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Stephanie Mnookin Obituary

Stephanie Michelle Mnookin, beloved daughter of Diane and Donald Mnookin, beloved wife of Philip Soltanoff, passed away suddenly last Wednesday, September 27, 2006 in New York. She was 39 years old. Stephanie was born on April 30, 1967 in Kansas City, MO. She attended Notre Dame de Sion grade school and was a graduate of the Barstow school and Vassar College. Graveside services will be 10:30am Wednesday, October 4, at Rose Hill Cemetery, 6900 Troost Avenue, Kansas City, MO. A memorial service in New York City is being planned for later in the month for her many friends there. The family requests no flowers and suggests memorial contributions to the charity of your choice. In addition to her husband and parents, survivors include her uncle and aunt, Mike and Diane Igoe; her cousins, Carol Amiri, Chris Igoe, Louie Igoe and the Norman Arnell family; her mother and father-in-law, Lou and Dorothy Soltanoff of Connecticut; sister and brother-in-law, Emily and Arch MacInnes and nephew and niece, Sam and Rebecca of Massachusetts; her writing partner, Eliot Laurence and her most precious cat, Franny. Stephanie worked as a professional performer and writer in New York and Los Angeles and had just recently begun a most promising career writing for a new television series. Stephanie's generosity, beauty, artistry and kindness touched all who had the good fortune to meet her and to know her. She was also a teacher; much loved by her many students, an adventurer, world traveler, brilliant chef and dependable friend in need. She possessed unique and impeccable style and a most subtle and engaging sense of humor. It lit the stages where she performed, and all those she touched. It's a light that will be missed, each and every day. Online guest book @ www.louismemorialchapel.com. (Arr: The Louis Memorial Chapel 816-3615211).

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Published by Kansas City Star on Oct. 2, 2006.

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Giuseppe Puccio

January 24, 2011

I'm so sorry like anybody also per la perdita di una brava e intelligente persona,che Dio l'abbia in Paradiso.Giuseppe

Jennifer Veech

March 28, 2007

Stephanie was a wonderful and unique person. I have been thinking about her a good deal since I heard about her death; it seems impossible to imagine that she is not here. I knew Stephanie at Vassar, where I was her student fellow, her freshman year. Stephanie was someone with whom I always felt a kinship. I am so very sorry to hear that she is gone.

Arlene Cooke

March 18, 2007

I just read about Stephanie's death in the Vassar Quarterly and was shocked and saddened. She and I were freshman college roommates and, although we had not seen each other for many years, Stephanie has always been a vivid part of my memories.

My deepest condolences to her husband and family.

Jennifer Mnookin

March 8, 2007

I'm sorry I never had the chance to see Stephanie perform, or even to get to know her as a grown-up, cousin though she was. The last time I saw her was with Nate Arnell at the beach in New Jersey, probably 15 years ago.

I just spent some time looking at her website, and she was obviously talented, offbeat, and truly creative. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Lisa Kenner

January 3, 2007

I met Stephanie last year during a viewpoints workshop, which was completely new to me. She was an encouraging,kind teacher and possessed a uniquely warm spirit. She made everyone comfortable and welcome. I had hoped that I would get to know her more as time went on, and am saddened by her loss. I am glad I knew her even if only for a brief time, during which she touched my life. Sincerest condolences to her family and friends.

David Scot King

December 22, 2006

I was fortunate enough to attended the Barstow School with Stephanie, she was extremely kind, and a good friend. She will be missed.

Thom Weddle

October 13, 2006

Diane - Don
Words cannot express my feelings on your loss. The two of you can take pride knowing that your efforts were instrumental in Stephanie's numerous accomplishments. She was an extremely talented young lady whose life ended much too soon. She achieved more in her short lifetime than most of us several years her senior ever will. My thoughts and prayers are and will be with you.

Heidi Tinter

October 12, 2006

I had improv class with Stephanie, which was truly a fantastic experience. She was so talented and fun to work with! I would have loved to work with her again in the future. My condonlences to all of her family and friends.

Faye Jackson

October 12, 2006

Stephanie and I met in NY while working together on a play nearly 10 years ago. She possessed a quality and sense of humor that can only be described as unique and I knew immediately that she was one of a kind. I live in LA now and was lucky enough to spend time with her last Spring during her stay here, and I greedily hoped her career successes would steer her towards LA so that our friendship would grow. I can't believe she's gone. All my deepest sympathies to her family, friends and Phil.

Karen Ogle

October 12, 2006

My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Stephanie was a classmate of mine at Vassar and fellow drama major. We became close our summer at the Vassar Powerhouse Theatre Program. Though we haven't been in touch in years, I recently saw her walking down ninth ave. in NYC and was so excited to see her again. She will be missed.

Charles Colt

October 12, 2006

I knew Stephanie at Vassar where she was a good friend, brilliant classmate and partner in so many wonderful conversations and humorous adventures.

News of her death reached me this morning at work. Later in the afternoon, I hiked up nearby San Bruno Mountain and in my mind I showed her the splendid view of San Francisco Bay. It felt like the best way to grieve and to wish her well. She is in my heart and I know she touched many lives in addition to mine.

Stephanie Marshall

October 11, 2006

I am so sorry for your loss and send my deepest condolences. I went to college with Stephanie; we were both in the Drama dept. (both "Stephanie M."). We worked together a few times in our early post-college years, and after reading about her projects in the Vassar Quarterly last year, I was happy to reconnect with her via her website. I am keeping you and all of Stephanie's loved ones in my thoughts and prayers.

Erika Amato

October 11, 2006

I was a classmate of Stephanie's at Vassar (and a fellow Drama major - class of '91), and I just heard the tragic news. I just wanted to offer my deepest sympathies and condolences to Stephanie's family. I remember her as a very talented woman and an effervescent personality. I know she will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

Pat Laurence

October 9, 2006

In loving memory of a beautiful and talented young woman. Stephanie's friendship and partnership with my son Eliot enriched his life, and ours.

Kate Greer

October 8, 2006

I am so incredibly saddened by this sudden & tragic news. I live just a few blocks from Stephanie & Phil and have known her for years here in NYC. I am a fellow actress and writer and just recently worked with Stephanie and Eliot on their show ENJOY IT. I dedicated my last show to Stephanie. She really was a shining light and I will miss her terribly.

Athena Valverde

October 6, 2006

Diane, I just read about Stephanie, and I am so so sorry for you and Don. I know she meant the world to you and I know how much you loved her. My condolences, Athena and Ray Valverde

Bethany Moore Aebersold

October 6, 2006

Mr. and Mrs. Mnookin -

Stephanie and I went to grade school together and I have many special memories of slumber parties and fun times together. I am very saddened by the news of her passing and will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Bethany Moore Aebersold

Linda Clark

October 3, 2006

You were so supportive of me when Tony died and Todd suffered cardiac arrest that I could feel your empathy, and it strengthened me. No one can truly know or understand what you are feeling now. Call on God each time you need help, which may be every minute. You are a strong, brillant woman; I admire you. Lean on your husband and let him lean on you.
God Bless You. Linda Major Clark

October 3, 2006

Diane..our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief. Our hearts go out to you and your family. Don and Sharon (Wightman) Schowengerdt

Laura Solomon Mardiks

October 2, 2006

I just heard the news about Stephanie. I am in shock. We had been out of touch for a long time, but I am sitting here thinking of the fun, silly and mischevious times we had together in high school. She was a wonderful friend. I can't imagine the sadness you must be feeling. You have my deepest symapthy.

Patsy O'Brien

October 2, 2006

Diane, Donna called and told me about Stephanie. At a time like this, I truly am at a loss for words. I am so very sorry. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Patsy O'Brien

Allen Murfin

October 2, 2006

Don And Diane,

Evelyn and I send our most sincere sympathies to you and please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Please let us know if we can assist you in any way.

We send our love,
Tony & Evelyn Murfin

Disca Ann Kovar

October 2, 2006

Diane, Please accept our sympathy in the loss of your daughter from the Steering Committee of the Research Alum. Association. Disca Ann (McKown) Kovar

David Stern

October 2, 2006

I just heard the news. I cannot tell you how terrible I feel. My deepest deepest condolences. And I wish I could be with you on Wednesday, but please know that my thoughts and feelings will be with you all. I will try to get in touch with you later, after things settle down. Stephanie was incredible. It's such a shock that I'm unable to think. I'm so sorry. David

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