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Shayla Lister Obituary

Shayla R. Lister of Windham, Salem High School student; 15 WINDHAM, NH Shayla R. Lister, beloved daughter of Robert D. Lister of Raymond, NH, and Angela S. (Demonceau) Lister of Windham, NH, died unexpectedly Tuesday, July 8, 2008, at the Parkland Medical Center in Derry. She was 15. She was born in Lowell, on November 1, 1992. Shayla was an Honor Roll student at Salem High School, having just completed her freshman year. She enjoyed art, music and singing. Her dream was to pursue a career in the music industry. Shayla loved animals and cherished her dog, Rusty. Surviving her besides her parents are two brothers, Patrick Lister of Raymond, NH, Robbie Lister of Windham, NH; maternal grandparents, Roland and Joan Demonceau of Salem, NH; paternal grandparents, Robert Lister of Methuen, and Jean Lister of Windham, NH; Godparents, Donna and Thomas Richard of Salem, NH; many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. She was also the granddaughter of the late Doris Demonceau. LISTER Shayla R. Lister, 15. Relatives and friends may call at the McKENNA-OUELLETTE FUNERAL HOME, 327 Hildreth Street from 4 until 8 PM on Friday. Her Funeral Mass will be celebrated in the Immaculate Conception Church, Lowell, at 10:30 A.M. on Saturday. Burial in St. Joseph Cemetery. For directions and condolences, please visit www.mckennaouellette.com
Published by Lowell Sun on Jul. 10, 2008.

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Angela Gagnon

September 15, 2016

Every day without you here is so hard for so many of us. It makes me so proud you are remembered by so many. You thought you were alone with no friends yet as time passes so many come forward with stories that speak to how you touch each one of us. I know you are with us in spirit, forever in my heart. Thank you everyone for sharing stories and remembering my baby.

Tony Karibian

January 8, 2016

I had Shayla as a student. I was just going through some old student work and came across a paper she'd written for me. She was a talented student and the world does miss her. Her memory remains in many ways, with many people. All the best in the new year to us all.

Mom

March 3, 2013

You are always on my mind, always and forever!

Mom

April 7, 2012

Well tonight is the night before Easter morning. I was out hiding eggs today. Couldn't help but remember the Easter morning when Skip for the first time we put him in charge of hiding the egg's. You were so funny both you and Paige went outside and relocated the eggs the he did. You said it was because he didn't hide them good enough, Skip could not believe you actually went out and re hid the eggs for the kids :-) Boy do I miss those days. Happy Easter Shay.
Love MOM

Mom

January 5, 2012

Well last night Paige had her little baby boy! Man you would have been so excited as your brother was last night. Holidays were very hard this year I guess as it always is every year without you physically with us. I misss you more and more each day!!
Love Mom

Roland (Grampa) Demonceau

October 11, 2011

Sad time for the family but I know that you were there to greet your Grammy! She loved you dearly Shay and now you both are together. We love you always.

Auntie Lisa

July 28, 2011

I miss you terribly, the kids talk of you always, oh how much they miss you, we think of you often ...but you know all of that ... always in our thoughts and hearts ...things can never be the same without you here. When you left you took a piece of everyone's heart with you, baby. Until some day when we meet again ... always in my heart. Love you forever, Auntie Lisa, Christopher and Kiana

Aunt Jennifer

July 11, 2011

No, it doesn't seem like this much time has passed. Not much has changed but so much has changed. I am a faithful follower of Jesus & read the Bible daily, grampa Lister has a new puppy & a few new cats, Killy has a new dog, gramma Jean needs back surgery, Uncle Joe is a grandfather, Brittany had a baby girl, your cousin Chris has his own apt now. See, so much has changed. BUT WE ALL STILL LOVE & MISS YOU VERY MUCH. See, NOTHING HAS CHANGED.

Samantha Nalen

July 10, 2011

Shaylaa,
IT hasss beeen 3 years and 2 dayss since you have been gone. We all miss u so muchh. You tought me how to be different and not care what anyone has to say. Everytime i know i am heading over to your house i think i am going to see you but then i remeber this day. I love u and misss you . ALWAYS&FOREVER <3333

Angela Lister

July 8, 2011

Its been 3 years since our lives changed forever. There isn't a day that goes by that I can't help but think of you. Today its a hard day for so many of us as its the day the world lost such an incrediable person. You tough so many of us to be yourself, to never be afraid to standout and its OK to be unique. Most of your closest friends graduated this year and for their finals wrote a paper about you. They each wrote about how you changed their view on life. Because of you I truely believe so many will be better people because of what you represented. I love you always and forever!! Love Mom

Aunt Jennifer Kirlis

April 25, 2011

Well it is Easter. HE DIED AND ROSE AGAIN TO RID US OF OUR SINS. GOD BLESS YOU & TAKE CARE OF YOU. You are missed and loved by everyone. I just know you are smiling down at us all. How did you like my bunny face at the Easter Egg hunt at my church Sat? Pretty cute huh? I did it all by myself. Behave yourself if not we will have to take away your hair rinses!!!
MUCH LOVE
Aunt Jennifer

Angela Lister

April 24, 2011

You are always on my mind and in my heart. We had an easter egg hunt with Rob this morning and it always feels like something is missing, that something is you. I love you always and forever Shay, where ever you are Happy Easter.

Rob Daniels

February 27, 2011

My school years are winding down and I’m off to college soon, and now I think back about my school experience. It astounds me how much of an effect Shay had on me. When everyone is just trying to fit in, in middle school, Shay is herself. She gave me the ability to realize that I too could just be myself, and she is essentially the reason why I am who I am today. Not a day goes by when I don’t think about Shay and how she affected me. I just wish I was able to tell her about the effect she had one me, although I’m sure she sees it every day.

I would rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not. Truer words were never spoken, Shay. I think of that every day of my life.

Miss ya Shay,
Rob

Mom

December 26, 2010

Merry Christmas Shay. This was the 3rd Christmas without you. Reading some most recent entries just continues to show the memories you left behind will live on forever. You tough so many to just be yourself. Not to be afraid to stand out for what you believe in and that its OK to be unique. You will live on forever in our hearts and missed always. Love you!

Allison Asmega

July 7, 2010

Shayla, my stomach dropped a minute ago when i saw on my phone tomorrow is july 8th. i will never forget the many memories i have playing with you when we were young every thursday. i miss them. you will never be forgotten.

It doesn't Matter.

May 16, 2010

Shane, I never knew you. I never really knew you at all. But my friends did, and they told me a lot about you, and I really wish I could have gotten to know you because I know we could have been great friends. My friend still talks about you and she'll never forget you and niether will I. <3 We all miss you <3

samantha nalen

March 11, 2010

Shay<3333
We miss you so muchhhhh. Your will never ever forget you...

Mom

March 2, 2010

Hi Baby
I know by all the signs you've given us that you will always be with us. There is not a day that goes by that you are thought about and missed so deeply. I know you made such a difference is everyone life that knew you while you were with us that I believe in my heart no one will ever forget. Love you always and forever!!

Chelsea Valliere

March 1, 2010

Hi Shane baby. I just want to say I miss you so much and I just wish I could see you.
<3

abby kinser

December 10, 2009

hey shay i come on here sometimes while i'm at school and i'm in computer and i read some of the things that people have said, sometimes they make me tear up cause i think how much fun we used to have when we actually got to see eachother which was never very often. i wish we never would have got out of touch that really hurts when i go back and think about it. i remember the last time i saw you we were like 11 and i remember coming around the side of aunt lisa's house and running over to where you were and we both like tackleed eachother i used to have a picture of it that someone took and we were hugging and smiling, and i remember going to the beach and having to pick a buddy and oyu were mine. i like to look at the pictures from that summer. i wish i could have been there fro you more, i know i missed you birthday on the first i hope it was goood:) i wish i could just see you or something but i know that one day i will and until then ill continue to leave you messages. i love you shay<3
love always,abby

Aunt Jennifer Kirlis

November 3, 2009

Well, my cute little niece. Another birthday. I hope you had a great time when Uncle Herb took you around the world on the Harley. Wish we could have celebrated with you but your birthday will never be forgotten. You are always in our hearts and know you are in good company, happy, understood and helping all the kids of the world in your special way. You help us all keep the faith and know you are loved very much. HAPPY BIRTHDAY HONEY
Aunt Jennifer

Tom, Melinda,Holly Morin

September 9, 2009

Shayla Rose:

Melinda, Holly, and I only knew you as a little girl. I remember your mom and dad being sooo proud of you. Your dad told every soldier in the unit that you would be the first woman president. Your mom would sit and read stories to you and Minda, and you both played in the back yard. Even though I have not seen you since you sat on my lap, and told santa what you wanted for christmas, I will miss you, and will check in on mom and dad for you here and again. I wish we got the chance to know you better as you got older.

Erica Cloutier

August 5, 2009

We still miss you at Quality Music Lessons. I always think about the new music you would have loved to be singing and playing now and how you would probably be writing full songs by now! I miss you.

Shivohn Fleming

July 30, 2009

Hi Shay, I come here and read what everyone has to say to you once in a while. And I think about you always. I always know when you're there whispering a silent hello. I miss you a lot, even though we never got as close after we stopped patrolling the mall together with Kelly every Friday. I still won't ever forget the last time I saw you and you told me how beautiful I looked and all that jazz. You always knew how to make someone smile. I miss you, and the world is just a little less brighter with you gone. I'm so glad that you're looking over me and everyone else now. I couldn't ask for a better guardian angel.

the dress for Uncle Herb's B-day Saturday 7-25-09

July 27, 2009

all your nieces & nephews with you

July 27, 2009

should I read or nap

July 27, 2009

July 27, 2009

My dear niece. I hope you like the plant I left for you. It is soft and spreads out to make a great ground rug. The heart was just for you. I hope you liked that too. We love you honey and miss you. I hope you and Uncle Herb had a great time at his B-day party. I found a picture of the perfect dress you wore for it Sat.
Take care of each other and your grandma & friends. At least none of you are alone. You all have family there to watch over you and keep you company and LOVE YOU.
Aunty Jennifer

B) Gariepy

July 8, 2009

Hi Shay, I'm thinking of you and missing you so much. When I miss you, I don’t have to go far … I just have to look inside my heart because that’s where I’ll find you. Thank you for being you! B)

Angie Lister

July 8, 2009

Dear Shay,
It has been one year since our lives changed forever. With every passing day more and more friends, family, teachers, so many people, reach out to share a story. It makes me proud to know how many people you touched in your lifetime. Never afraid to be yourself. The loss we feel will never go away but I know you are still here with us just moved to a different place in our hearts. I love you so much babe and miss you more than you will ever know. Love Mom

Auntie Lisa

July 8, 2009

Shay, Its been a year and our hearts are still in the same place. We still miss you terribly all of us, everyone who knew you even remotely. I love your sense of humor keep it coming the kids and I get a kick out of your tricks and tactics, how typical of you even from Heaven. Lots of Love Hunney! xoox

July 7, 2009

i sat with shayla at lunch for a semester. that didnt give me much time to get to know shayla, but i stil miss seeing her at lunch eating her bagel and laughing at all our stupid jokes. i know how much it effected our group of friends, which makes me realize the impact she had on all our lives.

rest easy shane.
we miss you at lunch

donovan jones

June 9, 2009

shane,
i just got released from southern medical center. as you probebly saw i hit one of my lowest points yet. and i couldent take it anymore. the worlds so wrong and colorless without you. so i tryied to paint the world red. and using my own body as a paint brush i failed. i love you shane. i did then i do now i always will

sincerly
~donovan jones

Shei Hoarty

June 8, 2009

Hi Shay. Everyone misses you so much. I want to go with Kelly the next time she visits you. I hope that you'll watch over me and my baby while I'm pregnant. I wish you were still around to talk to about the random things we would chat about.
Miss you <3

Grampa Lister's 75th B-day 3-17-08

May 19, 2009

Aunty Jennifer

May 19, 2009

Hello my darling neice. It is summer now. Thank you for all the beautiful flowers. You whispered happy birthday to me. Thank you. It meant alot. We love you and don't drive the angels and Our Lord to nuts with the Boom box and hair color changes. They know who you are anyway. tee hee
Aunty Jennifer

Jennifer Kirlis

March 9, 2009

Hi my sweet niece. GUESS WHAT I WENT AND DID? YUP I had my hair streaked. NO not purrple! Hope you like it. St. Patty's day is coming up. Let Grampa Lister know you wish him a Happy B-Day & keep Uncle Herb down to a four pack of Guinness. We Love you honey.
Aunty Jennifer

caipre jones

March 7, 2009

WOW her death has never effected me more than at this point when i when into school thursday and relised .. i would never hear her beautiful laugh and calling me old for my birthday .. i love you shane

Aunt Jennifer Kirlis

January 3, 2009

My dear niece, I am sorry you will not be with us again for the many holidays and celebrations each year brings. But you will always be with us in our hearts. I feel relieved also that Uncle Herb is watching over you. He is a wonderful man and will make you laugh. We miss you and love you but know you are in great hands.
Lots of love
Aunt Jennifer

Mom

December 23, 2008

Today Shay's Aunt, Uncle and I went to her grave dug out 2 feet of snow and put 2 Christmas Tree's on each side of the stone. I know if my heart she is watching over us and will guide me along the way. This is a very difficult time for many of us & all I can say is she will always be missed but will live on in my heart forever. May her memory live in all of us. I love you my Angel.

Paige

December 20, 2008

To this day i can't believe it. Everyday i feel the same pain as i did that day& evernight the same tears fall. But to know theres an angel to look down on us everyday is what warms the hearts and covers the pain. Even thought i lost my cousin my other half my heart goes out to friends and all of my family. until we meet again shay <3

David, Joan & Killian Franklin

December 10, 2008

Shayla, I hope Christmas is everything you ever hoped it would be where you are now. Merry Christmas.

abby kinser

October 22, 2008

hey aunt ang i kno we left one already but im so sorry about sha. i wish we couldve been in contact more.i miss her and you all

Rachel Marion

September 5, 2008

I only knew shayla from all the times in english class. She was sutch a fun person. Always smileing and sutch. I remember the projects we did and the Romeo and Julliet skits.Thoes where good times. Im so sorry for your loss and when i heard this happend i couldnt believe it... Im still so sad about it. but i just wanted to say how sorry i was.

August 3, 2008

To the friends and family of shayla lister,
I couldn't say that I was well aquainted with shayla, but i really honestly feel for all of those who where close to her. I think this guest book is an amazing idea, look at all the people she affected in her life. i'm so sorry it was cut short. hopefully your fondest memories of her will serve as a reminder of what we where all so lucky to have known.

Rest in Peace, Shane. I wish I had gotten to know you.

Miranda` R

July 23, 2008

Houston, Lister, and Mcgowen family,
We are so sorry about shayla. Niki really misses her. Everybody does. Even with the little I knew about her, I know she will be happy in hevan.
- Mandy

Derek

July 23, 2008

Angie,
When I heard about Shayla, my heart broke in two. I know that there are no words that could ever make any of this any better or easier for you, I just want you to know that not a day has gone by that I have not thought about and prayed for you and your family. I'm sorry we didn't get to go to any of the services you had for Shayla... I hope you understand.
I know you've heard this a thousand times already from everyone, but if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here. I hope you are doing well.
Love you.
Derek

Shawna Colantuone

July 21, 2008

To Shayla's immediate and extended family as well as friends. I am very sorry for the loss of your daughter, niece, granddaughter, and friend. May god bless and help put peace and healing in your hearts at such a difficult time.

Amy, Melissa, Abby, Renea Grove

July 21, 2008

Auntie Ang,
We are so sad to hear about Shayla. I remember when we were just kids and we spent the night in the camper at uncle dino's. Just know that she is with God now and she'll be safe forever.

Lyndsey Schoech

July 20, 2008

To Shayla's family I am very sorry for your loss. I remember Shayla as a little girl. She was always so sweet and friendly. My brother Matthew and her used to be very close when they were little and she used to come over and play in our yard with him daily. I will always remember her big smile and what a great friend she was to Matthew.

kaitlyn Johnson

July 20, 2008

i knew shayla''shane''lister very well we became friends in the beginging of freshmen year.she was the coolest person i ever met. i remember how we became friends. she found out i liked her and we talked and talked and once i got to know her even more she was the sweetest kid ever.and everyday was something diffrent with her. i still think that she is still here you know cuz she never really left.
and i send my sorrys to shanes family friends and anyone else that knew shane.i love you shane lister R.I.P you will never be forgotten.and i made a site for shane the myspace url is itsshaneforever.

Kaitlyn McPherson

July 20, 2008

I hardly knew Shayla, but I know she was an amazing friend, and an awesome person. My friends were friends with her, and all I heard was good things about her. It's hard losing somebody you went to school with, regardless of how well, or how long you knew then. I'm sorry for the family's loss. Rest Easy Shayla.

donovan jones

July 20, 2008

i feel great sorrow for you the family and us the friends i am Donovan jones i went to high school with Shayla "Shane" lister
she was helping me pass my classes ...we would meet in the volpe wing under the stairs and she would explain to me the different forms of math... and ... im sorry ..im sorry for all of your loss
sincerely
donovan "captain" jones

Dorrene Chapman

July 19, 2008

Hi,I'm a friend of Jennifers....I lost a child in 88 she was only 2 mon.3 weeks old....How very lucky you were to have Shayla for 15 years....I think of my Thea every day and with good memories....you have soooo many great memories and they will help you through this difficult time...now she will wait on you...rely on your faith...its the only thing that will get you through....my prayers go with this...Rene

Erica Cloutier

July 17, 2008

I've been teaching Shayla voice and piano lessons for the past two years. I was so upset to hear the terrible news. She was a sweet, funny, talented, and creative girl. We all looked forward to her coming in so we could see what kind of new hairstyle she would have this week! She had a beautiful singing voice and she and I talked often about how much she was improving and how great of a musician she was going to be. She always made me laugh with her quirkiness, the way she would crinkle up her face when she made a mistake at the piano, the way she would say a note was "lame" if it was difficult. She was so much fun and I can't believe I won't be able to spend an hour each week with her anymore. Shayla you are very missed around Quality Music Lessons. I won't forget you.

Wendy Kaye

July 16, 2008

Angie and Bob, I just heard about the loss of your beautiful daughter and I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you. Find comfort in knowing she is in a beautiful place with Gods arms wrapped all around her. She touched alot of people in very special ways and will be missed by all who knew her.

July 16, 2008

Bob and Angie,
I am so very sorry about your loss. Please know that my thoughts are with you.

Kelsey Chase

July 16, 2008

I am so sorry that this happened. I used to be very good friends with Shay, but even though we grew apart, I still had her in my heart. I will miss her so much, not seeing her at school, and I know that you will miss her too. Again, I'm sorry, and I wish that there was something I could do. I hope that it will get better.

skip

July 15, 2008

Angie, the loss of the one that we love has hit me hard, and the love that you have for shayla is ever present on your face,but, please find comfort in knowing that Shay is in a wonderful place, with the ones who will take care of her, and know that I am always here, right here at home, when ever you need a hug to get over the really ruff times. I love you, you and Rob are my life and I hope my love helps to ease the suffering.

Michelle Wright

July 15, 2008

Ang & Bob,
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I haven't seen Shayla since she was my flower girl many years ago, but she was a beautiful little girl and she will be missed.
(Shelley)

John Carney

July 15, 2008

Angela
I am sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you will find comfort knowing that Shayla is with your Mom and will never be alone.

Jean P. Lister

July 15, 2008

Shayla Rose, what a beautiful Rose. It only seems such a short time ago you were born. I remember when you said your first words and took your first step. Time seemed to fly and you were in kindergarden, then grade school and you were taking dance lessons, following your musical urges. As you hit your teen years, you decided to take voice lessons. What an Angelic voice.The good Lord heard this Angelic voice and He decided He needed this voice in his choir. Shayla, Your voice will always be in my heart. I love you,dear. Grammy Jean

Chris Smart

July 15, 2008

Dear Uncle bob and ang. I am so sorry for your loss as well as this families loss. I really wish I could have been around more to be a bigger part of her life. I really never got to know her all that well, but what I did know will stay with me forever as will it with you.

Lisha Hunter

July 15, 2008

To Shayla's family:
Shayla was one of my homeroom students in 7th grade. I have a card that I have kept in my Bible that she had given to me just before I left to have my daughter, two years ago. It was a message of encouragement and excitement about the new baby and also to let me know that she was going to miss me for the rest of the year. It is because of students like her that I thoroughly enjoyed teaching middle school. I enjoyed having her around, because she was not afraid to be honest, she had a lot of spunk, and she was a caring young lady. I will be praying for you all in the days to come. Please know that Shayla had an impact on many people...even her 7th grade teacher!

Love, Mrs. H

Rebecca Connolly

July 14, 2008

To a wonderfully creative girl who was so inspiring. Though we were only friends my first year of Middle School, I still remember nearly everything she said to me because it would always leave me smiling.
Our prayers go out to you.

Shelby Faulconer

July 14, 2008

Shayla's family,
I'm sorry of your loss, but I will always remember her. Shayla was a real genuine friend. She use to make my day talking to her.
She will be missed.

Amanda Racioppi

July 14, 2008

Angie, I remember walking into your office years ago and looking at all the wonderful pictures of Shayla, your "shrine to shayla" I used to say. I am so saddened for you and your family. Please know that your all in my thoughts and prayers.

We Care Pediatrics

July 14, 2008

We are so very sorry to hear about Shayla. Our hearts go out to you and the many people that love her.

Carolyn

July 14, 2008

Dear Shayla's Family,
I am so sorry. I used to talk with Shayla when she was in seventh grade. We weren't close friends, but it still hurts to hear this horrible news. My heart goes out to you.

Jane Cameron

July 12, 2008

Angela & Bob:
I am so very sorry to hear of
the loss of your Shayla.
May your strong family ties and beliefs be your support today
and always.
My deepest sympathy

Monica and Joshua Baker

July 12, 2008

Bob and Angie,
I am so very very sorry for your loss. Please know you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers during this very sad time. Stay strong.

Matt Vincent

July 12, 2008

Dear Shay's Family,
Although i didn't know Shayla alot we went to middle school and High School together and i had her in some of my classes and at one time we were good friends. I am so sorry for what happened and i will never forget her.

Rose Mercier

July 12, 2008

May you take comfort in knowing there is one more angel above us.

Donna (Stephenson) Dube

July 12, 2008

Angie and family,
My thoughts are with you. Draw strength and comfort from all of the loved ones that surround you. Her spirit lives on inside everyone she has touched.

John & Midge Caloggero

July 12, 2008

Dear Bob & Angela, Words cannot express our heart felt sadness for the loss of your Shayla. One cannot understand why the path of life has so many twists and turns where some lead to happiness and joy, while others to such pain and sadness. Our consolation is that we believe in a continuation of our spirit that lives for eternity in the house of the Lord.

Melissa @ Bien Soigne

July 11, 2008

Angela,
I will miss my haircut time with Shayla..she always came in with something new that through me for a loop:)She always knew just what she wanted. Please know she is missed and my thoughts are with you and your family.

Gloria Brady

July 11, 2008

When you perservere through a trial,
God gives you a special measure of insight. You become
the recipient of the favor of God as He gives to you , and those who suffer with you, something that would not be learned otherwise.

He will redeem my
soul in peace from the battle
which is against me,
Psalm 55:18
Angie, you are in my thoughts.
I think of you as "one of the kids".
I love you : Gloria

anonymous

July 11, 2008

I can't express how sorry I am for the loss of your daughter. I will never forget the time we shared together, even at the begining of our friendship I knew she was very special.

Adam (Jesus) Blanchard

July 11, 2008

Words cannot describe how amazing Shane was as a friend. The day we first met is fresh in my mind as if it were yesterday, and I remember how we instantly clicked. Not surprisingly it became clear that our frindship was the highlight of my junior year, if not my entire high-school career. We spent massisve amounts of time together talking about the great and the wierd moments in our lives. It was just that, the conversations, that was the best about you. Everyday you would come to school with a brand new story. Honestly you were one of the best friends in my life, and while I may not show it to others, I will be grieving your death for years to come. Our frienship was an amazing experience full of laughter, that I would relive again without a second thought.

This is for an incredible friend
who will be greatly missed..

Theodore Sattley

July 11, 2008

Angie,

I am so very sorry about Shayla. I remember her very fondly from all of the parties at Dino's house. There are no words that I can use to convey my condolences except to say Godspeed.

karen goodwin

July 11, 2008

ang and bob, donna and tom
i have tears in my eyes for you guys..don't know what to say..cannot imagine..life is so hard..we do not deserve this.

Nancy Rogers

July 11, 2008

Only a few conversations with her but I saw a unique, creative person. There are no words to say to you.

Ally Breton

July 11, 2008

Family of Shayla,
I am so sorry for your loss, I went to school with shayla ever since the first grade. i was in two of her classes. she was such a great girl. so smart and unique. my heart goes out to her for being such a wonderful and strong person. i will always remember shayla as the kind, smart unique girl she was.

Joel Anderson

July 11, 2008

Angie,

I am truley sorry, Shayla seems like a sweetheart.

If you need anything please let me know.

Take care and i hope you are doing alright.

Joel

sarah preston

July 11, 2008

Shay and I were really good friends at the begining of the year and I will never forget how great of a friend she was. She always had a smile on her face and made me laugh til I peed my pants. Every one loved her and will miss her.
I remember the first day of school she sat by herself at lunch so I asked her if she wanted to come sit with me and my friends and she did. Thats how our friendship started.
I love and miss you Shayla.

Sarah

July 11, 2008

Shayla and I were really good friends at the begining of the year, and I dont regret it. She always made me laugh til I peed my pants and was just a amazing person. I know for a fact that she will be missed greatly by everyone. Nothing will be the same when school starts again.
I love you and miss you shayla.

Dianne St.Pierre

July 11, 2008

Angie,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. May the happy memories you have of Shayla help you though this difficult time and the comfort of knowing that Tom will be looking out for her, easy your pain.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Dianne St.Pierre(Relay Team)

Michelle McCorkle

July 11, 2008

I had the pleasure of having Shayla in my 8th grade Language Arts class. She was very intelligent, unique, creative, and had a lot of spunk. I will miss that most. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and close friends. Shayla will probably never know just how many people truly loved her.

Tad Dziemian

July 11, 2008

Dear Angela,

My heart, prayers, thoughts and sympathies go out to you. Stay strong during this difficult time.

Jackie Marsh

July 11, 2008

Angie
I can't even beging to imagine what you are going through. If I could turn the clocks back, both Tommy and Shayla would be with us now. I can only hope that he is watching out for her and that can be some sort of comfort to you. You know that on earth or in heaven Tommy will take care of her. You are in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything I am here and please don't hesitate to ask for anything.

Scott & Lisa Allard

July 11, 2008

Bob & Ang,
We are so deeply sorry for your loss. We know there is nothing we could possilby say or do during this time but please know that we are here for you. We love you and you are family to us.

Laura (Flood) Ostrowski

July 11, 2008

Angie, Bob, and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter, Shayla. My heart breaks for you all. My thoughts are with you all at this difficult time.

christina

July 11, 2008

i knew shayla i didnt go to her school but i met her at the mall a couple times. there she fit in and was well liked. she was reallly funny and kinda shy and was a nice girl. its strange to think she is never coming back, but hopefully i will see you some other day. my condolences go out to the family ofcourse. take care, this is such a tradegy.

Bobby Daniels

July 11, 2008

Shayla was a great person and she will never be forgotten.She could always make people laugh in any situation. She will be missed greatly.

Mysta Frank

July 10, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss.
I knew shayla since 8th grade and I live around the corner from you.
She seemed like such an nice girl.
She will be greatly misses.

Sincerly,
Mysta Frank

Carol Porter

July 10, 2008

Dear Angela,

Shayla was such a special person. She was so bright, intuitive and empathetic. I thoroughly enjoyed talking with her. She was so much older than her age and thought about things so deeply. I am so sorry you are bearing this loss and pain.
I have frequently thought of both of you, and of course Robbie waiting for his Airhead :-). Please take care of yourself and know I am just a phone call away.
Carol

Brian & Tracy Gallagher

July 10, 2008

Angie & Bob
There are no words. You are in our thoughts & prayers.

Wendy (Drew) Hoover

July 10, 2008

My heart goes out to the whole family but especially Bob, Ang and Paige. Shayla was a beautiful girl and always had a smile. I will think of her now holding Brandon's hand. I hope you can all find a comforting peace soon knowing she is being well taken care of and is surrounded by other angels like her.

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