Brenda J. Cumming Ph.D.
Brenda J. Cumming Ph.D.
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Jan Tomlinson & Sharon Tansom
August 1, 2025
Jan and Sharon have many wonderful memories of times with Brenda and Jerry. We still share these memories with family and friends. We send our well wishes to her family during this time of remembering.
Jan & Sharon Tomlinson/Tansom
August 1, 2020
Amy and Brad and Family, On this day of remembrance for your mom, we both continue to miss her. Losing both her and Jerry in the same year was so hard. She will continue to live on in our memory as a bright spirit and a person full of life. Jan & Sharon
Keren Yarde Ayeni
August 1, 2019
You continue to be missed by your former students
Jef Maynard
May 20, 2012
Amy and Brad,
This is the time of year I think of Brenda and we would get together. As a parting gift from Apple Valley HS, she gave me a Bleeding Heart plant. Any one who knew her understands the poetry in that...
Just thought you might like to know, it flourishes. It is huge, laden with blossoms. Just as we might expect.
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Janet Larson
May 17, 2012
Brad and Amy, My condolences go out to both of you. I cut your mom's hair for many years, she was such a caring person and a joy to know. She will be greatly missed.
Lacey Enger
January 17, 2012
I am just finding out today about Dr. Cumming's passing. She supervised my practicum at Apple Valley High. I think of her wisdom and grace so often. She was one of the most compassionate, sincere people I have ever met. I am so glad to have known her. Amy, Brad, Sophie, and Dillon, she talked of you constantly. I loved to hear her stories about her family. She was so proud of you! My deepest sympathies.
Judy Rothenberg
September 4, 2011
Dear Brad and Amy,
In my mind, your Mom will always be vital and alive. My grad school compatriot and a friend since you first moved to Minnesota. I have such fond memories of life in the little house you first lived in. Dana called me last night to chat and told me that Brenda was gone and I am stunned. Way too young. I'd been out of touch since my last visit to Minnesota and had no clue she was even ill. I am so sad and absolutely heartbroken for you. Sending you my love and thoughts. She will live forever in our memories.
Prudy Milazzo Stephens
August 19, 2011
Brenda was the charm everyone remembers from high school - a special girl who always had a smile on her face and made you feel you were the most important person in her life. Although we had not stayed in touch since high school, we had plans to get-together a day before the reunion to catch up. My thoughts and prayers go to her wonderful family. I will think of Brenda often -- especially at the reunion. What a loss!
Erika Grant
August 18, 2011
I will miss Brenda very much. She often fed me when I was in law school, encouraged me when I had doubt, told me jokes when I wanted to cry, and got down on the floor and played with my kid, when she saw my energy was depleted. She was one of the most selfless, kind-hearted, talented and intelligent women I ever met. The world was a better place with her in it. I offer my deepest condolences to her family and friends.
Jeanette Hill
August 16, 2011
Dr. Cummings was one of the greatest influences in my life. She will be missed.
Walid Amorri
August 14, 2011
Dear Friend,
my heart and my soul are crying and now alone!
You were my little sunshine when I came from France.
I remember that you were the first person I wanted to see after being in Minneapolis.
You brought me non vegetarian food all the time.
You will be always in my heart and when I will cross your empty house, I know that I will cry...
During this Ramadan period, be sure that I will pray for you and your family.
I will always love you; you and your family.
My spirit is next to you
Mary Paine Sinclair
August 13, 2011
I had been thinking of Brenda intensely for several days so picked up the phone and called in late July -- to get the latest update on her life. She was looking forward to the 50th reunion and I was looking forward to spending time with her. We were not in touch much over the past years, but we were always on each others minds....even at the end. I have only wonderful memories of our early years.
Pam Burroughs
August 13, 2011
Brenda was wonderful. My classmate Kathy Houser Nolan said it all. I echo all of her sentiments.
Jerome Brookler
August 12, 2011
I shared several classes at Crawford High School with Brenda and remember her as bright,outgoing,and very involved.I am sorry to hear of her passing and extend condolences to her family.
Kathy Houser Nolan
August 12, 2011
Knowing Brenda from shared time at Crawford High, I remember two unforgettable qualities she shared. She had a smile for everyone that was genuine and infectious. As an incoming Sophomore to her lofty standing as a highly regarded Senior, she was always gracious, friendly and inclusive toward me. In those fragile teen years, that ranked mighty high and was a true mark of her caring spirit.
Wendy Myers
August 12, 2011
Brenda was one of my favorite people in high school. I saw her at our last high school class reunion which was probably the 40th. She still looked so young and it was such a joy to see her again. She radiated goodness and kindness, and I'm very sad that she won't be at the 50th reunion in a couple of months.
Kristie Kruse
August 9, 2011
Brenda you will be missed! Dr. Cumming was such an amazing person who touched the lives of many. She was truly an inspiration to her students and I will always remember her compassionate and bold spirit. I will forever be thankful for all that Brenda taught me both about being a great psychologist and a caring person.
August 9, 2011
Dr. Cumming will be missed at Argosy. She was warm, compassionate and deeply committed to her students and the field of psychology. She was ONE IN A MILLION. Rest in peace.
Keren
Jef Maynard
August 9, 2011
Brenda, We will miss you. It was a blessing to have her as a teacher, mentor, and friend. A year with her at Apple Valley High School was a joyous encyclopedic tour of the King's English, food, psychology, wit, true caring, and her exceptionally gracious manner. She will be missed beyond measure. Farewell Brenda.
Sarah Kupfer
August 8, 2011
Dr. Cumming was an incredible person who touched so many different people. It was an honor and great pleasure to have had the opportunity to know her! Her memory will live on through all of the lives she touched.
Brittni Funderburk
August 8, 2011
Dr. Cumming was an inspiration to myself and many other students at Argosy. She was a gifted supervisor and mentor that was full of life and wisdom. She will truly be missed and remain in our hearts forever.
Rosie OBrien
August 8, 2011
Dr. Cumming was a gifted teacher, patient guide and fun loving spirit. She brought joy and her beautiful handmade scarves to class st Argosy. and enriched us all. I will miss her
Sherrie & Farzaneh
August 7, 2011
Well, dear friend, how rapidly you left us behind. As in life, you raced toward death with breathtaking swiftness and efficiency. How clever of us to grab the chance to be bask in your friendship and wisdom one last time. How sad for us to have to say, "one last time." Thank you for your legacy, Brenda - your children, your students, your little hand-made gifts. Most of all, thanks for being a dear friend.
Jan Tomlinson
August 7, 2011
To Amy, Brad, Sophie and Dillon,
We are so sad to hear about the loss of Brenda and so quickly after your trip. This is just another loss of family for us too. Our thoughts are with you during this time and we are so sorry that we can't get back for the memorial service. We were so lucky to see her in May and talk with her just 5 days before her death. You will always remain family to us. Love, Jan and Sharon
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