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BRYAN VERHOEF Obituary

Bryan C. Verhoef Formerly of Essex Fells, 80 Bryan C. Verhoef, 80, a former resident of Essex Fells, N.J., passed away peacefully on Nov. 6, 2015, after a lengthy and progressive illness. Relatives and friends are invited to visit with the family on Thursday, Nov. 19, 2015, from 9:30 to 11 a.m. at St. Peter's Episcopal Church, 271 Roseland Ave., Essex Fells, prior to an 11 a.m. funeral service at the church. Interment will be at Prospect Hill Cemetery, Caldwell, N.J. Arrangements are by Paul Ippolito-Dancy Memorial, Caldwell, N.J. For a complete obituary please visit www.ippolitofuneralhomes.com

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Published by The Star-Ledger on Nov. 17, 2015.

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Kenna and Jackie Taylor

December 8, 2015

We will remember Bryan -- the dinners he hosted for the neighbors, his smile, and the delightful conversations we had.
Rest in Peace.

Beth and Richard Radgowski

November 27, 2015

We will truly miss Bryan; he captivated us with his life stories. While we mourn our loss, those in heaven are welcoming him...
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

John verhoef

November 19, 2015

Rip grandpa sadly missed but never forgotten

Lance Brannigan

November 19, 2015

You will be sadly missed mate.
RIP Bryan.

Barbara Gigante

November 19, 2015

Bryan: You were always so kind and generous to me. I will remember you with only good thoughts and funny memories.

Marilyn Miller

November 19, 2015

Dear Sharon,
We were so lucky to have met Bryan. He had that great big smile and larger than life personality. Bryan was always generating new ideas; planning exciting adventures; traveling from country to country and thoroughly enjoying life. Bryan was a good friend who was kind hearted and very generous.
Brian and I remember many happy visits with you in Arizona. Our favorite party was the Egyptian one with the appropriate dress.
Brian and I are so sorry for your loss.

Marilyn and Brian Miller,

Susan Wood

November 19, 2015

Dear Sharon,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We'll miss seeing Bryan on his daily walks and our many engaging conversations. A truly good soul has gone to Heaven. With deepest sympathy,
Sue and Dave

sheenac verhoef

November 18, 2015

To dad and grandad from sheenac and family xxcc

Marcy Sandgathe

November 18, 2015

Dear Sharon,
Remembering beautiful times with you and Bryan - my Sharon's wedding, Tucson strolls, Florida visit. Our hearts and prayers go out to you.
-Marcy and Hugh

The Ironman "Bokdrol" team (1992 Montreal Esprit Ironman)

Terry Coull

November 18, 2015

The "Bokdrol" team

Terry Coull

November 18, 2015

Terry & Jan Coull

November 18, 2015

Dear Sharon,
We are so sad for your loss, and happy to have known Bryan. We remember the great years we spent running, laughing and triathlon racing with Bryan. Bryan was a wonderful person to have known, he was always smiling, laughing, joking, and chatting "up a storm", his memory will continue, and we will miss him. In all our long runs and races (he fondly referred to himself, Andy, John and I) as The "Bokdrol" team.

November 16, 2015

Dear Sharon: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I was not able to get to know him but I remember being at Jinkie's party the night you met him! I will pray for you all on Thursday morning. So sorry I will not be able to be there.Love, Pam Gordon duPont

Jonathan Wilson

November 16, 2015

Sorry to hear of Brian's passing. He was a unique and caring individual with a lot of interesting stories to tell. When I was 16 years old he fired my imagination with stories of America's military and political might, kickstarting my interest in global affairs. We used to go cycling together when he and Sharon would stay in Brisbane. He was a generous chap, purchasing a bike for me which I am still using nine years later!

Fare well, old chap. I will remember you :)

-Jon from Brisbane, Australia

sheenac verhoef

November 15, 2015

Dad I'm so sorry I couldn't say goodbye I love you and miss you

Priscilla Graham

November 14, 2015

Sharon, we miss Bryan. We loved him and feel his absence in the neighborhood! I'm so sorry that he had such a struggle this past year. The love between the two of you was inspiring. Please know my prayers are with you always. Much love, Priscilla (and Bob)

November 14, 2015

Bryan was a very special person. He was fascinating to listen to, and, upon my visit with you, was there to give to me, with friendship and advice. You and he were a beautiful couple, and my thoughts and love are with you, Sharon.

Fran Novack, New York City

Carol Collins

November 14, 2015

A beautiful person, Bryan was always happy and outgoing, with fascinating stories to tell and questions to ask. I always looked forward to meeting with him and Sharon, as I knew it would be a pleasurable experience. My love to you Sharon and may Bryan have eternal peace.

Deborah Shelley

November 13, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Bryan was always such a gracious host with wonderful stories of his travels and triathlons. He will be missed.

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271 Roseland Ave., Essex Fells, NJ

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