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Julia Gilkey Obituary

Julia Gilkey passed from this life on Saturday, September 7, 2013 at 9:30 a.m. in her home in Bartlesville, Oklahoma, surrounded by her family. She was a resident of Pawhuska, Oklahoma for many years where she and her husband, Wempsey Gilkey, Sr. raised their 12 children and one grandchild.
Julia was born in Okmulgee, Oklahoma to John Armstrong and Dora Jenkins Armstrong. She was married to Wempsey Gilkey, Sr. until his death. She worked at Mullendore Cross Bell Ranch for 27 years. After retiring, she later moved to Bartlesville, where she loved spending time with her family and friends.
Julia was a member of Greater First Baptist Church where she served on the Finance Committee and as the Missionary Chairman. She was President of the Bartlesville City Federation of Colored Women's Association, and was an active member of the Community Bible Study, V.F.W. Post #989, the Ladies Auxiliary, and the Westside Senior Citizens Club.
She was preceded in death by three sons, Jerry Don Gilkey, Wempsey Gilkey, Jr. and Anthony Dean Gilkey; three sisters, Ernestine Jones, Edwina Paxton and Doris Clayton. She is survived by her children, (Billy Joe) and Norma Gilkey, (Betty Lou) and Herbert Bethel and (Earnie Mae) Chappel, all of Tulsa, Oklahoma, (Peggy Diane) and Maurice Roberts, of Houston, Texas, (Margaret Delores) Ashley, of Kansas City, Missouri, (Dora Jean) and Thornton York, Jr., of Bartlesville, (Berna Joyce) and Morris Dyes, of Houston, (Herbert Lawrence) and Tamara Gilkey, of Edmond, Oklahoma and (Julius Grant) Gilkey, of Abu Dhabi. She has 30 grandchildren; 32 great-grandchildren; 12 great-great-grandchildren;
Visitation will be held on Wednesday, from 2:00-8:00 PM; on Thursday, from 9:00 AM-8:00 PM; and on Friday from 9:00 AM-2:00 PM in the Arnold Moore & Neekamp Funeral Home. A Wake will be held on Friday from 6:00-9:00 PM, also in the funeral home.
Services for Mrs. Gilkey will be held on Saturday, September 14, at 11:00 AM in the First Baptist Church Worship Center, corner of 5th & Osage, Bartlesville. Pastor Walter Pettiford will officiate. Interment will follow the service in Memorial Park Cemetery.
Arrangements for Mrs. Gilkey are under the direction of the Arnold Moore & Neekamp Funeral Home. Online condolences may be left at www.honoringmemories.com.

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Published by Examiner-Enterprise from Sep. 12 to Oct. 11, 2013.

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September 14, 2013

TO THE GILKEY FAMILY. I WANT TO EXPRESS MY SINCERE SYMPATHY TO YOU. I WISH I COULD HAVE BEEN THERE, BUT MY HEALTH WILL NOT PERMIT ME TO TRAVEL AT THIS TIME. I LOVE ALL OF YOU. GOD BE WITH YOU..ALL MY LOVE..GROVENIA DOWNS

Bob and Ann Erwin

September 13, 2013

A wonderful lady who raised a fine big family. I will never forget her kindness the many times I spent the night at the Cross Bell. Our condolences to the family and be proud of your mother's caring life.

Lawyer & Althia Jolley

September 11, 2013

Brethren I would not have you to be ignorant concerning those who have fallen asleep, that you sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with Him. For this I say to you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain until the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep. For the Lord Himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God, and the dead in Christ shall rise first, then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air, and so shall we ever be with Him.”

We (my church and my family) are praying for you and your family at this time…………..
Lawyer and Althia Jolley and Family

Don and Dana Duke

September 11, 2013

We want to send condolences to the family. What a legacy this lady left. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time and in the days to come.

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