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HEATHER DAYNES Obituary

Heather Jean Daynes 11/20/1974~1/1/2010 In the wee hours of Jan. 1st, our sweet Heather passed away suddenly, un-expectedly, but peacefully in her sleep. We will miss our beautiful mother, daughter, sister, aunt and beloved friend more than mere words can express. Anyone who ever met Heather adored her. Her sweet smile infected everyone around her. She was loved more than she knew. Our only consolation is that she is now at peace. Heather leaves behind her dear son Zander, her mom and dad, Judy and John Daynes, sister Summer Daynes, brothers LaVaur Daynes and Brandon Daynes, her sisters-in-law, many nephews and neices, and countless adoring friends. A memorial wake will be held at our house, 10726 So. 865 E. in Sandy on Sat. Jan 9th starting at 3 p.m. We will miss you forever, sweet Heather - may the angels of light guide you safely home.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune on Jan. 6, 2010.

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Jimmy

July 29, 2020

Heather had a bright spirit and was probably too sweet for this world. She will keep making smiles in the thereafter.

November 14, 2012

I will always light a candle on your birthday, like we agreed on. I thought I would be first to pass however. I still love you and think about you everyday.

Kendra Mudrow Dial

October 26, 2011

Heather, It has been along time since you were taken from this earth, but not a day goes by that I don't think of you! We had so much fun, we partied hard, the fun of dying my brothers' hair, Ians' and our's was fun and our laughs we shared. I know I was a snot growing up, but heather you taught me alot and I will never forget you, nor your loving family, whom I loved so much and now your gone I'm so alone. Please call me 8017508080. Summer I miss you too. Lavaur, and family you all cared for me and made sure I was safe, from harm. I cry all the time hoping one day I will see you all again, and we can love and laugh again as well. My brother Lance introduced me to you all, and I love him dearly for that. Jamie Davitt, remember that bat you gave me for safety, I still have it. Again I will Always love you all and my thoughts and prayers go out to all of you!

Love always and forever Kendra mudrow Dial

June 10, 2011

Dear John and Judy, Lavaur, Summer and Brandon - I just learned of Heather's passing this morning, in working on the Daynes' ancestry line. This little leaf popped up for Heather and it was her obituary. I was immediately moved to tears -- I am so sorry to learn of your tragic and unexpected loss! Now, John and Judy, we have been out of touch for decades, and LaVaur and Summer and Brandon I doubt would even know me much less remember me - but we have some good memories together as step-family when you two and I were young parents. Please know that I share my heartfelt testimony that Heather lives - she is only beyond the veil and she waits for you and the rest of us all to join her. She is a beautiful woman with a sweet spirit and wonderful soul. May you find comfort and peace in your hearts, and nourish the seed of faith. Treasure the wonderful memories, and look forward to the next reunion. Love and warmest regards always, Colleen (Bailey) Tibbets

Jason Carter

October 3, 2010

Heather,I just found out...I am truly heart-broken. Your baby sister told me on Oct 2cd that you had passed. We shared a special relationship even though short...was very special. I will truly miss you & I love you. I hope to see you on the other side honey.

Frank Glasscock

August 14, 2010

Heather is a woman I love, and miss dearly. To all who know Heather, know that with her emotions she was passionate, she gave her all and I am Proud to know that I had Heather's love, her heart and mind and her willingness to be my wife. In may ways is my life lonely with my angel gone but forever will she remain at my side and in my heart as my Partner, my Best Friend, my Angel. I love you Heather "If I could I'd wish it all away" Your Jambi misses you!

Ashley Zoubek

April 14, 2010

Heather,
You were always so sweet! Every time I saw you, you always made sure to give me a big hug and a big smile! Even when you were blue, you always found the strength to smile! I will never forget the night at Debbie's, where we hung out and talked the whole night! It was like we had known each other forever! I am glad you were one of Casey's good friends, so I had the pleasure to meet you. You will be missed, but alive in the hearts of your loved ones forever. Rest in Peace Heather. Love, Ashley

Brannen Daynes

February 27, 2010

To Uncle Brandon,Aunt Tammy,Aunt Summer,Uncle Nick,Dad,Zander.Grandpa,Grandma,and Millions of More,
What can I say?
I just can't belive she's gone!
To Grandpa and Grandma,
You've lived a very good 35 years with her. I'm so sorry. I cry half the time I think about it. I just can't get over it! Aunt heather Meant the world to Me and a lot of people. This is the Most terrible News I've ever heard. Extra Hugs,
Brannen
P.S. I'm sorry for all!

Ronald Riding

February 20, 2010

I don't quite know what to say. Hope you are all well. We will all miss Heather. Love to all of you!! --Ron

Christopher Phelps

February 18, 2010

Heather is a very sweet soul. I'm sure she has brightened up the heavens with her light. I have missed, and will continue to miss her till I see her again. much love Heather, i hope you have found the peace that you deserve.

John Daynes

February 17, 2010

Reading all the entries in Heather's guest book is very difficult for me. I still cry daily over the loss of my sweet Heather Feather. It has taken me this long to get myself together enough to post my thoughts. Although Heather was at times my trial and my tribulation, she was always my sweet princess and one of my greatest blessings in life. I will miss her terribly for the rest of my life - my only comfort being that she is finally at peace, and that we will run into each other again sometime down the road. Thank you all for your kind and loving memories, and to all those who made it to her wake. Everyone who ever knew her adored her, and she gave love to everyone. A parent isn't supposed to outlive their children, but I am very grateful for the 35 years that she was in my life - she taught me a LOT.

Jesse Rockwell

February 9, 2010

to lavaur & the daynes familly my prayers are with you all and may you find piece

Jesse Rockwell

Kerri Minerich

February 5, 2010

Heather was my first fun friend I ever had when I moved out of my parents house. She taught me how to let my hair down and see the world as a more magical fun place. I don't want to think of a world without Heather, but I know she is having a party in Heaven right now and wouldn't want anyone crying for her. You are very missed girl!

Kerri

Laura Collette Ewald

January 30, 2010

Heather. Dear, Heather. You had the heart of a lion. Your love of animals (you loved my dog as much as I did), your laugh.. your loyalty to those you loved. The world will be a bit emptier without you here.

My heart goes out to all her family. LaVaur, Brandon and Summer.. you guys are all in my thoughts. xoxo

kayla protheros

January 27, 2010

i love and miss you heather. we had some fun times r.i.p. Love Kayla

The good old days when we were so young and carefree.

January 19, 2010

January 19, 2010

I remember the first time I met Heather I was 15. I will never forget the way she befriended me so quickly. She always told me I was the one that taught her to stand up for herself, when it was her friendship and love that made us the friends we were. The Daynes have always been my second family if not my first at times. Summer is the other half to my heart and I am so sorry my lady for what you and your family have lost. Heather loved everyone and everyone loved her in return. I will miss you sister golden hair very very much. You can watch over all of us, but know I am right beside Summer now and always. RIP sweet Heather.

My deepest sympathy and unconditional love for you all,
Kelly

Summer Daynes

January 17, 2010

My sweet sister Heather was the most wonderful, beautiful, caring, loving sister. She filled my heart, with all of the love and adoration she had for me. We would always talk about how lucky we were, to be so close to one another. To be not just sisters, but best friends. How I am going to live my life without her by my side, I do not know. But I do know that the enormous amount of love I have for her will never waver, never fade. I am by no means alone, but the world is a lonely place without my sweet Sister Golden Hair. She was my heart, my life.

January 16, 2010

To The Daynes Family:
I was totally bumbed out when I heard what happened with Heather. I know it's very hard on those who are left here, but try to remember that she is in a far better place with others who love her as much as you do. I apologize for not making it to the wake but other circumstances prevented it. I will remember all of you in my prayers.
Peace, Out--Mickey

January 15, 2010

jason,zander and family my hearts and prayers are with you sweet ones. call me if you need any thing. all my love mom ,and grandmom xoxoxoxo you have my phone address and e-mail. i am always here for you my sweet children momfor anything you may need

Tennille Dongarra

January 13, 2010

Heather, thank you for always being so kind..
For bringing Zander into this world..
I hope that you are free from pain and have peace in your heart as you spread your wings and watch over all who love you..
My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to all of you..
Jason.. Always know that you are never alone my brother at heart..
Endless love*

January 11, 2010

Wow! Summer, Brandon, Lavaur, Dawn and John, I am so sorry to hear this news. I am definitly holding back the tears. Its a lesson learned to never take time for granted and always try to reach out to old friends. If there is anything I can do to help any of you please do not hesitate to call. 801-897-0395. I am sending all the love I can send to you all. Lorraine Roberts

January 10, 2010

DEAR ZANDER,JOHN, JUDY, SUMMER, BRANDON , SWEET LAVAR AND FAMILY. I COULD NOT BE THERE YESTERDAY BECAUSE OF MY HEALTH. INSTEAD OF FLOWERS WE HAVE GIVEN YOU AND YOUR FAMILY THE GIFT OF KEEPING HEATHERS GIFT BOOK ON LINE FOR ETERNITY, SO FRIENDS, FAMILY AND LOVED ONES CAN CONTINUE TO SHARE THIER THOUGHTS AND PRAYER WITH YOU AND EACH OTHER. IT HAS GIVEN OUR FAMILY COMFORT WITH THE LOSS OF OUR SON AND HOPE IT GIVES YOU COMFORT AS WELL. IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS PLEASE CALL AND ALSO KNOW I AM HERE AS A FRIEND,AND A PARENT TO TALK OR JUST TO LISTEN. OUR FAMILYS ARE TIED TOGEATHER. WHEN YOU REACH OUT I WILL BE HERE LOVE RHONDA

January 9, 2010

Brandon, Summer, and LaVaur,

Our hearts go out to you. What a shock! Heather was taken way too soon from this earth, yet she left everyone that knew her with awesome memories that we can keep forever.
We are thinking of all of you in this sad time.


Joe and Thora Nielsen

Alexis Despain

January 9, 2010

i remember the first time i went over to summers house with my uncle nick to meet everyone.. right after i met summer and her dad i saw heather. her smile lit up the room and she had the best personality.
i wish i coud have been around more than i was..
she's passed peacefully in her sleep and she is missed and loved very much.

Mike Shannon and Family

January 8, 2010

I am shocked and saddened to hear this news. My friend from the past is now forever passed over to the other side. I know you will watch over all of us and keep us safe. I just wish I had kept in touch, even if only to see that bright smile and share a laugh one more time. Heather, you were always so sweet to me. You were true to your heart. You spoke your mind and were never afraid to say what you really felt or thought. You had so much charisma and so much love to share. You were truly a Daynes. I thank you my dear old friend for so many wonderful memories that I will carry forever in my heart. I will miss you.
To LaVaur, Brandon, and Summer- My families thoughts and meditations go to you. You all have been some of the strongest people I have ever known. I truly believe you will all grow even stronger and more inspiring then ever before. I miss you all. May you know yourselves in all ways that you desire. As Above So Below.

rhonda reynolds

January 8, 2010

it does not seem that long ago you wrote in our family quest book for our son toby.we never knew we would lose another sweet angel and family friend.our heart and thoughts are with all of you today and every day. please contact me if you need to talk or if i can help in anyway .rhonda 801-347-6395

Terrace Thompson

January 8, 2010

Heather, I remember the first time I met you! You were so down to earth and so real. You treated me very kind, and always had a beautiful smile on your face. We instantly became friends, and even through any hard times that arose, you never placed judgment upon me. You alwasy were supportive and sweet to me. You stood by my side and comforted me in times of need; I thank you for that my dear friend!! I will miss all of our awesome heart to heart love filled talks. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.

But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious. Summer,Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead, Heather;Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds. If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved ones helping you along your way.

Kathleen Suter

January 8, 2010

To the Daynes Family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that my thoughts are with you.

Mandi Larsen Mangum

January 7, 2010

Dearest Daynes,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Heather was a lovely girl that I had the privledge of knowing. Please know that she is in a far better place than we can even imagine. She now is the angel that watches over you. Much love.

Kendra Dial Mudrow

January 7, 2010

Heather I will miss you so much! Dayne Family I am so sorry for your loss. May the lord bless you.

Felicia McMichael

January 7, 2010

To the Daynes family,

My heart goes out to you in this sad time. I didn't know Heather well, but I know she was loved well by her family. I know, too, that Heather has at last found some peace and rest and that she will forever watch over her family. Celebrate her life and the good memories. I love you all and wish you peace and solace to get you through these hard days.

Mikey and family.

January 6, 2010

I cant find any words to express how saddened I am with this loss, and for her amazing family.You all are so much to me and have been some of my best friends over the years.She will always be remembered.Stay strong we love you all.The Davis Family.

Melissa Braecklein-Brown

January 6, 2010

To the Daynes Family,
I know its been a long time since I've seen any of you, but word travels quickly when such a great person passes away. Heather will definitely be missed and mourned for a long time but will never be forgotten. I just wanted to send my thoughts and prayers to all of you, and my deepest condolences.

January 6, 2010

My thoughts and prayers with you all it this time, I know it will be hard but stay strong and know she will always be here for you.

Dave & Margo Melin

January 6, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

January 6, 2010

LaVaur, Dawn & Summer

I am so sorry for your loss. I know we lost touch over the years but I always have had the best memories of all of you. Heather was always so such a sweet person to me, she made me laugh and made me one of the best fruit smoothies I have ever had, still to this day, you too Summer! I know she will be missed, my thoughts are with you all.

January 6, 2010

We know how hard it is to lose a sibling, to Summer, LaVaur, and Brandon, it will be tough times ahead but you will pull through. Just remember Heather maybe gone but not forgotten. Your family is in our thoughts. Love, Kirk and Jacelyn Giles

Michelle Jones

January 6, 2010

Summer and family,
I know words cannot express the tremendous grief you feel. I am so sorry for your loss.
You’re in my thoughts and prayers. RIP Heather

Amy Ostler LaFlamme

January 6, 2010

I haven't seen Heather in sooo long but I do remember what a wonderful, caring friend she has always been to all who met her. I attended school with both her and her brother and know that she will always be one of the brightest spots on this earth I have ever known. I love you Heather!

Kate Robbins-Pfeiler

January 6, 2010

I was deeply sadden to hear the passing of Heather. We went to school together. She was always laughing and smiling...she was a great friend!!

Rachel Roy

January 6, 2010

To the Daynes family-
You are each in my thoughts and prayers and though words do little to console at these times, please know that your beautiful sister, daughter, mother and friend will always be remembered by those lives she touched-and those numbers are great. Heather is in so many of my favorite memories that it still hard to believe I won't see her again. Heather was a special person and to know her was to love her-which I did and always will.

Casey

January 6, 2010

My dear, sweet, beautiful friend; I love you so, so much. You did so much for me and are the most unselfish person I have ever met in my life. You saved my life and I will always be forever grateful to you for that. I have missed you since the day I moved away. I thought of you often, wishing I could come and visit more. My heart and soul ache knowing I won’t see you when I visit anymore. You won’t come to Vegas to see me so we can dance around around The Strip. I don’t know how long or if I ever will be able to delete your number from my phone or your email address from my computer but I tell you this, my sweetheart, my friend, you will NEVER be deleted from my heart and memories. I love you, Heather. So much. Dance forever with the angels, lady. One day I’ll see you again.

Dawn Daynes

January 6, 2010

To- John, Summer,Brandon,Judy and my sweet LaVaur-- All of you know better than anyone that I have never been comfortable showing my true feelings. That never once stopped Heather from hugging me and telling me she loved me every chance she got whether I liked it or not. I am so thankful now for every one of those hugs and I will cherish every single "I love you". What I learned from Heather is that when it comes to the people that you care about you should never hold back, she showed us that there is no limit to the amount of love a person can give. Because of this I want each of you to know that I love you with all of my heart, and that I loved Heather with all of my heart.

Meredith Winter

January 6, 2010

Heather will be missed greatly.

Monique Dock

January 6, 2010

Judy, John, and family, I am so sorry for your loss, it's been a long time since I've seen Heather but she will be remembered forever, love to you and bless you all.

Monique & Robert Dock
Chandler, AZ

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