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Betty Barker Obituary

Barker, Betty September 30, 1916 - January 27, 2012 Betty Barker, longtime secretary and assistant to late actress Joan Crawford, died in Los Angeles on January 27, 2012. Born in 1916 in Los Angeles, Betty was the daughter of the late Fletcher and Virginia (Shearon) Barker. She was also predeceased by her brother Fletcher (Dick) Barker, Jr. Betty grew up in Alhambra and attended Pasadena Jr. College. She promptly found employment because of her exceptional secretarial skills which served her well throughout her life. During World War II, Betty lived in Washington D.C. and became secretary to Admiral Frank Gorman, Chief Finance and Supply Officer of the Coast Guard. In 1944 she returned to Los Angeles to begin her secretarial career with RKO, and eventually became a personal secretary to the late Howard Hughes. Upon the relocation of RKO Studios to Las Vegas in 1955, Betty chose to remain in Los Angeles and began her long professional association with Joan Crawford whom she had known since the early 1930s. Betty's final position before her retirement in the mid-1980s began in 1977, after Miss Crawford's death, when she became the personal assistant to the late Eva Gabor. After her retirement, Betty volunteered regularly at The Cinema Glamour Shop (which benefited film-industry charities) until it closed in 2005. She was also a longtime member of WOMPI (Women of the Motion Picture Industry) receiving an award for her contributions to the organization. All of her life, Betty was passionate about current books and films and was an enthusiastic world traveler enjoying visits to most of the continents. Betty enjoyed acquaintances and relationships with famous film and stage stars and numerous other friendships, many of which extended back seventy-five years. Those closest to her described her as one of the most loyal, independent and dignified ladies they had ever known. Visitation will be at Abbott & Hast Mortuary, 315 Silver Lake Blvd on Tuesday, January 31 from 4-8pm and on Wednesday 10 am noon. Graveside service will be held on Wednesday February 1 at 12:30pm at Forest Lawn Cemetery in Glendale.

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Published by Los Angeles Times on Jan. 29, 2012.

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John Bartiromo

June 11, 2025

Dear Betty - A friend of mine maintained correspondence with Joan. When she passed you personally called him to break the news and let him know how dearly she thought of him over the years. Your skill and devotion has your name in constant use. You are remembered. I wish I'd have known you, but I think of you often. My condolences to your family and those you loved.

Catherine Wilkinson

January 23, 2020

Hard to believe that it has been so long. It just shows what an impression you made in life and the memories everyone has of you.

June 1, 2014

I was sadden to learn that my sweet Betty has left us on earth but she is immortal my book "Eva Gabor an amazing woman" ISBN 0-595-34160-8 will describe Betty Barker who was awesome and how I learned from Betty. I know Betty has joined our loved ones above the immortal souls. Love you girl, Camille Belanger

January 28, 2014

Even after two years, I still think of you every day.

Lisa Harrington

October 12, 2013

All my love to you, dear Betty! You are the perfect example of pure loyality..

Lisa Harrington

October 11, 2013

Betty...Iam so glad Joan had you in her life. You meant EVERYTHING to her!!
God Bless!

April 27, 2013

I'll never forget Betty taking me on a visit to Brentwood to look at Joan's house! She was always great fun! Maury

March 16, 2013

Im gonna miss you Betty
xx Paulina from your building

jill iles

January 16, 2013

Dearest Betty, you were a friend of my Mother's for so long and then myself, she would be so upset as I am. We had such good times together in LA and England. All my love, Jill and Renee Iles too.

Gary Deatherage

December 28, 2012

Betty, thanks for your friendship over the years. I will miss you. God Bless.

February 22, 2012

Bless you, dear Betty!

Rob

February 15, 2012

This is a sad loss. Although I never had the opportunity to meet her, the way she stood up for her friends (Joan Crawford among them) says it all. Classy lady.

Gilda Gifford

February 15, 2012

I never met this wonderful woman, but since I am a huge fan of Joan Crawford, I have always admired and respected her for standing by and supporting Miss Crawford. God Rest Her Soul.

Kim Smith

February 15, 2012

Betty always spoke highly of Joan Crawford and that makes her a top lady.

February 1, 2012

Thank you, Betty. Rest in peace.

Bezhan Nazari

February 1, 2012

I never had the good fortune to meet this lovely lady, but I did have an opportunity to read through some of her correspondence that was saved by Miss Crawford and donated to the NY Public Library. Miss Barker was so dedicated, eloquent, and gracious in her writings and I imagine even more so in person. I send every warm wish and blessing to her and her loved ones.

Neil Maciejewski

January 30, 2012

I had the honor of meeting Betty a few years back. She was truly an amazing lady and I will never forget my encounter with her. She will be greatly missed.

David Ortmann

January 30, 2012

"I wish I'd met Betty, but have heard so many wonderful stories about her through loving friends and associates. Much love and condolences. We've lost a part of film history."

Catherine Wilkinson

January 30, 2012

Betty was a great friend to Dorothy Barrett and her school The American National Academy of Performing Arts (which Joan Crawford was on the board) I met Betty through the school. She will be greatly missed by those who had the pleasure of meeting her.

Lisa Tanner

January 29, 2012

Dearest Betty,
It was wonderful to have gotten to meet you and spend some time with you over the years. I will always remember you as the consummate lady who was always so dignified and charming. You will be missed...... Lisa Tanner

David Ybarra

January 29, 2012

Dear Betty,
The world is less enchanted without you in it. You made such a wonderful difference to those who were fortunate to know you, and you inspire those of us who survive you, like me, to be better people. Your loyalty and commitment to the preservation of the Crawford legacy will live on in all my endeavors as it will in my heart. Thank you for keeping the flame of Joan's legacy a torch that always stayed beautifully lit. Remembering your kindness and missing you.

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