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Bryan Stoltenberg Obituary
Stoltenberg of Sugar Land, Texas, went to be with His Lord and Savior on January 4, 2013. Bryan was born on August 25, 1972. He was the devoted husband to his high school sweetheart, Laura Fontenot Stoltenberg, for 18 years. Austyn Douglas, Jacob Bryan and Andrew James are his cherished and much loved sons.
Bryan is survived by his loving parents Douglas and Lorita Stoltenberg of Sugar Land, Texas. His three sisters and their families: Kaya and Karim Refaey, their children Dylan, Sydney, McKenzie, and Connor. Kelly and Brant Romero, their children Maya and Riley and Kristen and Chris Stephens, and their child, Ryder, and his grandmother, Elaine Trischman.
He is preceded in death by his grandparents, Ralph and Edna Stoltenberg and Arthur Trieschman Jr.
Bryan graduated from Clements High School in 1991. Bryan was a stand-out scholar and athlete who was recruited nationally and ultimately signed with Colorado University, where he started four years as center. He was a two-time All American and graduated with a business degree in 1994. He was drafted by the San Diego Chargers in the 6th round in 1996. He continued his career in the NFL playing for the New York Giants and the Carolina Panthers until 2000.
Bryan enjoyed every opportunity to teach and encourage others in developing Christian character, work ethic, and Godly service to others. He touched everyone who met him.
Services will be held at Sugar Land Baptist Church, 16755 Southwest Freeway Sugar Land, Texas 77479 Tuesday, January 8, at 11 am. In lieu of flowers, a college fund has been established at Chase Bank of Sugar Land.
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Memories and Condolences
for Bryan Stoltenberg
Yvonne Robertson
January 16, 2013
Hugs, Yvonne Robertson (Señora Yvonne)
Kyle & Geri Smith
January 15, 2013
A great leader and friend who will always be remembered as a faithful witness for the Lord and a cherished brother. Love and prayers to Laura and the boys.
Mike Stupl
January 12, 2013
Dear Doug and Larita...I am sure you do not remember me, but we worked together at a company called, Danka Industries almost thirty years ago. When I heard about your son, I was deeply saddened. I remember both of you as kind and caring people who loved each other very much and this love poured over into your family. I have been an Adult Bible Teacher for over 30 years yet words do not come easy in situations like this one. I am so sorry for the loss of your son. If there is any comfort at all, it is in knowing that you will see him again.
Mike Stupl
Wanda
January 11, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. My husband was a witness to the wreck and I was the lady that called you to let you know he was in an accident. I am truly sorry for your loss. If there is anything that we can do please let us know.
The Cardenas Family
January 10, 2013
Laura - our thoughts and prayers have been with you since last week. Bryan was a wonderful coach and a great man. Praying for you, your boys, and all your family and friends. Our hope for you is that, one day, the great memories you all have will fill your hearts with joy instead of the sorrow and sadness you are feeling now. Condolences to you all.
Bernadette, Pete, and Adam Cardenas
Cousin Tommy & Andrea Davis
January 10, 2013
Bryan is truly a gift to our family and his many friends and colleagues. We were blessed to be part of his family. We will never forget your infectious smile and your love for life! We will miss you, Bryan, but we will never forget you!
Manny, Dianna, Hoss, and Nasrin Syed
January 9, 2013
We feel blessed to have known Coach Brian. Our prayers are with you, holding you up in your loss.
Darren & Katy Acosta
January 9, 2013
A great man from a great Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Stoltenberg's.
Janet and Mike Brown
January 9, 2013
Bryan touched so many lives, I believe many more than one can imagine. Prayers for Laura and family members.
Natalie Nguyen
January 9, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Stoltenberg family. He will be missed by all.
Fabiana Bezerra (Kotzabassis)
January 9, 2013
Laura,
Although I had not seen Bryan for a few years, I remember his sweet and friendly smile. I know that only God can give you the strength to survive the loss of the love of your life. I pray for the peace of God to be upon you, and that He gives you the strength to parent the boys and to live your life with extraordinary grace. Your family is in our hearts and prayers.
Tisha Cook
January 8, 2013
Laura with all of heart and soul I send all of my love and prayers to you, your children and the rest of Bryans family. I was truly blessed to have known him... I can only hope that all of the love poured out for him will give you and the boys strength in your far and near future. Many hugs! Love Tisha Cook & Family
Gus Gustafson
January 8, 2013
To the entire family I am keeping yall in my thoughts and prayers. I love each and everyone of you. Yall where like family to me growing up and it will never forget that. Brian was a very special man and I know his faith was strong to the end and he is in a better place. O love you Mr. and Mrs. Stoltenberg. As well asKaya, Kelly, and Kristin. Laura I also love and you need to be the rock for your boys. I miss you all dearly and if there is anything I can do please don't hesitate to ask. I love you all! Gus (817) 374-0660
Susan Coleman
January 8, 2013
Prayers for your loss of such a special son, husband, father and brother. Doug and Lorita I am so sad to hear of the loss. My prayers are with the entire Stoltenberg family.
Karen Acosta
January 8, 2013
My prayers go out to the family. Bryan was a very genuine wonder person, always excited and upbeat. I only had the pleasure of consulting with Bryan from time to time on Pipeline data but he was always optimistic. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Jean Bryant
January 8, 2013
Mrs Stoltenberg, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys. I always enjoyed seeing your family when I was the boys' pediatrician.
January 8, 2013
Laura, Austyn, Jacob and Andrew, sending you our heartfelt sympathies. Sending prayers and hugs to each of you. We are honored to have known Bryan, he will be truly missed. Darcy, Sherri, Ethan and Mathew Strain
January 8, 2013
My deepest condolences to the family. Bryan was a great childhood friend and always remembered me when he was in Denver. Love, Chad Gilbert, Aurora, CO
Bobby Koenig
January 8, 2013
I still remember the day Kaya introduced me to Bryan. I am thinking about all the Stoltenbergs today and I am truly praying for Laura and the three boys, Doug and Lorita, and Kaya, Kelly, and Kristen. A truly great family and I know he will always be in your hearts.
yvonne Robertson
January 8, 2013
We are praying for you and your family Laura.
May you all gain strength as each day passes....
Señora Yvonne, Scott, Jon-Asher, Aaron, and Natalie
Vineet and Leena Gomber
January 8, 2013
Dear Laura and Kids, We have been extremely saddened to hear about the sudden demise of Coach Bryan. Bryan has been one of the most amazing persons I have ever known.
He coached my son Dhruv for many years and I came to know him quite well. He was always encouraging, extremely patient and very sincere and honest person. He has always been Dhruv's idol and I also have learnt a lot from him on how to be a better person. I know it is a huge loss that is difficult to bear but I pray to God to give you all strength to bear this. Please let us know if we can be of any help.
Bryan will be greatly missed by all as a wonderful human being.
May the Lord be with you all.
Terry Wetzel
January 8, 2013
Laura, my deepest condolences. I am very saddened by the news. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Stoltenberg family. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
(Former Algebra Teacher & Football Coach)
Michelle (Hosley) & Eric Bedient
January 8, 2013
My brothers and I grew up with the Stoltenberg crew back in the early days of Sugar Land. Our entire family was so saddened to hear of Bryan's death. May God bring peace and comfort for all of you now and in the upcoming days, weeks and months. Much love to the entire Stoltenberg family!
Gloria Kliesing
January 8, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in our hour of need. Lean on God to ease your pain. Know that Bryan will forever be in your heart and soul. I pray peace be with you.
Kate Dulin
January 8, 2013
Bryan was a great man and a wonderful youth mentor. He made many great memories for all of us in the youth group. God bless.
Desiree and James Banfield
January 8, 2013
Laura, I was deeply saddened to hear from the Engleman's of Bryan's death. You and your boys will be in my prayers. May God comfort you as only He can . Peace and blessings to you and all who loved Bryan.
JJ Grissom Mackle
January 8, 2013
I haven't been back home in a while since I graduated CHS, but everyone remembers Bryan. Everyone always wanted to rally around Bryan because he was a good leader, a good student and a friend to all. He was a good role model for us. He chose a perfect partner with Laura and his values shine brightly within his own family. I am so sorry for your family's loss and you all are in our prayers.
Laurie and Doug Whittle
January 8, 2013
Laura and family, we love you. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. What a great man. We pray you find comfort in all your great memories.
Ginger
January 8, 2013
Brian was a amazing man always smiling and funny he will be missed.
Charlie and Michele
January 8, 2013
Our deepest condolences to his family. He was a great person and man of God. He will be greatly missed.
Gloria Scherer
January 8, 2013
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Stoltenberg family.
Mary Ellen (CHS class of '91) Cuzela
January 8, 2013
May you rest in peace, Bryan. I always admired you. Laura and sons... I pray you feel God's embrace as you say good bye.
Carol Measom
January 8, 2013
I'm so sorry I can't be there today. We are so saddened by the news. He was one of those really great people that will always be remembered for his outstanding character.
Brandon McMann
January 8, 2013
I will always remember Bryan as the first person who was nice to me when I was a freshman with no friends at Clements. He always treated me as a friend...even though we only saw each other on random occasions. Laura, you have always been a great friend as well. Bryan will be missed.
Steven Schoppa
January 8, 2013
So often we live to celebrate quantity; however, the greatest celebration of all is quality. And that said, Brian's life of quality was one that touched many people of all ages each and every day. One that will not be forgotten but remembered forever for his service to family, community and God. God Bless you and your family.
Mike & Susan Brown
January 7, 2013
We are just heart-sick for the entire family. Only met Bryan a few times but they were great experiences. It was always in a family setting & he was a very sincere and fun-loving person that made you feel you had known him forever. He will be missed dearly.
Steve Vander Veer
January 7, 2013
The University of Colorado has lost a storied member . . .
May his family forever feel his strength . . .
Bryan Lambert
January 7, 2013
My Friend
Pam Gray
January 7, 2013
Laura, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys.
Martha Jones
January 7, 2013
Years ago, Bryan coached my son in Little League Baseball. Bryan was such an amazing man - always encouraging - he cared about each and every one of those boys on the team. Laura, please know that your Sugar Land family is behind you and your boys whatever your needs may be. We love you and will miss Bryan tremendously.
Emily Jones
January 7, 2013
Laura & Family! Although I can't be there tomorrow for you in person I am constantly thinking about all of you! I am so sorry for your loss! May God be with you in the days to come!
Garrett Grissom
January 7, 2013
A personal hero of mine when I was in middle and high school. RIP Bryan...thanks for being an example.
Greg Gerner
January 7, 2013
While I didn't know Bryan that well, I did know of the impact he had on those around him. To his whole family, I am truly saddened by and sorry for your loss.
January 7, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss.
Emily Neal
January 7, 2013
My deepest and sincerest sympathy to Doug and Lorita Stoltenberg on the loss of their son and also to Bryans wife and sons. I didn't know Bryan personally but I did know his parents and remember how proud they were of him. When they spoke of his athletic career their eyes would gleem and they would smile so proudly as any parent does for their children. To all of the Stoltenberg family:Hold on to those memories because they will help you get thru this difficult time in your lifes. Today we too are mourning the loss of our infant great-granddaughter who has gone to be with our Lord and Saviour as one of his Angels.
To Lorita and Doug: I miss you both and miss the days and years we worked together at Global Services and IKON Office Solutions. My email is [email protected]
An old friend and old co-worker of Bryan's parents.
Josie Perales
Laura Dunning
January 7, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with Doug & Lorita, and the entire Stoltenberg family. My deepest sympathies to Bryan's wife and children
Sue Johns
January 7, 2013
Laura, wish I could hug you and your boys,stay strong
Cesar Rocha
January 7, 2013
I played football with Bryan back in high school. My condolences to you and your family.
Cesar Rocha, Clements HS Class of 89'
January 7, 2013
My heart goes out to the entire Stoltenberg family. Our love and prayers to all of you for God's loving arms to be wrapped around you. Love from the Bourgeois family
Kim, Christian, Reid & Alex
January 7, 2013
We love you so much Laura, Austyn, Jacob & Andrew. Great memories of Bryan.....Videotaping our wedding with commentary, driving us around & of course, holding my boys! We feel so blessed to have known him. Amazing Man. XOXO.
Kelly Rushton
January 7, 2013
Bryan was a great inspiration and role model, he will be deeply missed.
January 7, 2013
Our prayers and heart felt sympathy go out to the Stoltenberg family. We remember Bryan from first grade through his college days. Always smiling and upbeat. Great kid to coach. Claudette/Clark Gilbert, Aurora, CO
January 7, 2013
To Laura & Children, I did not know Bryan personally, but I wanted to tell you how sorry I am for the loss of your husband of 18 yrs. And to your children, I am so sorry for the loss of your father. May you all rely on GOD and let him be a REFUGE & STRENGTH for you during this difficult time you all are faced with as Psalms 46:1 brings out.
Lorri Mason (Spring, Tx)
Karl Knoche
January 7, 2013
It was a pleasure knowing Bryan at Bluesky. Very thoughtful and funny in his daily walk. He WILL be missed.
amy miles Przyborski
January 7, 2013
Dear Laura, I was so sad when I heard the news. I got out all our, cheer pictures and remembered all the sweet times. You and Bryan were always meant to be. I am happy to know that you guys shared an amazing life and blessed with 3 boys. I am so sorry
Love, Amy Miles Przyborski
January 7, 2013
We were shocked and saddened to learn of your loss. Our deepest sympathies to his entire immediate and extended family. Love, Mike Wilson, and Marci Mylan.
Robb Snowbarger
January 7, 2013
My thoughts and prayers to the entire family
Ed Gifford
January 7, 2013
May God bless and comfort you and your entire family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Carlos & Tricia (McCollum) Verastegui
January 7, 2013
Our thoughts & prayers go out to the entire Stoltenberg Family. He will be truely missed by many.
The Welch Family
January 7, 2013
Our deepest sympathies to your family. Bryan was a wonderful person from his teenage years to manhood. Sugarland lost a hero and he will be missed sorely. May God offer you and your kids peace and comfort that only he can provide.
Mark Maloney
January 7, 2013
Needless to say, we are all at a loss for words with Bryan's tragic passing. May the love and prayers from family and friends bring your entire family peace, comfort, and strength during this most difficult time.
The Maloney Family
(In laws to Barbara Stoltenberg Burch)
Frank Sevillano
January 7, 2013
I met Bryan thru Bluesky. He was an amazing person to be around. He will leave a hole in this world larger than we will ever know. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Mark and Hester Abadie
January 7, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Knutson Family
January 7, 2013
An incredible man and incredible teammate. Much love to Stoley's family.
Steve Ivey
January 7, 2013
Laura, many prayers go out to you, the kids, Brian's sisters and parents. He was a great friend to me at a very important time in my life growing up. My parents always loved having him over at the house, because they recognized the outstanding character he possessed, and the positive influence he had on me. May God place his gracious hands around your family and help you through this. God bless.
Rae McGee
January 7, 2013
My prayers are with the entire Stoltenberg family during this difficult time.
January 7, 2013
Our condolences to your family. Laura, remember the good times and the tremendous love that Bryan had for you and your boys. He was the perfect example of God's love that your boys could ever see and experience. God will be there to give you comfort and peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Stoltenberg family over the next several weeks to come.
Robert, Mary, Spencer and Cameron Cocheu
Alyssa Weller
January 7, 2013
We will be praying for God to place his hands on you and the kids, Laura. We love you Bryan and will miss you dearly.
Douglas Chinn
January 7, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with Bryan's Family.
January 7, 2013
Laura, My prayers are with you and your sons. May you know that the Lord has you in his loving arms.
Toni Sparkman
January 7, 2013
Laura, May God bless you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We will all miss Bryan but always have the memory of what a really good man he was to comfort us. Randy and Sandy Gooch
Allen Montoya
January 7, 2013
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Katherine Watson
January 7, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Prayers are lifted for peace and comfort for you, and your whole family.
January 7, 2013
Gone to soon
Jason Skidmore
January 7, 2013
Thanks for being you.
Brenda Diaz
January 7, 2013
Numbers 6:24-26
24 “‘“The Lord bless you
and keep you;
25 the Lord make his face shine on you
and be gracious to you;
26 the Lord turn his face toward you
and give you peace.”'
Father, thank you for Bryan. God bless his beloved family and friends.
Melissa Brenner Cooprider
January 7, 2013
My deepest condolences to Bryan's parents, children, and Laura. I went to school with him and remember his integrity as well as his grit on the football field. I wish you all God's peace and strength during this difficult time.
January 6, 2013
I held the highest regard for Bryan since our teenage years. What a star!..And then in later years - what a husband and father! What a man!...I remember Laura going gaga over Bryan during cheerleading practice at school, watching him practice football. It was and will always be a love story for the books. My prayers are with all of his family, especially to one of my oldest and dearest friends, Laura. I love you and hope that you find comfort seeing the impact that Bryan has made in so many lives.
Matthew & Amy St. John
January 6, 2013
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family over the days and weeks to come. Bryan was a wonderful example to men on how to live a godly life and be a Christian husband and father.
Gigi Anciano-Moe
January 6, 2013
Bryan, I am praying for and thinking of you and your family. Your kindness and good spirit will live on forever in those lives you touched. Rest in peace.
January 6, 2013
He was a blessing to all he met. While only having met my younger brother once, he still remembers the day that Bryan came by the house to work on a project with me and my little brother was hanging out in the back yard with us. Bryan took time to play with Aaron and talk sports. That was in 1990.
My deepest condolences to you all.
Alison Bachert Martinez
vivian dimmock
January 6, 2013
SO sorry to hear this . We are praying for all of the family !! I baby set his wife Laura and went to church with her family for many years !!! My heart is sad for yall !! we will be praying !!!
Marilyn Rice - Poole
January 6, 2013
We Loved you so MUCH Bryan and the entire Stoltenberg family, who have felt like an extended family to us (the Rice's) for well over 25 years. You will be missed dearly and are a true inspiration. Love~ Marilyn
Newton family
January 6, 2013
Bryan was a faithful and loving servant for our Lord. He will be missed and remembered by our family. Many prayers are being said for his loving family.
Markettea Beneke
January 6, 2013
My sincere condolences to the family. May God shower you with his comfort.
January 6, 2013
Praying for God's comfort during this time...Eric, Susan and Ryan Green
Eddy & Doni Carder
January 6, 2013
Our thoughts, love and prayers are with you all.
Greg & Barbara Rizzo
January 6, 2013
We remember Bryan as an exceptional young man with uncompromising character and integrity. We are praying for his family and ask that The Lord will grant them peace.
Don Clauson
January 6, 2013
Our deepest and sincere condolences to the Stoltenberg family. Our prayers are with all of you.
The Clauson family
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