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This obituary was originally published in the Star Tribune.
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Jennifer Slate
September 7, 2023
Today I listened to some Zeppelin, a bit of Floyd, and remembered. I miss you friend. Somewhere I know you are making someone smile and getting an angel to wish for the human experience. Great souls never sit for long.
Francesca Minnozzi
January 25, 2020
About 2 months ago I was talking to my old Colorado friend "puppethead" and asked if he knew where u lived now -and he didn't know .i will never forget that beautiful smile and spark in your eyes when I 1st met u. Plus u walking on your hands in cowboy boots.I was so bummed to find out that u were gone. I really don't know what to say.i m sure that your kids will miss u badly . May u finally b free as a bird and visit me maybe 1 day .i luv u forever. Francesca Minnozzi Las Vegas,Nevada.
Sarnata Reynolds
June 8, 2019
It is very sad to discover Wade here. We went to junior high and high school together, but we weren't really friends. We were friendly but ran in different circles. That said, my kids know about Wade Longworth and we all think of him fondly. That's because at the end of 6th grade, I moved to MN and Island Lake elementary. It was a very tough time to move and I probably still had my Irish accent and I was desperate to not feel so isolated and weird,There was a race one day and I had convinced myself that if I won I would make friends. Ii was the kind of nervous you only really get when you're little. All-consuming. It was just a few times around the field. Well I was winning, but then I started throwing up on the field. Obviously, mortifying. And of course I was very upset. The next day I went to school feeling like I'd never make friends. Wade sat next to me in class. He looked at me and smiled, and said, you blew chunks. And then he smiled bigger warmly. He wasn't making fun of me, he was commiserating. I didn't even know what you blew chunks meant because I was still new to America and just hadn't heard of the phrase. When I figured it out a few seconds later, I cringed, but I also felt seen. I liked Wade after that. What he said could read as cruel, but it was actually just the awkward gesture of a 12-year-old. And it was kind. And that's why I tell my 9 and 10 year old that storyand have for years.There is another one from 7th grade on the school bus when another quirky boy said, face it Wade, you're a communist! I don't have a clue what happened before that remark, but at that moment and ever since, I thought it was perfectly silly. Perfectly. And Wade didn't care, just shrugged it off. And so it stuck with me as a great moment.I am so sorry to his children, the mother/s of his kids, his sister, and parents. I wanted to share these memories with you because even though I really only knew Wade in 6th and 7th grade, those two stories are some of the funniest I share with my husband and kids. His is a great loss, but he obviously left a lot of light flickering in so many lives, including mine and my kids. Peace be with all of you.
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Jennifer Slate
August 31, 2014
On this seventh anniversary of your passing, I want you to know Wade that I am thinking of you, and wishing you were here. You had a light that was infectious, and you made people happy wherever you went. I am your friend, and will always be.
Jennifer Slate
Jeanne Dechiario
March 25, 2014
I have thought about Wade on various occasions and have tried to find him and not sure why I looked today, but I am saddened to hear of his passing some years ago. Michele, you may or may not remember me, but I was a couple years younger than you and a year or two older than Wade? I fondly remember playing with him as children in our neighborhood on Chatsworth. God rest his soul, and may peace and love be with you and your family always.
Jason Schutz
March 23, 2013
Brother, you will be missed. Many adventures we shared and envelopes we pushed. It's hard for me to accept that you're never going to randomly show up on my doorstep from some remote corner of the world with wildly imaninative stories that could almost be believed. Maybe they were all true. Either way, you were about 1 size too big for this world. Love you, bro. I'm sure I'll see you back at the Source.
Jennifer Slate
August 23, 2012
Dear Wade,
With a heavy, sad heart I type this, as I just found out about your passing. I cannot think about my youth without remembering our friendship, and the time we spent as friends. I have hundreds of memories, and every one of them is filled with laughter, jokes, and good times. Our many late night conversations on the grassy hill by my house after you threw rocks at my window to get me to come out. All of the evenings spent with you, Jason, Jodi and I listening to music, laughing, and having fun. The party didn't start until you showed up! All our great pool games, going to the movies, and you always trying to get me to see a different side of things. My Mother loved you as well, and to this day will smile when she says your name. I even remember how you used to brake dance! You were always different then the rest. You had a shine that others didn't. Your smile would light up a room. You were so kind, and charming, and good to people, and everyone liked you. You stood up for things that you believed in, you loved with your whole heart, and when all else would fail, you would turn on that 1000 watt smile, and all would turn out good. I want you to know that I have never forgotten you. I am sorry I missed that call in 1999. I am so sorry that your life was cut short, as we all have lost. I want you to know that you were part of such a happy part of my life, that I cherished our friendship, and I have never forgotten you. How can I ever listen to Led Zeppelin, and not think of you? You were filled with so much light and life, and always tried to give that to others. My love goes out to all of your friends and family. With such a heavy heart I send my love to you, and hope you know what you meant to so many people.
Wade on Right. Pudding races
September 1, 2010
I knew last night when it was starting to get dark that my best friend 3 years ago lost his spark. And I played in memory of you because I knew if you were still here it's what you would do. So only one rhythm instead of two and since your gone there's nothing I can do.
But I remember the times we shared the rhythm, drumming with bleeding hands, forever little children.
And I remember your fort house in your big backyard and the pirate flag that flew so hard.
I remember you with your butterfly net, running around chasing I'll never forget.
I remember the time you were bit by the great dane and how the scar on your arm always remained.
And I remember the tattoo you said you would get with the dogs name so you would never forget.
I remember the old barn and the quarry where we played, when you came to Neenah that time to stay.
And I remember what you brought along, we stayed up in the hay loft and time went from quick to long.
And I remember strings of red licorice and what you said that had me laughing out of my head.
I remember 3 years ago when I got the call on this day telling me you had gone away. Nothing anyone could do, nothing anyone could say, to bring it back to yesterday.
I remember roots and pierre and the deer that got killed and how much you cared.
I remember my brand new friend asking about the person that would be you. I had to answer he's dead now, a person you never knew.
And I remember to remember you almost every single day, and I try to think just what you would say.
So that's what I'm left with, Loving memories of the past, your shining eyes,this computer page, that like your Love, will always last.
Michele Gerow
August 31, 2010
Wadie Woop,
Once again it is the anniversary...I think of you everyday...something I see or do reminds me of you...new people I meet ask me if I have any Brothers or Sisters...I hesitate to respond to save them from the pain of my answer...I don't think this will ever change. Life moves along, you would be thrilled to know your nephew looooves to swim and fish and hates math...a chip off both me and you in that department! Emily is a stunning little girl with quite the personality, Mom tells me it is all a payback, and I thought I was the "good one" HAHAHA! Mom is still close with Stefanie, she is happy and I thank her Dad for the nice words he spoke of you recently. Matt contacts Mom from time to time and I can't thank him enough for keeping your memory alive with this guestbook. I miss you so much and there is that emptiness when I visit Minnesota, not being able to see you and the longing for just one of your fabulous adventures told by Mom over the phone is always there. I regret all of our silly arguments and cherish the good times we had, my wedding in Canada will hold so many good laughs, not too many sisters can say their Brother got left at the hotel and nearly missed the wedding but hitchhiked to get there "just in time" or nearly had the whole wedding party kicked out due to playing your flute...I wish I could turn back time...life doesn't work that way but I know in my heart how much we loved each other...right from the early days when you always had to get me a candy at the store if I wasn't there...you didn't always have much but you gave all you could and I love you for that! Peace little Brother. xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Your big Seester,
Michele
Jer D
May 1, 2010
So...so you think you can tell... blue skies from pain....how I wish you were here:) I will always have that wish. I miss you my friend.
Chris Jones
March 16, 2010
Wade, its been many years since those summers of our youth. The days that seemed they would never end. I just found out from one of our old friends of your passing and the memories came flooding back. Staying up all night at your place shooting pool, listening to tunes and watching cheesy kung-fu movies. Pretty soon you'd be saying "let's watch the sunrise". I loved reading the guest book and seeing all your friends and family remember you. Farewell and God bless. Psalm 121.
Flowers for Wade
December 4, 2009
Stephanie Schutz-Okojie
September 29, 2009
I first met Wade when I was 6 years old, back in 1986. He was one of my big brother's best friends. The instant I met him, I was in love! haha...he was the friend of my big bro's who I had a crush on... he would play around and tease me, and he became like another big bro to me. He was around all the time as I grew up, and no doubt he and Jason got into all sorts of trouble together as teenagers at the time! But years later, my bro and Wade met up again in Mass (where my fam moved to from Minn), and again, wade was just like a big bro, I called him my "brother" to all my friends. I am so sorry to Wade's family in particular his parents and big sis. I am so sorry for your great loss. Wade lived such an intense and over the top life though, that I'm sure what he accomplished in his life on earth was more than most of us will in a lifetime! He was a character indeed, and yes, I will forever pass on some of his alleged adventure stories (LOL), but Wade will forever be missed and loved.
RIP Big Bro... <3
Amy Moss
September 23, 2009
I've been looking for Wade for over 20 years. We went to elementary school together and he was my first kiss. I still remember how his hand felt as he held mine as we walked to the lunch room together. A friend of ours teased him to no end, so I think it was the shortest "relationship" ever! Maybe even just a day or two. That was a long time ago, but I've never forgotten him. I had always hoped that I 'd see him again someday and that we could be friends, he was life, fun and laughter! I was so close to finding him two years ago, and then he just slipped through my fingers. I am happy to know that he had so many people who loved him in his life and that he has children so part of him will live on. I am sorry though for all of us who miss him, but from what I remember about him and what I understand about the man he became I know that he will stay in our hearts forever. Blessings to you all!
September 1, 2009
Wishing things would have been different on this day 2 years ago. Miss you & Love you.
Michele
August 10, 2009
Hey Bro,
We are fast approaching the next anniversary...it is still so hard for me to believe at times, all of the recent news stories are talking about families losing their loved ones to drowning..I cringe with every story as I know the hurt these families are feeling...the sudden loss of someone they loved...your name comes up so often, Riley & Emily talk about you and have such sweet memories. I spent time with Mom & Bill a few weeks back and of course we could laugh about you and some of your adventures! I plan to check in from time to time, it seems to make all of this easier. For all of the people who have Brothers and Sisters that they take for granted, my suggestion is to love them...you just never know when they might be gone, it is a feeling so hard to bear.
I love you & miss you!
Your big sister, Michele XOXOXOXOXOXO
Quintessential Wade, sitting (at The Beach), contemplating.
August 9, 2009
Wade, happy as clam, at The Beach
Aaron Neumann
August 9, 2009
I first met and became friends with Wade around 1996 in Minneapolis. If anything, Wade was colorful, and there was never a dull moment in his presence.
We played A LOT of music together over the years, but moreover, we became fast friends. While I remember him at times to have somewhat tumultuous relationships with some his closest friends and loved ones, his intentions always came from a place of earnest and love. We had always had a peaceful and mutually respectful friendship; we were kindred spirits in so many ways! We actually lived very different lives and at times grew apart. And whenever we saw each other, we just picked up right where we had left off.
I last saw Wade at Hidden Beach the summer of death, where he got to meet my wife Noelle, and see an old friend of both ours for the last time, my (and once his and our community's) dog Mo. We hung out and played music at the beach and then when and got ice cream and some beer. I had found a hundred dollar bill in my pocket of my swim trunks, so it was happily on me. We gave him a ride to his girlfriend's house, soon to be the mother of his third child. We met her briefly but she seemed really nice and we left happy for Wade.
He lived life in his own terms, and for that I'll always admire him and take that lesson with me on my own journey. R.I.P. my Brother.
joe stoss
December 31, 2008
so sorry to hear that one of gods brightest light is gone,wade will be remembered and love by everyone .he had one of the most loveing souls of anyone i new,love you allways .joe
Meegan Gamble
November 18, 2008
Happy Birhtday Wade.
It's only been a few months that I found out through Googleof your passing.Myles sits by me as I write this,we know that you are with him,in him..always. You were such a light and I am relieved to know that now you are a part of it. I am so blessed to have been someone who loved you,was loved by you and made a life with you...I really miss you but I get to look in Myles'eyes and see part of you every day..I willbe forever grateful for that..
Blessed Be...
Meegan
John (Jesus) Robey
September 8, 2008
As i sit hear in tears i can't even begin to describe my love towards Wade and his Love to the world.I can't believe it's been a year already since you were taken from us.I heard that some people carved your name in a rock by the spot.I made sure to go down there in the winter and pay homage to you.I managed to find some string and some wood and made a memorial for you in the middle of the lake that I left on the ice.I still talk about you at the hidden beach and we all miss you.You still continue to inspire me.Peace
me and my best bud
matt cartee
September 4, 2008
Wade,
It's hard to believe it's been over a year since you left us. In that year, I don't think a day has passed that you haven't been in my thoughts. I drive by the house every day on my way to work that we met at the last time I picked you up. In the winter, there was a chair that sat outside, I thought it was just for you. I always say hey buddy when I pass and think of the last time we got to hang out at my house, eating chicken and almost eating the moldy gravy from my refridgerator, That was a close one!!!
I keep 2 of your voice messages on my phone. I played them a couple days before your pasing just to hear your voice again. It's hard, although they always make me smile.
I went to the beach on the 31st. and read the bible thinking of you and wathcing people swim in the lake. I couldn't go in.
I tied your name with the ribbon that was given out at your funeral with the "free spirit" incense on your birthday last year and sealed it in plastic and hung it as high as I could from a tree at the beach. The paper and plastic had blown off sometime during the winter but the ribbon was still there and that was good enough for me.
I can't believe how much I've needed to talk to you about what's happend in my life this past year. Thing's only best friend's could talk about.
Thank you for seeing me in my dreams. The last one was so real, making lasagana and just talking. It seemed as though you diddn't know you had passed and I couldn't find the strength to tell you.
The previous one, playing on a huge water slide and running through sprinklers like we did when we were kids was the best yet. The first one, and most intense, when I was stuck in quicksand and I heard a familiar voice say," hold on to my ankles I'll get you out." when I was halfway on dry land, I looked up, staring straight at you and you telling me, "Matt, you know your gonna die." Was a little scary but we ALL are gonna die someday and I'm not afraid.
I miss you bro and cherish the time's when you come to me in my dreams and love hearing friends tell when you visit them.
Little signs you send us, if we're aware enough, to let us know your in a great place.
I have a picture of us arm in arm on my wall that I pass by everyday When we were just kids.
Every time we got together, we became those little kids all over again. I miss that feeling and will never have that special connection like we had with anyone else.
As another Harvest Fest. approaches, I will again play for you buddy knowing you have the best seat in the house!!
I'm going to see your mom on Friday and we'll have alot of laugh's and I'm sure a few tears. Please come visit me again soon.
Love you always, your best bud.
Matt.
Stefanie Gaylord
September 1, 2008
A year has past since I last heard your voice, and a year has past since I saw you for the last time. I miss you every day. You would be happy to hear that your mom and I are keeping in touch. . . that we made an apple pie together for your birthday last year, just the way you liked it. . . that your friends at the beach continue to remember you and play music. . . that I will be playing disc golf today, on this the 1st of September. . . that Obama is looking good for president. . . that Charlie is playful and healthy. . .
Today, although with particularly emotional memories, is really a day like any other, a day that I think of you and miss you. There is no way to get around the fact that it is painful that you are gone. But I know you remain a part of this world and all of its life intertwined. You are a part of it all, a part of your family and friends.
Today, my thoughts are with Sue and Bill, Michelle, Echo, and all Wade's friends and family who knew Wade and loved him for who he was.
Love,
Stefanie
Michele Gerow
August 31, 2008
Matt,
I wish you would e-mail me, I hear that you are still so sad and I too have felt more emotions over the past few days than I did initially, we have to keep in mind that Wade would not want us to hang our heads, cry or have bad days on account of him... if you need to write to me, we could be there for one another...so on this this one year anniversary almost to the hour of the accident, I am trying to deal with the feelings that I have, trying to get through it and I know there are a lot of other people doing the same. I loved my brother with all my heart though it wasn't always evident...I know he knows it now and I hope he is at peace, while we try and continue on with our daily lives, some days being so much harder than others!
So for all the people who loved him and who he loved, Mom, Dad, Matt, Stephanie...the list goes on and on, I am thinking of you all and hoping our strong love and memories of all the good times make this day and the next few a little easier.
Love,
Michele
Fred Longworth
August 30, 2008
One year later, these thoughts are still the same. I loved him deeply.
I loved my son dearly and I always wanted nothing but the best for him.
Wade's idea of what was best for him and mine were quite different. Many people have called him a free spirit and he difinitely was that, but he also was a kind and caring person and most of all he was a vagabond.
Wade experienced more in his life than many people do in a lifetime. His travels took him all over this country. I would get a call from him saying he was picking berries in Maine and a week later another call saying he was playing the bongos on the street in San Francisco. Months would go by without word and then he would call to say he was cooking at a ski resort in Colorado or heading for Florida. I once got a call saying he had been on an island near Acapulco for several months, but because he had no passport or ID the authorities were urging him to leave.
He traveled all over this country and made friends everywhere. He lived his life the way he wanted to and never forgot a friend or acquaintance. He was more concerned about his friends and the rain forest than where his next meal would come from.
The uncertainties of his lifestyle would stress and depress most people, but he was perfectly comfortable with it. If fact, he always had a ready smile and a million stories about his travels and experiences.
He definitely was a free spirit and he never hurt a soul.
I can take some solace from the thought that now he is finally free to be free.
I will think of him everyday just like I always have, but I will no longer have to worry because I know he is now safe. I will miss him always.
Michele Gerow
July 1, 2008
Dear Wade,
As these summer days appear and we are all enjoying time outside, I can't help but think this was your favorite time of the year.
We are fast approaching the one year anniversary of your accident and I still can't believe I will never hear you call me your "big seeester" again.
It has been trying at times as we go through the months, we celebrated Easter which was difficult as it was the very last time I saw you and we had a lot of good laughs...as I was leaving you always told Don to "take good care of my sister" and he is a great guy, no worries there.
We thought of you on your Birthday, I sent Mom flowers to make a very difficult day a little nicer and Mom and Stephanie got together to make your favorite apple pie. Your best friend Matt spent time at "the beach" going over many great memories the two of you shared.
We got through Mother's Day, I know it wasn't easy...
Christmas brought us all together and we could laugh as we knew that was your least favorite holiday. Riley was so eager to beat you at that promised game of "Don't break the ice", Emily doesn't understand, she will always remind me "you don't have a brother anymore" and as much as it hurts me to hear that it makes me remind her to try and get along with hers!
Father's Day came and went, Dad has carried the stone in his pocket with your name on it since the day you were gone. I hear that Echo is doing well and "saw her daddy in the clouds with a kitty."
Mom has your bike and has every intention of going for bike rides now that she had it tuned up just a bit, that in itself should make you chuckle.
We hear all about water accidents at this time of year and it makes you feel for the families, it also reminds us that life is so short, you just never know...life does go on but not a day goes by that I don't think of you, I hear people complaining about their siblings...what I would give to hear your voice and your laughter on the other end of the phone again...
I want to thank Matt for keeping your guest book available, it somehow makes it easier to write things down.Well brother I guess I will go for now, you are gone but will never be forgotten.
I love you,
Michele
Nicole Anastas
May 3, 2008
Wade,
I tried to find you today over the internet that connects people from long ago and was so saddened to find out you were taken too early from this world. My heart aches for your children and family you leave behind. i know you are missed by many. We were together 13 years ago...I will never forget you, your smile, those great drumming hands.
peace love and light, Nicole
Mindi Longworth
September 19, 2007
Matt, Thank you for sponsering the guest book. It has been a real comfort to many and we wil continue to check it frequently. Again, Thank you. Mindi & Fred
September 13, 2007
Wade by brother, I cant believe I won't see you again in this world. You were my oldest and best friend. No matter how much time passed between the time we'd see each other, everytime we got together it felt like we were kids again.
I've always held on to that feeling and I know you did the same.
We chose hard paths and stuck on them no matter what life threw our way. It takes more gut's to live your life for today than the countless who are too scared to do what they love in this world. You were never scared. You followed your heart and that made alot of people uneasy. I think it made them look into their own life and see what they left behind as they grew older.
Many people since you've passed have told me how you've come back to them in your own special ways. New birds, dragon flies, pictures on paint on and on.
You know I love you and I can't wait to have that second pudding race with you in heaven.
See you soon bro.
Vetris Pate
September 12, 2007
Wade,
I was very saddened to hear of your passing. You were a very vibrant person and will be deeply missed by all. I got to know you at the Hidden Beach and when you lived with Stefanie. I always enjoyed your stories and your contagious laugh and smile. You were a wonderful musician and writer. I hope that your children can emulate your free spirit, smile, and kindness. May you rest in peace and your spirit and energy rest at Hidden Beach and in all the people you knew.
September 12, 2007
Baby,
You were the only one who called me that, to this day.
I have missed you with every heart beat. This only makes it harder.
I know you have Arrived. And I will hold Psalm 103 in my heart for you until I too return to dust.
God Bless
Paul & Valerie
September 11, 2007
Wade,
It's a miracle you came...
A tradegy your gone...
Such a great spirit - it shined out of you...
Your humor and wit were pleasant - your style refreshing...
People come and go - their lives change us - their deaths wound us...
A mothers love is gracious...
A son's love for his mother is precious...
All we have is today - yesterdays are gone...
A good man is gone...
See you at Hidden Beach...
P.S.
Wade - Thanks for the "Jerry Christmas".
rashard z
September 10, 2007
Wade, hadn't seen you in a while and I am saddened to hear of your passing so soon. My sympathies to you and your loved ones, children, and friends.
Michele Gerow
September 10, 2007
Wade,
it has been just over a week now that you have been gone...I am doing okay, it is just difficult at times. Riley & Emily are looking up to the clouds and they think they can see you there. I have had a lot of support from my great family and friends, this is just going to take some time. I wanted to tell you how loved you were which was very evident at your funeral...I met people you would never, ever think I would have met. I have reunited with Echo & Bri and I am very glad for that... writing to you from time to time just may help get us all through...
Miss you & Love you,
Your sis...
Michele xoxoxoxoxox
Teri Martin
September 9, 2007
Deeply sorry for your untimely and sudden loss of Wade.
Heartfelt sympathies to your family and extended family.
Melissa Hadaway
September 9, 2007
I dated wade for almost two years, I can't explain how sorry I am to the friends and family that enjoyed wade and his free spirit as much as I did. He was like a butterfly, he flew where he wanted to, and stepped to the beat of his own drum, that's what people loved about him. I can't explain how much I will miss having him in my life. I have to honestly say he found me at a time when I needed help, when I was young....and I know for a fact that I wouldn't be were I am today, if I hadn't been ever so fortunate enough to have met a free, caring and loving person like Wade was. I am sorry to say I found out about this after the funeral so I pay my respects to the family at this time, and pray for those that miss him and are in mourning.
MIchael HUHn
September 9, 2007
Wade, You touched My Life IN SO MANy Ways,My SOn ANd I WIll miss you AT The BEach, YEt WE FEel Your Spirit everyday DOwn there. The HIdden BEach IS ANd ALways WIll BE Your PLAyground.. Thank You For Always Smiling. WE Love you SO Much and Miss you EVEn More..--
September 04, 2004
September 7, 2007
Pam Moody
September 6, 2007
I was so sad to hear about wades passing i was wades boss at Brown & Bigelow in St.Paul He always had a smile that was contigious, I hope his children will always know what a great person he was.My thoughts are with his family.
Pam Moody
Tim Walz
September 6, 2007
Wade's family -
I just heard about Wade today. Wade was one of my best friends way back in the 5th and 6th grades. I have a lot of fond memories of those days and the sleepovers we had. They were good times. I can't express how sad I am to learn that there are children that will be without him. Take care as best you can. My thoughts are with you.
September 6, 2007
September 6, 2007
jean moody
September 6, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
jean moody
September 6, 2007
Dear longsworth family we were so sorry to read about wades passing. our deepest sympathys go out to you and your family. i worked with wade back in 2000 at brown and bigelow. he always came to work with a smile on his face, everyday was fun with wade around. he was a great person. from all of us who worked with wade we are sorry to hear about your loss......
September 6, 2007
Sue:
I'm very sad to hear about Wade. Didnt really know him but I feel that I new him very well.He's my family and i care for him alot. Allways thought about what he was doing. Wish I could be there today (9/6). But I have to work. Every one will be in my heart. Love you.
Dawn Buxton
Christina Marlatt
September 6, 2007
To the family of Wade,
Such sadness and sorrow I feel for your loss. We met Wade during a period of his life when he worked for my son Shawn. He seemed to me like a very kind and thoughtful person. Our thoughts and prayers reach out to you during this difficult time. Children should not have to loose their parents at such a young age and parents should not have to loose their children. I pray for Gods presence with each of you always.
Emily Sporleder
September 6, 2007
Wade,
Its hard to think about someone as great as you passing on, god took you for a reason, and i hope its a good one. you had so many people that cared about you. your soul was so fiery, your smile so warm. i hope you are happy where ever you are and that there is fishing....
Amy Soderquist (Amy Sods)
September 6, 2007
I hadn't seen Wade in years; I guess I always thought I'd run into him again someday. Wade, man, you are part of what made my post-high school years some of the best of my life. I'll never forget your Vodka Omletes..."Zum for zee omelete...a leetle more for zee chef!" I'll never forget that huge smile that lit up a room and turned tears to smiles. And I'll never forget your truly one of a kind free spirit. You will be greatly missed by all whose lives you touched.
You will never be forgotten.
Kelly Markel
September 6, 2007
What an amazingly beautiful soul!!! Wade, may your spirit always continue to soar and journey on. You will be dearly missed- but never forgotten!!! So glad to have met such a wonderful spirit and friend. You truely are an angel!!!!!
Stefanie Gaylord
September 5, 2007
Wade,
How blessed I am to have spent the last few years and moments of your precious life with you. You were many things to me, but above all else, my best friend. You knew my good and bad and never judged me. You had a way of making me as well as each and every person you met feel special, beautiful, and alive. You took care of me those months when I was sick, and I will never forget that. Of course, I sent a bit of help your way too... like how you always asked me to pluck your eyebrows for you, and let me say it was my pleasure. The time we spent laughing, relaxing at the beach, disc golfing, philosophizing, making music, and loving each other will always be so dear to me. Even when life gave you those bitter lemons you made sweet lemondade; I will try to emulate that spirit. I will always treasure the photos, poetry, and art you left me with, your memory will be with me always. I will hear you when the drums are played, I will feel your spirit in the forest. I love you.
Stefanie
John"Ije" Ward
September 5, 2007
Although I am totally saddened by this unexpected turn of events,I go on with the of knowing that when my time arrives you will be among my many loved ones waiting to welcome me back HOME....Can't wait to sit back w/ you under the old oak tree....me strummin' an old six-string "gitter" and you making beautiful sounds on the congas...Gonna miss you big time dear friend.....
.....IJE....
Zachariah Streater
September 5, 2007
Wade,...I am still shocked. I can think of very few people who exhibited such vitality and spirit. Your story telling remains an unrivaled merit. Rolling around tempting the fates and almost staying out of trouble are some fond memories I'll hold tight and not forget. No goodbyes in Eternity......
Playing at Hidden Beach
September 5, 2007
Wade at Hidden Beach
September 5, 2007
Tim Leebens
September 5, 2007
My best wishes to you Fred, Mindi and Family. I am very sorry to hear about your loss and you will always be in my prayers.
jay walker
September 5, 2007
It's too bad you didn't get to know your children and too bad that they will never know you. Maybe life is too short but never too short for the ones you create. too bad.
MATT HOGENDORF
September 5, 2007
WELL,
WELL WHAT CAN I SAY I WILL MISS YOU DEARLY WADE P.S. THIS IS YOUR STEPBROTHER MATT ALTHOUGH WE REALLY DIDNT SEE EACH OTHER A WHOLE LOT THE CHRISTMAS YOU TAUGHT ME HOW TO PLAY THE BONGO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. I LIKE TO THINK MY DAD WILL WANT TO SINCE HES NEVER HAD SUCK A HEADACHE AFTER THAT BUT NEVER THE LESS YOUR ALWAYS IN Y HEART AND I KNOW YOU WILL BE AT MY WEDDING NOT IN PERSON BUT SPIRTUALLY AND IN OUR HEARTS YOU ARE THE BEST STEPBROTHER A GUY COULD ASK FOR AND THAT SMILE WILL LINGER WITH ME UNTIL THE DAY I WILL MEET YOU AGAIN. LOVE YA A TON AND MISS YOU, MATT
Victoria Plaza
September 5, 2007
Wade,
A life lived with so much enthusiasm and pure joy will never be forgot. May your smiles be remembered in everyone's hearts. Rest in peace.
Dean Kepple
September 5, 2007
Wade,
I will miss hearing of your many adventures! You lived a lifestyle that many of us wished we could have or would have! You followed so many of your dreams... I will miss the wonderful grin that made everyone smile. Be at peace. Love Dean
Lara (Olson) Durkot
September 5, 2007
Suzanne and Family,
You are in our prayers. I haven't seen Wade since highschool, but I have many fond memories of him. I looked through many pictures I have and just smiled at how he lived life each day! He was the first person I met when we moved in behind you in Shoreview and we remained close throughout school. I am saddened that God has taken him so soon, but he must have had a plan for him.
God Bless you and your family.
Melissa King
September 4, 2007
I will remember...
..Bobby McGee and thunderstorms
..warm orange juice at hidden beach
..midnight swimming
..rooftop stars
..howling at the moon
..and this sad day.
You will be missed, and forever memorialized in your children.
Laurie and Al Paavola
September 4, 2007
Michele and Don,
We did not have the pleasure of getting to know Wade but learned alot about him through the stories you shared. We are truly sorry to you and your family at this unfortunate time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love Al and Laurie Paavola
Aimee (Radford) Fierke
September 4, 2007
Though it has been a long time since I've connected with Wade, hearing of his passing brought back a flood of fond memories. A free spirit, Wade always influenced people to push their boundaries and try new things. His smile and creativity inspired others and he gave the best hugs. His memory will linger long with those whose lives he touched.
Mindi Longworth
September 4, 2007
Dear Wade,
Our lives were so different but I admired your spirit and talents (also you had great hair) and I loved you very much. I will always be amazed at your ability to live your life the way you wanted, traveled to so many places, met so many people, saw and did so much - all without money!!!
Thank you for all the great smiles and your antics which will forever make us laugh.
Thank you for the Christmas entertainment and teaching us all how to play the "nose flute".
Thank you for the special tin set of "Killen" dog playing cards you gave me. I will save and always cherish them.
Thank you for helping us paint the house.
Thank you for the new bird that showed up on our bird feeder Sunday that we have never seen before and have yet to identify. I will be watching for it always and consider it a gift and hello from you.
Thank you for the occasional whiff of Patchouli oil I swear I still smell every once in a while in our extra bedroom.
Sorry I didn't handle the road kill dinner very well.
Sorry Tazman chewed up your special golf frisbee and I threw it away.
Realy sorry we didn't get to see you much the past couple years and I regret that very much.
I know you will enjoy everyday in heaven just like you did here on earth.
I wish you Peace,Joy, and all my Love to you always,
Mindi
Brad Ray
September 4, 2007
Wade, you are a kind soul and will be dearly missed. You were the best man to jam with at Hidden Beach. Long may you run..
Mary Ann Ryan
September 4, 2007
Suzie, Bill, Michele, my heart is breaking for you today. All my love, prayers and thoughts are for you in this time of tremendous loss.Wade is your personal angel now, he will watch over you and help you get through.
Love always, Mary Annie
Keith & Jennifer Kepple
September 4, 2007
In remembrance and with sympathy, we are thinking of you and your family at this time. May you have peace.
Wade loves all
Joe Cunningham
September 4, 2007
I am going to miss Wade. Funny, friendly, creative and talented, Wade always found a way to make your day.
See you when I get there, man.
Karen Mayen
September 4, 2007
Michele,
As I sit here trying to think of something to type, I start laughing with memories. The memories I have are of your wedding in Canada. I have memories of sitting in the hot tub and Wade was there making us crack up. I also thought of how everything was mixed up on the day of the wedding and Wade was forgotten at the hotel with no ride. He ended up hitch hiking to the church in a country that he wasn't familiar with. But he did it and he wasn't upset with anyone for forgetting him. What a trooper! I will miss talking to you about him and his life. My heart aches for you, your Mom and your Dad. What a terrible thing to go through. Hugs and prayers for all. I will see you on Thursday for the funeral.
Love meeeeeee
Michele Gerow
September 4, 2007
"Wadie Woop,"
What can I say? You have left us too soon...even though we had a typical brother/sister relationship and joked alot about things I loved you with all of my heart...I have talked to so many people in the past few days that have shown me how much you were truly loved and cared about by many! I know you would tell us not to cry for you...that will cease in time. You have left impressions on more peoples hearts than you will ever know...I am glad you were at the place you loved, doing what you loved, with the people who meant a lot to you! I am taking good care of Mom...I am glad you are at peace...
John Robey
September 4, 2007
Wade, you will always be remembered. For your smiles,and for the smiles you put on everyones faces.You could always bring light to a situation. You were a phenominal percussionist as well as an outstanding fisherman.I will never forget all the times we jammed and hung out.
Jerry Pat Willits
September 4, 2007
We knew you in you early years, you were fun to be with. I know your family will miss you. Your passing will leave a blank space in many hearts.
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