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Beatrice McCarthy Obituary

Beatrice A. McCarthy, Lowell native Beatrice A. (Charette) (Desmarais) McCarthy, 81, of Clearwater, FL died June 23, 2008 in Lowell. She was the beloved wife of William J. McCarthy of Clearwater, FL, and the late Edmond H. "Jim" Desmarais who predeceased her in 1973. At her request, there will be no calling hours. Services have been entrusted to the DRACUT FUNERAL HOME, 2159 Lakeview Ave., Dracut, MA. Following cremation, a Memorial Mass will be held on Monday at 10 A.M. at St. Mary Magdalen Church in Dracut. Those who wish to process to the church together, please meet at the funeral home on Monday at 9:30 A.M. Burial will follow at St. Joseph Cemetery in Chelmsford. In lieu of flowers, the family would prefer memorial contributions be made in her name to St. Mary Magdalen Church, Building Fund, PO Box 100, Tyngsboro, MA 01879. To send an online condolence or for directions, please visit www.dracutfuneralhome.com
Published by Lowell Sun on Jun. 27, 2008.

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Cathie (Gibson) Loughran

July 19, 2008

Bill, Colleen, Stephen, Mary, Moe and Chrissy...I am so sorry for your loss. I just found out today when Chrissy called and told me about Bea's quick passing. Please know that you are all in my prayers and in my heart. I love and miss you all!

June 30, 2008

Judi,

So sorry to hear of Bea's passing. I shall keep you all in my prayers.

Love,
Elaine

Les and April Saland

June 30, 2008

Judi;

I search my heart for words to say that might help ease your grief and pain and I realize there aren't any words to be said right now, but know that there are many who will be praying for you in the days, weeks and months ahead that you will find the strength to make it through this most difficult time. Draw upon the love, support and strength of your family and friends surrounding you now, and hold tight the many precious memories you have of your mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...

Heather Pintal

June 28, 2008

Jim, Michelle & family,
Heaven received one special woman. Nanny will be missed by many.
Our thoughts are with you,
Heather & Eric

George and Lorraine Silva

June 27, 2008

Judi, Rog and Britt
While we don't know the perfect words to say to comfort you, we want you to know how sorry we are to hear of your loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you travel this rough road.

Our Love,

Barbara Molloy

June 27, 2008

Dear Bill and Family,
I will always remember Bea as a vivacious, gracious hostess at your home in La Plaza. What wonderful parties! She was certainly the "hostess with the mostest".
She was also a concerned and thoughtful friend to me during Ed's last days. May God grant her Peace and Everlasting Joy and consolation to you and all the family.
Love, Barbara Molloy

Billy & Joan Hunter

June 27, 2008

To Bill & Family
Words cannot express our shock and saddness when you called about Bea's passing.
We have shared so many good times and have great memories of our years as neighbors at LaPlaza.
You are in our thoughts and prayers, and may Bea rest in peace. Take care.

Tamara Herron

June 27, 2008

Judi, I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Please let me know if there is anything i can do for you.

Sallie

June 27, 2008

Dearest Judi, I am so very sorry for the loss of your mother. I well remember my mother's passing and how it felt. You obviously loved her very much, and I'm sure she knew that.

If I can do anything, please let me know.

Fondly,

Sallie

Claudia Tweed

June 27, 2008

Judi,
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. That is very difficult. I will talk to you soon,
Take care,
Claudia

Patti Campbell

June 27, 2008

Dear Judi,
I am sincerely sorry to hear of your loss; my heart goes out to you.

Caroline Rubenstein

June 27, 2008

Judi - Please accept my condolences and sympathies. You and your family are in all of our thoughts.

Lynn Heckler

June 27, 2008

Judi,
I'm so sorry to hear that your Mom has passed. Let's get together when you get back. Enjoy your family and celebrate the 81 years that your Mom had earth. You will see her again. My thoughts are with you my friend.

Janet & Ralph Till

June 27, 2008

Judi & Roger;

God must have needed a new special angel to help him right now so he called your mother home. May you find comfort in all the people who love and care about you and your family.

Love,

Susan Robinson-Ellis

June 27, 2008

To the entire family. I am very sorry for your loss. You probably don't remember me "The 2nd Street Robinson Family of Dracut", but I feel as though I have been part of your family through the Gilbert's and Charette's all my life. I remember your Mom fondly.

Time will heal your pain. Keep your love for her close to your heart.

Susan (Robinson) Ellis

Connie Hayward

June 26, 2008

Judi,
I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom.
Take care of yourself and your family. Miss you,
Connie

Jacqueline Parks

June 26, 2008

Dearest "Mama Bea" - You were my mentor and beloved friend. I have wonderful memories of our times together--lots of laughs, gossip and naughty language. Your wonderful personality will carry me for many years, and your thoughtfulness in always remembering my birthday with wonderful treats will be something I will miss. I will make your favorite fudge to celebrate your life and salute you with a martini.

My condolences to your wonderful husband, Bill, and your children and grandchildren.

Diane Chapman

June 26, 2008

Hi Judi,
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Daphne Williard

June 26, 2008

Judes,

I am so sorry. Please know you're in my thoughts & prayers.

Carol Crapple

June 26, 2008

Judi - my sincere condolences and let you know you are in my heart, thoughts and prayers. Judi, if there is anything I can do, please don’t hesitate to ask.

Katie Joca

June 26, 2008

Judi - I am sorry for the loss but your mom is in a better place. Good Luck over the next couple of days. Just take one thing at a time and get lots of hugs from Roger.

Matthew Knightley

June 26, 2008

Judi - So sorry to hear about your loss. Her obituary shows how much she will be missed. My prayers will be with you and your family.
Matthew-

Laura Shepard

June 26, 2008

All I can say is that my heart aches for you. I have been without my parents now for almost 10 years and it still is always with me. Just know that you are in my thoughts…

Take care of yourself…

Huma Gruaz

June 26, 2008

Judi – please accept our sincere condolences for your terrible loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you,

Warm Regards,


Huma Gruaz

Shirley Reth

June 26, 2008

OMG. I didn’t know and I am so, so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. God Bless. Shirley

Shirley Reth

Carrie Burns

June 26, 2008

Take care Judi and if there is anything I can do to help please just ask!

Carrie

Renee Robbins

June 26, 2008

I’m very sorry for your loss Judi; she must have been great-just look at you! Please let me know if there is anything I can do anything for you.

Renee Robbins

Jean Whitehurst

June 26, 2008

Judi:
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. I know this wasn’t the easiest time for me when my mom passed but know that you have people here who care about you and if you ever need a shoulder or a place to hide away where people won’t find you at work– you are always welcome in my little place at SendTec. For me, knowing I had friends there for me made all the difference in the world.

If you need anything while you are gone – let me know.

My thoughts will be with you.

Love,
Jean

Erin Dabrowski

June 26, 2008

Judi, my heart goes out to you. At times like these there really aren’t any right words to say, but I just wanted to let you know you’re in my thoughts.

Erin

Casey Wilson

June 26, 2008

Judi,

I am so sorry for your loss.

Casey Wilson

Peg Pinsky

June 26, 2008

Judi, I am so sorry for your loss. I have wonderful memories of both your parents and hope that the many good ones that I have you will also. She was the best!

Hugs and love to you and your family,
Peg

June 26, 2008

June 26, 2008

Bea & Maureen - March 2008

June 26, 2008

Bea & Bill - March 2008

June 26, 2008

Diane Bisson

June 26, 2008

Jimmy and Michelle, there are no ways to express to you how much we loved your Mom. She was a great lady. We will always remember the holidays spent at your house and the love she always shared with everyone, especially your kids. Lisa and Jamie were always so special to her and I know you are proud of this. She always had so many funny stories to tell us and we need you to know how sorry we are at her passing. Please know that you are all in our prayers. P.S. tell Bill, Judi, Brit and Roger of our sympathy also. Love to all of you Diane and Dennis

Bob Wesson

June 26, 2008

I am sorry for the family's loss of Bea. I have many fond memories of the Charette family and our time spent together on Beech street in Lowell. At that time in our lives our families were close.

Lucille Asselin

June 26, 2008

Steve, Linda, Family,
My deepest sympathy in the loss of your Mother/Mother In Law. If there is anything I can do, please don't hesitate to ask. May God give you strength in the days ahead.

Christine Anderson

June 26, 2008

Words are so empty! I share in the loss of your mom, grandmother & great grandmother. My heart and prayers are with you. I'm sure Bea is smiling from heaven. God bless!

Gertrude - Norbert Dobschuetz - Schmieder

June 26, 2008

We are so happy Bea made it home. We already have a void in our lives. I know Bill will be back.

Deb Charette

June 26, 2008

Judy Roger Jimmy and Michele,
I am so sorry for your loss. Aunt Bea will always be a part of my good memories. Every time i brush my hair I think about how she was the only one I let brush my long hair. I still vividly remember crossing the street with brush in hand. She always made me feel a part of the family. My love to you all and my thoughts are with you.

Jeannine Dominique

June 26, 2008

Michelle and Jimmy,

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your dear Mother.

Jeannine, Keith and Greg Dominique

Susan Shindler

June 26, 2008

My condolences on your loss. May you always remember Beatrice in your hearts as she will remain there forever.

Darlene Kazes

June 26, 2008

Judi - please be assured of my love and prayers as you go thru this difficult time. I can only imagine the loss. Please remember to grab hold of the memories that bring a smile to your face while you are shedding tears - these will continue to comfort you and warm your heart. You're in my prayers! Love you!

Judi Erekson

June 26, 2008

There are no words to describe the emotions that ran through me when I caressed your face and held your hand for the last time on Saturday evening. I am thankful God did grant you your last wish and you made the voyage back to Massachusetts before he called you to your final resting place.

You have left behind many memories. You changed so many people’s lives in so many ways. I know one of your greatest joys was to live your life through your granddaughter Britt. May you watch over her from above as she continues on her journey through life so that the choices she makes will make you proud that the decisions you made were not all for not.

Until we meet again.

Your daughter Judi

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