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for Alfred Murdock
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Toni L
March 31, 2025
Still miss him and keep his name on our minds and in our hearts. I still share stories about him Whenever it´s appropriate. Sure wish she was still with us. Toni
Toni L
March 31, 2024
After all this time, we still miss him. His name comes up often. He will always be remembered by us as a kind and gentle man.
Rebecca Hirschwerk
April 3, 2023
I still think of Tersh as I continue to work with the Overlook residents. Passing by paintings I know he loved at the Met, I see him with his camera, enthusiastic about the art before us and the program we created together. He continues to be a source of light for me and may his memory always be for a blessing.
Mia Lovik Kottler
April 2, 2023
Elaine,
I am remembering Tersh more than ever, as I am now a pt at Chatham Family Practice. I remember the last time I saw him was there, years ago, when I escorted an elderly pt to the practice. We were so excited to see each other that we jumped up and down like school children! He was a great husband, father, and physician, an all around good guy, who will be forever missed.
With sympathy for you and your family.
Rebecca Hirschwerk
March 31, 2021
Each year I present my work to the medical students affiliated with Overlook and each year I mention Dr. Murdoch as a true ally. His commitment to integrating the arts into medical education will always be my guiding light as I continue the work we shared together. May his memory always be for a blessing.
Donna Stec
March 31, 2020
How would Tersh be handling the crisis we are entrenched in now? Im certain he would be the voice of reason, compassion, comfort, assurance and knowledge.
Everything will be fine.
Listen for him in the stillness...
Toni
March 31, 2019
Dr. Murdock will always be remembered by me and my family as the kindest and most caring doctor and person we've ever known. We still miss him.
Toni
February 25, 2013
Lee, Katie and Elaine, After 20+ years of having Dr. Murdock for our physician, we have so many good memories of him. I am glad sharing some of them brings you some comfort.
Lee Murdock Daly
February 25, 2013
The recent entries and all the entries really mean so much. I have been rereading passed entries. Thank you for sharing what Tersh/Dr.Murdock means to you. This is a treasure.
Donna Stec
February 24, 2013
Tersh was a consummate husband,father,brother,family member,physician and man. I knew him from his days back in the early 80's when he would deliver specimens to the lab as an ER aide. He had goodness and compassion then and he never lost that goodness and compassion. He is surely sharing those traits in God's forever world. Rejoice in life and love you did share with Tersh.
Lee Murdock Daly
February 23, 2013
Thank you so much for sharing this story about my brother.
Toni
February 23, 2013
I was recently remembering my last visit with Dr. Murdock last January. As luck would have it, it started snowing shortly after I arrived for my appointment. Since I am disabled, Dr. Murdock took my car keys and after my visit, brought my car from the parking lot to the door. Not only did he bring my car, he turned on the heat and defroster. He was one of the kindest people I have ever known and along with many others, we will miss "our Dr. Murdock."
February 22, 2013
I will always remember you dr Murdock
Toni L.
September 6, 2012
I knew of Dr. Murdock's passing and wrote at that time, but I just wanted to write again and say how much I miss him. He will be impossible to replace as a physician and a friend. He will never be forgotten and I know all the good he did will be paid forward.
September 5, 2012
I was not Dr.'s patient. I was not formally introduced to him, either. We oftened walked into work together. I felt an aura of warmth and goodness.
Kathy Sabia-Cahill
August 6, 2012
I just heard of Dr. Murdock's passing. He was my doctor for over 20 years. He was gentle and patient always answering my questions and some how he remembered what I asked the next time I saw him. He touched many lives and we are better for having known him. For his family I am so very sorry for your loss.
Merle McCartney
June 4, 2012
Dear Murdock Family - I am a patient of Dr. Murdock's, and have just learned of his passing. I am saddened that I missed his memorial service for many reasons but mostly I would have liked to express my condolences to you all in person. As all of Dr. Murdock's patients, I know we had the most wonderful doctor. Someone who not only treated us but a man who listened to us, laughed with us and always made us feel so much better walking out than when we walked in. Having read his obituary I knew his life outside the office was full but never imagined just what a renaissance man he truly was. I can only wish you peace and God's presence as you cope with the loss of your very special man.
Doug B.
May 28, 2012
Tersh has inspired many people to tell their stories about his kindness, patience, fun-loving, generosity of spirit, approachability, and honest modesty. Our story takes a slightly different tack, but in the end, it's all about what a great guy Tersh was.
20 years ago, my wife was five months into the pregnancy, when we learned that our son was in the breech position. Several years before that, as a medical student, I had commented that if all a baby had to do was put their head in the pelvis and prepare for birth and they failed to do this after nine months, that there was probably something wrong with the baby. Years later, his mother remembered my comments vividly and assumed the worst. In the ensuing weeks, we told pretty much everybody we met that our baby was breech, hoping for some consolation for the mother-to-be. Each person would share their story of breech births but they were rarely encouraging, and she became increasingly despondent to the point where we sought consultation from our family doctor who, lucky for us, was Tersh, whereupon he shared his own birth history that he was a breech baby and there was nothing to worry about, and it gave the young mother hope for the first time so she was able to soldier on through the failed external version and then the sooner-than-expected cesarean section. Tersh had come through for us just by being himself. Twenty years later, we delight anytime we see in our son a sign of any of Tersh's wonderful attributes.
Jeff Perlman
May 22, 2012
My partner and I have just learned of Dr. Murdock's passing - with utmost respect for him, we are shocked and extremely saddened to learn of his passing. He was perhaps one of the kindest people we had ever met. He took care of us for many years. He will be greatly missed by both of us. Thank you for taking good care of us for all these years Tersh. May G-d bless you and protect you.
Eric Chyn
May 16, 2012
I was blessed to be one of Dr. Murdock's student in Family Medicine. Dr Murdock was a genuine man and an amazing mentor in medicine. I may just be one of his numerous students, but he is definitely the top inspiring and memorable teacher on my journey as a student. Words cannot express my sorrow.
Nils Klarlund
May 11, 2012
Dr. Murdock tackled the difficult with compassion and the mundane with a smile. He understood the whole like no other doctor. I am one of his many devoted patients. I will miss him very much.
Mr. And Mrs. Patrick Griffee
May 2, 2012
We really enjoyed seeing Dr. Murdock. He took time with us such that he seemed as much a friend as a Doctor. We will miss him.
Larry Moyer
April 30, 2012
Lee,
I know how much your brother meant to you his wife,daughter and many friends and relatives and what an empty place it has left in your hearts. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Lee Murdock Daly
April 29, 2012
FAMILY, FRIENDS, PATIENTS, COLLEAGUES
So many people have given their condolences with tears in their eyes. It is plain to see that Tersh touched a lot of lives and he will be missed by many people and in many different ways.
When he first became ill, he had one week of recovery which gave him the opportunity to feel, see, and hear everyones kind support.
I am so thankful he had this chance to really see how much he meant to those who knew him.
He told me with tears in his eyes, my friends at Overlook Hospital are the best. All of Tersh's friends, old and new were the best at different stages of his life.
When he was recovering at Overlook, he told me that Overlook Hospital was the best place he could be.
He also told me that I too can go to Overlook Hospital.
This was his last brotherly medical advice for me.
While he was recovering I had the chance to do some sisterly things like give him some cool ice, and bring him a multi flavored popsicle that seemed to soothe him. And most importantly, I had the chance to hug him, before this chance was lost forever.
Aside from all of Tersh's wonderful accomplishments, there was a heart and soul that drove him to chose the profession he chose.
He entered this world with a giving heart, and then on April 3rd, he left this world with the same.
As a child he was nurtured by our loving mother with a bond that would give him the strength and ability to love deeply.
When he met Elaine (also at Overlook Hospital) he loved deeply. Tersh and Elaine were blessed with their wonderful daughter Katie, who he also loved deeply. Tersh was guided by our dad with care, and moral support which was his greatest influence to become a caring doctor at Overlook Hospital. Our dad would have been proud to know this.
I think it is safe to say that Overlook Hospital was Tersh's second home.
Tersh was a respected uncle to my son. He provided moral support and advice to my son. Our holidays were so blessed because we spent them together as a family. I have one brother, Tersh Murdock, and he was a very important man in my son's life and also in mine.
And now to see, my sister in law and my niece so sad, makes my heart sad for them. And when we reflect and I see them smile, my heart feels relief for them.
Elaine and Katie,
I know you find comfort, knowing you were so blessed to share this life with him. You are, who you are today, because he was a great husband and father. You gave him a purpose, and a life so full by being a devoted wife and daughter. And you gave him the inspiration to accomplish all that he accomplished and a good enough reason to do so.
And now the tables may turn, the true person that Tersh was, can be an inspiration for all of us.
We can live, as he lived with his honor, trust, love and laughter.
We can do as Tersh has done and find the passions in our lives, and then follow them, regardless of fears or obstacles that may arise.
Despite any sorrow we may have experienced in our adult lives, Tersh treated life as a gift and lived it well. He would want us to do the same.
In the video of Tersh skeet shooting viewed after the memorial service, you can hear Tersh say, "this is fun."
Well that sums up Tersh, and what he would want for us.
So fire away and have fun with Tersh in our hearts. And---
To all of us remembering Tersh; family, friends, patients and colleagues alike, If we can each remember at least one way that Tersh may have touched our lives and pass this onto others through the years to come. And in this way keep Tersh with us and with others, fondly, for the duration of our gift filled lives.
Susan Delaney RN
April 29, 2012
Tersh has been "my Doc" for 23 years. He was respected by all, loved by all, and will be missed by all. The world is a lesser place now that he is gone. As a nurse I am supposed to understand and accect things I cannot change, but today I am struggling to close this door. Elaine, Katie, and Ruby rest assured that Tersh will always look out for you from above...
Sakeenah Nixon
April 26, 2012
As my heart is broken because our Angel who walked this earth was takin to sit next to God with his automatic wings, i light this candle for you Tersh! My prayers and my heart are with Elaine and Katie!
Karen Leinberger
April 26, 2012
Dear Elaine and Katie,
The news of Tersh's passing has been hard to take in. We thought that we would have decades of more time with him, to visit in Colorado and New Jersey and maybe at Lake Champlain. Such a “real deal” good guy: intelligent, kind, warm, caring, easy to talk to and fun; and, so sure of his love for the two of you. We hold you, and will continue to hold you, in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Karen, Tom and Emily
Jane Aronson
April 25, 2012
I am Dr. Jane Aronson and Tersh and I were good friends during medical school. We were there for one another and studied hundreds of hours side by side. We literally put one another through that grueling process. I adored his smile and sweetness. I could not be where I am today without Tersh.
I am finding it hard to believe that he is gone.
Debbie Johnson
April 24, 2012
I had the pleasure of knowing Tersh Murdock my entire life being his loving sister Lee's, best friend. Before ever pursuing his dream of becoming a caring and giving doctor he displayed these traits in his care for his wild array of family pets and his love for his sister and me! He always made me laugh and feel welcome as part of his family! He is surely missed.
My heart goes out to his family and friends.
Debbie Laddey Johnson
Maureen
April 24, 2012
Dr. Murdock was the primary doctor for my husband, two children, and myself for decades. He was kind and caring, and we will all miss him.
Sherry Ortiz
April 23, 2012
Dear Mrs. Murdock,
Dr. Murdock was my family doctor for almost twenty years. He was a kind and caring doctor and human being. We will miss him greatly.
Sherry, Jason and Meredith Davis (Ortiz)
April 17, 2012
Elaine and Katie, You are in my thoughts
and prayers. I am so sorry to hear of your husband's and father's death.
Lorraine Bau...tel (Scotch Plains/now Somerset, NJ; UMMC Sunday School, Scotch Plains; UCC, Cranford, NJ)
April 16, 2012
Dear Elaine and Katie, I worked with Tersh at Family Practice for approximately 9 years. I never had a pleasure to work with someone so kind and caring. He helped me "maneuver" the office. If I felt sick he was always there for me. He was adamant about finding the best for his patients. I will miss him dearly.
Odalys Cardona. Family Practice Social Worker
Dian Starks
April 16, 2012
Dear Mrs. Murdock I am a worker in the cardiovascular Department. We inthe Hospital really loved Dr. Murdock he will truly be missed by me and everyone
Toni Lockhart
April 15, 2012
Dear Elaine and Katie, Tersh was my doctor for 22 years. I met him when I was working at OH and began going to the family practice there. He was so much more than your doctor...he became your friend. When we moved to Omaha, NE, I would schedule my annual visits with him around one of my visits home. He once said to me "I really like seeing you...but you know, you will have to find a doctor in Omaha one of these days..." I eventually did, but no one could ever replace "my Doctor Murdock." When I broke my foot during one visit to Summit and went to the ER, I was surprised by a call from him when I returned to Omaha. He said..."I see you broke your foot." We often told our friends we had the only doctor who would make calls to check on us from across the country. I was so happy when we returned to NJ so I could have my doctor back. I will miss him more than words can say. I know how much he loved you both..he often mentioned you during our visits. Katie, he was so proud of you. We have suffered a great personal and community loss. I cannot even believe I am writing these words about him. He will be so so missed.
Rebecca Hirschwerk
April 14, 2012
Although Tersh was always saying how happy he was that Thinking Outside the Body became an integral part of the family medicine residency program, I'm not sure he ever realized how much it, and he, meant to me. For Tersh, our visits to the Met, I think, provided him with a much appreciated break. The visits gave him an opportunity to be surrounded by beautiful images, to participate in engaging conversations, and eye-opening discoveries. Art was, for Tersh, a place to reflect and to grow as a physician and a human being. During these visits he was always eager to hear from the residents, always fascinated by how they viewed the works, and ever re-thinking his own interpretations. I could never have dreamed up a better partner.
And for me, what started out as another job, turned out to be something far greater. Because of Tersh's belief in the power of art to help us to see, to help us communicate and to move us, this program grew much bigger than I had envisioned. But it wasn't just Tersh's belief in art that was so inspiring to me. It was his belief in me. At every step, from our early discussions, to the museum visits, to conference presentations, Tersh supported my ideas, encouraged the creative process, and was thrilled to discuss the field of museum education. As he so joyfully led this program, my confidence grew as a professional. While my job was to encourage the residents to look, Tersh helped me to see. To see that what I did mattered. My visits to the Met with Tersh and the residents were my favorite days of work. I have never found a nicer group of people to work with. It seems that Tersh's kindness, enthusiasm, and warmth rubbed off on all of them. I was looking forward to building this program with Tersh and am heartbroken by his passing. I will always think of him when I come upon a new painting to discuss, imagining the fun we would have exploring all the possible interpretations it might produce. I will miss him as a colleague, as a role model, and as a friend. I am also honored to continue what he felt so strongly about and will remember him with great affection as we wander through the galleries, knowing that he will always be with us among the beautiful images that he so loved.
April 13, 2012
Dear Elaine and Katie,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad time. Love, Val, Ed and Lindsey
FLORA SERVELLO
April 12, 2012
I will never forget his loving and
very pleasant person caring smile, He was a first year resident when I first met him and his wife, I wii pray for him every day, My friend forever will surely be missed. I will try my best to be at his memorial services Love always FLORA SERVELLO (radiology)
Laura Pesce
April 11, 2012
Elaine and Katie,
Tersh made Overlook and the Community a better place with his dedication, compassion and example. We are sorry for your loss, he will truly be missed.
Michael and Laura Pesce
Patrick Fitzsimmons
April 11, 2012
I am very sorry for your loss Lee.
Reading the obituary i can see that Tersh lived an amzing life and was a wonderful person.
Charles Reisen MD
April 11, 2012
Tersh and I taught many of the same residents, and I know they held him in the highest esteem as a mentor. He will be missed by all who knew him.
Christine Clark
April 11, 2012
My condolences to the Murdock family. Dr. Mudock is my doctor. He is irreplaceable. I have sent several friends his way because he is the kindest doctor I've ever had. He will be deeply missed. I am so sorry for your loss and will pray for you and your dear one.
Rita Lynch
April 11, 2012
Tersh's death is a great loss to Overlook and the community. I would see him frequently in the hall walking from the MAC building. He never failed to smile and say "Hi". Everyone who heard the news said exactly the same thing, "Oh no! he was such a nice guy, I just saw him in the hall and he always said Hi". A newer nurse in our department, who never had the pleasure of knowing Tersh said "He must have been great everyone has the same reaction". The halls of Overlook are not he same. God Bless you all.
Angela Mattos RN
April 11, 2012
I had many encounters with Dr. Murdock and I remember one especially in 2009, I was walking from the ER. We pass each other on the hallway. He stopped to say hello and ask what I was doing in the hospital on my day off. I had just fractured a finger and I showed my hand to him. I was not a patient of his and immediately he made sure that I had his office back phone number in case he could be of help.
Dr. Murdock was more than just a doctor. He was thoughtful, compassionate, kind and extremely polite to everyone around him. (I know it is redundant) He was a wonderful human being.
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. There are no words to express the sadness of his passing, he will be greatly missed.
Bobbi Landrock
April 11, 2012
Dear Lee,
I am so sorry over the loss of your brother. I read his obituary. Wow, he was amazing. What a smart man who seemed so devoted to his wife, daughter, his dog Ruby and to his patients. My condolences to his wife and daughter and to your entire family.
Jennifer Perry
April 11, 2012
Dear Elaine and Katie,
I am so very sad to hear of Tersh's death. My heart goes out to you both. He was not only my doctor, but also a great friend. We had some great laughs skating at Mennen. I could always count on him. He had a great smile and a gentle way about him. I will miss him very much. My deepest sympathy to you. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Jennifer
Robin Schwartz
April 11, 2012
What an extremely sad loss for the hospital, the community and for Dr. Murdock's loving family.My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time.
With love,
April 11, 2012
I met Tersh at Overlook many years ago when he started his residency . I was working in the ICU. He was always a very caring physician and a wonderful person to get to know. He would always say Hi when we met in the halls of the Hospital. My sympathy to his family. He will be missed. Sue Bien RN
DR.JACK PATUTO
April 10, 2012
BLESS YOU AL..YOU WERE ALWAYS PASSIONATE IN YOUR WORK AND SOCIAL LIFE. YOU WILL BE IN MY HEART.....
JACK..( GIOACCHINO AJ PATUTO,MD)
Jill Herber
April 10, 2012
Words cannot express the sadness that I feel over the passing of Tersh. I came to know Tersh while working at the Healthstart Clinic. He was such a warm and gentle Doctor and a mentor to many. Amidst an extremely busy schedule, he always made the time to stop and chat and ask how things were going. He was a true Gentleman. I will always remember his wonderful smile and kind ways. My husband and sons came to know him as their physician and will also miss him terribly. My condolences to Tersh's family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Liz Newell
April 10, 2012
Elaine and Katie - I am so blessed to have known Tersh for over 18 years. He was my friend and doctor. Working with him at Overlook's Health Start Ob/Gyn clinic was a wonderful experience not only for the residents but our staff. I was further blessed when I moved into your neighborhood. I am so sorry for your loss. He was a true gem. I will miss him terribly.
DeeDee DiNunzio
April 10, 2012
Elaine, It has been many many years since I have seen you and Tersh. I am so very sorry for your loss. You must been in so much pain so I want you know that I am praying for you and your entire family to help you get throught this.
RIP Tersh
DeeDee DiNunzio (I worked with you at Overlook Hospital in the Social Work Department.)
April 10, 2012
Dr Murdock what a fine gentle caring man and doctor, my sons Md and I've worked with him on the floors at OH ..always a smile and how are you... and you know he is sincere, God rest him, i will always remember him pushing his wife and new baby girl in the wheel chair to head home THE BIGGEST SMILE on his face :) So very sorry for your loss and this is a great one. May God bless and keep comforted by his loving memories ...
Jeaneen Andretta
April 10, 2012
Dr. Murdock, was always kind and gentle. He was the most caring doctor i have ever had and the warmest, most life and people loving man. My sympathy to all his loved ones and his dog Ruby. Love and Blessings to him and all his loved ones.
American Heart Association
April 10, 2012
May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.
Mohammed Hussain
April 9, 2012
Dr. Murdock was the most humble and genuine person I had ever met. Our condolences to his family. God bless him in the afterlife.
April 9, 2012
Dr. Murdock was our family physician. We have a great deal of love, respect, and admiration for him. Words cannot express the great care and tenderness he extended to each and every one of his patients. We will miss him terribly. Our condolences go out to the family. May God continue to keep and bless you.
Donna, Dorian & Damon White
April 9, 2012
Elaine,
I was devastated to hear the terrible news. I've know and respected Tersh since we were both ER “attendants” at Overlook in the mid'70's, he worked days, I was 3-to-11.
I was at my sister's house on Easter when I heard; most of my family were similarly saddened, we all knew him, but from his different involvements, including his work with the Summit First Aid Squad.
Please accept my sincere condolences, and please know that he was my hero.
Daniel MacMahon,
Overlook paramedic since 1977.
April 9, 2012
Please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of Dr. Murdock. I have known him for many years at Overlook Hospital. He was alway so kind and pleasant to the staff and truly respected as a doctor. My thoughts are with you at this time.
Rita Gray, Physical Therapist
Leah Infanger
April 9, 2012
Mrs. Murdock and Katie: our thoughts and prayers go to you both. We were very blessed to know him. I remember standing in the Church kitchen talking to him as he asked questions about mom not only as a doctor but as a friend. God bless
Mia Kottler
April 8, 2012
Elaine,
There are no words to express how deeply saddened I am for you, Katie, and all Tersh's colleagues and patients. I remember when he was in medical school and the entire Social Work Dept at Overlook followed his progress while you commuted from Hightstown! He was an extraordinary man; you were an exceptional couple; Katie was blessed to be his daughter.
The entire community mourns his loss.
Much love and sympathy to you, Mia
Susan McNevin
April 7, 2012
Dr. Murdock was my and my children's physician for many years. I was very shocked and saddened to learn of his passing. You have my deepest sympathy. What I will remember about him the most was his good sense of humor and genuine interest in people. He was a great one!
April 7, 2012
To Elaine and Katie,
I am so very sorry and saddened by the loss of Tersh. Having known him for over 30 years while at Overlook and also being his patient for many years, he was one of the most knowledgable, compassionate and caring persons I know. He will be sorely missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Carol Jones (Stewartsville)
Darlene
April 7, 2012
With sincere sympathy To Tersh's family. To know him is to love him. He was a beautiful humanitarian. I am so glad to have known him at Overlook Medical Center. We will all miss his wonderful smile and compassionate ways. A terrible loss to Overlook and the community for which it serves. Rest in Peace Tersh.
Gloria Johnson
April 7, 2012
My prayers go out to the family.Dr. Murdock was more than just my doctor for over 20 years he was my friend someone who i could talk to. His death came as a shock to me. i had just had a visit with him. I will miss him dearly.
Gloria Johnson(Rahway NJ)
Bernadette Matrisciano
April 6, 2012
To Elaine & Katie, I am so very sorry for your loss beyond what any words can describe. Tersh was a great man & a great physician. He will truly be missed.
Laura Heinl
April 6, 2012
To Tersh's loved ones god bless you. You are in my prays. I met Tersh many years ago when he was an orderly and I a teenager starting xray school.He had a dream to become a Dr. Little did he know he would become a GREAT one. I will miss seeing his wonderful smile and hear his heart felt Hello in the halls of Overlook. Tersh now when I look up the heavens and earth will be brighter because your GREAT smile is shining down on us. Will miss you, may God take care of you and you loved ones.
Connie Delio
April 6, 2012
Mrs. Murdock and Katie,
Our family and the entire Overlook family are so saddened by Tersh's passing. He was an excellent physician and an outstanding person. I, along with so many, learned so much from him. His legacy will live on forever. So sorry for your loss.
Donna Stec
April 6, 2012
I will never forget meeting Tersh over years ago on one of his many runs to the lab as an ER orderly.We made him explain why he was called "Tersh". And I never forgot that. He evolved into a most wonderful physician and an even more wonderful human being. He will be greatly missed. But know the love and life that you shared remain.
Sherry Brazinsky
April 6, 2012
Elaine and Katie, I am so very sorry for your loss. He will be missed by so many but the memories of his kindness, compassion, friendship and caring nature will never leave us.
Paul Zukoff
April 6, 2012
Elaine and Katie,
Tersh was a wonderful person and a wonderful physician. He will be greatly missed by all.
Susan and Jerome Hairston
April 6, 2012
Elaine and Katie, we feel so blessed to have known Tersh, without a doubt an angel here on earth. Our hearts ache at the thought of not seeing or chatting with him but more painful is the thought of you two without him. Words cannot express the admiration we have for the love you three shared and exuded. May that awesome love now wrap it's arms firmly around you. You remain in our thoughts and most fervent prayers.
Deborah Bates
April 6, 2012
Elaine and Katie, I am so sorry for your terrible loss.I have wonderful memories of you together.He was a fine person and physician and he will be missed greatly. I know Ruby must be devastated too. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Deborah
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