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Gary and Sandy Graning
March 22, 2023
"Heavy" and Barbara... I am so sorry to hear of your loss (2002). I was just made aware of it today. Sandy and I send our prayers and condolences to you and your family. GG
August 3, 2018
Thinking about you everyday .I miss you more than ever ,I pray to you every night and hope you hear them. Nobody will ever hold a candle to Audie girl . For 1 reason or another your memory comes up everyday and always every night. You will always be the example of how awesome a human being can be when totally selfless and only happy in others happiness. I would give my life for 5 more minutes with you, xoxo Rest easy Angel I hope to see you again soon .I will bring a slice of pepperoni from Vincent's .xoxox
March 22, 2018
HAPPY BIRTHDAY AUDIE you are missed everyday .xoxo
March 24, 2016
Precious Audie,
I am a couple of days late posting this, but hope your birthday was fabulous in Heaven. So many of your friends and our friends posted sweet remarks on your special day. How can you possibly be 44 years old? No need to wonder where life would have taken you. You have the best life now. We all miss you so much. Little Autumn will be turning 4 soon, and you would have adored her. We all do. She has your personality. But sad times for out family with Shelly's passing at Christmas. She adored YOU!!! Her family is coping, and it has been hard for Mammaw, but God is helping us through this. Much love to you sweet girl, and Happy Birthday. Until we see you again.
Missing you,
Mom
March 22, 2016
Happy Birthday Audie girl...
Barbara Grammer
March 25, 2015
So many of your friends remembered your birthday on Facebook. We all miss you and wonder what a crazy 43 year old you would have been. I tell A.J. & Aliece all the time they never would have had to get a babysitter. You would have been crazy about little Autumn. She is coming up on her 3rd birthday and talking a lot. I will make sure she knows all about her Aunt Audie and what a fun, kind, beautiful person you were when you were with us. I'm sure you are the same in Heaven. Love you so - Mom
Dad
March 25, 2015
I think about you everyday and I miss you & your smiling face. I 'm taking care of your Brother & Mom & I know we'll be united in God's perfect plan. Love ya, Baby Girl!!! XOXO Dad
Bryan
March 23, 2015
Love then , now and always xoxoxo
little billy
December 5, 2014
MISS YOU EVERYDAY AUDIE GIRL XOXO
Staci Nesmith-Ring
September 18, 2014
I have been thinking so much about you lately. I have been going through lots of old pictures and came across so many fun pictures of us together. We had so much fun together growing up makes me smile so much thinking of those times. Every summer when I am telling my kids to put sunscreen on, I always tell them how much your nose would always peel and your dad would get so mad cause you wouldn't leave your nose alone:) Today is your mom's birthday and I know it must be so hard for her not to be able to celebrate with you, but I am sure you are celebrating her in heaven:)) I am jealous that you are in such an incredible place and I look forward to the day I see you again!!
October 28, 2013
Dearest Audie,
It is always so hard on these few days each year remembering when God chose to take you Home. But with His love and support, we always manage to get through it. Your Uncle Brad has been fighting cancer thiese past few months, His treatments are now done and we hope and pray he is on the road to recovery. Your precious niece Autumn is growing up. She is now 17 months old and has your personality. She's not talking much yet but she is VERY mobile. HA! She has a very mischievious grin. A.J. and Aliece are doing great and A.J. still loves caddying. We always have so many sweet notes at this time of year from your friends. They all miss you. Your dad and I will celebrate 40 years of marriage this coming December. I love him so. I know Heaven is wonderful and someday we will all be together again, But until the, you are in our hearts.
Love,
Mom
October 27, 2013
Miss,love and think about you everyday.
November 19, 2012
Precious Audie,
I can hardly believe it has been 10 years since God called you Home. So much has changed in our lives, but we will never stop missing you. Every sweet memory always includes something you said or you did. Sharon came for a visit in October and we spoke of you almost every day. She and her girls miss you so. Your friends in New York suffered a terrible tragedy - a hurricane that made a mess of their lives. I tried to reach Megan but have not heard back from her. I hope all of your friends there are ok. A.J.'s friend Vicki passed away. So many struggles for her but she is now in God's peace. Look for her. Ya'll can have a few laughs. And as you know, you are now an aunt. A.J. and Aliece gave us Autumn Grace last May 24. She is so much like you. A smile that lights up a room. I just wish you could be here to hold her and laugh with her. So my shining light, just know that you are always in our hearts and when your name is mentioned, everyone smiles. Thank you for all of that love.
Til we see each other again,
Mom
October 29, 2011
You are always in my thoughts and my heart, I know we 'll see you again in God's Time. Love & miss you so!!! DAD
October 27, 2011
On this 9th anniversary of your passing, we are missing you so. So much has happened in the past year. Your brother got married and is quite happy. You would love Aliece. Quirky cool. Loves her art like you loved your dance. Mammaw is better than she was this time last year. Still struggling with arm and neck pain though. She has slowed down a lot and she misses her granddaughter so much. Natalie is expecting a new baby so we will have a little one for Christmas. Our biggest worry now is Aunt Madeline who is not doing well. Watch over her, will ya? Audie, I think of you every day. I remember every detail of that last day I saw you. It is wonderful when I dream of you. Dad says the same thing. So precious child, tell all of those who have gone before us hi and we will see them in God's time. Your light shines forever in our hearts.
Love, Mom
Heavy Grammer
March 22, 2011
Ms Audi,
We think of you everyday and remember all the good times we had as a family. You are missed but never out of our thoughts & prayers...til meet meet again, all my Love.
Dad
March 22, 2011
Happy Birthday, precious Audie. 39 years ago I looked into your eyes and my life was changed forever. So much is happening in our lives. We finally got our wish of moving out West. We came to help Mammaw who has been having health issues. She's better now, thank goodness. And your brother A.J., well he fell in love and got married. Can you believe it! You would love Aliece. Her passion is art and she's a lot of fun. She loves A.J. for exactly who he is. But this date will always be special in my heart, the day God chose to put you in so many lives. Are there birthday celebrations in Heaven? If so, I know you will be having the most fun.
Love you forever,
Mom
October 31, 2010
A- I love u so much...but I miss u more!!!! Xoxo
Nick and Ann Finley
October 28, 2010
How special you must have been. Your parents love you so much and through them we love you, too. Say hello to Jesus for us. Nick and Ann Finley
Tom Clement
October 28, 2010
Audra you would be so proud of your Mom and Dad. They speak of you often and love you very much. They have dealth with the situation as best as anyone could. They have many loving friends supporting them. Hope that you ae at the right hand of God whom your Mon and Dad have their trust.
Heavy Grammer
October 28, 2010
AudiPadi,
Looked at all you pic & remembered all the times you said 'Whatca doing". That sweet smile will always brighten my heart. Love you forever & ever.
Dad
October 27, 2010
Sweet daughter,
8 years ago I rec'd the call no parent ever wants to get. We are missing you so much today and every day. Your dad and I are now in Albuquerque so we could be closer to Mammaw. She needs us now. She is starting to have some health issues. We love the high desert and I can not help but think of you when you were living in Durango. That town just sort of suited you, didn't it? Are you still saving us that place in Heaven? It's really a comfort to know we will see you again. It will be a glorious day. Love you, baby girl.
Mom
Barbara Grammer
April 6, 2010
Beautiful daughter,
Your birthday was quiet this year. Your dad and I visited you with balloons and an Easter lily. We ate lunch and talked about how much we miss you and how much more fun life was with you in it. Garner is right around the corner. We will spread Linda's ashes in the Frio this year, just as she wanted. Your cousin Chris had a close call with death over the Easter holiday, but it was not to be. It was not his time. Your Uncle Brad will be celebrating 60 years and we are having a small party with a band.
You will be missed. So precious child of 38 years of age, I'm still wondering if they celebrate birthdays in Heaven. I like to think so.
Love, Mom
Barbara Grammer
December 28, 2009
Sweet child,
Well, your favorite time of year has come and gone once again. It was a quiet Christmas this year. Brad was home but left to surprise Mom in Albuquerque. And was she ever surprised! We just cooked and exchanged a few gifts, keeping in mind the real reason for the season. Our holidays will never be the same without you, but luckily we have so many photos of earlier ones. Our 36th anniversary is coming up this week. You were so precious on our wedding day. Will never forget. Today is Pawpaw's birthday. Will you hug him for me? Miss you so much Audie, but knowing I will see you again gives me
comfort. Hi to Larry, Grannie Morrow, Grannie, Daddy Punkin, Gigi, Wiley, and Pawpaw. We miss them all.
Love you forever,
Mom
October 27, 2009
I wish I could give you a big hug right now, but i'm sure you can feel the hugs i send you in heaven. I miss you so much and can't help but laugh when I think of all the crazy times we spent together as kids. It's not the same without you, but I think of you often. save me a seat!!!!
your loving brother,
A.J.
October 27, 2009
Sweet Audi,
Today is filled with Joy to know you are with the Father in Heaven and we will see you, God willing and be with you for eternity. I miss you and your smiling face, it's not a day goes by that you are in my mind. Love on all that are there with you and know you were special.
In Christ Love,
Dad
October 26, 2009
Dearest Audie,
Just feeling your spirit so strongly today. Your dad and I visited your grave with fall flowers and a pumpkin yesterday. Can it really be 7 years since you left this earth? We stayed longer than usual, talking about so many things. This family misses you so much. But each time we said your name, a breeze reminded us that you are still with us and always will be. Are you saving us a place in Heaven? It is a such a comfort to those of us left behind to know we will see your beautiful face again, when He is ready. You will be glad to know we have reconnected with Mary and Michelle, and also with your cousin Brandon. Wish you were here to watch all of the dance shows with us. You would have loved all the drama on these reality tv competitions. We can not help but think of you and how much dance meant to you. Take care, sweet precious child, and I will see you in my dreams. Hugs to all that are there with you as we patiently wait our turn.
Love,
Mom
Kim Kiker
August 19, 2009
To Audie and Her Family,
I recentely found out about Audie passing and wanted to send you a note, to Audie I would like to say that I will miss you and I'm so sorry that I didnt keep in touch with you. I think the last time I saw you you were working at Woodlands mall and I brought my daughter Sophie to meet you. I will never forget that when I moved here our senior year, you became my friend, one of my best friends that year. I will always remember what a good friend and truly great person you are Audie. To Audie's Family I would like to say that I was a very lucky person to have had Audie in my life, she was a big part of my life even though it was for a short time it meant a lifetime to me and I wish now that it had been more.
I will now hold on to my children tightly and as often as I can.
Your Friend,
Kim Redding Kiker
JVHS '90
Barbara Grammer
August 6, 2009
Dearest Audie,
Well, your sweet Momma Linda has joined you by now. Her passing has left me sad, but truly glad she is no longer suffering. I know that Heaven will be more fun with Linda there, because everything was more fun when she was around. I can still hear her laughing. Just want you to know that she never forgot you so hopefully you two can catch up now. Save a place for me someday.
Loving you,
Mom
October 27, 2008
Miss Audi,
You are such a bright light in our lives and will be loved forever. Untill we meet you in Heaven.
Love dad
Barbara Grammer
October 26, 2008
Audie,
6 years ago today was the last time I saw your beautiful smile face to face. All dressed up for Halloween, you were having the most fun. Six years later, your absence from this life has changed us dramatically. We
have turned to God for comfort, and have a much better understanding of what He wants us to do in this earthly life. The joy of having a daughter like you for 30 years was such a gift and we are so grateful. May your days and nights in Heaven be wonderful. We know you are watching over us because we feel your spirit every day. Love you forever,
Mom, Dad, A.J.
Everyone misses you so.
Andrea Alvarado
May 2, 2008
I'm not sure what made me want look to see if Audra's book was still here, but I was pleasantly surprised to see it. I worked with Audra at Tony Mandolas in Houston, and I remember her vibrance. She was a great person, and so friendly to be around. I can't believe its been so long. I know she is watching over her family and loved ones, and I am grateful I had a chance to meet her in her short life. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with her family.
Barbara Grammer
March 27, 2008
Miss Audie,
Another birthday come and gone. 36 years old!!! Such a special day in my life. I love looking at those pictures. You had the most intense eyes. Your birthday was a lovely day this year and it fell the day before Easter. We brought you flowers and balloons and I added a picture frame in front of your vase. Your dad, your brother, and I talked of how much we miss you and how much you made us laugh all the time.
Ronnie sent me an e-mail saying they were thinking of you. Heavy heard from Kelly also. It had been awhile. He seems to be doing ok. Your dad and I are just working everyday toward retirement. I still hope we end up in Durango. You know my heart is there. But whatever God decides for me is how it shall be. I love you, baby girl, and think of you every day. My real joy is knowing I will see you again someday.
Forever,
Mom
Barbara Grammer
November 6, 2007
Audie,
How can it be that 5 years has passed? It seems like only yesterday that we saw you dressed in your Dallas Cowboy's cheerleading costume at the restaurant. I look at those pictures all the time, knowing you had no idea that it would be your last night here on Earth. But the smile on your face said it all. You always loved to dress up and have a good time. So full of life. I have to tell you that your friend, Officer Kirk Graham, passed away. You should look for him in Heaven. He knew God's peace. Also Sandee Keller lost her dad. She and Perry saw your picture in the paper and reminded us how special you were to all who knew you. Just wanted you to know that you are in our hearts forever and that all the quirky things you did still make us smile and laugh. I still watch Regis & Kelly because when Kelly throws her head back to laugh, it looks just like you. I also have a picture someone sent me of a beautiful blonde girl standing in a field of sunflowers. She's wearing a hat, and resembles you so much. Sunflowers were your favorite. I would love to know where that picture was taken, but am just grateful that God saw His way to make sure it ended up in my hands.
As the holiday season begins, we are so lonely for you but Mammaw is coming this year for Christmas to help make it easier. We love and miss you, sweet angel. Keep things on the up and up 'til we get there.
Mom
Staci Milligan
October 31, 2007
Audie,
I can't believe it's been 5 years. I can't tell you how much I think of you and your family. I remember all the great times we had growing up. My little ones are so excited about Halloween. We always had so much fun. I will never ever forget you.
Barbara Grammer
June 11, 2007
Precious child,
I put out your favorite summer flowers (sunflowers) this past Saturday and am missing you so much right now. We went to Garner and just wished you could have been there with us. The river was beautiful this year. You so loved laying on the rocks, sunning. I think of all those great times at the Frio and the dance at Garner, especially that time you came out in that skirt and top, with the low slung belt and boots. You looked like a movie star, and your dad and I could not help but smile at all that fashion enthusiasm. Wow, were you a hit at the Pavillion. Anyway, summer has arrived in Houston and we can not help but be lonely for you.
Hugs,
Mom
Barbara Grammer
March 29, 2007
Audra,
As the March winds end and the April showers begin, just wanted you to know that your 35th birthday was celebrated with flowers and balloons, as well as long talks, hugs, and tears. Janie & Ed Wilson from Durango were at our home for a visit on your day (22nd) and we all looked through your memory book together. They loved seeing all your pictures and it brought back so many good times. We miss our loving daughter so much. Thinking of you every day, but especially the day you took your first breath. My only wish is that everyone could know the joy of having a daughter like you. Your spirit lives on in our hearts forever. Ronnie also sent me a loving e-mail on your birthday. She misses her Audie, too. Take care, sweet angel.
Love, Mom
Dad
January 30, 2007
Baby Girl,
It's 3 am and I though of you, so I went to your Guest Book and reviewed all the entries, you were so loved and we miss you so. See you in our dreams. Forever Loved
Barbara Grammer
December 26, 2006
Precious daughter,
As we celebrated the birth of Christ, we could not stop the tears. This was a most quiet Christmas, our first without Pawpaw, our fourth without you. We are so grateful for all of our many blessings, but there is an emptiness that can never be filled.
Your brother is finally coming to grips with life. We pray for him every day. We did not hear from Kelly. I guess he is making his own way. Our wedding anniversary is coming up on the 30th. Do you remember that day, 33 years ago, when Heavy came into our life? He was so excited to have a ready-made family, thinking you were the most beautiful child he had ever seen. I remember every detail. Mammaw is coming for a visit in January and we will come see you.
She misses you so. Take care, dancing angel, and watch over us
as we wait patiently to see you again.
Forever,
Mom
Staci Milligan
November 20, 2006
Audie,
I just wanted to write and let you know that I think of you so much. As my children are getting older, it makes me think of my childhood more. We had some great times together that I will always cherish. Every Thanksgiving we each say things that we are thankful for. As I started thinking of things that I am thankful for in my life, one of the things that came to my heart was you. I am so very thankful for having the opportunity to know you, love you and have such great memories of you. I wish we could have had more time. One day we will meet again and for that I am thankful. As always I will have your family in my prayers during the holidays.
With much love,
Staci Nesmith Milligan
Barbara Grammer
November 2, 2006
Precious child,
You were laid to rest 4 years ago yesterday. It still does not seem real. We visited you on a beautiful
day last Saturday with your fall flowers and a cute pumpkin which your dad lovingly painted. We talked of all the wonderful times we shared with you, and how much we both miss you. Today is our first really cool weather, and it makes me remember the picture of you standing in the snow in New York, and all bundled up in your winter gear in Durango. You always liked the changing seasons. We visited Durango in September and thought of you every day. We even had dinner in a restaurant that turned out to be the old Father Murphy's. I had a lovely card from Ronnie and her family. It was good to know they will always remember your joy. Mammaw sends her love, and says we will someday share that wonderful soup at Tony Mandola's. Can we make it in Heaven? You will be pleased to know that Kelly came and stayed a couple of weeks with us, just getting his life back on track. You dad is trying to be a good mentor. A.J. misses his sister. He comes to see us often. Can you believe we are taking care of his cat!!! Well, beautiful daughter, God's promise is that all is well
now and forever in Heaven. When I close my eyes, I can see you smiling and laughing. Your dad had a wonderful dream about you the other night. He said you were just glowing with your beautiful blonde hair and that radiant smile. He said it was wonderful having you so close. He misses you so much, Audie. Take care and don't forget to hug Pawpaw. We know his life is much easier now, and very happy because he is with his granddaughter.
Forever,
Mom
July 12, 2006
Dearest Audie,
Your sweet pawpaw has left us to come be with you. I can only imagine the joy he felt when he saw your face along with the faces of all he knew who had left this earth for their home in heaven. We are missing him, though, but know he is in much better Hands now.
We have had a busy summer so far. Your cousin, Jake, married a beautiful girl, Larcie, in Florida The wedding was gorgeous. Also went to Big Country reunion. It was the 30th. They did a video and there were so many great pictures of you and A.J. having a great time. At the end, they did a "In Memoriam" with Dylan's picture and your picture. Everyone was so touched, but especially me and your dad. There were lots of tears. We've been doing a little traveling and some dancing. We finally went to Phoenix and Audie, the desert was so beautiful. All those wildflowers made me think of you. Just so peaceful. Your brother is still struggling, but he seems happy. Kelly's birthday was Monday. We sent a card but did not hear from him. I hope he is finding some peace in his life as well. Love you so much, beautiful daughter. Hug Pawpaw for us.
Love,
Mom
Barbara Grammer
March 27, 2006
Precious child,
Your birthday has come and gone. For the first time, the weather was not so beautiful, so we waited until Saturday to go see you and take your new spring flowers and your balloons. You always loved those sunflowers. We released one of the balloons after saying a prayer for you. It drifted so high, and then out of sight. I know you must see how painful it still is for us, but we dream of you often and not a day goes by without thoughts of you. Mammaw sends her love, she will come see us in May. She, too, misses you terribly. Your presence is with us always. We still laugh about when you turned 2 but kept saying you were 1. Such a precious voice, and then all those teenage parties with your friends. I can close my eyes and see you smiling,
laughing, and just enjoying life. I know it is much better for you now and that is why we count the days until we see you again. Audie, I still remember the moment I saw you for the first time-how could I have known what joy you would bring to this world!!!
Missing you,
Mom
Mom
Sandra Richardson
March 23, 2006
Dear Audra,
I wanted to wish you a happy birthday. I hope you have met Lisa by now. I don't see your Mom or Dad much any more. I keep you and your family in my prayers.
Sandra Richardson
Staci Milligan
March 22, 2006
Audie,
I wanted to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! I know you are having a grand time in heaven. I think about you and your family all the time. I know the pain of losing you must be so difficult. I love you lots.
Barbara Grammer
December 23, 2005
Audra,
Just wanted to write this note to you during the holiday season. This season will never be the same for us (your family). Even though we celebrate the birth of Jesus, your absence leaves our hearts aching. This was your favorite time of year. How could that much joy come out of one person! We will go to see you tomorrow, taking some new Christmas flowers. We think of you every day, and hope that Heaven is all that God promises it to be. Your grandpa will have his 90th birthday this week. Wish you were here for his big party. You were always the life of every party. Kiss everyone for us until we meet again.
Love,
Mom
Barbara Grammer
April 1, 2005
Precious daughter,
We celebrated the day you were born (March 22) with a visit to your resting place. We left a beautiful Easter lily and purple balloons, and talked about how much fun we had at your surprise 30th birthday party. The day was so gorgeous, and it always amazes your dad and myself. The weather can be so funky, but when we go see you, it's like God wants to show His Glory with beautiful weather. Mammaw and I talked about the day you were born, and what a joy you were to all. Just so you know, we all speak of you often and remember all the wonderful times together. Your light is still shining!!!!
Missing you,
Mom
Staci Milligan
March 23, 2005
Audie,
I know your birthday is today or this week. As always I was thinking about you. I remember how much fun we always had our birthday's. I was remembering over the rodeo season when I went with ya'll and we had the old time picture taken. That was so funny!! I went by your house last month but no one was home. I just wanted to say Happy Birthday!!
Love ya lots,
Staci Milligan
Carolyn Sherrouse
February 8, 2005
Dearest Audie, I just wanted to take a few moments to share some time with you. Whenever I have to go out I10 West, I try to stop by for a quick visit. It is so comforting to see the flowers and other tokens of love left at your gravesite. You are loved and missed by so many people, especially your Mom and Dad. I have joined their bible study group, and it is so wonderful to see them sharing God's blessings together. You know how much I love your Mom and her friendship has always meant the world to me. Take care little angel and keep a watchful eye on your loving family.
Love ya,
Carolyn
Dawn Prince (May)
October 30, 2004
Audie - Oddly enough, just this week I came across our picture from Kay's. It the picture of you and I dressed up for the dance Footloose. That sparkle in your eyes is unmistakable and will never be forgotten. I know that you are with us all daily. Take care of your family, they miss so much. Love you girl!
Julie Howard
October 29, 2004
Audie,
I recently found out that you passed away when I was on the J.V. Alumni website reading the news. I was really shocked. You and I were never good friends, but we danced together a long time ago. You were a couple of years older than me and I admired you so much and wished I was as good of a dancer as you were. This is when we were with Kay Biley at the Village Dance Center. I remember how serious you were about dance and one time during a solo you forgot your routine so you made it up as you went and no one ever knew. I thought that was so cool. So, the next year when I had a solo the same thing happened to me....so I remembered what you did and came out of it just fine. Not too long after that I switched studios and never saw you again. Not even in high school for some reason. However, I always wondered if you kept up your dancing career and thought I'd see you in New York teaching classes or working your way up to broadway shows. Anyway, you were someone I admired as a child and never forgot about you. I bet you never knew that. I'm sorry for your friends and families loss but I know you're in a good place that is taking very well care of you. Thanks for your inspiration over the years.
Julie K. Howard
C/O 1992
Met at Village Dance Center
Houston, TX
Staci Milligan
October 29, 2004
Audie,
I can't believe it's been two years since I received the call that you had passed. I think of you almost daily but this past week I have thought about you all day. I am so sad that we had grown apart. You will always be in my heart forever.
Love,
Staci
sandra richardson
October 29, 2004
Dearest Snowflake and Heavy,
Just a note to let you know that I'm thinking of you on this anniversary month of Audra's death.
With love,
Sandy Richardson
Barbara Grammer
October 27, 2004
Dearest Audie,
Today is the 2 year anniversary of your passing. Our day started with a call from Kelly. You will always be in his heart. Your dad, A.J. and I visited your gravesite. Kelly had been there earlier with roses, and we had beautiful fall flowers and a couple of little baby pumpkins. I know they would have made you smile. There's a little angel with your name badge from the restaurant, and also your picture. The weather was beautiful, and I could just feel your presence with us. Just know, Miss Audie, that you are loved so much and missed every day. We looked through your memory book and had to smile at every picture. It really brought back every moment that we shared.
So as this day ends, we will say our prayers that your are happy and safe in God's love. Such a bright light you were and continue to be.
'Til we meet again.
Love forever,
Mom
Staci (Nesmith) Milligan
June 17, 2004
Audie,
I think of you and your family so often. We had such great times as kids. I hope that my daughters have as much fun as we did. I just wanted to express how much I think of you. I know that you are missed greatly. I hope you are flying high.
Lots of Love,
Staci
Barbara Grammer
April 14, 2004
Dearest Audie,
Belated Happy Birthday! The weather was so beautiful on your special day, and your roses were so gorgeous. The wind was blowing, and your balloons drifted in the breeze.
We miss you so much, and just want you to know that this family is so lonesome for your smile and that outstanding laugh. We look at your pictures and pray that you will appear in our dreams. Hope birthdays in Heaven are as special as they are here. And everytime we feel a little breeze, we know it's you, reminding us to enjoy our day and make it special. For we never know when it will be our last on this earth. You are forever in our hearts, and we will always love you.
Love,
Mom, Dad, & A.J.
Barbara Grammer
February 19, 2004
Dearest Audie,
Once again the holidays have come and gone. They will never be the same without you. You always loved the giving season so much. We just returned from Steamboat Springs with friends, but I swear, I could only think of that great Christmas we spent there together as a family. It just brings a smile to me everytime I think of you and A.J. having so much fun. And speaking of your brother, you will be pleased to know that he has chosen the path of Jesus Christ. He is being baptized this coming Sunday and your dad and I could not be happier. A peace has come over him. I know you will be watching and smiling with us. We love and miss you so much, but I feel your presence always. I just get so lonely for that smile and laugh, but am sure you are the brightest angel. A belated Happy Valentine's Day to our sweet angel.
Love,
Mom
Dawn (May) Prince
November 11, 2003
I can't explain how shocked and saddened I was by the news of Audie's death. All the time since, I think of her often. She is in my thoughts and the family in my prayers. It makes you think, how silly it is that we all don't keep in touch. We can simply pick up the phone or put pen to paper, even. None of us know how much time we have left on this earth. Audie, you taught me how to laugh at myself! I was always envious at your outlook on life and zest for it, even though I never told you. I still hear that unmistakable laugh of yours. It's been close to 18 years since we danced together, but I still remember cuttin' Footloose with you, girl! We love you and miss you! We cry to know we feel, and laugh so that we can remember your sparkle and sense of humor! To Audie's family, my prayers are with you.
Sherry McDougald
November 11, 2003
Barbara & John
You and your family have been in my prayers and thought alot this last year. I know it is hard to stop crying but you know dont ever stop. And you know that is ok, you keep her always in your heart and in your mind. God Bless you and your family. You all are always in my prayers and I can only pray that each year it gets earier for you all and just remember cry if you want to, It always helps
Megan McGeough
November 10, 2003
To Audie My Best Friend In New York,
Audie I can't begin to say how many times a day I think about all the good times we spent together.We laughed ,cried,and laughed some more. You were the best!! I miss you and you will always be in My heart. I always say Your a PEACH
Luv Ya
Megan Your Pal
Sandra Richardson
October 29, 2003
Dear Heavy and Snowflake, Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you both and A.J. during this anniversary month of Audra's death. I am sure by now that she and Lisa have become good friends. God bless you.
Love,
Sandy
Richard & Carol Costin
October 27, 2003
Barbara & Heavy,
We wanted you to know you have been in our thoughts and in our prayers over the past few weeks. We do not know how you have made it a year and maintained your sainity. We pray that this anniversary date passes with you finding peace and that with time you will feel less pain. We ask God to bless your family and all those who love and miss Audie.
Richard & Carol
Richard & Carol Costin
September 19, 2003
Barbara and Heavy,
We read of the death of "Audie" back in October 2002 in the paper. Carol was so shaken by it she could not bear to call you and with time we went on with our lives and did not make contact. We did not then know of this site and recently found out only because our son Jeff died in a car wreck on September 3, 2003 in Austin and he is now receiving messages from all those who loved him. We did not know Audie but we knew you two and Carol especially knew Barbara. Now we understand the pain you are going through and want to let you know how truly sorry we are for your loss. I cannot imagine going through this for the amount of time you have (almost a year) and yet I guess you find a way. I am going to show Carol Audie's site and I'm sure she will respond with some thoughts soon. Our hearts go out to you and Heavy and wish neither of us had to go through this. God be with you and comfort you and keep your family safe.
Barbara Grammer
July 10, 2003
My precious angel,
Tomorrow concludes my vacation here in Durango, Colorado and I have felt your presence every day. Leslie and I had a chance to talk and we had a good cry together. You will always have a special place in her heart. Janie gave me a great picture of a bunch of us at that party that night at the restaurant. You had on the red hat and looked absolutely charming. When we here last Feb, Ed put his arms around me and told me what a special person you always were to them. Tommy and Colleen also offered comforting words. They all miss you. Your dad wanted me to have some time out here (so I won't bug him about moving anytime soon. HA!) But I think he knew this time by myself would be comforting, and in a way, heartlifting. And he was right. I have walked everyday and the beautiful scenery has reflected your smiling face everytime. I also spoke to your friend Wendy. She misses you, too. Tomorrow I will head to Albuquerque where I hope to see Babette and the girls. I will show them your beautiful memorial book and I will get to see the love for you in their eyes. I do so miss
talking to you every day at 3 o'clock, and hearing that precious laugh and all your funny restaurant stories. I miss finding all those fabulous finds at the thrift shops.
But I am sure you are living the beautiful life in the place we all dream of. Watch over us, my dancing angel.
Love forever,
Mom
Barbara Grammer
March 27, 2003
To those of you who loved her:
Her 31st birthday was on March 22nd. Last year we had a surprise party for her 30th and she had such a wonderful time that night. My life has changed so much with her no longer here on earth. But my precious memories are keeping her close. Thank you to all who have expressed your love for her and your concern for me, Heavy, and A.J.
Liz (Lawrence) Hansen
November 20, 2002
Dear Barbara & Johnny,
I'm so sorry for your loss of Audra Day. It was apparent from all of those who spoke at her service that she left a BIG mark in her short life, and of that you can be especially proud.
I'm sorry I didn't take the time to write a note with Kelly's scripture art "AUDRA", but the important thing is that you got it and like it! [It really is a smaller world than we realize (your knowing my niece Debora from work!).]
God bless you and your family as you go through this trying time.
With love,
Liz Lawrence Hansen
(Waltrip Class of '66)
Heather Salupo
November 14, 2002
I am so very sorry for the loss of Audie. Especially for her family, but for EVERYONE who knew her. Audie and I worked together at Father Murpy's where I was fortunate enough to have her become a good friend, and meet her family. It's funny, I have lived in Durango for over 10 years now, and have made countless friends, but she is STILL the only friend my mother asks about. It just goes to show what kind of person she was, and the impression that she made. I can just see her having "coffee talk" with all the angels, and calling them button breath.
Deborah Szekely
November 13, 2002
Dear Audie,
I did not know you ....But just looking at your picture I can tell from your Brilliant smile that you are a Huge and Old Soul, and would have loved to have met you!!! I am positive you have touched many lives and you will continue to do so in your absence...My thoughts are with you.......You have now becomae an Angel, watch over Heavy and Snowflake anmd I will do the same.
God's Speed
Deborah Szekely
Shelley Stoneburner
November 13, 2002
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Audrey & I went to JV together and graduated in the same class. Your family will be in my prayers.
Natalie Romero
November 12, 2002
Dancing Angels
An important purpose is served by Dancing Angels,
Happiness, courage, and faith are possessions spread by these spirits.
But that is not all;
Oh, there is so much more.
A lonely boy with sweaty palms and little courage,
Standing in the corner, high school dance, last one of the year;
He takes a breath, walks coolly to the girl with the pretty eyes.
Mumbling, stumbling words and a light breeze streams through the air;
A sigh of relief and on the dance floor they stay, happiness has come to light.
She looks out of the curtain, fright crowds her body,
Hundreds of faces wait to witness sophistication and entertainment.
Only to her, sophistication can turn to embarrassment and folly.
Yells from behind her, it’s time to go, fear takes control and stiffness overcomes her body;
A cool, genteel breeze brushes along her face, the music starts, and out she goes;
Hits every beat, spins on her toes, passion glows from her eyes as she takes her bow. Smiles and roses are all that she sees, now she is big time.
What came over that boy, and what helped that young woman?
Courage we say, but only God knows for sure.
The real question is not what, but who.
The answer is simple, Audra Day.
God gives strength through spirits qualified;
The duties are not easy, and can’t be forgot.
Bliss, charisma, style and grace, passion and humbleness,
These are a few traits;
Audra Day lived this way; she loved dance and smiled each day.
She is whom God needed to be that cool breeze, to give these qualities
To those who lack in courage and faith.
She took this job and not sadly I am sure, she smiled and said, “I’m your girl,”
Put on those wings and turned up the tunes as she walked through the gate.
She is not gone; she is here with us,
Only her title has changed, she is not just Audi now-
She is one of God’s
few Dancing Angels.
Written for Audi-
Sloane Burdick
November 12, 2002
I met Audie when she worked at Father Murphy's in Durango. She was a great friend and always the most fun to be around. My heart goes out to her family and anybody who knew her; I know losing such a bright spirit will be felt far and wide. Audie and I lost touch and I'm sorry about that. But if my heart is hurting right now I can't imagine how her close family and friends are feeling. May you all find peace when you see how many lives she touched. I feel it was a privelege to have known and loved Audie and she will always be my "button breath".
Christine Lujan-Hodges
November 11, 2002
I didn't know your daughter but, I had to write and tell you that I am sorry for your loss. I grew up in Durango, CO, and I know that it takes special people to make Durango special town...your daughter had a hand in that! Please know that I will pray for you to find peace. I will ask God the Father to look down lovingly upon you, I will ask Our Lord Jesus Christ to bless you daily and I will ask the Holy Spirit to guide you to a love known only by those who have bid farewell to young members of their family. God bless you all and may peace be with you all.
Carla Taft
November 9, 2002
Dear Barbara,Heavy,AJ and Kelly, I do not know where we go after our lives(and what a life she had!) are over. but I do know where Audra will stay. Just think of her and she is in the bestplace of all; your Hearts. Barbara, I think of you often and once again my Heart goes out to you and your wonderful family.
Carla Day Taft
Chip
November 7, 2002
But in Friendship....
we think we have chosen our peers.
In reality,
a few years' difference in the dates of our births,
a few more miles between certain houses, the
choice of one university instead of another,
posting to different regiments,
the accident of a topic being raised or
not raised at a first meeting
--any of these chances may have kept us apart.
But, for a Christian,
there are, strictly speaking, no chances.
A secrect Master of the Ceremonies has been at work.
Christ, who said to the disciples
"Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you,"
can truly say to every group of Christian friends,
"You have not chosen one another but
I have chosen you for one another."
The Friendship is not a reward
for our discrimination and
good taste in finding one another out.
It is the instrument by which
God reveals to each the beauties
of all the others. They are not greater
than the beauties of a thousand other men;
by Friendship God opens our eyes to them.
They are, like all beauties, derived from Him,
and then, in a good Friendship, increased by Him
through the Friendship itself, so that it
is His instrument for creating as well as for revealing.
At this feast it is He who has spread the board
and it is He who has chosen the guests.
It is He, we may dare to hope,
who sometimes does, and
always should, preside.
Let us not reckon without our Host.
C.S. Lewis
Dawn Prince (May)
November 6, 2002
Dear John and Barbara,
I took dancing lessons with Audie in jr high and high school. I loved her abounding spirit and her bright smile. I remember her as always smiling and I can still hear that voice. She had a great sense of humor and an awesome spirit. She is loved and is greatly missed. I regret not keeping in touch with her but as adults we all grow apart. I am glad that she followed her dream of dancing, for she was a poet with her physical form. My mother, Mary Jo and I miss her and send our heartfelt prayers to you and your family.
I walked a mile with Pleasure.
She chattered all the way,
But left me none the wiser
For all she had to say.
I walked a mile with Sorrow,
And ne'er a word said she;
But oh, the things
I learned from her
When Sorrow walked with me!
- Robert Browning
Ron & Emilie Duhaime
November 6, 2002
Dear John and Barbara,
We were sorry to hear of your recent loss. May God bless and comfort you both during this most difficult time. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Tommie Jane (Glover) Folk
November 5, 2002
Barbara,
So sorry to hear about your beautiful daughter. She is singing and dancing with the angels and will always be watching over you, her father and brother. It does not ease the pain I know, but, with thoughts of heaven it will always make it easier. May God bless and comfort you and with all my love from an old old friend.
T. J. Folk SHHS Class of 66
Larry & Linda Kohl
November 5, 2002
John and Barbara
We were sorry to hear of your recent loss. May GOD bless and confort you both during this difficult time. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Steve & Michaele Giles
November 5, 2002
John, Barbara,
Michaele and I have held hands, kneeled and cried. We both love ya'll and have held you in our thoughts and prayers. We were unable to be there this weekend but we were there in our hearts. God bless.
Wendy (Mordecai) Miller
November 4, 2002
I went to Jersey Village with Audie, however, I was 3 years ahead of her in school. I remember that she was known as being a girl with style. She always looked great. I'm so sorry for your loss. Even though I never really knew her, I feel pain for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Chip and Janice DiStefano
November 4, 2002
As shown by the way Audie lived her life, and as stated in God's word - Colossians 3:14 "The most important piece of clothing you must wear is love. Love is what binds us all together in perfect harmony."
Now Audie has gone on to her home in Heaven "putting on a heavenly body, like new clothing God has prepared for her". II Corinthians 5
Christina Hutson (Schoellkopf)
November 4, 2002
I was another classmate from Dean Jr. High and also JVHS. I will alway remember see Audie's smiling face everytime I think of school days. Although I have not seen her since high school days, I wanted to let her family know my prayers are with them. God bless you.
Laura (Small) Poff
November 4, 2002
Audie's spirit was parallel to the way she danced...with joy, passion, and abandon. She was one of the sweetest, most talented young women I ever knew. We were friends in junior high and high school, and I have often thought of her and her vibrant spirit. She will be missed, but not forgotten, and we are all truly better for having her touch our lives in some way. My deepest sympathies to all of her loved ones.
Lori Hayner
November 4, 2002
Dear Barbara, Heavy, Kelly & AJ,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My father passed away this summer and I know how painful it is to lose someone you love so dearly, especially when its unexpected. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your grief. Your friend, Lori Hayner
Lori (Broussard) Hilsher
November 4, 2002
I am very saddend by the loss of Audie. My mind has been filled with wonderful memories of twenty years ago when I first met her, and I will never forget her. My family and I have you all in our prayers.
james leyva
November 4, 2002
dear john and barbara,
it was my delight to have the aquaintance of your daughter. trey and myself had the pleasure of meeting her at the US Open the year it was held in West Los Angeles for the first time. She truly had a beautiful light surrounding her, and with the love of such incredible people as yourselves, it comes as no surprise. i've heard it mentioned that she brought joy and life into our world for thirty years...and that we can all hang on to... i love you both so much.
my thoughts and prayers are with you. xoxoxoxoxxo james leyva
Ralph Warren
November 4, 2002
Barbara and family,
I have just read about your tragic loss. I can't imagine the sorrow you must feel. I do know, however, that we are not in this world without a source of comfort. Family and friends are a great help, but true comfort is a spiritual blessing that can only come through the shed blood of Jesus Christ, and that eternal comfort is available to all who believe. May God bless and comfort you during this this time.
Debbie Ford
November 4, 2002
You and your family are in my prayers.
Mike Corbett
November 4, 2002
Heavy,Barbara and Miss Audie's loved ones,
My prayers and love and sympathy are with you in your unimaginable grief.
Donna R. Lively
November 3, 2002
Our Dear Audie
Is in the arms of God and among our Angels.
Heavy and Barbara what a blessing to have a daughter like Audie.She was always a delight to be around,
sparkling eyes and always a smile.
But what I know the most, is that she had the most wonderful Mom and Dad that any young adult could have. You were always there for her through all the challenges in her young life.The Love shared between this wonderful family, was so very
clear among your friends.
Hold onto your Memories and each other and AJ. For Life is a wonderful gift and way to short.
I Love you all and will be there for you.
Donna Rose Lively
Tom Mangrum
November 3, 2002
Barbara, Heavy and A.J.,
Our hearts go out to all of you for the loss of a wonderful daughter and sister. We know how very proud of her you all were. We wish there was something we could do or say to make it easier but all we can do is let you know we are here if there is anything at all we could do to help you.
God Bless you all,
Tom and Jeanne Mangrum
Alice Pitchford (Chevalier)
November 3, 2002
Barbara and family,
There are no words to adequately express my feelings of sympathy or words to give you comfort at this most difficult time in your life. I just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you peace as only he can give.
JoNell (Nesmith) Lord
November 3, 2002
Barbara, Heavy and AJ,
When my girls, Staci & Shelley, called me to tell me about the death of Audie, I just could not believe it. Through the years since I have been away the girls have always kept me informed about how Audie was doing. Audie was very special to our family. Audie always had such a "special" and unique personality. Her smile and fun-loving nature was a joy to all who knew her.
My love, thoughts and prayers will be with you during this very sad time in your lives. May your wonderful memories keep your heart at peace.
Your Friend and former DeLozier Neighbor,
JoNell Nesmith Lord
Terry Rippa
November 2, 2002
Dear John and Barbara,my heart and love go out to you. It's so hard to lose those that you love so dearly. You are also both loved by many. You have the best support group in the world with countless numbers of friends. Lean on them, they are all there for you.God is with you,your friend,
KATHRYN MONGEAU
November 2, 2002
We are all saddened to hear about your loss. We at Capital Swing wish to extend our condolences. Our thoughts are with you.
Ken Durden
November 2, 2002
Barbara, Heavy & AJ you are in our thoughts and prayers. Audie was such a pleasure to know. God's Blessing to all of you.
Ken, Linda, Kevin & David Durden
Alyssa (Dailey) Price
November 1, 2002
I have such wonderful memories of the entire Grammar family at the JV summer swim team meets.
I have yet to meet anyone with a personality as vibrant as Audie's, and I am sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Wes & Pam Neese
November 1, 2002
The Grammer Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless the joys your family has brought to many.
Ronnie Williams
November 1, 2002
Barbara,I know that you heart is saddened over the loss of your daughter. I hope that the good lord will give you and your family peace at this time in your life.May God bless you and your family.Sam Houston Class of '66
Kimberly (Sherrouse)Cook
November 1, 2002
Barbara, Heavy, AJ, and Billie, it saddens me deeply to have to write to you on what must be the most difficult day of your life. When I think of Audie I remember the "spunk" and "energy" that she would radiate the room with. I recall how excited my "dancing angel" was to be learning from your "dancing angel". She thought it was the coolest thing to be taking dance from Audie. We were so glad to be able to catch up with her at your anniversary party a couple of years ago. I know one thing for sure......all of the wonderful thoughts that we are reading about Audie are truly a reflection of the loving, beautiful family that she had.
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