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Chris Klebba
July 6, 2016
I knew Keven WAY back when we were kids going to Pine Knob Elementary and thought of Kevin at the time as my best buddy. We kept in touch for a while, but his move to the west side of the state made it difficult in the pre-internet age and no cell phones. I've thought of Kevin often and always hoped he was doing well. I reached out a few times, but no luck getting in touch with him, I regret. I learned today from a mutual long lost buddy that Kevin passed away and wanted to somehow touch the family and let them know how sorry I am for the loss. I'll never forget the week I spent with Kevin and his family at their "new" home in GR and I truly hope his wife and son are doing well despite their loss. While I'm certainly sad to learn about this, I am glad to know at the same time. Great guy, Kevin was. I'll look forward to seeing him again someday.
Matthew Shannon
May 15, 2009
Phil and Chris,
I just learned of the passing of your son/brother on Wednesday May 13 from the posting at work . I am very sorry to hear of your loss. You're such nice people.
Dana Shingle Skovrinskie
May 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with Kevin's family and friends. I worked with Kevin a couple of years ago. He was excellent at his job and had a great attitude. He was great to work with. I was a young supervisor and had my hands full. There were many times when I was stressed out and on the verge of crying. Kevin made me laugh. I used to joke that I had the dream team operating my press line. Later when he bid out I would be happy when he had to cover my press for the day. I know I wasn't the only supervisor who constantly tried to get Kevin to bid on a press in my area.
Leann Campbell
May 11, 2009
Bethany et al.:
My family and I send our sincerest condolences to you and yours. The fact that the Watson Street Gang always manages to support each other in times of great loss says a lot about where we all grew up. Know that you are in our thoughts.
Phil France
May 11, 2009
Bethany, Judy and I appreciate each an every one of you that have contributed to this Guest Book. We can really feelall the prayers, love, and support you've offered to us. We wish we could thank you personally!
For those who wish to know a bit more about Kevin, I have attached the notes I used to speak at the funeral that helped me thank people who participated and tell a little bit about who Kevin was:
Bethany has asked me to spend a couple of minutes to convey the deep appreciation she and the whole France and Little families have here today: Thanks to:
• Resurrection Choir
• Father Mark, Bauer
• Pastoral Associate Ed Horski
• Deacon Mike Dordan, who left his surgical “sick” bed to be here
• Funeral Home Staff for helping us through the process
• Fr. Dave for rushing to the house Tuesday night
• John Connolly
• Kevin's Aunts, Uncles and Friends who helped with duties at the funeral
• The Funeral Luncheon people
• and all of you—your expressions of love, prayer and support have really helped us, we know that our God is good because he blessed us with so many loving people in our lives. A special thank-you to our non-Catholic friends. We know the Mass is somewhat difficult to understand without knowing the exact traditions and teachings upon which it is based. We only wish there was time to share these traditions with you.
Judy and I want to thank Bethany in a special way. We really appreciate her strength and the way she included others in the difficult decisions of the past few days.
I have been at this podium or ambo, as is its proper name, many times in the 45 years that I’ve been a Minister of the Word proclaiming readings from the Bible. It has always been a privilege, and it is one of quite a different nature today; but it has never been so difficult to do.
Kevin and Bethany are fantastic parents. Their caring and concern for Alek is always very heart warming to us. With Kevin gone, Alek is very blessed to have such a caring mother.
Growing up and trying to understand life was a bit of a struggle for Kevin and there were many times when he wasn’t a very happy person. But, since finding his dear Bethany, and especially since they were given the gift of Alek, I think Kevin was finally truly happy and really starting to understand life. I can’t find enough of the right words to express Judy’s and my pride at how much Kevin loved being a parent with Bethany and how good he was at it.
Kevin was an interesting student. From a very young age was very intelligent and generally got all A’s in his tests, but would get B-‘s and C’s on his report cards because he refused to do his homework … he figured he didn’t need to do any “stinking” homework, if he already knew the material and could demonstrate that on a test.
Kevin especially loved all his grandparents and delighted at helping his grandfathers do projects at their cottages. Both of them were very handy and imaginative at doing repairs and he must have inherited a full share of that heritage when he developed the immense physical skills that he had. We were very proud that he combined his intelligence and physical skills in an honorable occupation like Diemaking.
Kevin, and his special buddy Cy, used those skills to do many things together including several decks. In my birth family, we always kidded my Dad that he built stuff with the idea that if an application required 2 nails, then 3, or maybe even 4, would be even better. Kevin embraced this idea. One of his last projects was a major, multilevel deck for his brother Chris. Those of us helping him, loved to tease him that it was so solidly built/overbuilt, that we were all going to Chris’s whenever there was a storm to use the deck as a Tornado Shelter.
Kevin found formal religion difficult and did not go to church regularly. However, he delighted in helping others with most anything. He lived his life in service to others that clearly demonstrated that he really knew that God dwells in each of us and that each of us have value and that each of us were important to him. He would go anywhere to help any one, often 50 or 100 miles away. He built several decks, wired many home improvements for people, repaired cars, and so on. One of his finest projects was the construction of a major theater room while finishing the basement in their home. He had help, of course, especially from his neighbor and friend Al, but he did it all: wall building, ceramic tile, electrical, finish woodworking cabinet installation, etc.
Most of all, Kevin loved to make people laugh. While he never wanted the center of attention on him as a person, he loved being the center of attention that made people laugh and have a good time. He often used humor to needle people, but only in love. He would do that to anyone. He often said he was an Equal Opportunity Offender! But, he also said he only picked on people he liked!
Bethany and the rest of the family want us to begin right now to leave this sadness and seriousness behind and begin to enjoy each other and the humor that Kevin loved so much. I’d love to share a couple of stories of the funny things he did, and there are many, to help get you laughing, but somehow, I just can’t think of any specifics right now. So, I’m asking your help to let you imagination and memories run wild and make the funeral luncheon the fun party he’d want it to be. So, let me close with an expression that I can just imagine Kevin saying: “OK losers, let’s leave this serious stuff behind and start the having fun!”
Ryan France
May 10, 2009
Bethany, Alek, and all of Kevin's Loved Ones,
I wanted to let you know that I'm sorry I wasn't able to make it home for the funeral, but my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for this incredible loss and I pray that God is with you through this hard time. As hard as this is, it is comforting to know that Kevin is in a better place and that our faith provides us with that comfort. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Janie Peters
May 10, 2009
I am so very sorry to hear about Kevin. Although I only had the opportunity to meet him a few times, it was not difficult to recognize all of the wonderful qualities mentioned in this Guest Book.
As Allie's Godmother, I feel very sad that she will miss out on getting to know her Godfather.
Judy Brodock
May 9, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with your families during this sorrowful time. Kevin was a wonderful friend to me and I am so blessed to have countless memories to recall fondly. His warmth and knack for making me laugh, even at myself endeared me to him. Kevin will be missed but not forgotten as he remains a friend forever.
Brian Oros
May 9, 2009
Kevin and the rest of us at work had many great times. His taste in humor and movies was my favorite, often quoting one liners from any givin Mel brooks movie was always part of our day. We will miss you.
Michael Hekker
May 9, 2009
Aunt Judy, Uncle Phil, Chris, Carolyn, Bethany, Alek and family, I was very sorry to hear of Kevin's passing please know that you have been in my thoughts during this difficult time.
Tom
May 9, 2009
Kevin was a great guy and one of the nicest people any of us will ever meet. His positive attitude and gentle nature are admirable qualities to which most of us can only aspire but never quite reach. Only the Lord knows why He called Kevin home so early, but I suspect it's because Uncle Merle needed some company in Heaven. May God watch over Bethany, Alek, Phil & Judy, Aunt Marie, and all the rest of the relatives and friends who were blessed to have made Kevin's acquaintance. It was an honor to be his cousin.
Denny and Carol Johnson
May 9, 2009
Phil, Judy, Bethany and Alek, Carolyn, Chris and Jenny
We are so deeply saddened that we are unable to be there for such dear friends when they are experiencing such grief and pain, to console and help in any way.
Kevin was such a special young man with so many wonderful traits. And, it was especially delightful to see his face light up when he was with Alek! His love for his family was so a part of him.
Please know that our love and prayers are with you all. May you be blessed with comfort from the wonderful memories you have of Kevin and from our Lord as he enfolds you in His arms and gives you peace.
Jackie MacDonald
May 9, 2009
Phil and Judy, Family,
Doug and I heard about your loss and wanted to express our sympathy. We will keep you in our prayers.
Doug and Jackie MacDonald
Chris Beetham
May 9, 2009
Dear Mr. Phil and Mrs. Judy France,
I am grieved to hear of Kevin's death and your family's loss. Childhood memories of playing soccer with Kevin, of skateboarding, playing 'war' in the neighborhood, of laughing and living together...these memories are unforgettable. Please know that our family is thinking of you and grieving with you in your loss . . . for Carolyn and Chris also. --Chris Beetham and family (Addis Ababa, Ethiopia)
Kristin France
May 8, 2009
Bethany, Alek, and all of Kevin's Loved Ones,
I am so very sorry for this major loss. Kevin was always such a wonderful cousin and person--I will never forget how tight he hugged me every time he saw me, his sincere interest in how I was doing whenever he talked to me, his smile (which he wore so often), and his great laugh. He will truly be so deeply missed. I am so terribly sad to say that despite by best efforts, I am unable to make it home from Boston this weekend. But please know that my thoughts and prayers will be with you, and Kevin's memory will continue to live on in my heart. I know I was truly blessed to have him in my life, as were so many others.
Love,
Lori Davis
May 8, 2009
For some time Kevin was 'one of the guys' at work. We were in the same trade, but I didn't really know him. Then he attended the Team Leader training I led at the plant and I got to know him a bit better. He became more than just one of the guys, he became one of the GOOD guys. My heart hurts for your family. May memories of happier times and the love of family and friends, and knowing he's with God now, comfort you.
Maria Gustinis
May 8, 2009
Phil and Family, I am so sorry to hear the sad news of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sally and Gary Holzgen
May 8, 2009
To Judy, Phil and all of the Hekker/France Families:
We are so very sorry for the loss of your son Kevin. There is no greater loss than that of a child. May God and time ease your pain. Our prayers are with you. Love,
Dawn Reed
May 8, 2009
I had the pleasure and honor of meeting Kevin through Carolyn a few times over the past 16 years. What a great guy! I will always remember how handsome, funny and strong he was! Have you ever been hugged by him before? He gave the best hugs! Please know that I am praying for you all, that God will comfort you, and help you during this very sad time. Remembering Kevin.
Marie Tubergen
May 8, 2009
My heart goes out to Bethany, Alek and the France family. Kevin was always made me smile in school. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Caledonia HS 1990
Rita Saravia
May 8, 2009
Judy, Phil and all of the Hekker/France families,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you all during your time of grief. Let the memories of Kevin live on in your heart and bless you with many smiles. The bond between a mother and child is like no other and the days will be long and difficult without him. But God had a another plan for Kevin and now he is up in heaven looking down. Please let this give you comfort. Although I cannot be there today to share in your grief. My heart and prayers are with you all.
Your cousin,
Rita (Hekker) Saravia
Rebecca Risdon Golembeske
May 8, 2009
Kevin was a great guy who always had a smile on his face and was able to put a smile on everyone's face that he came in contact with. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Kelly Ten Harmsel
May 8, 2009
Bethany and Alek, I had the privilege to work with Kevin for many years. He was always positive and always willing to help others. I have many great memories both at work and out fishing, we had fun. We do not know God's plan or understand it at this time. I will miss him a great deal and will keep you and Alek in my thoughts and prayers.
Annemarie and Jeff Ulin
May 8, 2009
May 8, 2009
Phil and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God Bless you all. Time and memories will lessen the pain you are feeling.
Joel Vander Wall
May 8, 2009
Thoughts and prayers to Bethany, Alec and the France family. Kevin was a great classmate and always had a positive attitude. Joel, Caledonia HS Class of 1990
Tarra Parks
May 8, 2009
Bethany,
Michelle McKellar is my step-mom and she shared with me the tragic events your family has experienced this week... I just wanted to say that I am so extremely sorry for your loss and cannot imagine what you must be going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tarra Parks
John Kerr
May 7, 2009
Carol, I can not imagine the feelings or loss you and your family are experiencing. Sounds like Kevin is in a better place, but it still does not lessen the grief or loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers, my sincere condolences.
Paul and Barb France
May 7, 2009
Dearest Bethany and little Alek,
We are deeply saddened by the loss of your wonderful husband and Alek's great daddy. We loved Kevin so much and will miss so many things about him. He was such a special Godson and great guy. We know his memory will live on in our lives forever. We will always be here for you both..Love, prayers, and hugs, Uncle Paul and Aunt Barb
Jackie Gipe
May 7, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the France family.
Robb and Jackie Gipe and family,
Scott Johnson
May 7, 2009
My heart goes out to you Bethany & Alek. Kevin was a close and wonderful friend of mine during our time at Caledonia. We played basketball and ran track together for 6 years through Jr. High & High School. God blessed your family with a wonderful father, husband & son and even though he's not with you now, I know he's in good hands with the Father. God Bless you all!!! Scott Johnson, Class of 1990 (Dutton, Michigan)
Ed, Deb & Kaspar Pawloski
May 7, 2009
We are so sorry for you loss. Please know how much others care, think of you with love, and in every prayer, ask God to bless you with courage to bear the sorrow that now fills your heart. In the love of Christ,
May 7, 2009
I would like to express my sincere condolences to your family. Ruth Collar
Amy Tourre
May 7, 2009
Bethany, I am so sorry to hear about Kevin's passing. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Chad Holzgen
May 7, 2009
Only recently did I find out that I had such a great relative in Kevin. He welcomed me to the neighborhood in 2003 and I hired him to do some electrical work in the basement. What an awesome guy! He gave me the "family discount" all while teaching me his expertise. He was a very genuine person and I am thankful for him being a part of my family. He will be greatly missed.
Staci Mather
May 7, 2009
I want to express my sincere condolences to Kevin's family. I met him last semester in technology classes at Davenport University. I am very thankful that I got to sit next to Kevin in class Monday night(5-4-09). He was a pleasure to sit next to and be around with his optimistic and friendly personality. God rest his soul!
erin kaiser
May 7, 2009
i am sorry to hear of your loss. may the memories of kevin bring you comfort at this time.
May 7, 2009
I am sorry to hear about the sudden loss of Kevin. My heart goes out to you and Alek. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Kellie Kintigh (Chicago, IL)
Shannon Briody
May 7, 2009
There are no words that can express my sympathy. Just know you have lots of love from friends and family.
Sarah (Casey) Thompson
May 7, 2009
Kevin touched more lives than he could ever know! I loved his bear hugs (that took my feet off the floor), his sense of humor, his gentle heart, and most of all his friendship!
Bethany, Alec and France family, may the Lord hold you in the palm of His hand. You will be in our prayers.
Peace be with you.
HELEN DINSMORE
May 7, 2009
To Bethany and the France family,
I am so very sorry to hear of Kevin's passing. What a nice person he was! Allie was lucky to have him as a Godfather. I always enjoyed seeing and talking to you both, Bethany. Andrew and Annette were, and are, fortunate to have you as cousins and friends.
My heart breaks for you as you deal with your pain and grief. Know that you have so many friends, and your family, who will lift you up in love. May you feel God's loving arms around you.
I wish I could be there to celebrate Kevin's life. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Helen and Jerry (Andrew's Mom)
Emily Piniatoglou
May 7, 2009
Bethany,
I am so sorry to hear about this tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Rosemary Fiscus
May 7, 2009
I worked with Kevin on second shift. He was a pleasure to work with, because of his pleasant nature and quick mind. Bless Kevin, who is now in heaven.
Mike Nicholas
May 7, 2009
I am beyond proper words to express my sincere condolences to Kevin's family. I have had the privilege to know Kevin since January while he was a student in my classes at Davenport.
We were just joking this past Monday night at Davenport that he had to sit in the front row (as he usually liked his comfortable spot in the back row) because he was the last one to arrive and all of the "good" seats were taken.
Well Kevin my friend, you now have the best seat of all in heaven next to God. Please try to keep a seat open for the rest of us until it is our time to arrive and be with you again.
Kevin's enthusiasm and spirit rubbed off on his classmates. He has had a remarkable impact on all of us in his short but valuable life here on earth.
RIP Kevin!
sara kaplan
May 7, 2009
bethany, our hearts go out to you and your family. love, chris and sara
Jeni Verplank
May 7, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help you through this tragedy. Your friends will always be there when you need them.
Eric Snyder
May 7, 2009
To the France family...
Unfortunately I never knew Kevin, but worked with Phil and went to school with Carolyn... and hope you can find peace and comfort in your memories of Kevin.
Melanie Sartz
May 7, 2009
My Deepest condolences to the family. Kevin was truly and wonderful person and will be missed so much. My love and prayers for the entire family
Feenstra Scott
May 7, 2009
My sincere condolences to the entire family, he went before his time but right now he is in glory.
Larry Fennema
May 7, 2009
I worked with with Kevin on occasion. He had a great attitude and knew his job well. I enjoyed his sense his humor and his outlook on life. I am sorry for your loss. Your family is my prayers. Hold fast to God during these trying times.
Julie Hubbard (Kral)
May 7, 2009
Your family is in our prayers. Kevin was a wonderful person and was loved by so many!
Mike & MaryJean Kathmann
May 7, 2009
Words can't begin to express our deep sorrow for your loss!
May the Spirit of our risen Lord bring you the strength, peace & comfort that you need!
With Love & prayers for you all,
Jason Groot
May 7, 2009
Always one to have the quick wit. Kevin will be missed greatly by many.
Kelly Kowalczyk
May 7, 2009
To the France family, I'm so sorry for this great loss. He will certainly be missed.
Angie (Gipe)VanMalsen
May 7, 2009
Oh My goodness, my heart goes out to you and your family. I have so many awesome memories with Kevin. Luke 18 and DYMO to name a few. He was such a fun loving person. His goofy laugh was one of my favorite things about him and he will be so missed. He was one of my favorite people.
Dick Friedrich
May 7, 2009
We are deeply sorry for your loss. We pray that God will comfort you during this time of grieving. Also that He will give you His peace as you think back on all the blessings He gave you through Kevin. In Christ,
Mary Little
May 7, 2009
We were so very sorry to hear about Kevin. We are keeping you and Alek in our thoughts and prayers.
Star Vredeveld
May 7, 2009
I worked with kevin, If you were in a bad mood he would cheer you up. My prayers are with the family he was a great man.
Chad Gaier
May 7, 2009
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Norman Chapin
May 7, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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