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WWII Vet, PR Pioneer and Rotary Representative to the UN. Sylvan (Barney) Barnet died January 7 after complications from cancer surgery according to his family. His career spanned seventy years in international communications in the fields of publishing, public relations, advertising, and government and as a long serving representative of Rotary International to the United Nations. He received many honors, among them the Public Relations Society of America's 2004 Atlas Award (to both he and his partner Arthur Reef) for Lifetime Achievement in International PR, a field they helped pioneer. In 2006, the United Nations Association gave him its Eleanor Schnurr award for his tireless service to the UN NGO community. Recently, Rotary International and the Rotary Club of New York gave him the Rotary Award of Honor-the highest award for outstanding lifetime service. Sylvan M. Barnet was born August 5, 1919 in Elberon, NJ, the only child of Sylvan and Margaret Barnet. He was educated at Columbia Grammar, Horace Mann and Lawrenceville schools and received his BA from Yale in 1940. He served as a reserve officer in The United States Navy throughout WWII, saw action in both the Atlantic and South Pacific theaters, graduated from the Naval War College and served twice on the staff of Admiral King, Chief of Naval Operations. He left the Navy as a Lt. Commander. In 1954, Barnet became the General Manager of the European Edition of The New York Herald Tribune in Paris. In 1959, he formed Barnet and Reef, PR International with Arthur Reef. In 1965, he joined the Department of Commerce as Deputy Director of the US Travel Service to promote both international tourism and business development in the US. He returned to the private sector in 1968 as Vice President Public Relations and Area Development at American Airlines. Years later he served as Deputy Executive Director of the International Advertising Association. Barnet joined The New York chapter of Rotary International in 1987. He held posts as Representative to the United Nations and Vice Chairman of Rotary International. At the UN, he served as Chair of The NGO Executive Committee, and a member of the NGO Committees on Sustainable Development, and Population and Development. He founded the NGO Committee on Education. When asked in an interview for the July 2009 edition of Rotarian Magazine, "Why do we need the UN?" He answered: "With all its faults, the UN is the only place in the world where it all comes together. Newspapers mainly report on the Security Council, so people don't realize that 80 percent of the UN's work is humanitarian. No other place has [so much] information and resources, and all these people coming together, including civil society (NGOs). That's got to be worth something." Barnet was an avid painter, golfer and reader of American and military history. He and his wife of 68 years, DeeDee, travelled widely; they supported many charities and read regularly to the blind. He was active in Yale Alumni affairs all his life. Sylvan (Barney) Barnet is survived by his two sons, Peter and Bruce, three grandchildren: Kimberly Stokes, Cristi Sauser and Christopher Barnet and four great grandchildren: Bode, Daisy, Tyler and Colin. His wife, DeeDee, died in 2009.

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Published by New York Times on Jan. 18, 2015.

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David J Andrews

January 12, 2023

I mourn the loss of Sylvan and the work we engaged in at the United Nations. He was a tower of strength in the Rotary and in the everyday workings of the UN civil society organizations. Rest in peace dear friend, secure in the knowledge that we fought the fight and won more than anyone will ever know.

David J. Andrews

January 23, 2015

Barney's work at the United Nations in Education, Population and Development was heroic. Always a strong supporter of the UN's humanitarian efforts, he was a leader and a friend to all who knew him. We miss him already.

HELEN HELN

January 23, 2015

Respected and honored as our "Rotary Sage,"
Sought out by people of every culture and age.
That was Barney, my colleague and friend.
He had a meaningful life to the very end.
Helen Reisler

January 21, 2015

My condolences to you. You had such wonderful parents. Barney and DeDe were great friends of my parents, Helen and Carlton Fishel and we spent many wonderful times with them at Caneel Bay. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Penny McDermott Carr

January 20, 2015

Barney was a great mentor and friend. He will be missed.

Brad Jenkins, Rotary Representative to the UN

Richard Martin

January 20, 2015

Barney was a giant, a regal lion and my Rotary hero. I will miss you friend.
-Rick Martin, President 2014-15 RCNY #6

Peter Sour

January 20, 2015

Our Condolences to Peter and Bruce.
Barney and Dee Dee were wonderful friends w. my folks, Bobby & Geral Sour, and their daughters (my sisters).
With all his accomplishments I most remember his resounding, genial, joy-filled laugh.
Sadness -yet the celebration of a life well lived.

William Currie

January 19, 2015

Barney was a gem! After an extraordinary career in publishing, serving his country and public relations - Barney joined NY Rotary and added another amazing chapter to an already amazing life. It was a pleasure to work with Barney on many projects, to be part of the NYR Foundation where we served together for a number of years and to sit and talk to this wonderful man. Barney gave all that knew him a glimpse into what a life well lived was meant to be whether as a humanitarian, patriot or just plain good guy. Farewell my good friend.

Joan Boyle

January 19, 2015

I too was saddened to learn of Sylvan's death. He was such a leader of NGO folks at the UN and did so much to present and defend the work of the UN. I knew him through CTAUN and conferences, and remember always his ability to remember everyone, to make them feel valued. An incredible kindness, marvelous personal attributes, in addition to a life of achievement. Sincere condolences to his family, from one of the NGO volunteers who remembers him forever.

Sydney

January 19, 2015

Sincere condolences, may he R.I.P and may you be comforted by prayers and the support of all

January 18, 2015

I was sadden to read of Barney's death. He and DeeDee were great friends of my parents, Helen and Carlton Fishel and we all spent wonderful vacations at Caneel Bay. My prayers to you all....Katie McCullough.

william pace

January 18, 2015

Sylvan was an excellent and principled NGO representative at the United Nations- one of the most dedicated and steadfast supporters of the purposes and principles of the UN as his NYT obituary testifies. Rotary could not have had a better representative. One of the hopes for peace on our planet is that there are more leaders like Sylvan and fewer of those who divide. We will miss him. Bill Pace for WFM-IGP.

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