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Bess Myerson Obituary

LOS ANGELES (AP) — Bess Myerson, the first Jewish Miss America and a New York political force until a series of scandals dubbed the "Bess Mess" forced her into obscurity, has died. She was 90.

Myerson died Dec. 14 at her home in Santa Monica, California, according to the Los Angeles coroner's office and Department of Public Health Vital Records Office. Her death was first reported by The New York Times.

The Bronx-born Myerson was hailed as a Jewish, feminist Jackie Robinson — a groundbreaker for her religion and sex — after parlaying her stunning 1945 Miss America victory into national celebrity.

The 5-foot-10 dark-haired beauty, unlike her predecessors, accentuated her intelligence. Myerson landed a series of television jobs, from game show hostess to on-air reporter, before her appointment as New York City's chief consumer watchdog in 1969.

The popular Myerson helped Ed Koch win the 1977 mayoral race, deflecting rumors of the bachelor candidate's homosexuality — which he neither confirmed nor denied — with her constant presence at his side. "The immaculate deception," cynics called it after the couple shared an election night victory kiss.

She made her own bid for office in 1980: an unsuccessful Democratic primary run for U.S. Senate. Three years later, Koch appointed her Cultural Affairs commissioner — an $83,000-a-year post as the city's liaison to the arts.

"People like to read about me," she said in a 1987 interview. "They like to imagine themselves in my life."

But Myerson's carefully cultivated image crumbled in the mid-1980s under a barrage of political and personal embarrassments that became known as the Bess Mess.

A city background check exposed Myerson as an insanely jealous woman who harassed an ex-boyfriend and his new lover. She repeatedly invoked her right against self-incrimination in a 1986 corruption probe of a subsequent boyfriend, Carl "Andy" Capasso, who was born the year Myerson was crowned.

Capasso, a contractor with purported mob ties, pleaded guilty to nine counts of tax evasion.

Myerson, Capasso and Judge Hortense Gabel were indicted in October 1987 on a charge of conspiring to fix Capasso's divorce case. Prosecutors said Gabel's daughter, Sukhreet, received a city job in return for the judge's lowering of Capasso's alimony and child support payments.

Before that trial began the next year, Myerson was convicted of shoplifting nail polish and earrings from a Pennsylvania store. A 1970 shoplifting conviction was also made public.

Although Myerson and her co-defendants were acquitted in the divorce-fixing case, the damage was done. She had already resigned her Koch administration post, and her public career was virtually over.

The Miss America Organization said in a statement Monday that Myerson would be remembered for her unwavering commitment to equality.

"Bess used her Miss America title to fight anti-Semitism and racial bigotry as she traveled around the country," the organization said.

Bess Myerson was born July 16, 1924, the second daughter of Russian immigrants. Raised in a one-bedroom Bronx apartment, she was beloved by her housepainter father, Louis, and beleaguered by her strict mother, Bella.

By age 12, Myerson was taller and thinner than her classmates — she once played Olive Oyl in a school production. Her natural beauty soon emerged, and older sister Sylvia shepherded Myerson into the Miss New York City pageant in 1945.

Myerson won, advancing to Atlantic City for the Miss America pageant. Organizers urged her to change her name — they suggested "Betty Merrick" — but Myerson refused.

Her title, captured as the horrors of the Holocaust were coming to light, made Myerson a hero to her peers. Walking down the stage to cries of "Mazel tov!" from Jews in the audience, Myerson later recalled thinking, "This victory is theirs."

Not content with the stereotypical role of Miss America, Myerson left an exploitive vaudeville revue and mounted a speaking tour for the Anti-Defamation League.

"Miss America's brainy, too!" announced a Daily News headline about the Hunter College graduate-turned-pageant winner.

Myerson remained socially aware through the years. She received the ADL woman of the year award in 1965, the same year she began a seven-year stint as chairwoman of the Bonds for Israel fund.

After surviving ovarian cancer in the early 1970s, she took the lead in battling that disease. She was appointed to committees by Presidents Lyndon Johnson, Gerald Ford and Jimmy Carter.

Her first break came on TV game shows. Myerson appeared as the "Lady in Mink" on "The Big Payoff" from 1951 to 1959 and as a panelist on "I've Got A Secret" from 1957 to 1968. She served as commentator for the Miss America Pageant from 1964 to 1968.

She changed careers in 1969, when Mayor John V. Lindsay named her the city's consumer affairs commissioner. She stayed until 1973.

She backed Koch in the hotly contested 1977 mayoral race, holding hands with him as they marched in the Columbus Day parade. Koch media adviser David Garth said it was Myerson who put his candidate over the top.

Her loyalty was repaid Feb. 23, 1983, when Koch appointed her cultural affairs commissioner. It was a decision that did neither much good, however.

Myerson's problems were exposed amid several other scandals that kept Koch from winning a fourth term as mayor. But while Koch never left the public eye, Myerson's drop was precipitous — occasional appearances at cancer fundraisers or visits to friends' birthday parties.

Myerson, who was twice divorced, is survived by a daughter, Barra Grant, from her first marriage.

Former Associated Press writer Larry McShane contributed to this report.

CHRISTOPHER WEBER, Associated Press




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Published by The Oregonian on Jan. 5, 2015.

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January 30, 2016

You were always so poised and beautiful on I've Got a Secret Show, loved watching you. Rest in peace. Bev J Houston, Texas

January 22, 2015

This was truly an amazing person with so much talent the loss is clearly ours. Prayers fill our hearts and burst forth from our mouths to God asking him to let us remember clearly the love we have for this wonderful person gone from our lives never forgetting the joy we shared experiencing a great and authentic talent. (Hebrews 6:10).

Phyllis Osborn

January 21, 2015

Bess spoke to the northern Caifornia women who were members of Another Mother for Peace. What a beautiful and strong woman she was. Phyllis Osborn

Nancy Altaras

January 11, 2015

Sure am going to miss Bess, I read or heard, she was the first Jewish Miss America. Pretty interesting! She was always nice looking, and grace under fire, and, like the rest of us, had opinions of her own, whether anybody agreed with her, or not. She will be terribly missed, but never forgotten. Loved her on
t. v., when I was a kid, too!

January 11, 2015

The family has lost their love one and the world has lost a beautiful lady. Bess was a true example of what a Ms. America should be. She was very personable and had a dazzling smile whenever she appeared on tv. May her daughter and granddaughter have peace at this sad time. An Admirer

January 9, 2015

Heartfelt sympathy goes to the family of Bess Myerson. May you find comfort in happy memories and in the words at Psalm 46: 1, God is our refuge and strength, a help that is readily found in times of distress.

January 9, 2015

R.I.H Bess

Patty Severud

January 8, 2015

She was my idol as a young girl. I'm sorry to hear about the tragedy in her life...I thought she was terrific both then and now! I hope other young girls have a princess in their life like I did in Miss America, Bess Myerson. To her family, my sincere sympathy.

January 8, 2015

May Ps. 145:14 bring comfort at this difficult time of loss. My deepest sympathy.

michelle plakas-kaiser

January 8, 2015

rip

Maria McMahon-DeMeo

January 7, 2015

I worked at consumer affairs with Simon Lazarus while Bess was the Commissioner. Never was there a finer boss. She was a true feminist and treated eveyone with respect. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Rocky Scirocco

January 7, 2015

To the Family. I remember Bess from the tv. She is a beautiful person. R.I.P. Rocky Sciroco.

Saj

January 7, 2015

My heartfelt condolences to the family during this time of sorrow. (1Corinthains 15:26) (Isaiah 61:1,2) Please find peace in knowing that He understands your grief and He cares. 1 Peter 5:6, 7

Faith Tobin

January 6, 2015

Dear Myerson Family hello there my name is Faithtobin and I'd luv to express my condolences's/sympathies to the Family.she was a beautiful Model.luv,Faith

January 6, 2015

What a beautiful woman Bess was. She also had a welcoming smile and a very distinctive voice which added to her presence. May her family have peace at this very sad time. One of her admirers

Wright

January 6, 2015

Our heartfelt condolences to the daughter. Your mother was a pioneer in many ways. We appreciate her hard work for women and religion.

Harry Simpson

January 6, 2015

Thank you for sharing a part of your life with us.

Jeffrey Bonk

January 6, 2015

My Dear Bess,
You lived such a fascinating,productive,and long life. I didn't know that you lived in Santa Monica during your later years. I wish that I had an opportunity to meet you.
My late brother in law John Rexford was a classmate and friend of your former boss Mayor John Lindsay. They remained lifelong friends after their years together at St. Paul's School in Concord New Hampshire. The world is a better place because of your life. You will never be forgotten.

Stacy

January 6, 2015

Sincere condolences to family and loved ones. May the God of all comfort be with you.

January 6, 2015

I offer sincere condolences to family and friends on the loss of Mrs. Myerson. What a full life she led. May your cherished memories comfort you and give you peace during your time of grief.

DS

January 6, 2015

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

January 6, 2015

"During all their distress it was distressing to him...In his love and compassion...he lifted them up and carried them all the days of old." (Isaiah 63:9) Please know that our Heavenly Father knows the pain you feel and promises to carry you through this distressing time.

E.W, ILLINOIS

A Long Time Fan

January 6, 2015

Rest in peace, Miss America.

M Scott

January 6, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Scott Chamberland

January 6, 2015

Rest in Peace

Sheila

January 6, 2015

Rest in Peace Bess.

January 5, 2015

May God take notice of your recent loss and give you peace.My sincere thoughts of sympathy to you........nc

January 5, 2015

Ms. Myerson was a beautiful lady who had a lot of class. She deserved to hold the title of Ms. America and will be forever remembered. May she now rest in peace. JM

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