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McCartney, Patrick A.
Patrick A. McCartney, age 53, passed away peacefully with his family by his side on Friday, February 7, 2014 after a long and valiant battle with cancer. Pat was born in New York City on September 14, 1960 to Dorothy and the late Patrick E. McCartney. He grew up in Hempstead, NY with his five younger brothers and sisters, Liz, Joe, Paul, Mary Ellen and Deirdre and a large close extended family. After graduating Chaminade High School (1978) and Manhattan College (1981), Pat attended Hofstra University School of Law (1984) where he met his wife Terri. He joined the law firm of Emmet Marvin and Martin in 1986 and became a partner in 1992. Pat was a Solicitor of England and Wales. He served on the board of Domus in Stamford for 14 years and was the president of Trailblazers Academy for more than 10 years. Pat was a charismatic guy. He had the rare gift of truly being able to listen to and care about all those around him - everyone who met him felt special. Family, faith and friends were most important to him. Pat loved to golf, was an avid skier, enjoyed traveling and sports. Music was a large part of Pat's life. He listened to a broad range of musical styles and loved nothing more than hearing live bands. In addition to his loving wife Terri of 28 years, Patrick is survived by his three children, Lauren, Patrick and Thomas, his mother Dorothy, five siblings, four brothers-in-law, five sisters in law, nineteen nieces and nephews, three uncles, thirty-seven first cousins and countless colleagues and friends.In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in his memory to: Domus, Attn: Development, 83 Lockwood Ave., Stamford CT, 06902. Family will receive relatives and friends on Monday, February 10, 2014 from 1pm to 4pm and from 6pm to 9pm at the Bosak Funeral Home, 453 Shippan Avenue, Stamford, CT 06902. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, February 11, 2014 at 11am at St. Michael the Archangel Parish, 469 North Street, in Greenwich, CT. Interment will follow at St. Mary's Roman Catholic Cemetery, North Street (entrance), in Greenwich, CT. The McCartney family has entrusted the funeral arrangements to Bosak Funeral Home, 453 Shippan Avenue, Stamford, CT. If you would like to leave an expression of sympathy for the family online, you may sign the guestbook at www.bosakfuneralhome.com or visit the funeral home Facebook page at www.facebook.com/bosakfuneralhome to share memories of Patrick with his family.

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Published by Stamford Advocate & Greenwich Time on Feb. 9, 2014.

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elyse screnci

February 15, 2014

Prayers and thoughts to you and your family. So very sorry.

February 13, 2014

I am so sorry Terri to hear about your loss.My prayers go out to you and the kids and the entire family.May you find some peace in knowing that his pain is gone.Love Geraldine and Vincent Delprete

Michael & Celeste Bouton

February 13, 2014

Terri, Lauren, PJ, & Tommy-
We are shocked and saddened to here of Pat's passing. We will always remember him as a great father, husband and friend. He had a smile that will never be forgotten! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. With Love-

Lisa Molinaro

February 11, 2014

Terri

I just heard the news and am so sorry for your loss. My prayers, thoughts and hugs go out to you and your family.

Michael Parish

February 10, 2014

Terri:

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers go with you and your family.

Abby Marmorale

February 10, 2014

Teri, Lauren, PJ and Tommy, words cant express how very sad Pat's Emmet Family is at his passing. He was an amazing man and the original "Nice Guy" to everyone who knew him. God rest his sole and give you and your children peace.

Paul Anderson

February 10, 2014

Joe,

My sincere condolences and prayers go out to you and your family.

Mark Parish

February 10, 2014

Terri,
I just heard, I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you.

Geri Guzinski

February 9, 2014

Terri, Lauren, PJ & Tommy,
My heartfelt condolences. Pat was a wonderful man and I am so very sorry for your loss.

fjohn reinke (mc1968)

February 9, 2014

The Manhattan College alumni community shares the grief, and is now praying for our fellow alumni and the family at this time. The Alumni Office has been informed. As well as the Jasper Jottings community that I personally can reach. We are all a little poorer now. "No man is an island, entire of itself ... any man's death diminishes me". We are sorry for your loss.

Vickie Summa

February 9, 2014

Terri, Lauren, PJ, and Tommy,
Words can not fully express the sadness I feel hearing about Pat's passing....he was a wonderful man, always willing to give of his time and resources to help others, and I will forever feel blessed to have known him!! My sincere condolences to you and all your family....you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time!

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