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January 15, 2016
Happy Belated Birthday
November 24, 2015
Jason! We'll see you again. By the way, what's Helen up to? Love ya cousin. Holli
August 9, 2015
Dear Anonymous,
Knowing that you cared in your heart gives us joy.
Reeder, Sally, Erin and Ainsley
Anonymous
August 7, 2015
Reeder, Sally, Ainsley, and Erin,
Even though I knew of Jason's death, I could never work up the courage to give our say something about him to you because it always brought me down in tears. We all know what great pain it caused your family and we wish you our best wishes.
You know what they say though. Without pain, how could we know joy. Jason will always be in our hearts.
Julie Hanson
October 16, 2010
Reeder,Sally,Erin and Ainsley,
We were saddend when we learned of Jason's passing. I will always remember
Jason and his sisters coming to the drug store and watching them grow and change into fine young people, if only for a short time. We want you to know how much your family means to us, your compassion and friendship has never been forgotten. We hope the loving memories of your son and all his accomplishments, husband, father, athlete, friend, will sustain you as time goes by. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love
Julie, Andy, AJ and Janelle Hanson
Julie Hanson
October 16, 2010
Sally, Reeder, Missy and Ainsley,
We were deeply saddend when we learned of Jason's passing. I will always remember Jason and his sisters coming into the drug store and watching them grow and change even if it was for a short period of time. We want you to know that your family means so much to ours even though time has passed the impact and compassion that you showed our family will always be remembered. Please know that we are thinking of all of you and pray that the memories of this accomplised, compassionate young man helps you through. God Bless
Love, Julie, Andy, AJ and Janelle Hanson
Jim Zifchock Jr
January 13, 2010
Reeder, Sally, Erin, Ainsley & family; I was saddened to learn of Jason's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all through this difficult time. All My Best Always & Peace .. Ziffy
Read Norton
January 12, 2010
To Jason's family,
I'm so sorry to learn of Jason's death. I remember him fondly from his years in Southborough as an excellent athlete and a good friend. Peace and grace to you all.
Allison Ryan
January 10, 2010
To Jason's family
I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. I knew Jason at St. Mark's and remember him fondly; he was truly a lovely person. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Philip Reed
January 7, 2010
I was so sorry to hear about Jason, who was in my class at St. Marks. He was an incredible athlete, a great guy, and I'm sure a wonderful father. Sara and my thoughts are with his whole family.
Karla Adasse
December 31, 2009
I am very saddened to here of your loss. Jason accomplished so much in his life and will be missed by all. My thoughts are with you at this very difficult time as you grieve.
December 31, 2009
Sincerest sympathy to you and your family. We didn't know you son but he sounded like an outstanding young man.
Cliff and Mary Ann(Farfaglia)Miller
Tom & Beth Pine
December 30, 2009
It was once said that it's not death that brings us the greatest loss in life, but all that dies inside of us. As life goes on, we hope that you will all find ways to celebrate the memory of your devoted son/brother. We know he would want you to live every day to the fullest and continue the celebration of his contagious love for life. May time speed your healing. You're in our thoughts and prayers.
December 29, 2009
December 29,2009
I just became aware of Jason's passing
and was so saddened.I first knew Jason
when he set up his law practice in Bridgewater and as an older attorney
with a busy practice I had him assist
me with some of my business and real estate clients over the years.I was always impressed with his abilities and work ethic and enjoyed our conversatiions regarding our mutual
interests in athletics and flying.
I would like to express the sympathies of myself and my office staff to his family and friends.
Jerome Fletcher-Bridgewater Mass
Tom Daly
December 27, 2009
My condolences. I was luck enough to know Jason through New Bedford Country Club. I had the pleasure of playing golf with Jason and against him. I will remember him fondly. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Meg Counts
December 24, 2009
Ainsley, Kevin and I are deeply sorry for your loss. We are thinking about you and your family during this difficult time.
Love, Meg & Kevin
December 20, 2009
Reeder, Sally and family
There are no words that can begin to console the sadness all of you must feel. We hope you find comfort in knowing how much Jason touched the lives of all who knew him. He was truly one of a very few who had such an impact. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Gary and Carol Turton and family
Kerry Gowell
December 20, 2009
To the Gates Family,
I recently got to know Jason while we coached our sons' U9 lacrosse team together this past spring. We had more fun than the children!! We immediately hit it off as did our boys.
My wife and I were deeply saddened by his recent death. We were blessed to get to know Jason, Eve and his children. Our prayers are with you all!
Love,
Kerry, Ashling, Noah, Olivia and Ben Gowell
P.S. The Gates children are ALWAYS welcome in our home at any time!!!
Hazel Inglis
December 20, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with Jason's family. Jason was much admired and liked by his friends and colleagues. Despite being incredibly busy at court, Jason always took the time to smile and greet me and lighten the moment. He is sorely missed.
Steve Frappier
December 18, 2009
Dear Ainsley, family and friends:
I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Steve Frappier, Chicago IL
December 18, 2009
Reeder and Sally,
We're so very sorry to hear about Jason. I can't even imagine how difficult this must be. I will always remember Jason as an outstanding little league player and a pleasure to coach. Of course there were all those exciting years watching him play hockey as well!!! Our prayers are certainly with you during this sad time.
Love, Fran and Mena Davis
Nova Sherwood
December 18, 2009
I am very sorry to hear about Jason's death. I just ran into him in July at Uncle Joe's It was so great to see him and talk about old times at your house. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
Heather Young Durick
December 17, 2009
I was very sorry to hear of Jason's death. I went to Colgate with Jason and still remember his friendly personality and his passion on the ice. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
James Gallagher
December 17, 2009
Dear Gates Family,
I am very saddened to hear about your loss. I never had the opportunity to meet Jason in person but was connected with him through a group of fellow Colgate lacrosse alum. I was asking advice about practicing law in Massachusetts when I left the Marine Corps and was thinking about opening my own law practice in the Boston area. Without even knowing me he took the time to discuss various things from the law to our common interests of lacrosse and hockey. I was very suprised how giving of his time that day for someone he had never even met, but I greatly appreciated his advice and he helped me a great deal. I am sorry that I did not ever have the opportunity to meet him in person. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
December 16, 2009
I remember a childhood friend in Jason. He was easy to envy, had great speed and balance, a friend that could bend a lacrosse ball into a net when others could not. He called it his J-shot, I remember. He moved between many friends actually, Bill Abel, Meghan Concannon, Derrick Griffiths... he was well liked and well known---the kid that was always willing to sell some Hill Drug candy at Dewitt MS between periods. He was one of us, though he left for prep school he came back on holidays to revel in old stories and catch up on your own. He was warm, friendly and happy....that's what I remember most!
I am sorry for this loss and deeply saddened.
Kieran M. Killeen
Burlington, Vermont
Dave Crombeen
December 16, 2009
Dear Gates family,
Very sorry to hear of your loss. Remember well the smiling kid with braces hanging out at Lynah. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Peter & Trish Strid
December 16, 2009
Dear Gates Family,
My wife and I are deeply sadden to hear this news. We both were good friends with Jason at Colgate and will never forget him. He was one of the most unique individuals I have ever known.
We will miss him greatly and our thoughts are with you.
Wendy (Hall) Speth
December 16, 2009
To the Gates Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I have many fond memories with Jason. The thoughts of many are with you during this very difficult time.
kristen harlow
December 15, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Jason will be missed by all that knew him.
Tom Duffy
December 15, 2009
Gates Family-
I am fortunate to call Jason a friend. I have many fond memories of our years at Colgate, fun times in Boston, and of course competing on many a golf course. I am deeply saddened by his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
December 15, 2009
Our sincere sympathies to the entire family
~the Waxler family
Grant, Monique, Gord, and Bryan Richardson
December 15, 2009
Sally, Reeder, Missy & Ainsley our family shares your sorrow at Jason's recent passing. As an athlete, scholar, professional, and most importantly- a genuine, likeable guy, Jason will be missed by many. From New York to Western Canada, our thoughts are with you during this sad time.
December 15, 2009
To the Gates Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Jason was a dear friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Randy Schmitz
Alexandra Cann Ballard
December 15, 2009
To Jason's family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that Jason is at peace and that his soul will watch over all of yours and help you find your way in this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and my heart.
December 15, 2009
Dear Gates Family (especially Ainsley)- What a sad loss to you and Jason's wife and children- our prayers are with all of you.
--Michael and Holly Kazarinoff
Robert Cohen
December 15, 2009
My heart goes out to your family for your loss. I hope that your memories of the many good times spent together will be of comfort for you in the days to come. I had many nice memories of Jason when we worked together at Stella's. He was such a charismatic, friendly, competent and just overall good guy. We would always talk about our days at Colgate, It was so nice to see him and all of you at Lucatelli's throughout the years. He will be truly missed.
Bob Auditore
December 15, 2009
To Jason's Family.
My deepest sympathies go out to you in this most difficult time. May Jason rest in peace.
Kiersten Selby
December 15, 2009
Dear Aidan, Miss B and Tiggy,
When I saw your Daddy with you his eyes always sparkled. He loved you more than you can imagine and he always will. You are three beautiful little people who now have your very own special angel to walk with you wherever you go.
Carlo Carroccia
December 15, 2009
Dear Reeder and Sally,
I am so very sorry to hear about Jason. He, as well as you and your family, will be in my thoughts. God bless you all.
Howie and JoAnn Fuller
December 15, 2009
Dear Reeder, Sally and Family,
Please know our thoughts, prayers and love are with you. Our deepest sympathy.
Ted Whittier
December 15, 2009
Dear Reeder and Sally and family,
I am so sorry to hear this news. My heart goes out to all of you. I'll always remember the great times we all had at The Cape.
Dianne DePietro
December 15, 2009
To Eve & the children
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the family during this difficult time. We will keep you in our prayers.
Craig de Blois
December 15, 2009
I am very sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of playing hockey and lacrosse with Gatesy for two years at Colgate. He was a great athlete and fierce competitor. After Colgate Gatesy made the trip to Canada for some hockey tourneys and boys weekends. We had a lot of fun together and he was a team guy and a good man. We will all miss Jason.
Craig de Blois
Thomas Rooney
December 15, 2009
To Jason's family, We all are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our heartfelt thoughts are with you during this difficult time!
Tom and the owners and employees at LeBaron Hills CC.
Lauren Lamontagne
December 15, 2009
My deepest sympathies go out to all of Jason's family and friends. He was a talented attorney and a great person to be around. His presence will certainly be missed at New Bedford District Court. God Bless.
December 15, 2009
Dear Reader, Sally and family
We were sadden to learn of Jason's Death, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Harold and Kathy Roberts
New Port Richey, Fl
Laura Scutt
December 15, 2009
Reeder, Sally , Missy and Ainsley.... I am so sorry to hear of your loss, I remember Jason coming in the store and being such great person....he always had such a wonderful smile to give.....you are in my thoughts and prayers.....Laura Scutt
Leslie Gamache
December 15, 2009
Dear Aidan and the entire Gates Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. He was a wonderful lacrosse coach to my son and all of the kids. We will miss him. We are all thinking of you.
Love, Mrs. G.
(Aidan's teacher)
December 15, 2009
Reeder and Sally,
I am saddened to hear of your loss. My prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time.
Tammy (Urda) Santana
John J. Gushue
December 15, 2009
I am deeply saddened by Jason's death. My too few encounters with him in legal matters were always friendly, courteous and trustworthy.
Bryan Brown
December 15, 2009
Dear Reeder and Sally
I'm so sorry for your loss.So many nice memories sitting at Lucatelli's talking hockey with him.
Bryan and Hope Brown
Karen&Bo Lauretti-Sepos
December 15, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
December 14, 2009
Dear Sally and Reeder and all of Jason's family/friends--
You are in my heart and mind at this terribly difficult time. Much love to you all.
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karen & Bo Lauretti-Sepos
December 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Rebecca (Tobin) Schrader
December 14, 2009
To all of Jason's family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I went to IHS with Jason and we were also at Colgate at the same time. I can't remember ever seeing him without a smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeff Turton
December 14, 2009
Reeder, Sally, Missy, & Ainsley-
I am at a loss for words and my heart and prayers go out to all of you during this time. Jason brightened so many lives over the years and will be sorely missed. It was an honor to play along side him in recent Skip Wallaces to witness his heart and soul on the golf course.
The Van Deusen Family
December 14, 2009
We are so very sorry for your loss.
December 14, 2009
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Gates, Ainsley and Missy,
We are so sorry for your loss. Jason was a friend to us both and we have many great memories of him from Colgate and after.
Jason was a unique and special individual and we were fortunate to have known him.
Best,
Carrie and Jason Craig
Terry and Sara Taylor
December 14, 2009
To the entire Gates family. Jason was one of the most fantastic people that we have ever had the privelage of meeting. His energy and enthusiasm will be greatly missed by all he came in contact with. He has installed memories in all of us from reading the line for a winning putt on the 18th green at crunch time. To relaxing and celebrating on the deck, smoking a cigar after the round is done, and usually won. He has touched us all, and while we are sadened at his passing, everyone he touched will remember him well. The lord has him and he is safe. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. May God keep you well and strong in these times and always.
Scott Egelhoff
December 14, 2009
Reeder and Sally our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jill and I will never forget the warm welcome the Gates family gave to our family and I as I started my first golf course superintendent job at The Country Club of Ithaca. Jason would go out of his way to give me words of praise and encouragement. Jill and I wish we could be their to give you a hug Sally and Reeder. We will never forget his wonderful smile and friendship.
~Scott,Jill,Alexander and Julia Egelhoff
Karen (Amato) Rachetta
December 14, 2009
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Gates and family,
My sincerest thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of deepest sorrow. I have many fond childhood memories of Jason. He was always kind and genuine. It was just recently I ran into you, Mrs. Gates, and asked how he was doing. It is evident by his obituary that the kind and genuine child grew into a wonderful man. Words cannot express how heartbroken I feel for your family. Though it may take inumerable years, may you find comfort in the presence of loved ones, as you cope with such grief. Greatest Sympathy.
Joel DeAngelis
December 14, 2009
My family and I send our deepest condolences. Jason was a great competitor and generous friend. He will be deeply missed.
Amanda (Kumpf) Bonneau
December 14, 2009
Dear Reeder, Sally, Missy and Ainsley,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. All of the Kumpfs will be thinking of you and praying for you. BIG HUGS to each of you.
Jennifer Bordoni
December 14, 2009
Reeder, Sally and Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
LYNNE GARCIA
December 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
December 14, 2009
Eve, We are deeply saddened to learn of Jason's passing. He will be sorely missed at CCNB, where he was a former Club Champion. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the children, and the Gates Family. It is a tremendous loss for everyone.
- Bill and Karen Young
December 14, 2009
Dear Sally, Reeder, Missy and Ainsley,
There are no adequate words. Bill, Dan, Karla and I send our thoughts, prayers and love to all of you.
Barb, Bill, Dan and Karla Crowley
December 14, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
Gerlinde Lowe and the
Bristol County Bar Advocates
Don and Debbie New
December 14, 2009
Oh Sally our hearts reach out to you and yours during this difficult time. There are no words that take away the hurt and heartbreak. Just please know that Donnie and I and ours send our thoughts, prayers and love to all of you.
David & Alice Feeeney
December 14, 2009
Sally & Reeder:
We are very sorry for your pain and sadness. Please do not hesitate to contact me for any reason.
David W. Feeney II
Kevin DiGiacomo
December 14, 2009
Dear Reeder, Sally, Missy, and Ainsley,
I am very sorry about Jason, and I can't imagine how you are feeling. Jason excelled both in sports and in life, and enjoyed many accomplishments, which demonstrate his abilities.
Despite those accomplishments and abilities, he was a humble person. What I will remember most about Jason is how genuine he was. I always enjoyed talking with him because he spoke with his heart and listened with genuine interest to what I had to say.
Even though I have not seen him much in recent years, I'm really going to miss him.
I will be thinking about you and praying for you.
Helaine & Mark Babbage
December 14, 2009
Reeder and Sally
We were deeply saddened to hear about Jason and send our heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Matthew Silva
December 14, 2009
I am saddened to hear of the loss of such a vibrant young man. His successes in his short lifetime were far greater than most of his age, and he will be missed. My deepest sympathies go out to his family. Peace be with you.
Leslie Wood
December 14, 2009
Sally, Reeder, Missy & Ainsley - I am so deeply saddened to hear of Jason's passing. Jason and I were last in contact during our respective times in law school. He will be remembered fondly as both a childhood friend, and a source of support during school. You, his wife, and children are in my thoughts and prayers.
william glavin
December 14, 2009
I will always remember Jason as a young man in my dorm at St. Mark's and as a diligent student in an AP history class. Always alert and attentive. I was fortunate to have spent some pleasant evenings with him here in New Bedford. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him but especially by his family. Please accept my deep condolences.
Sylvia and "Fritz" Wiedergott
December 14, 2009
Jason will remain forever in our hearts, and with our fondest memories. Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Patty Yengo-Hohman
December 14, 2009
Reeder, Sally, Missy and Ainsley, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are wth all of you. Jason was a wonderful person who always made me smile.
December 14, 2009
Reeder, Sally and family
We are deeply saddened. Our prayers are with you.
Earl and Mary Cronan
Dave & Kathy Gates
December 14, 2009
May the Blessing of the Father be with Jason as he enters the Kingdom as well as Jason's parents, children, family and friends.
Joseph Ribeiro
December 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Russ Achzet
December 14, 2009
Reeder and Sally, My deepest condolences to you both and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Aurora Kohm
December 14, 2009
Jason had such a great sense of humor, and made everyone laugh. What a wonderful gift he gave us all. May those memories sustain and comfort you always. My thoughts and sympathies are with you.
Michele Rioux
December 14, 2009
Deepest condolences from a friend in the New Bedford Bar Association. Jason was an excellent attorney and will be greatly missed.
December 14, 2009
Reeder, Sally & family, We are so very sorry to hear about Jason. You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Ed & Connie Amici
Chris and Gina Rezendes
December 14, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. We will be here for Eve, Aidan, Asher and Tiggy when they come home.
Jessica Eberhardt
December 14, 2009
Mr. and Mrs. Gates, Ainsley, and Missy - Deepest sympathy for your loss, My mother and I send our condolences. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Peter Simmons
December 14, 2009
Jason's passing has deeply saddened all of his many friends at the Country Club of New Bedford. Our deepest sympathies to his family.
Curtis Nunes
December 14, 2009
I am very sorry for your loss,and my thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
December 14, 2009
Reeder and Sally,
We can't fathom the grief and helplessness you are experiencing. Jason was an exceptional young man and we will all miss him. We will be sending our thoughts and memories with a card. Until then, our daily prayers are with you.
Tim and Kim Tripp, Denver,Co
Rob Gibbons
December 14, 2009
Reeder & Sally, I'm so very sorry to hear of Jason's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and all of your family.
Butch Wyllie
December 14, 2009
My condolences to you Sally & Reeder. My prayers are with you.
Sharon & Joe Motsay
December 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Stuart & Ruth Lewis
December 14, 2009
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Eric Dixon
December 14, 2009
Ainsley, we are praying for you and your family during your loss.
Shirley Gates, Eddy
December 14, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Janice Cutbush
December 14, 2009
Reeder and Sally and family,
Words can't express how I feel for you. His life was a gift and taken away way too soon. You have my deepest sympathy. Janice
December 14, 2009
Dear Reader and Sally,
Our sincere condolences on your loss. May the love of God and the support of family and friends help you though this time of grief.
Sincerely,
Dave, Donna, Kim and Mark Cornelius
Jennifer Stage
December 14, 2009
I am saddened to hear about Jason. He could always make people laugh. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Doreen Bigley
December 14, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
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