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Hudson Jayne
09/23/1942 - 01/10/2014

Hudson Jayne treasured the memory of his wife, Nancy, adored his grandchildren, and loved a good Zane Grey book. He knew how to properly cook a bacon and egg sandwich, and enjoyed dark chocolate candy bars and vanilla bean ice cream. His philosophy on life was "Do what you want, do what you enjoy, and don't be afraid."

Hudson Jayne was born on September 23, 1942 in Chillicothe, OH and died at his home in Meridian, ID on January 10, 2014. He was 71 years old.

Hudson was the fifth of eight children. His parents, Hudson and Marie Canavotto Jayne, lived in a community known as "The Reservation"—an abandoned Army based turned into a housing development for the employees of the nearby prison where his father worked as a plumber and maintenance man. Hudson described his father as a funny, intelligent, and interesting man and believed that it was his father's influence that led him to learn engineering, become a good dancer, and to be an avid reader. His mother, who worked in the school cafeteria in Unioto High School, was "magical and fun to be around" and although Hudson admitted that his parents were quite different, their marriage worked.

Hudson recalled often that his favorite place in his childhood home was the basement, where he found the peace and privacy he needed for reading books. The love of reading became a life-long passion and he was rarely seen, over the course of his entire life, without a book in his hand, whether it was science fiction, a western, history, or even finances.

Hudson graduated from Unioto High School in 1960. After working at construction jobs for a year or so, he decided to enroll in The Ohio State University. His best friend, Bill Matz, enrolled with him. Hudson went on to earn a Master's in Engineering, but admitted that he spent most of his time "partying and chasing girls."

For the next couple of decades he worked for a number of companies, including General Electric, Proctor & Gamble, and the Bechtel Corporation. He had a colorful career and designed such things as Star War lasers, automobiles, and even Keebler Cookies! He was the most proud of his work on designing and constructing one of the first automated, computer-controlled chemical plants in Mont Belvieu, TX.

He was married to Kathleen Vitale in 1966, but the marriage lasted just a few short years. Their son, Hudson Patrick Jayne, stayed with his mother and was later adopted by his step-father. He considered that period of his life to have been his most difficult and was marked by a struggle with alcoholism and difficult choices.

Hudson met the true love of his life, Nancy Newton Mason, at a singles dance held at the Whispering Hills Country Club. A tumultuous courtship ensued and after an "ultimatum" by Nancy they were married on October 2, 1972, over lunch. He and Nancy, along with her daughter Tina, formed a new family. Hudson and Nancy later added a son, Reginald Gerard Jayne, in 1975.

Nancy passed away as a result of lung cancer in 1991, and Hudson felt as though all the things he and his wife had planned for their life together evaporated. Her death was the most tragic event of his life. He remarked once that "You plan for this future, and then your future dies."

Hudson never remarried and often reminisced that Nancy "was a positive person with me and loved me a great deal, and I loved her." Hudson's favorite memory of being with her was when they danced because that memory always "brought a smile" to his face.

Hudson retired from the engineering business a year later, and tried his hand at rental real estate. Ten years after that he sold all of his rental properties so that he could devote his time to his many hobbies, but mostly to be with his grandchildren, Conner, Nancy, Regina, Marie, and Roberta. He was devoted to them and rarely went a full day without seeing one of them. During the summer and weekends, almost always one or more of his grandchildren spent the night with him, at his home. Taking them to get new dresses and ice cream was his standard operating procedure.

He also traveled extensively with his grandchildren. He cherished every moment he got to spend with them, whether it was taking an infant in diapers cross-country to show off to other family or taking them to see the giant Sequoias, Carlsbad Caverns, Mount Rushmore, Glacier National Park, the Grand Canyon, Zion National Park, or Bryce Canyon. The sight of a senior citizen, often alone with three over-sugared young girls often drew a second-glance, but Hudson relished every single moment. Spoiling them, being friends with them, and helping to shape who they were became the delight—and primary focus—of his later life. His grandchildren gave him a purpose to live and delight in living.

When not spending time with his grandchildren, Hudson took pleasure in a number of pastimes. His favorite book was "Gone with the Wind," his favorite song was "The Great Speckled Bird," and his favorite movie was "The Godfather." His favorite musical was "The Music Man" because it always reminded him of the time when Chillicothe, OH experienced its own version of Professor Harold Hill when a man named Jack Gillenwater arrived and began extolling the virtues of music and band uniforms for children. Hudson remembered, "He sold the hell out of accordions and he sold one to my sister Patsy. To this day she can only play one song, 'Lady of Spain.'" Whenever Hudson watched the movie or saw it performed live, its humor and chaos took him back to his youth in Chillicothe.

Hudson read books across all spectrums, but his favorite author, from youth to death, was Zane Grey. His favorite actor was John Wayne. He was also absolutely explicit regarding his perspective on how to make a proper bacon and egg sandwich. "You fry the bacon and you get the bacon grease; then you take the eggs, cook the eggs in the bacon grease, dip the bread in the bacon grease, and put a lot of pepper and salt on it." Hudson had a triple bypass in his mid-60s.

On pondering death, he commented, "As I think about it, I have been happy in my adult life. I've been happy probably thirty, thirty-five years of it, because I learned how to enjoy what I can enjoy. I enjoyed my years with my wife very much, and in the last ten years, I really enjoyed my grandchildren. I get more enjoyment out of them than anybody has. Mostly, I look at my life and most of it's been damned happy, and so, I can't complain too much."

Hudson Jayne left his mark on his entire family. "There is no point in being afraid of anything. Anything that attacks you is either going to succeed and you'll succumb or you will overcome it." He also believed that it was important to "stay away from unhappy people … always enjoy a good time as much as you can, as long as you can."

Hudson Jayne was preceded in death by both of his wives. He is survived by all of his siblings, his children, and grandchildren. His favorite places were the National Parks, Bryce and Zion Canyons in particular. His ashes will be scattered at Bryce Canyon later this year at his request.

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Published by Idaho Statesman on Jan. 25, 2014.

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Thelma May

December 20, 2015

Thelma Shoemaker May and Hudson won a dance contest together on TV program Gene's Canteen circa 1958.

Al Sparrow

March 21, 2015

I just found out about his passing. Hud and I only knew one another one year at Ohio State. We roomed together in the same rooming house. And yes, there were "parties and chasing girls". My condolences to a fellow Buckeye.

October 5, 2014

I was sorry to hear about Hudson's recent passing. I went to school with
Hudson from the 6th. grade through the 11th. until I moved to California. I lived on the "reservation" just up the
street, My dad also worked at the institution. Hudson, and all of the Jayne kids were well liked as well as classmates and faculty----not a bad kid in the bunch!

Jack Smith (Cincinnati, Ohio

May 3, 2014

After bringing up Hudsons name on the internet, I found out about his passing. So sorry for the loss of a good friend. I was in the Unioto High School band with Hudson, and graduated in 1965. He played bass drum, and I marched beside him, playing the snare drum. I can remember him marching down the street twirling his sticks over the drum and behind his back, while I was avoiding not to get hit by them. What a guy! I saw him a few years ago at a restaurant in Chillicothe, and I asked him if he remember those good days. He replied, we had class, didn,t we? My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

Richard Schoenholtz
Chillicothe, Ohio

Karen Dill

January 26, 2014

A TRIBUTE TO UNCLE RED

I was very sad to hear the news this morning that Red had passed away. He has been on my mind all week, ever since I heard that he was gravely ill. I had prayed this morning that God would be with him in his pain, and I feel with certainty that that was the case. I can only imagine his suffering.

If you asked me to name the most unique individual I have ever run across in my 62 years, I would have to say it was Red. He was talented in so many areas, especially music! I have fond memories of sitting around family gatherings with John on his guitar, Red on the banjo, even sometimes Patsy on the accordion, and Roberta and I adding our vocals to group jam sessions. He knew every Irish and American folk song ever written. He was so well read and had his opinions on any subject that came up, often with his own unique twist on the matter. He could strike up a conversation with any unsuspecting stranger. I loved to listen to his accounts of growing up in Frankfurt and Chillicothe as part of the Jayne tribe. And he was an incredible dancer! I will never forget him and Roberta stomping it out to “These Boots Are Made For Walkin” at John and Donna's wedding reception. He certainly had his own unique style on the dance floor!

I used to proudly tell my friends how my uncle was a member of the SDS and the Black Panthers during his college days. Pop used to admit, “I lie a lot to be interesting.” Perhaps this was true of Red as well; regardless, his tales of his exploits never failed to interest and amuse me even if they were often on the incredible side!

He loved a family get-together as much as anybody and was usually the star of these wherever we gathered. I remember coming down to the hotel lobby the morning after Jennifer's wedding to find Uncle Red asleep on the sofa in the lobby. He had had a late night at the casino and didn't feel like making the effort to go up to his room! When we all met in Nashville for the Cunningham's anniversary bash, Red impressed my daughter-in-law Marti with his attentiveness and kindness toward his granddaughters. He loved kids – Tina's and Reggie's as well as my own children and Jack, my only grandchild he got to know. He was great with them because he could get right down there on their level and communicate with them in a way few other adults could. I know that his granddaughters in Idaho will miss him terribly in the weeks and months to come.

At times in his life he was a heavy drinker, a chain smoker, and an all-around wild man. He never seemed to sweat the small stuff in life. A frequent visitor to Shreveport, the ladies who hand out free samples at our local Sam's Club knew him well because that's where he and John would go for lunch and dinner whenever Donna was out of town. Frugality was another one of his strong suits.

The one memory I would most like to re-live with Red would be Reggie's wedding. Now that was some quality Jayne family time together! I am so glad I was invited and that I attended. It touched me, too, that Red came to both of my children's weddings, although they were neither one the colorful event that Reggie's turned out to be!

Reggie and Tina, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. I share your loss. But I have this mental image of Red dancing and singing his way through the Golden Gates, sweet-talking St. Peter into letting him in so he can entertain the angels!

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January 25, 2014

I had the privilege of having some great conversations with this gentleman. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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May happy memories of your father comfort you now. I am so very sorry for your loss. But may his love, his spirit, and his example live on in your memories and bring you peace, always remaining. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. He made such a difference to my family and so many people in so many ways, we cherish all the memories!

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A wonderful tribute to your Dad,my brother , the pictures were great! Love you

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Reggie, what a wonderful tribute to your father, I am sure he was very proud. The pictures bring back many memories. My best to you and your beautiful family.

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So sorry for your loss. Wonderful memories

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I knew you as Uncle Red and your legacy to your nieces and nephews is noteworthy. Your approach to life was well thought out and your humor side-splitting. Your obituary brought to mind the epitaph on your father's grave - "I'd rather be dancing." My thoughts are with your children and grandchildren as they suffer the pain of your mortal loss. I know that your life has impacted theirs so very much. Rest in peace dear one.

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Reggie Jayne

January 22, 2014

I love you Dad. I miss you so very much, my dear friend.

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