Jan & I are genuinely saddened at the news of Bob's passing. We feel blessed to have had the chance to spend time with you and Bob just a year ago at the EHS reunion.
“Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.”

May you find peace,
Brian & Jan

Jean Foisie

October 28, 2011

Dear Donna, Bobby and Cheryl and extended family,

Ken and I are deeply saddened. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We will keep Bob in our prayers and all of our wonderful memories we will cherish forever.
Love,
Jeanne and Ken

Kathleen Souza

October 28, 2011

Donna our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Jr. & Kathy

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