Betty-Shafer-Obituary

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Betty L. Shafer

Dec 25, 1932 - Aug 13, 2017

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She was such a lovely person. Never an unkind word. She was also the keeper of the Kirkley's. In retrospect I can see how it slowly all began to unravel as she aged. She did her best to keep the Kirkley's united at least once a year. There comes a point where you can only do so much. I miss you Betty. You are a strong woman with a kind heart. Thank you for all that you have done for our families. I miss you. I miss your knowledge, your memories of the family the towns and your laughter....

We are losing the connection that kept us close. I feel that once John Henry's grandchildren are gone so will be our Legacy. How I wish you were here to guide me. I really miss the sound of your laughter. Say hi to Marty. I know your keeping a watchful eye on the little ones.

Oh Betty how I miss you. You were part of the glue that kept the Kirkley's together. You took on the task of the reunions. You were the keeper of our history and now you are gone. We are losing our Legacy and I'm trying to keep it together. I can never fill your shoes. Your love and compassion for people was unlimited. I miss you Dear cousin.❤

Love you and miss you Betty (Bobbi ; ) We think of you and Roy often...until we meet again...

Fondest memories of Aunt Betty and Uncle Roy. I always called them that (even though they were my dad's cousins). So sorry for your loss Chris. You are in our thoughts and prayers. They will be missed.

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Sorry for your lost Chris you're in our thoughts and prayers

SENDING MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS TO CHRIS AND HIS FAMILY. I AM SORRY LOSS OF YOURE MOTHER .

It was an honor and privilege to know and love you and to call you Family...Betty (Bobby) Thanks for all you did for your Family...We love you so much and look forward to seeing you in Heaven

Love always

Alan,Brenda, Michelle, Megan, Makenzie

Obituary

Betty's Obituary

CHARLESTON, IL – Betty Lucille Shafer, age 84 of Charleston, entered into her Heavenly Home on Sunday, August 13, 2017 at while at Hilltop Skilled Nursing and Rehab.  Visitation will be held from noon until 1:00 p.m. on Friday, August 18, 2017 at Adams Funeral Chapel in Charleston.  Memorial Services honoring and celebrating her life will begin at 1:00 p.m. on Friday with Pastor Scott Sims officiating.  A private inurnment will take place in Liberty Cemetery located southeast of Charleston in Hutton Township.  It is requested that thoughtful donations in her honor be made to the Charleston Bible Church.  Gifts may be left on the memorial table at the visitation or services or mailed in care of Adams Funeral Chapel, 2330 Shawnee Dr., Charleston, IL 61920. 

Betty was born in 1932 on Christmas Day in Brocton, Illinois, the daughter of the late Kenneth William and Lucille (Kirkley) Rush.  She married Roy Shafer on December 31, 1961 and they celebrated their Golden Wedding Anniversary prior to his death on September 6, 2012.  She is survived by their devoted son, Chris Shafer of Charleston.  Betty was also preceded by a brother, William “Bill” Rush. 

Betty was employed at Brown Shoe Company in Charleston.  Betty and Roy’s love for children was apparent as they opened their home and their hearts as foster parents.  She was a member of the Charleston Bible Church where she loved working with the youth Sunday School program.  She enjoyed hobbies such as knitting and crocheting, but her greatest joy came from creating a warm and loving home for her family.  Betty’s never ending smile accompanied by her kind and good-hearted nature was shared with everyone she met. 

Betty’s memorial website is available at www.adamsfuneralchapel.com where condolences may be sent to the family by clicking on obituaries.

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