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Ashley
August 21, 2008
Phil, lulu, Jen and Sandra, I am so sorry for what happened to Paul. Words cant explain how much he will be missed by so many people. Paul and I have had many convo's and he always wanted life to be different. He always tried to help so many people in more ways than one to make them happy. I will never forget Pauly and the times we shared laughing at the most random things and talking about anything and everything. Those are the days I will never forget. your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Miss you forever and always Pauly !!!
A silva
August 16, 2008
I love you pauly, you were such a loving and giving kind of person i'll never forget you, smokz , fritty RIP ONLY THE GOOD DIE YOUNG
Jessica Grenier
August 11, 2008
Lulu, Sandra and Jen I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. May you find strength in yourselves and in each other to help you through this trying time. Phil my prayers and condolences are with you and may you all soon find peace. Pauly will be missed.
noelle smith (bursey)
August 8, 2008
to the family ,
my heart goes out to you. paul was a childhood friend of mine. also my daughters step uncle .please except my deepest sympathys.
Jill Mackey
August 8, 2008
Phil, Lulu and the Cote Family,
I couldn't believe the news...Paul was always such a polite young man with the biggest heart. My deepest sympathies go out to your family at this very sad time. Memories last a lifetime, don't ever forget that!
Katie Como
August 7, 2008
Phil....I'm sorry to hear about your brother...he is with Samantha now...I know she will look after him for you...if you need anything gimmie a call.
Cassie Robinson
August 6, 2008
Cote Family,
So sorry to hear about the loss of your son, brother, and grandson. During elementary school Paul and I were in the same class. I remember him breakdancing at Skate Three, dancing at school dances together. He was a blast! He will always be in our hearts!
Tommy Flaherty
August 6, 2008
Dear Cote family,
When my best friend Steve Barter told me about this news I didn't want to believe it. I remember years back Paul was the one who taught me everything I knew about breakdancing. And I couldn't thank him enough for getting me into something I further progressed in. I wish I could have seen him more before this tragedy. My sympathy goes out to Lulu and his parents.
Jillian Tremblay
August 6, 2008
Cote Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Paul was a great friend during my childhood. I will always remember him as dancing with my sister, the neighbors and I in my lawn.
Jillian
Sandi Tremblay
August 6, 2008
I was heart broken to hear of your loss, and can only imagine the nightmare you are going through. Although I hadn't seen Paul in some time, I have the fondest memories of him growing up, of the fun the kids use to have playing tag in the neighborhood and having "dance-offs". Paul was always such a caring, thoughtful kid. Life can seem so unfair. Phil and family, please take care of yourselves.
Jim Nutter
August 6, 2008
Cote Family,
Prayers and thoughts are with you at this time of loss.
Jim Nutter
Alex/Melanie
August 5, 2008
Paul was someone important to me i worked with him fix his first car hung out he was part of my family to me in the heart. last monday he was at my house bringing back memories cause i havent seen him in a while gave him a ride home and told him to stay safe and it kills me that those were my last words and goodbye to paul.pual i hope your safe and hope to one day see you again youll always be in my heart and thought. My sympathy gose out to the cote family. R.I.P my loved friend paul.p.cote aka little paul to me ill miss you brother..
Kate S
August 5, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of paul. He will be missed by many. The pain of this will go away with time. This was something unexpected. My sympathy goes out to the cote family.
Jennifer Vivier
August 5, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Cote family. Paul will always be in my heart.. He was one of my best friends at Dracut Middle. .. I am glad I will have these happy memories of him.. R.I.P Paul Gone But Never Forgotten..
DIANE ACKLEY
August 5, 2008
PHIL AND FAMILY WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. YOUR ALL IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. BUCK AND DIANE
Jason Cloutier
August 5, 2008
I am sorry to hear about Paul, I went to school with him and he was a good friend during that time. My deepest sympathy goes to his family during this tough times
don barter
August 4, 2008
im so sorry for the cote family. unbelievable loss for all of us. i want to say it was a great honor to have known you paul. god bless you man.
Bob Grenier
August 4, 2008
Phil,
I am so sorry to hear of this loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Wally
PETER AND JOYCE CAMPBELL
August 4, 2008
DEAR PHIL AND FAMILY. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME OF SORROW.
SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.
Liane Harvey
August 4, 2008
Phil,
Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and if there is anything you need we would gladly like to help. So sorry. Liane Harvey
Sheila & Bob Sheppard
August 4, 2008
Cote Family, Our deepest sympathy to all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. No parent should have to go through losing a child so young. My son Bobby use to hang around with Paul and they would swim at our house when they were younger. Paul was a very polite and respectful boy then and also as young man. Always a wave or a simple Hello MRS Sheppard as I would pass him. My heart goes out to you and Lulu. Paul will be forever in our hearts.
Robert & Michelle Menard & Family
August 4, 2008
Dear Phil and Family, we are so saddened to hear about the loss of Paul. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Mark Lessard
August 4, 2008
Cote family, we are very sorry for the loss of Paul..I can remember how Paul and Phil (Lulu) taught my 3 boys how to ride a motorcycle in your front yard when they were younger and then come across the street to play hide n seek at nite at my parents house..We are so sorry for your loss...Paul was always respectful and polite..Rest in Peace Paul.........Mark and Debra Lessard and Family
Mike & Cyndi Kenyon
August 4, 2008
Phil and Family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Mike and Cyndi Kenyon
jack j alexa
August 3, 2008
to the cote family , cheryl and i (jack) are so sad for your loss. are prayers are with you and your family. may god bless you all .. love jack alexa.. cheryl prawitz..
Rick Cruz
August 3, 2008
Please accept our deepest sympathies.Paul was like a brother
to me he help me with good times and bad. Love you always Paul your
big brother Rick for ever.
Russell Patenaude
August 3, 2008
To Phil and Family,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family in this time of sorrow. We cannot fathom how you are feeling right now as the loss of a child should not be. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
John,Shannon and Tyler Smith
August 3, 2008
Dear Phil, John and I (shannon) and our son Tyler heard of your loss, We are very saddened for you and your family. Our deepest condolences are with all of you. We remember when the boys (Paul, Phil jr(LuLu) and Tyler) would run around the beach and have a great time in the water at the Fluer De Lis. Sorry again for your loss, if you need anything don't hesitate to give a shout. THE SMITH FAMILY
Kara Grenier
August 3, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. Kevin & I are both having a pretty hard time with this. I can't imagine the pain you must be in. His memory will always be with me each and every day. He has touched my life immensly. Through good and bad he was always there for me. I can't tell you how good of a heart Paul had. He truely was an amazing person & I am so grateful to have had the chance to love him. I know he is happy now and is in a better place with his Mother, Bryan, and Samantha. I'm sure they are taking very good care of him. If there is anything Kevin or I can do.. anything at all.. please let us know.
Janet Andrews
August 2, 2008
Hello Phil Jr, Joey told me about Phil's passing. Honey, I am so sorry for your loss. I know words can not replace what you have lost but, please know you are in my thought's and prayers. If you need anything at all, or just want to talk you know I will be there for you. Please come see me anytime!! Thinking of you always hun. Ms. Andrews
Joanne Champagne
August 2, 2008
Our sincerest condolences,
The Champagne family
scott mackenzie
August 2, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of your loss...the Greater Lowell Tech Family has lost a great student..I still remember many of conversations with your son over his hopes and dreams for the future
Catherine Burgos Hall
August 2, 2008
Hi Phil, I'm so sorry to hear of your son Paul's death. I hope that you will get throu this ok. I'm Shayne's mom and I know how it is to feel your pain. God be with you and your family.
Cathy Burgos Hall
Nicole Jacques
August 2, 2008
It seems so surreal, no words can comfort the space he held in many peoples hearts. I'm sorry for everyones loss, I'm here for you if you need anything lulu.
G
August 2, 2008
all i can say since 2006 this town has been upside with these horrible accidents....i knew paulie since freshman year and he was a great person who was there for ya its such a shame someone so great my heart goes out to his brother and dad also family
Kelley Harmon
August 2, 2008
I am saddened to tears and my thoughts are with the family at this time. I grew up across the fence from Paulys family, his older sister Jen was my best friend growing up and I remember growing up with Pauly, Sandra and Philip (Lulu). My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time, I'm so sorry to hear about this.
Karen Mercurio
August 2, 2008
Phil Jr. I was so so sorry to hear about Paul. You guys have been through so much, it breaks my heart to know pain you are going through. Please take care of yourself and know that I am thinking about you and your family.
stephanie and tina at salon 2000
August 2, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.
Lisa Grimard
August 2, 2008
I'm so sorry to hear about Paul. I can only say I know how you feel. It is so hard for a parent to see their child pass. He is now with Samantha & Bryan. God Bless Paul. Please take care Phil, I'm thinking about you.
Jane Pelland Clark
August 2, 2008
Phil, No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Paul is with his Mom now and is finally at piece. Denny will miss him so much. Paul was always his best friend and he looked up to him as an older brother. Jane Clark and Little Den Pelland
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