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Carol A. Potito lived in Burlington, Foster mother honoree;68 DRACUT Carol A. (Sindoni) Potito, of Dracut, formerly of Burlington and Tyngsboro, passed away Friday, November 23rd, at Lowell General Hospital, after an extended illness, at the age of 68 Born in Arlington she attended Arlington Public School, and graduated from Arlington High School A homemaker Carol along with her husband Ron were Foster parents for many years in the Burlington area, and Carol was awarded Foster Mother of the Year twice. She enjoyed spending time with her family A resident of Burlington for 40 years, Carol and Ron have lived in Dracut for the past year, and in Tyngsboro for 10 years. Beloved wife of Ronald A. Potito, former owner of Rons Mobil Gas Station, Burlington. Loving mother of Carol A. Russo of Derry, NH, Michael S., Suanne M. Sullivan, and Debbi Wheeler, all of Nashua NH, Trisha Conaton of Windham, NH, Stephanie and Matthew Potito of Dracut. Also survived by 12 loving grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews. POTITO Funeral will be held from the Doyle-Lane Funeral Home 171 Bedford St. (Rte. 62/Bedford line) BURLINGTRON on Tuesday, November 27th at 9 am. Followed by a mass of Christian burial at St. Margaret's Church Burlington at 10 am. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend. Visiting hours will be held at the funeral home on Monday from 3-7pm. In lieu of flowers donations in her memory may be made to the Jimmy Fund, c/o Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, 10 Brookline Pl., West, 6th Fl., Brookline, MA 02445-7226, ATTN: Contribution Services or to the American Diabetes Assoc.330 Congress St., 5th Fl. Boston,MA,02210. Interment will be Private.
Published by Lowell Sun on Nov. 25, 2007.

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debbi potito

December 25, 2007

mom,
i know you cannot read this but i wanted to say merry christmas, i love you and i miss you more than anything in this world i wish you were here with me right now but your not, so i need to make the best of it because i know that is what you would want me to do so for now just know i love and miss you very much

merry christmas

love debbi

deb potito

December 12, 2007

hey mom
ya it is me again i thought i would say hello once again, i want you to know that everythings ok we are all missing you so very much and we love you, well we are getting another snow storm this weekend and your not here to see it but i wanted to tell you, but matt and i were chatting online last night and we were talking about how you left me the day after my birthday so i guess i will not forget that huh well i still dont understand why you left us i wish you were here to tell us what was happening because none of us really know but you are in peace now and i hope your doing ok, give us a sign once in a while to say hello
well for now i love you and i miss you alot,

chao for now mommy

debbi potito

December 7, 2007

mom

was thinking about you today as i do everyday and thinking of all the fun times you and i had and just laughing, and your smile i think about it everyday and i miss you so much and im trying to move on with my life because i know that is what you would want not only me to do but the rest of us to and we are getting through this together i keeping thinking of everything i put you through in my life and again i am very sorry for all that i will take good care of alex, he is such a good boy and he is very smart and funny he is a potito through and through, we went to see dad last week and it was the first time i brought him since you have not been here and he walked in of course the dogs jumped on him and he walked in looked in the kitchen and then looked at me i had tears in my eyes but i told him its ok so he went in and saw dad and hugged him, i remind him of you everyday he kisses your picture and says i love you nonny. but i keep thinking i will get through this but i cannot stop thinking about you leaving so soon i keep asking myself why i think we all are actually but i know your at peace now and your not gonna let anyone of us get out of line because your still here in our hearts and in spirit, everytime i close my eyes i see you laying in that thing and it creeps me out because to me that wasnt you, i wish you could tell me what happened. but i guess your mom and dad needed you but we had no warning, but i want you to know i love you more than anything and i miss you so much but i will make sure alex is ok and that he never forgets you ever,
so for now take care of your self and please send me a sign that your watching over me because i need you here ok

so talk to u soon
i love you mom and miss you

debbi potito

December 3, 2007

hello mommy

well we got our first snow storm today, i wanted to tell you how much i miss you and how much we all wish you were here with us, this is so hard with out you, we have been making sure dads ok and we have all been helping him and telling him how much we all love him. so wanted to let you know we are thinkning about you and missing you so much christmas is coming and its gonna be really hard for all of us especially the kids so watch over them and us and give us a sign that your guiding us and watching us, we will never forget you ever we love you so much, so for now take care and keep walking around up there cause we all know your keeping and eye on us, well love you mom and miss you
love debbi

matt potito

December 2, 2007

hey non, its not easy writing this to you... ive been home a few times to hang out with pa and make sure hes ok... i want you to watch over him and the rest of the family.. make sure he stays with us as long as possible.. without you its hard enough making it through the day, without both of you would kill me.. please watch over him and watch over me... i love you and always have and still now i cant believe you are not here with us. its just not the same, please come back and visit us sometime, let us know how you are doing....

i love you nonny, and nevere forget that

love,matty

debbi

November 28, 2007

hi mommy,
hows it going up there i went outside today and looked up and blew u a kiss, well your funeral was yesterday and your wake was monday and you would of been very impressed because all the people there were there for you, your wake was pretty hard to take but the funeral was worse i was talking to you at both and told you i love you i hope you heard me, i think you did. i have been calling dad and he seems to be hanging in it is not easy for any of us but we will get through this pain somehow i keep telling myself your in peace and that your walking now and enjoying life and watching over us and we will never ever forget you ever your our mom your our life but i wanted to say hello again and tell you i love you i put a picture of you in a frame and have it on my tv and alex says i love you nonny and i let him kiss you, so i will see you again someday and we will be together i will take care of you then so for now i love you and talk to you soon

love debbi

Winnie and Nick DeAgazio

November 27, 2007

To the Potito Family. Our hearts and prayers go out to each and every one of you during this difficult time.

john vereker

November 27, 2007

Trisha so sorry to hear about mom.My condolences to you and your family. johnny vereker(ups driver in tyngsboro)

Susan Taddeo

November 26, 2007

My heart goes out to all of you. I never once heard a negative comment come from Carol even when she could no longer walk she was always up beat and had a smile on her face.
When ever I saw her no matter how many years went by she still knew my name and would ask about my daughter by name how she remebered I will never know.
When she spoke about her family you could see the love in her eyes. She is so proud of all of you.
I like to remember her driving around in her Lincoln sporting a look with her jewelry, big hair, sun glasses, nails painted,
a kind heart and her endless energy. I will never forget all the laughs we shared in our kitchen. Carol has touched alot of people and will be missed.

Diane DeAgazio

November 26, 2007

To the Potito Family. I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Mikey Potito jr

November 26, 2007

Hey Non,

There's so much to say, but I don't know where to start. Your the best Grandmother a kid could ask for, your always there for the family, you care about everyone, and your always honest. At least to me you were.-heh- . I just really regret not seeing you as often as I should of. The last thing you said to me still rings in my head and I can't get it out. You said "oh you have a new car now Mikey?" and i said "yeah" and then you said "OH Great! Now you can come visit me all the time now!" That night you passed Non. But now you get to look over me now, all the time so you get to see me still! But if your gonna watch over anyone I think it should be Matt and Eddie, those two are trouble makers.-Heh-. But what I think I'll miss most is the funny little jokey E-mails you sent me, those were a riot!

Loving and missing you always,
Mikey <3

The O'Connell Family

November 26, 2007

Our deepest sympathies to the Potito family.

She will be missed by so many.

Growing up with the Potito family was like our second home, and second mom.

Eddie Sullivan

November 26, 2007

Misses Fletcher(nonny)
Your were an important part of many people's lives. Many of us would not have what we have today if it wasn't for you and I thank you for that. We were all very lucky to have you. Every weekend all my kids would look at Suanne and I and say can I sleep at nonny's because you were loved. I would come to get the kids at your house and sit next to you and talk for hours at a time. I will miss that. Your time here was way to short but what you did for so many people in that amout of time was incredible. Thank you for giving me your daugter to spend my life with and all the many other's that I would not have in my life If it wasn't for you. I Love you and will miss you so very much. Your Son in law and friend. Junior (Eddie)

Robbie / Andre Daigle

November 26, 2007

Nonny,
You were one of the best grandmothers that I ever had, you were mostly there for everything. We all miss you and I wish you were back down here so I can talk to you more than I got to. I also wanted you to know that you were there for every one in the family and you're always going to be in my heart and every one elses heart. I know you're watching over us right now and you will never be forgotten.
Love, Robbie

GRACE TADDEO

November 26, 2007

THE FAMILY OF CAROLE,
YOUR LOSS IS HURTFUL, BUT THE MEMORIES YOU ALL SHARE ARE WHAT WILL CARRY YOU THROUGH, THE GOOD TIMES AND THE BAD, BE TOGETHER AND SHARE THE BEST OF YOUR MOMS LIFE.
AM THINKING OF YOU ALL AS KIDS AND
REMEMBER YOUR MOM WITH ALL YOUR KIDS.

GRACIE

Nicole Conaton

November 26, 2007

To the Entire Potito Family;

We are deeply saddened by the loss of your Mom/Nonny. We know how special she was to all of you, and how special each of you were to her. Keep those memories alive, and know that she is no longer in any pain, and she is skipping through the clouds, watching all of you.

Trish, you know we are here for you!
Love, Nicole, John, Emily and Jack

Debbi potito

November 26, 2007

to my mom

mom i really am having a hard time with this i wish you were here with us. i miss you so much it hurts so much and i dont know how to deal with this mom i am so lost without you i pick up my phone and go to call you but your not even here, why did u have to leave me mom i cannot do this without you mom i need you, everyone one of us is lost and really dont know what to do but we are all here for eachother and for dad, we will take care of him he is so sad he loved you for 49 years.
we will all be at stephs graduation
with her and she knows you will be looking down on her and telling her how proud you are of her mom she loves you as well as all of us you were our life but we also know your not in pain anymore and that your with your mom and dad please give grampa a kiss from all of us
i will never let alex forget you
he adord you as well as all your grandkids but they know your at peace and your ok now

i love you mom and i miss you
i will never forget you

love
Debbi and Alex

Angie Porter

November 26, 2007

To the Potito Family,
My prayers, thoughts and heart go out to all of you. Carol spoke of her beautiful family often and how proud she was of every single one of you. A lady that had words of wisdom, a loving heart and supporting words when needed.

Robert Sullivan

November 26, 2007

Nonny, you will be missed. I'm glad that I knew you. I am so sad for all of you in the Potito family, I know how much you all loved her.

Love,
Robert

debbi potito

November 26, 2007

to my mom who i miss so much and love so much i ask my self what am i gonna do without you, you were my rock when i needed you and i wanted to tell you that i am sorry for everything i have put you through in my life. i know i have told you this before. so i guess i just wanted to say it again. but now i have noone to win things for or call to say hello everythime i pick up my phone i want to call you but i know you wont be there. i am glad we had the chance to have the mother/daughter relationship that we had because i had so much guilt in me for a long time and didnt know really how to deal with it but i knew i had to and i did i changed my life around because i wanted my family and my mom i needed you and now ur gone but i know you will be watching and making sure we are all ok, you loved all of us and we all love and miss you none of us know what we are gonna do without you but what we do know is your are finally not sick anymore and you are with your mom and dad and walking around looking down saying thats my family down there and i need to give them a sign.
say hello to grampa, your mom, nana and papa and father crispo and tell them we miss them well take care and ill see you again someday talk to u later

i love you mom
i miss you
love Debbi

Katie Daigle

November 25, 2007

Nonny,

I don't even know where to start. You where everything to me. You are my favorite person in the whole world. You were like a second mother to me. I could tell you anything and come to you when i didn't know where to turn. When i was little the highlight of my week was sleeping at your house and just getting to spend time with you. As i got older i stopped coming as much and i regret that so much now, i will never forgive myself because i know the time we spent together ment as much to you as it did to me. We used to make sugar free pudding together and decorate those cookies. You used to let me put your legs up on your bed when you went to sleep at night, and play with your good make up when i was little. I was so excited when you moved in with us for that short time. I loved when you took me to Florida it was the best week of my life. You let me have orange soda with breakfast every morning, but you told me not to tell my mom because you knew she wouldn't approve. We went to lego land and i got water shot in my eye because i looked into the hole, you thought it was funny. We went to nickolodean studies and auntie steph got slimed. We had such a good time. I looked forward to every holiday just because i would get to see you. I could sit here and fill the whole book with good times we had together. Nonny i really don't know what i'm going to do without you, this is going to be so hard for me. I hope you're the first person i see when i get to heaven, i know you'll be waiting for me. I love you so much and i already miss you way to much to handle. But your in a better place now and i hope your happy. You can walk now, so when i see you again you wont be able to run over my feet with your wheel chair haha. Tell Grampy i said hi and i love and miss him. I'm not going to say goodbye because this isn't goodbye i will see you again, but until then i want you to know that i will never stop thinking about you. I love you Nonny, more then anything else in this whole world <3

Your Loving Grandaughter,
Katie

Debbi potito

November 25, 2007

mom,

i just wanted to tell you how much i love you and how much i miss you right now and i really dont know how i am gonna get through this but i will find a way. it has been very hard these last couple days not calling you i go to call you and forget your not there. i know that i put you through alot as i was growing up and for that i am very sorry for that. you took my son in for me because i couldnt take care of him and you gave him a great life. i thank you for being there for me when i needed you, the last conversation i had with you was how alex and i were gonna live with you and take care of you i remember you saying to me that you didnt think anyone wanted to take care of you but you were wrong we all did, but now your in peace with grampa and your mom and father crispo and they are gonna watch and make sure your gonna be ok so for all the times you stood by me, for all the trueth that you made me see, for all the joy you brought to my life for all the wrong you made right.

so mom rest in peace, send a sign every once in a while to let me know your watching over me and guide me when i cannot guide my self

alex misses you more than anything but we had a talk last night and he loves you but he knows your in heaven and i told him when u look at the sky and see a bright star thats nonny.

so i love you mom i wish you didnt leave so soon because we all needed you but we all know your not suffering from being sick.
well chat with you later
love you mom
love debbi

Jess Capano

November 25, 2007

Nonny,

You will be missed soo much. you are such a good all around person, you always are thinking of others. I know that we were family by marriage but that doesnt matter because to me we were blood, you are my nonny, i will never have another. There is nothing closer then family and thats what you are. I will miss you. Watch out for us and protect us.I love you.

Love you,
Jessie

Michele (Potito) Lawhorn

November 25, 2007

Uncle Ronnie, Deb, Michael, Suanne, Trisha, and Carolanne,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. You will always have your memories to cherish and share with your families.
My deepest sympathies,

matt potito

November 25, 2007

non,although you are not here anymore.. i still think you are.. i want to call the house and talk to you and see how you're feeling.. i kno youre in a better place now with the people that meant the most, but i still need you down here... you brought me up showed me the ropes, helped me when i was in a bind.. didnt get mad when i got in trouble most of the time.. you were the friendliest most caring woman i have ever known non and i will never ever forget about you.. from the lake house to the lincoln to florida to my senior hockey game that you went to and got to see me play.. i love you so much non and this is the hardest thing i have ever gone through and were not even through the beginning of all of this.. i wish i could have you back in my life and tell you all the little things ive always wanted to say to you and thank you for everything you have ever done for me along the way.. i will take excellent care of pa and the rest of the family for you and i kno you will be looking over me all the time.. non i love you and you will always be in my heart.. R.I.P. 1/19/39-11/23/07 always loved and never forgotten

Madeline Capano

November 25, 2007

To Nonny,
You were a very special person and you will be missed by all. I am so glad that I got to know you and be a part of your family. I hope you are up there in heaven, walking around and feeling good. Maybe you will see my Dad at the golf course. Please watch over us.
To all the Potito's; you are in my thoughts.
Love always,
Madeline

Suanne Sullivan

November 25, 2007

To my loving mother,

You were the rock of our family. Always there for us and our children when we needed you. You were the most beautiful woman I know. Your smile and charm touched lots of people. I love you so much and will miss you as much. You were the light of my life. You will be greatly missed by all but never forgotten in our hearts. The kids are very sad now but know that you will be watching over them always and keeping them safe. Be free now and walk your path for you deserve the peace. You are with your parents now where you once were and we know you are safe there. I will see you again one day behind the gates of heaven, until then.

Love Forever
Suanne

eddie sullivan

November 25, 2007

nonny,

you were the one person everyone looked foward to seeing, and you were always there to see. you had the words of an angel that could cheer up any sad soul. you were always there for me, and for every one who needed it. your were always the helper but never the helped, and we thank you for that. i know now you are in a safer, happier place with your parents having the fun with them that you've always wanted. i will miss you so much, and i always know that you'll be the guardian angel i have watching over me!

love your grandson,
eddie

Tom and Beth Conaton

November 25, 2007

To the Potito Family,
You are in our hearts and in our prayers during this difficult time. Your mother was a wonderful, loving woman who always had a smile and a hug for us whenever we saw her. We know she will be dearly missed by many.

Suanne (Potito) Sullivan

November 25, 2007

My Mother, what to say. She was a wonderful person and a beautiful woman. She was a great mom, wife and grandmother. She loved spending time with her family. She was referred to as mom by more than just her own children. All of her grandchildren adore her. While my father was working hard to support his family she was the rock. She played with us, she took care of us, she had fun with us, she cooked, she cleaned, she gardened, she shagged us everywhere. She was a great hockey mom. She supported all of us in what ever we did. All of our friends wanted to hang at our house because they loved her. She became a foster mother and took in several unfortunate children. She adopted my sister Stephanie, now 22 and about to graduate from college, after having her from birth as a foster child. When dad said no, mom said yes. We spent lots of fun summers at York Beach with my mom. We spent lots of fun summers at the lake house as well. She loved the ocean and the beach. She was the light of my life.

I LOVE YOU MOM. You will be greatly missed but always remembered in our hearts.

Suanne

matt potito

November 25, 2007

hey non, how's it going up there? it's not going so well down here,for me at least..you left us so sudden non and we didnt really see it coming... you were the one person in my life i could tell just about anything, you had all the answers and knew what to say at anytime to cheer me up or push me in the right direction. i know i did some messed up things and stuff i shouldnt have done and maybe hurt you in some way and i wish i could go back and change all of that.. everyone down here misses you non and we were so glad you were there on thanksgiving with us one last time, it was so nice to see you with the family. all the good times we had together will never be forgotten and i will certainly miss you more than anything and i wish i could take your place it just wasn't your time, to me at least i still need ya down here to guide me through and i like to think you still will from up there..so until i see you again non take care you will never be forgetten we all love you non.. watch over us... love you
1/19/39-11/23/07

Philip Sullivan

November 25, 2007

Our deepest sympathies to the Potito family. Our thoughts are with you.

Tiger and Amanda

Trish Conaton

November 25, 2007

Mom,

I want you to know that I love you sooooooooo much and I will never ever stop thinking about you. You were there for me every step of the way and you are the most amazing woman. You were my life and I am going to miss you terribly. the memories are going to be here and we will think of you every day. The kids already miss you so much and abby talks to you and blows you kisses all the time. They will miss their nonny so much but I told them that you are not sick anymore and that you can walk now and enjoy your mom and dad in heavan. Your parents are so very lucky to have you back. I will talk to you later

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