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Robert Mcconnell
October 7, 2019
With time I miss you more endless thoughts of the times we shared what fun it was you were truly a genious , your clever mind and patience could fix about anything out there oh how I miss my friend and you are with me every day and kally sends her meows to you love you always Robert
Todd Albert Alley 1986
Jamison McGlothlen
June 6, 2016
Hi Todd, I thought I would stop by to say that I am thinking of you and miss you always. I plan to stop by your grave soon and put some flowers out in honor of you and gay pride. I wish you were still here to share more with me and your family, and friends. Until we see each other on the other side again. Rest now sweet prince.
robert mcconnell
June 4, 2016
They say time helps to get over a lost friend or family member but I find so many times I wish you were here to share the time we have here on earth you were a great friend and I may never have another friend like you were to me . Always in my heart Todd I miss you so much
Tina Alexander
May 27, 2016
Todd
For some reason you are in my thoughts, I miss you and wish we would have reconnected before you passed. You were such a great friend and I truly miss you! We had so much fun in our teen years and you let me take my driving test in your car. We went to Prom together (best friend thing) I miss you and love you! Visit me in my dreams.
Dennis Gress
December 22, 2015
...sad to hear Mr."Hinkle"...(inside joke)...thanks for the memories...we were awesome...
robert mcconnell
October 25, 2015
Todd I still miss you as much as ever your the true meaning of best friend I love you and think of you every day later Todd Robert
Erik Anderson
October 10, 2013
Hey Todd, its Erik. I just wanted you to know how much your death had an effect on my life. Before you passed I lost Tom Knight, another one of my "childhood" best friends. I'm only 45 years old for Pete's sake and I've out lived both of you! It just doesn't make sense to me but what is does do is make me live everyday to the fullest. I'm married now to my partner of 10 yrs. We got married on my parents property and it was the best day of my life! Filled with so much love and I thank God everyday that he gave me Dan. Someone who I adore and who adores me. I know that your in a wonderful place now with your Dad and other loved ones. A place that we'll all meet you again when our time comes and God calls us all home. I hope your at peace my friend and if you see my Grandma and Aunt Tammy, pls. tell them Hi and I love and miss them! Til we meet again my friend, you are missed.
Jamison McGlothlen
October 8, 2013
I think you like to visit in dreams Toddy, had a fun dream last night with you in it enjoying life as we used to do. Thinking of you today, and everyday my love. Until we see each other again, rest now my friend. Say hello to your father as well.
October 6, 2013
hey todd its been almost 4 years since you went to the great hotel in the sky think of you so often and wish i could hang out with you like we did so many times before, time does help the grieving process but i will never get over your cute smile and the charm and charisma that were you , you had a way about you and that we all miss so much your friend Robert
kilai
February 19, 2013
Hey buddy its KILAI... Thinking about you lots today got my mission date in 2 treatments wish me luck sure do miss you
Michael Moyer
November 23, 2011
Todd,
It's been 2 years, it's said that time heals all wounds. Your being gone hurts as much now as ever. I love you.
Kevin Couch
June 28, 2011
Todd, not a day goes by that I don't think of you or see you in a fleeting glimpse on the street. I miss you so much and love you even more. I'll see you down the road. Love Always, Butter
Tyson Box
June 4, 2011
Hey there Alley,
Tyson here, I am visiting here in Seattle for my Grandma’s 85th Birthday and was talking about you with a friend and someone overheard some of our conversation and told me you had moved to a better place. My heart dropped Todd with sadness; I however know that you are in a better place.
In many ways I am angry that you are gone but touched that, I had been a part of your life. When I saw you in March of 09 it was as if it was 1989 all over again, I am so happy something brought us back together that on last time, here on earth anyway.
Mrs. Alley and Sheila, I am so sorry for our loss of Todd. He has affected many people in such a wonderful way. I have been blessed to know Todd for over 20 years now and I am better for having done so.
RIP my friend,
T. BOX
Jamie Phillips
May 18, 2011
Hi Todd, your Mother has just interned you and your father. I am sorry I missed the internment ceremony, but I am happy that there is a physical place I can come and talk with you and your father now. Like so many of your friends I miss you daily. Sheila has been a great friend and keeps me in the loop. I will always love you, and cherish our years together. The photo added here was taken by me on Dougs big boat. Doug and I both plan to visit soon. Your always in my heart, and I will always keep you there.
larry shank
May 17, 2011
From time to time, I can't help but to check in to this site. It seems that No matter how much time goes by,I still have trouble believing that you is really gone! I still get the urge to pick up the phone and call you, and than it hits me all over again. Like a ton of bricks. I wish so badly that I would have let you come to New Jersey with me. I know in my heart that if I did, you would still be here! I doubt if I will ever get over that. I know you are in a much better place and we will "No doubt" be together again in that better place that doesn't have all of the harsh realities of this world! So, until then.... I will have to find some way to move forward and continue to make a better life for myself.
Ki Lai
April 27, 2011
Todd, hey buddy. I did it, completed 10 days at Shick Shadel! It's amazing, wish you were here. Love, K.L.C
KiLai
April 13, 2011
Well "Double D" here I go again, another try, this time in-patient, near Sheila's house. Wish me luck buddy. If you see Sally up there, tell her I love her and miss her horribly. We had to put her down a few weeks ago. Miss you!
KI LAI T
November 21, 2010
Hey Todd, its me again. I want to thank you for your friendship, your kindness, your understanding that some of our acquaintances could never understand. I want to say "Sorry" for that fight we had at Dens apt that one day. I'm asking for forgiveness for some of the lies I've told you over the years, I want to thank you for being a friend. I hope you saw that I was a friend too. After every appt. I've had at Harborview this year, Greg and I stop off at that Catholic church there on 9th and say a prayer for your family and light a candle or two. Just listen to me if you can every once in awhile. I talk to you alot while I'm on the bus to work. I'm still good, this weekend was real hard, you know why, but I made it through clean. I sure miss you dude, ole "Double D". I'll see you on the other side, yeah ? Love, Ki Lai
Sheila peterson
November 19, 2010
well sweety, You know by now, and probably seen himmm. My ddad died 10/24/2010. 8 days after your dad. I love and miss you todd, until we meet again i will think of you every step of the way...you're always and you're family are always in my heart.
Jamie Phillips
November 19, 2010
Thinking of you today and always Todd. I miss you a great deal, but know you are still around all who love you. It will be wonderful when we see each other again. Rest now handsome.
November 17, 2010
Todd,
Sure miss ya , think of you so often I knew you for 13 years and when we first met we agreed that we would be friends for life and that was so true. Really miss your knowledge about things to fix or repair you were so handy. Im sure your in a better place so sad that your gone love ya Mr Todd your friend Robert McConnell
Ki Lai T
November 9, 2010
Todd,
Give me the strength to accept the things I cannot change and the courage to change the things I can. I'm trying Todd, it's so hard. Through the years of knowing you, I thought to myself that I would know you till the golden years. It pisses me off you're not here. I miss talking with you, on our rides into the city, catching up on everything. I miss that so much, I miss your friendship pal. I really do.
Ki Lai Tsang
October 28, 2010
Hey it's me KiLaiT. It's taken me over a year to write this. There were gaps when we didn't see each other for quite sometime. And I just kept hoping, your number would pop up on my cell, with you on the other end asking, "What are you doing ?" I miss you so much. There is not a day as I go to work on the bus or wherever that I don't think about you. You and I have traveled many roads here in the city. And every corner has a story. I kick myself wishing I would have stayed with you that night. Thanks for helping me out later on, I know that was you....Ben Franklin. I loved you man and so did Greg even though he didn't show it. See ya.
Ki Lai Tsang
Sheila Peterson
October 27, 2010
hi sweety, I just wanted to let you know my dad is with your dad now...love you todd always. miissing you like hell.
Loree Kasnick-Perkins
October 23, 2010
I know I had posted an entry about a year ago but been thinking about Todd a lot especially now that your Dad is with you. Todd you brought many smiles to my life I know it was many years ago as you being my first :) You were always a sweetheart, very respectful and quite the gentleman and later years after we broke up you were still the sweetest ever and always had a smile on your face and so kind to me and everyone you came across. I am so glad I had the opportunity to know you and have you in my life even if for such a short time. You are in my thoughts and just sad I didn't get the opportunity to get back in touch before you had passed. All my love always sweetie !! Until we meet again xoxo
Jamie Phillips
October 22, 2010
Mrs. Alley, and Troy,Brad,and Bill I am so sorry to hear that your husband and father has joined Todd. Jack was always kind to me when we spoke, and with Todd only gone a year now I am sure your hearts are broken. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.
sheila peterson
October 21, 2010
By now you know your Father died. I'm sure you're happy having him with you. I keep seing the two of you tinkering in the garage , or working on the car. Jack is now out of pain and you don't hsve to deal with ythe grief of losing him. he's with you now. Where he wanted to be. many memories to cherish...thanks!
Norma Curran
October 9, 2010
Todd had a sweet spirit...I am thankful to have known him. He touched many and is missed daily.
I know he is now resting in peace
October 7, 2010
Sheila Peterson
October 7, 2010
Hi! It"s me She aka Liza....not a day goes by that I don't think of you, my friend.
You've alway's been a huge part of my life!
Thank You, Todd! for everything you've done for me and given me. I will always love you, you know it! Soon I've got to move on. I gave Gandalf to TJ and Rik. He's happier with the Boys!!!! he was not happy here with out his toddy, his most favorite person in the world. damn, I so miss seeing the two of you together.Well, henry, there's so much more I have to say, but I simply can't see through my tears.
when I cry I can't hear either! LOL
I'll talk to you more in the next fews days. oh what pulled me to this OB site was I started remembering a year ago today, you were alive! I wish you were still alive!!!! I miss you very much!!!!
rememember riding our bikes to Seahurst beach? We're spreading your ashes there.
I think it's a great place and you loved going there. we've got lots of memories down at Seahurst Beach.
Traci Bennett
October 6, 2010
We miss you Todd.
Drew Bennett
October 6, 2010
Rest in peace, you are so missed.
Jamie Phillips
September 29, 2010
Remembering you today with fond memories, looking at pictures we took together over the years and knowing that one day we will all meet again. I love and miss you.
March 3, 2010
We knew Todd to be a generous, fun loving guy, who was a good friend to many. "The good die young" surely applies to Todd. Our deepest sympathy is sent out to his family and those who who were closest to him, and loved him so much. Remember, in love, there is no beginning or end. Love is eternal. We will miss you Todd, our friend. Laura Torrey and Chip Cheney
Dean Furr
February 27, 2010
To the Alleys I send my deepest, heart felt condolences.
Its been nearly 30 years since I've seen Todd, however, I'll never forget his kindness. He was also a gentle soul, I don't think I ever saw him angry. My fondest memories of Todd were when we played soccer together, his dad, Jack, was our coach.
Todd, you left too soon and you will be deeply missed, I'm saddened that I take this time to remember you rather than have had known you in your later years.
Peace
Sheila Peterson
February 25, 2010
I'm so sorry to all of you who lost touch with Todd! Anything you want to know, you can contact me. Todd, I forgive you for leaving us...I know you're happier now. See you when we see you! I LOVE YOU MY FRIEND. R.I.P.
Gandalf misses his daddy. DUNCAN MISSES YOU, AND YOUR OTHER MOTHER JAN MISSES YOU TOO!!! OUR MEMORIES ROCK!
Norma Curran
February 22, 2010
My deepest condolences to all of Todd's loved ones.
He is now busy "angeling" others, along with loved ones from the past.
Jamie Phillips
December 24, 2009
Happy Chrismas Eve, and Merry Christmas Todd, I am sure you are looking down on all your family and friends and know they love and miss you terribly. Peace and love to your family, and all your many friends during this first holiday season without you. We miss, and love you always beautiful one.
Erik Anderson
December 16, 2009
Todd Alley was one of my first childhood best friends. I have wonderful memories of growing up with him on 7th. Ave. in Burien and we were pretty close during our Cedarhurst years. We unfortunatly grew apart as we got older. I remember seeing him a few times while we were going to Highline but even though we never remained in contact with each other, I will ALWAYS cherish my memories of him. I was absolutely blown away when I found out about his death from my Mother. To his Family, all I can say is that I am SO SORRY for your loss! My only regret is finding out too late to pay my respects to his family at his service. Todd, I'll always Love you! See you on the other side my friend...
Loree Perkins
December 7, 2009
Although I have not seen Todd in years..I have many many memories in my younger years with this wonderful, loving,caring man.Todd..my very very first love.I can remember the way he made my heart pound as if it were yesterday.We had many fun times..(can picture his smile now)I cherish every moment.I am so very saddened by this loss and to have lost touch over the years.I thank the person for notifying me of this page to express my deepest sympathy to his parents,family and friends. I am so sorry for your loss and will say prayers to help you all through this difficult time.I cannot express in words what a wonderful person he was always made you laugh when you were down and always there for you...He will be greatly missed by all. I will always love you Todd..may you R.I.P....always in my heart until we meet again...
Jamie Phillips
December 2, 2009
Todd was my first true love, my best friend at that time, my partner in crime and my everything. I am so sorry handsome that I put off seeing you until I got back into town - and all that happened while I was gone. If only I had known, you know I would have been here in an instant. I am thankful for our last conversation, I will miss and love you always. No one else in my life has ever measured up to you - wait for me on the other side for I pray I will see you again someday.
JAN PETERSON
December 2, 2009
TODD ALLEY WAS THE SON I NEVER HAD AND ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS. HE COULD MAKE ME SO ANGRY AND HE COULD MAKE ME BELLY LAUGH. IF TEARS COULD BUILD A STAIRWAY, AND MEMORIES A LANE, I'D WALK RIGHT UP TO HEAVEN TO BRING HIM HOME AGAIN. ~HIS OTHER MOTHER JAN~
Jef Cochran
November 18, 2009
It just goes to show you that indeed it is so true that only the good do die young, this was such a scene list tragedy and so shocking becuase it really could have happened to any one of us at any time, I will miss my friend most of all becuase I knew I could always depend on his word when he said something he always did, his smile and laughfter will be sorely missed and I know that meany of his friends feel the same way I do when I say that life just will never be the same, I hope everyone will take a good look at what we can learn from this and love and respect each other, RIP my friend, one day you and all of us I believe will be together again.
Jef Cochran
November 18, 2009
Todd is is proven that only the good die young, your presents will be missed by meany as your smile will to, it is so hard to imagine that you are taken so ubruptly from us by something all iof us have done and could have been anyone of us, I hope all of those who new Todd and loved Todd will taken a very hard hit lesson by his tragic death, we will miss you and your amazing friendship and will be at a loss tell we see each other again, RIP my friend as we will not tell we are all reunited again one day,
Sheila Peterson
November 12, 2009
DEAR JACK, ROBERTA, AND FAMILY:
NO WORDS CAN EXPRESS THE HEARTACHE I FEEL FOR THE PAIN YOU'RE ALL FEELING. TIME HEALS!
IT REALLY DOES, BUT THE PAIN OF LOSS WILL ALWAYS REMAIN DEEP WITHIN. HE WILL BE MISSED BY MANY. I LOVED HIM LIKE A BROTHER!
MANY THOUGHTS`MUCH LOVE ALWAYS~
Bryan Kingsolver
November 5, 2009
What a guy..............see you later
TIM REED ROBERTROBERTS
November 1, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
November 1, 2009
roberta and jack---really sorry to hear about the loss of your son
our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family
jeannie and robbie roberts
Tina Alexander
October 26, 2009
I am so SAD, Todd will always be a part of my permanent memories, he was truly special. My heart breaks for his family.
October 24, 2009
This is very diifficult for me to deal with. I just had seen and chatted with you last week. Todd I'll miss you alot. Condolences to all friends and family. Tony Fields
Eric Roach
October 23, 2009
To the family of Todd Alley,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Justin Russell
October 23, 2009
GOD WHY TAKE MY FRIEND?? I WILL MISS U A WHOLE LOT EVERYDAY MORE AND MORE AND MORE TO CONFUSED ABOUT THIS RIGHT NOW CYRING AT THIS TIME BUT WILL REMEMBER THE YEARS WE SPENT TOGETHER AND THE CHERISHED MOMENTS.. JST SEEN U THE OTHER DAY... WHO WILL TAKE YOUR PLACE NOW? SORRY I TOOK YOUR HEADPHONES... I REGRET IT AND AND AND LOVE U VERY MUCH.. CANT STOP THINKING OF MY FRIEND U NOW....
Justin Russell
October 23, 2009
MY Friend... We Have Known Each Other for a long time...Gotta Stop My Self From Crying just seen u the other day..I dont know what I will do without u my friend. You were the bestest friend anyone could ever have you were always there when i needed u and Now i am without u and lost.. I Love u And Will Always Cherish The great times we had... LOVE YOU AND U WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART
Michael Moyer
October 23, 2009
Todd, I cannot wrap my head around the fact you are gone. There is a big hole now in my life in the place you used to be. I am going to miss you so very much my dear friend. I love you so much. Mr. & Mrs. Alley, I met you a year ago, the day we got Todd's car out of impound. I am so sorry for your loss, Todd was a beautiful person. He had only friends and we are all going to miss him so very very much. My heart goes out to you.
October 23, 2009
To the parents: I wish to express my
sincere sympathies for the death of your son. Oh Roberta I really do feel
for you.
Alice H - from TOPS
Todd Jackson
October 23, 2009
To the Alley Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathies. I've been a friend of Todds for over 20 years he will be greatly missed.
Les Forester
October 23, 2009
My friend, you left us much too soon and with so much left unsaid and unfinished. Be at peace...I will miss you so very much. You will forever be in my heart as a very good friend. My deep condolences to the Alley family and to all of Todd's many friends.
Cary Brown
October 23, 2009
Our heart felt sympathies go out to your family. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you. Rory, Cary, David, Mark, Dave, and Sharon Brown
Jill (Doerflinger) Dillon
October 23, 2009
Although I haven't seen Todd in many many years, my childhood memories with him are so vividly clear. He was one of my very first friends and I hold so many great memories of him. My heart goes out to the Alley family and Todd's friends. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this tragic time in your lives.
Ash Garner
October 23, 2009
I will always remember your unique sense of humor, and the time me and you were stranded in ocean shores, and i will never forget how much fun i had experiencing that journey home. I will always remember you, i will always cherish our bond that we had. i will miss you always but i will never forget you. i will smile every time and remember to laugh when the sun is in my eyes,because only me and you knows what that means and why i would signify that, and no worries todd i will never forget that.
To a great human being, May your life be only a page turned in your journey, Forever your friend and always in my heart Ash.
Pam Locken
October 22, 2009
Jack, Snooky, Bill, Brad, Troy, Please know that my heart goes out to you. Just want you to know we're thinking of you as you go through the next several days, weeks and months. Such a sad time. Take care of yourselves. Will write more in a letter.
Barry Peterson
October 22, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Although I didn’t have the honor of knowing Todd well, I did have the pleasure of seeing him socially on several occasions. His energy and spirit left enough of an impression on me to remember him many years later and wonder what he might be up to.
I wish you all the best in the coming times, I know from my own experiences that the pain of such a loss can be overwhelming at times, but hang in there, the pain will fade and be replaced by the wonderful memories you must have.
Take care.
kevin couch
October 22, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
robert mcconnell
October 22, 2009
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
P Thomas
October 22, 2009
To the Family of Mr. Alley,
Although I did not personally know Mr. Alley, I would like to take a moment to express my deepest sympathy. No doubt such a loss of a dear loved one will be felt by many. Long ago the faithful man job asked if an able-bodied man died can he live again. The comforting answer is yes. Our God the Creator is yearning to bring back to life those who have died. (Job 14:13-15) May this and other promises recorded in God's word the Bible continue to comfort your family.
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