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Curtis Lipke Obituary

Curtis Wesley Lipke
1954-2012
Curtis Wesley Lipke, 58, of Salt Lake City, Utah, passed away August 3, 2012 in his home surrounded by family and friends, after a heroic battle with pancreatic cancer that lasted three years and eight months. During that time, he not only found ways to have a wonderful quality of life, but also was an inspiration to everyone he encountered. His strength of mind, body and spirit carried him through his battle.
Curt was born July 6, 1954, and raised in Buffalo, New York, in a family of four brothers and one sister, with loving caring parents, Dr. Ken and Patricia Lipke, who taught them principled values and a strong work ethic. Curt graduated from Clarence Central High School.
An avid competitor and extreme athlete most of his life, Curt realized in his early teens that he had a tremendous passion for skiing. He quickly perfected those skills and became a ski instructor at Bluemont Ski Area outside of Buffalo. It was only fitting that skiing should play a major role in his decision about college, which took him to the University of Utah amidst some of the best skiing in the country.
Curt's love for skiing and his fondness for Utah made it difficult to return to Buffalo after graduation in business studies at the University of Utah, but he went back and joined his family business, then called Gibraltar Steel Corporation. He applied himself diligently to his career and worked his way to become divisional president. The company was publicly traded in 1983 and Curt was elected to the Board of Directors.
His love of skiing and Utah were always on his mind and, receiving some good advice from his mother, he decided to follow his dream and return to Salt Lake City.
Curt was always very athletic and competitive, and in addition to skiing and ski racing, he thrived on endurance sports, competing in triathlons and taking second place in the World Seniors Games. His passions also included mountain bike races, road races and foot races. He spent many years enjoying the outdoors and participating in everything from riding his Harley to jumping doubles on his motor cross bike. He is a graduate of the Skip Barber and Spring Mountain Race Car Driving Schools.
Many marveled at his ability to continue competing and winning events during his battle with cancer. One of his many mottos was, "Pain is just weakness leaving the body."
Doctors at the Huntsman Cancer Hospital, where he received treatments, often called on Curt to speak with other patients. He was able to provide support and guidance and to demonstrate that, yes, you can have a high quality of life even while battling cancer. He took great pride in helping other patients.
Curt is survived by his beloved wife, Linda Mulkey, his mother, Patricia Lipke, brothers Neil (Shannon), Eric (Janine), Brian (Debbie) and sister Meredith, nieces Carlisle, Katie, Elissa and Erica, nephew Kenneth, and canine kids Sally and Alvin. Curt was predeceased by his father, Dr. Ken Lipke, and his stepdaughter Lauren Elizabeth Mulkey.
Curt and Linda were two angels, drawn together to help each other survive some of the greatest challenges life can bring us, including the sudden death of Linda's daughter Lauren and Curt's journey with cancer. Together they enjoyed life to the fullest with their dogs, skiing, trips to Las Vegas, and sharing their lives with so many friends.
Lauren absolutely adored Curt, as did all of her friends. They have stayed in Curt and Linda's life and remained close throughout Curt's illness.
The family wishes to extend tremendous thanks to all of the dedicated doctors and staff at the Huntsman Cancer Center and the huge outpouring of care, concern and love from their friends.
Curt knew what it took to be a friend, and because of that, he had many. He will be forever in our hearts.
A memorial service to celebrate Curt's life will be held at 11:30 am on Wednesday, August 8, 2012, in the Courage Theatre, Jewett Center, at Westminster College, 1840 South 1300 East, Salt Lake City. Curt requested that everyone who attends, please wear bright-colored or Hawaiian shirts.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the Huntsman Cancer Institute or Intermountain Therapy Animals. Online condolences may be sent at www.larkinmortuary.com.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Aug. 7 to Aug. 8, 2012.

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Frank Gibson

August 1, 2021

Fond memories of my association
with the Lipke family

Frank Gibson

August 1, 2020

God Bless Curtis and the Lipke Family

August 1, 2019

May god bless you and yours

September 4, 2012

To the Lipke family,
I had just heard of the passing of your brother and son. Please accept my deepest sympathy with the passing of Curt.

Taylor Miller

August 21, 2012

Dear Linda,
I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of your true love.
You have had so much tragedy in your young life, as you know, time heals, but the pain will always be with you. Please know I love and respect you, you are so strong, I truly admire you. Please know I'm in your court.
With Heartfelt Sympathy,
Taylor Miller

Denise & Peter Maziarz

August 14, 2012

To All The Family: Curt was a great friend, he will be missed greatly by his wife and mother and family and all of his friends here in Buffalo. Our deepest sympathy to all of you. He is now in peace and out of pain.

August 13, 2012

Please accept our deepest sympathy with the loss of Curt Joan & Nelson Fischer West Chester Ohio

Ryan McMullin

August 13, 2012

I am so glad I had the chance to know Curt. I had the pleasure of working with Curt in ski industry here in Utah. I could always count on Curt for demo days and tunning sesions. He is a man of great integrity and personal character, always thinking of others before himself. The way Curt lived was inspirational, and I am better because of my knowing Curt. Linda, may all Gods love and blessings be with you.

Fred Dieffenbach

August 11, 2012

I met Curt in W. NY. We ski raced together, ran a few races, rode bikes -- times I will never forget. Hell of a competitor, and someone I'll never forget! When I first heard that Curt was ill I wrote to him to tell him one of my favorite quotes from the end of the movie It's a Wonderful Life: "... no man is a failure who has friends..." I wanted Curt to know that if having friends was a measure of a person's wealth, that he was a very wealthy person! Curt, I'll miss you -- take care!

richard robison

August 11, 2012

Curt was a good friend for many years. Sadly, I did not see him much after his move to Utah, but I always remembered his smile and positive energy. He was able to make people see the strengths they possessed, and competing with him taught me a great deal about ski racing as well. Curt was a good man, one we will all miss. My thoughts and prayers to his family. God bless you Curt. You are gone too soon.

Deborah Miller

August 10, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Stu Herlan

August 9, 2012

I first to to know Curt through skiing at Holimont...I recall the one day a bunch of us skied with him wearing a helmet cam he had rigged up...and the awesome days of skiing with him in Utah. Whenever our crew from Ellicottville came out to ski with him Curt would do his best to ski us into the ground...and we loved the challenge of trying to keep up with him...our group talks about this often. I will never forget running gates with him at Solitude...trying my best to catch the master!

But Curt was so much more than a great skier and athlete...it is his positive attitude, infectous smile and outlook on life that I will remember most...and I am convinced it is what kept him in the game for years after he had been diagnosed. I think one of the best things that can be said about a person is that they were a good friend to people in their life...Curt was a great friend to so many people...he gave us all so much everytime you were in his company or just talking to him on the phone. I was blessed to have him as a friend. My prayers are with Linda, Brian and the rest of his family. The world is a better place because of Curt.

Byron Smith

August 9, 2012

So sorry to hear that Curt passed. Although we weren't close in recent years, I have many fond memories of skiing and riding motorcycles with Curt. Great guy.

eric bloom

August 9, 2012

I met Curt only briefly when I was on a ski trip to Utah.He was introduced to me on the chairlift by a fellow Buffalonian Steve Fernow. I did not know at the time that Curt was fighting cancer.I have been skiing for over fifty years and I can truthfully say that Curt was one of the strongest most athletic skiers I have ever seen.His passing is hard to fathom.My sincere condolences to his family.

George Crown

August 9, 2012

Curt's passion and genuine nature has inspired me from the very first time I met him. Thank you Curt.

Dominic Mike Gioia

August 8, 2012

Dear Lipke Family, I have not met with any of you for over 40yrs. but the memories of the glorious family life you all had still lingers in my mind. How these moments arrive, we must wonder; however, in Curt's memory, and with his strength and stamina, look for the good. He would want it that way. Tomorrow I will wear a bright colored flower in his memory. Dominic Mike Gioia

Kim Clark

August 8, 2012

A true gentleman and a wonderful husband to my running-friend Linda.

John Huff

August 8, 2012

Sorry to hear of your loss Linda. Curt was a great guy to work with and be friends with. I have many wonderful memories of our work relationship at Gibraltar Strapping. He was true, honest, and just a great guy to know.

God speed Curt...

Steve & Susan Moxley

August 8, 2012

Our deepest condolences to the Lipke family - seems like yesterday that Curt was smiling and anxious to lead the way during a Harley ride. He led the way very well in many areas; and will be deeply missed.

Joe & Diane Waggoner

August 8, 2012

Curt was a true inspiration in life and in skiing. We will treasure the many memories of skiing together and the chair ride conversations. He touched our lives in a profound way. We will miss you Curt.

August 8, 2012

Sorry to hear of your loss.
Mark Cullens

August 8, 2012

Linda,

Curt was #1 in my book, he always welcomed me to join him when skiing. Curt gladly offered his wisdom, life skills, and the most important tips on making the perfect turn! We all will remember him as Curt.

With love,

Rob Reese

Scott Young

August 8, 2012

Curt was a wonderful guy, always a bright smile, and an inspiration. He left a mark on this world, and was a rock in tough times. I am glad to have known him.

Cathy Fabiatos

August 8, 2012

Dear Pat and Family

We are saddened to hear of Curt's untimely passing. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy for your loss. May your memories bring you comfort and eventually more smiles than tears.

Fondly,
Cathy, Dionne & Lee Fabiatos
and
Joanne and Louis Vergos

Bob & Carm Giannicchi

August 8, 2012

Eric,

Sorry to hear the loss of your brother. My God Bless you and family during this difficult time.

RONALD HARDY

August 8, 2012

blessings of love and peace to Curt's family and friends. the ski tribe will miss his passion and energy but will always carry him in our hearts.

Marilyn Gasz

August 8, 2012

They say: If you do something you love, you never will work a day in your life. Curt was fortunate to do just that. I will always remember his beautiful smile and great laugh. God seems to take the best ones first. I know he will be missed by all.

John Martz

August 8, 2012

Sorry for your loss. Curt was a great guy and showed compassion for his employees.

Jean Stanley

August 8, 2012

My prayers are with Linda and the Lipke family.

Larry Bicz

August 8, 2012

With regards to the Lipke family.
Please except my deepest sympathy with the loss of Curt. Having recently lost my Dad , your touching memorial hit home. Surely the love of family and friends, guided him through his journey. Best wishes.

August 8, 2012

Sorry to hear of
your lose at such
a young age.

Frank Gibson

August 7, 2012

So sorry for your loss. He was much to young. Chip and Debbie Ivins

John S

August 7, 2012

Curt and I have been friends since high school. In all those years ski racing in WNY, Curt has always amazed me in his ability to touch others with his competitive spirt and love for life. I am very grateful for the pleasure of having known him and extend my deepest sympathy
to his family. God bless...

Donald Chatwin

August 7, 2012

My sincere condolences to the Lipke Family .... I have not seen Curt since high school, but I always remember his great smile and positive attitude.

Dana Heck

August 7, 2012

Linda and Family: Our sincere sympathy at this difficult time. May the memories of Curt live in your hearts forever. He will be sadly missed by all. Dana & Janice Heck

Rick McKown

August 7, 2012

My deepest sympathies to Linda, Pat and the entire Lipke family. As a teenager in the 1970s I had the good fortune to have spent as much time in the Lipke household as I did in my own. Curt was my friend and my big brother, and even back then, an inspiring example of how to live life to its fullest. And while it is such a tremendous heartache that he has left this earth far too soon, it is very hard not to think of him and smile. Forever in our thoughts…

With warmest regards,
Rick McKown

Sue and Lexie

August 7, 2012

Forever in our hearts. With love always. xo

August 7, 2012

my deepest sympathies....its very sad and sobering when family contacts are lost,moreso in times as this...my heart is heavy.

Carrie Brooks

August 7, 2012

Dear Linda and Family,
Curt was brave and bold and at the same time mellow and loving. Keep his memory in your hearts. I know he is in ours.
Tom and Carrie Brooks

Gary Fuller

August 6, 2012

We can all learn from Curt, before, during and after his battle with cancer. His contagious smile, positive attitude and athletic abilities were incredible. He routinely came to our weekly road-bike rides (even while undergoing chemo) and would put the hammer down as only he could. I truly felt like he was squeezing the sickness out of his body with every pedal-stroke. I only wished I could have met him sooner. However, 7 yrs is all it took to leave a life-long impression on me.

Christine katzenberger

August 6, 2012

Curt will be missed. Loved his passion for skiing.

Love Maryalice and Joe arcara

August 6, 2012

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

Dave and Jill Boettger

August 6, 2012

Dear Linda,
What a beautifully written obituary honoring Curt. He was a wonderful neighbor, always having a smile and a positive comment to share. Personally, after loosing my sister to a 3 month battle with cancer, it was so encouraging to see Curt live with cancer, maintaining his quality of life for so long and his positive attitude! You and Curt are obviously loved by many as evidenced by the steady stream of friends and family to your home in the recent past. You will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers!
Fondly your neighbors,
Dave and Jill Boettger

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