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Jeanne D. Kochanek Pelham school cafeteria worker; 60 PELHAM Jeanne D. (England) Kochanek, age 60, a resident of Pelham, NH, died Tuesday evening at Saints Medical Center in Lowell. She was the wife of Francis J. Kochanek, Jr. with whom she just celebrated their 39th wedding anniversary on August 10, 2007. Born in Lowell, February 11, 1947, the daughter of Priscilla (Maille) England, who survives her, and the late Ernest England. She attended Dracut schools, and was a graduate of Dracut High School. Before retiring, she worked in the Cafeteria at Pelham High School for some 20 years. Among her many interests, she enjoyed gardening. Besides her husband and mother, she is survived by a daughter, Paula J. Kamorski and her husband, Michael of Springfield, VA; a son, Francis S. Kochanek and his wife, Amy of Milford, NH; eight grandchildren, Cody F. Kochanek, Connor R. Kochanek, Cooper R. Kochanek, Collin M. Kochanek, Laura R. Kamorski, Leah A. Kamorski, James M. Kamorski and Jacob A. Kamorski; two sisters, Elaine Maguire and her husband, Robert of West Warwick, RI, and Rosie Guertin and her husband, Bruce of West Warwick, RI; a brother, Donald England; as well as several nieces and nephews. KOCHANEK In Lowell, Oct. 23, 2007, at Saints Medical, Jeanne D. (England) Kochanek, 60, of Pelham, wife of Francis J. Kochanek, Jr. Friends may call at the PELHAM FUNERAL HOME, 11 NASHUA RD, PELHAM, NH from 4 to 8 P.M. Thursday. Her funeral will take place from the funeral home on Friday morning at 9 o'clock followed by a Funeral Mass at ST. PATRICK CHURCH in Pelham at 10 o'clock. Burial in Gibson Cemetery. Those wishing may make contributions to Saints Medical Foundation, 1 Hospital Dr., Lowell, MA 01852. Arrangements by Funeral Directors John W. Crane and James F. O'Donnell, Jr. (603) 635-3333.
Published by Lowell Sun on Oct. 25, 2007.

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From your loving daughter Paula... I miss you mom...

November 1, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

Amy Blanchette Fitzgibbon

October 29, 2007

Paula, Frank and Mr. Kochanek,
My deepest sympathies on the loss of your mother and wife. While I remember Mrs. Kochanek from our elementary years and through my early friendship with Paula, I will always fondly remember her from PHS in the cafe.
My hearts go out to you and your families during this sad time. I'll continue to keep you and your children in my thoughts and prayers.
Fondly,

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