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Stan Praisewater
November 29, 2013
It's hard to express the shock of realizing it was Joe. I'd known him since 1972 when I worked with him in the Materials Lab at the City of San Jose. Later as a civil engineer, I dealt with him often. He was a straight shooter. No B.S. He simply said what was. I'll always remember Joe and his close friend Gerry Brown, two big men walking together. Now both gone.
Kristy McMillen-Nelson
October 29, 2013
My heart aches for the tragic loss of a beautiful life. I had the pleasure of knowing this amazing family while growing up in Aptos and loved running into Joe around town. His daughter was a good friend of mine in high school and it was wonderful hearing him talk about her achievements in life and to see how proud he was of her. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family, I'm so sorry for their loss..
Chuck & Leta Stucker
September 23, 2013
Words can not express the shock we felt upon hearing of the loss of Joe & Edy. We first met before they were married and shared some great times early on in their life together. I worked with Joe for many years after he came back to San Jose from his Military Service. You could not have had a better friend. Sure glad we were able to share their 40th Anniversary with them thanks to their daughter Marlene. Joe And Edy will always be in our thoughts. Our prays are now for Marlene.
Still Working Big Guy, Who Knew?
Louis A. Johnson
September 17, 2013
I was first shocked, then deeply saddened to learn of the tragic loss of life of my dear childhood friend "Big Joe" and his wife of many years, Edy. The knowledge of that horrendous event caused me to reflect on the safe haven of childhood memories of chatting on the front porch of the big white house on the corner of St. Madar & Monday Streets and riding around town in Mobile, Alabama in his family's '55 Black Buick. We both graduated from Most Pure Heart of Mary High School, class of 1959, the 33 of us. I went off to Hampton and Johnnie Henderson packed up her family, said goodbye to Mobile and headed for California...Gosh, the Purity, Charity and Innocents we found in those times back then...I wonder if my dear friend found comfort in those memories as he bade us goodbye, just as I am doing now, trying to reconcile this most tragic event. Rest In Peace Big Joe, friends forever...Louis A. Johnson (Maple Street Demons).
August 26, 2013
I'll miss saying hi to you while you're walking your dog in our neighborhood. Always wanted to talk more but never got a chance. Rest in peace.
Harry
Marian Dixon
August 12, 2013
I just read about Joe's passing. I am deeply saddened by the news. I worked with Joe at the City of San Jose. I will always remember is kind words at his retirement party. Blessings to the family.
Angie & Joyce Walker
August 9, 2013
Marlene & family- My Mother and I were so shocked and filled with sorrow to hear the news about your parents. I enjoyed sitting next to them at your games while we were in college and I thought they were the nicest couple. We are thinking of you and praying for you and your family.
Fran Tobin
July 13, 2013
I am shocked and saddened by the great loss the world will suffer by the loss of such a wonder caring person - I luv u Joe
Deb Palmer
July 12, 2013
I am shocked and saddened by this heartbreaking news. My love to you and the boys.
Barbara @ Sikp Tyrrell
July 10, 2013
Your kindness and wonderful spirit brought such life and humor to my dear friends, Sam and Doreen. God will love you.
July 8, 2013
I worked with Joe at the City for over 20 years. He was a kind and considerate man and devoted husband and father. We missed him when he retired from the City, and he will be sorely missed by the community. God Bless you.
Ron Seymour
Anita Phagan
July 7, 2013
I met Joe when working at the City in the mid-1970's. He was the sweetest guy - I am very sorry to learn of his death and that of his devoted wife...peace and grace to the ones who grieve.
Michele
July 6, 2013
Sending love and prayers to the family.
Teresa
July 6, 2013
Joe was a wonderful devoted friend to my Uncle Sam over the past 50 years. Wonderful man and beautiful couple that will be forever missed. May you and Edie rest in peace together.
Darlene Magee
July 6, 2013
I met Joe and Edy not long after they were married at their apartment on 11th St in San Jose. Sam and I were invited to dinner. What a gracious host and great cook! Joe kept us entertained while we ate and watched football. I went with her to view model homes when they bought their 1st house. We were all so proud! We got season tickets to the opera and went 2 years in a row. She drove us in a yellow Dodge Charger. We laughed about the "opera windows" in the back. We sneaked into a jazz festival at the Greek Theater in Berkeley. Went to watch John Handy in the city at Stearn Grove. I have so many rich and wonderful memories from the late 60's and early 70's. I will never forget you. You were always together having fun. I am so thankful for the times we were together! I know I will see you both again! All my love . . Darlene Magee.
July 6, 2013
Joe and Edyth gave my husband and I our wedding shower in 1970 at their San Jose home. I ran into Joe on the train when he was going up to the City just a few years ago but we had lost touch with them. Joe and my husband went through college together and hung out for years, both loving jazz so much. Other pals were Sam Parraz, Dino Hayman. We want so much to attend the memorial. Please let people know when and where. We are so deeply, deeply sorry for this terrible loss.
With great affection for them,
Robert and Pat Mora
Diane Montijo
July 5, 2013
You are in my thoughts and prayers.Your father was a kind man,and a best friend to Sam and my mom Doreen.
Molly O'Keefe
July 5, 2013
I am extremely saddened and shocked by the loss of Mr. John Henderson and his beloved wife. What a beautiful couple with the most devoted love for each other; their love will go on forever. A huge loss for our community.
Dave C
July 5, 2013
God bless you and may you rest in peace.
Miyeko Jones
July 5, 2013
I am sorry for your loss.
July 3, 2013
Patty,
You have helped so many of us through difficult times. Now please know that we are thinking of you and Marlene at this time of unimaginable grief and loss.
In sympathy,
The current and former staff members of Freedom Elementary
Rod, Iris, Janae and Kristin Jensen
July 3, 2013
Marlene,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this time of sadness and tragedy. Please let us know if we can help you with anything.
Love, The Jensens
M L
July 3, 2013
I'm sorry for your loss, here's a candle to light the way. The universe is going to miss this couple.
July 3, 2013
Marlene, I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom and dad were the nicest people, full of kindness. You are in our hearts and our prayers. Love, Becky
Cheryl and Fred Poole
July 3, 2013
This is such a tragedy. We will miss Joe and Edy very much. They were so kind and gentle we felt privileged to know them. Our times with them were always a pleasure. Our thoughts go out to Patty, Marlene, and the kids while they struggle with this loss.
Anna Marie Fiala
July 3, 2013
Prayers, love and hugs Marlene, your sons and Patty. Your parents were wonderful people full of love, kindness and hope for all people.
Roger & Shea Pase
July 2, 2013
We will remember and miss you dearly, Joe and Edy. Thank you for gracing our lives.
July 2, 2013
My heartfelt sympathy to Marlene, her family and to their dear friends like Marcia & Sharon. The tears from so many of us are flowing as this is so, so tragic; so, so sad.
Prayers and love for you all.
Let our LOVE, the light of the candles and Creator help Marlene and family and carry these beloved Souls into their next Journey . . . into Heaven or Paradise where you dear Souls certainly are now or are in transition to. Thank you Father/Mother God—Creator for helping Edy and Joe with this Journey and
Transition. with love, the light and Creator's Blessings. Pattie & Thom
Steven Stewart
July 2, 2013
Marlene, Patty, Family,
Feel please, my heartfelt sympathy and condolences for your family's loss. I loved knowing Joe, a bright spot in my day whenever I saw him. I will miss that gentle, alive smile.
Mary McConnell
July 2, 2013
Marlene, words cannot express my sympathy and sorrow for you and your family. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, as well as the prayers of those around me.
Sheila Perez
July 2, 2013
Marlene and family, words can not express how sorry I am for your loss. Your Dad and Mom were precious gifts to all who know them. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers and if you need anything, please let us know. Love your cousin,
Tina Carter
July 2, 2013
Marlene my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers to you and family. I love you all. May God be with you.
Dick & Bev Sleeper
July 2, 2013
We loved Edie and Joe, the sweetest neighbor. We are praying for the entire family as they process this tragedy. May God give you a peace only he can give.
Watonka & David Addison
July 2, 2013
Deepest sympathies and condolences from our family to yours. We are so saddened by this tragic loss. May the enduring love of family and friends help to bring some comfort.
Tom and Cathy Boardman
July 2, 2013
We miss you Joe and your "I've heard it so often it must be true"
Noel Brainard Lowery
July 2, 2013
Marlene and family, I am so sorry for you loss. I am praying for you and your whole family!
Nancy La Rocque
July 2, 2013
Words can't express how much I will miss Joe and Edy, my first cousin. I will miss Joe's quiet strength.
Nancy Neider LaRocque
Ann Silva
July 2, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Margaret Parraz
July 2, 2013
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Mark and Trish Schwenne
July 2, 2013
Dear family and close friends, Please accept our extreme condolences as words can not express our sadness for our loss as neighbors but greater sadness for remaining family and close friends. We will miss Joe's kind demeanor and gentle spirit. Please let us know if there is anything we can help with.
Pete Lucero
July 2, 2013
Marlene and Family, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. We are with you and are here for you for anything you need. Your family is by your side through this. Your Cousin.
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