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Kimberly Anne Partyka Hancock

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Kimberly Anne Partyka Hancock, 45 DAVIDSON, N.C. -- Kimberly Anne Partyka Hancock, 45 of Davidson, N.C., died Thursday, Feb. 26, 2009 at Carolina's Medical Center, Charlotte following a long and courageous battle with cancer. She was born August 19, 1963 in Landstuhl, Germany daughter of Judith Russell Partyka of Sarasota, Fla. and the late Dr. Kenneth M. Partyka. Kim was a 1981 graduate of Greely High School in Cumberland. Kim's career as a nurse took her to the surgery department at Carolina's Medical Center, NorthEast in Concord, as clinical director of surgical services. She received her Bachelors' of Arts degree in Nursing from the University of Vermont and her Master's Degree in Health Administration from Armstrong Atlantic University in Savannah, Ga. She was a Captain in the US Army stationed at Eisenhower Medical Center, Fort Gordon, Ga. during the Gulf War. She and her husband enjoyed Ballroom Dancing, traveling and most of all spending time with their family. She is survived by her husband of 22 years, Dr. James E. Hancock, Jr.; two sons, James E. Hancock, III and Steven Daniel Hancock; two Sisters, Tracy Vaughan and husband Christopher of Richmond, Va., Jennifer Low and husband Edwin of Falmouth, , and brother, Daniel Partyka and wife Erika of Las Vegas, Nev; paternal in-laws, Captain James E. and Barbara Hancock of Springfield, Va.; and a sister-in-law, Joan Smedberg and husband Bill of Fairfax Station, Va.; six nieces and nephews also survive. A Memorial Service of the Celebration of her life will be held 4:00 p.m. Sunday, March 1, 2009 at Whitley's Funeral Home Main Chapel conducted by Rev. Randall Clark, chaplain at Hargrave Military Academy. A reception will follow the service in the Whitley's Funeral Home Annex Chapel. Online condolences may be sent to www.whitleysfunerahome.com. Whitley's Funeral Home is serving the family of Mrs. Hancock. The family requests that in lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to: Development Office ATT: Susan Lambert Hargrave Military Academy 200 Military Drive Chatham, Va. 24531 Kimberly Anne Partyka Hancock


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Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Mar. 2, 2009.

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Mary Pols

March 12, 2009

I am so sorry for your terrible loss. I worked with Kim many many years ago now at Sebasco Lodge in Maine, where she was the best waitress in the dining room. Her quiet competence and strength was remarkable even at 21. I am so saddened that she is gone from this world. All best to her whole family.

Beth Verrill DeLong

March 5, 2009

Dear Tracy and families of Kim,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Kim. I have wonderful memories of Kim's smile and energy. The wonderful "big sister" I was in awe of her dives and swimming ability. I'm pleased to have a glimpse of her life. She was an accomplished woman, who touch many lives.

Love, Beth

Carol (Walker) Gibbs

March 4, 2009

Mrs. Partyka, Dr. Hancock and families - My sincere sympathy to you all. I think of Kim's happy smiles, laughter and wit. It is nice to read that she shared that with everyone after high school. And ballroom dancing - that's great! Such a great spirit, such an unfairness. My prayers are with you all. God bless.

Mike Violette

March 3, 2009

Judy, Tracy, Jen, Dan (and all the spouses and nieces and nephews) and to the Hancock Family - My thoughts are with you all at this difficult time, and Iam certain that the memories that Kim provided for so many throughout her travels will help to comfort those closest to her. My recollections of growing up around Kim bring fond thoughts ... I wish you all the best.

Scott Holdsworth

March 3, 2009

Saddened by the loss. It is startling at how quickly time passes; In my mind, Kim will always be a 13 year girl playing in the attic over the garage at the house on Blanchard Road. Thinking of you in your time of loss.

Renee (Violette) & David Daniels

March 3, 2009

Mrs. Partyka, Tracy, Jennifer, Dan and the Hancock Family - I was sorry to hear about the passing of Kim and know she was a wonderful individual who touched many lives. May you celebrate Kim's life, and may those beautiful memories find you some comfort. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time. God bless.

Linda Momborquette

March 3, 2009

Tracy, Jen and Partyka/Hancock Families
I am so shocked and sadden to hear of Kim's passing. I know from our years together in Cumberland what a wonder sister, daughter and friend she was to so many. Please accept my condolences and love. Linda

nancy mason

March 3, 2009

Judy, Tracy, Dan, and Jen ... my heart is breaking for you and for Kim's family. Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you. I was just recently looking at pictures of Kim at our wedding, she was 4 years old that day. She did a great job as flower girl! I have wonderful memories of Kim as she grew from a little girl into a young lady. I was happy to read about her life as an adult. She was a remarkable person and touched many lives. Although I’d not seen her (or any of you) for many years you are all a part of my life.

Joan & Berd Phillips

March 2, 2009

Dr. Hancock
You are such a special dr. You have tried so many times to help me with my pain and agony.Physical pain is really a drain on your life,but you are dealing with a greater pain right now and I pray God will comfort you and your family at this very difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Dana & Robyn Violette

March 2, 2009

Tracy, Jennifer and the Partyka/Hancock families:
Our most sincere condolences for the loss of Kimberly. We are thinking of you and sending our love. Godspeed.

Karen Chow

March 2, 2009

Dear Dr. Hancock and family,
Kim was such a smart, caring person who always had such a great laugh, a smile on her face, and such a great attitude about life, even after the original diagnosis so many years ago. She was a brave soul, a lesson on how to carry on and treat every day as special. I'll never forget the sound of her heels coming down the hall at work, for I always knew a kind word, even a simple "hi" came with them. She was a great woman, wonderful mother, wife and nurse, and she will definitely be missed. Much love to all, but especially the boys. It's hard to lose a parent so young. I've been there. Just keep going - that's what she'd want.

Tom Sikes

March 2, 2009

Jim and Family,
Carol and I have you in our thoughts.

Joannie Ingraham Hollis

March 2, 2009

Dear Jen,Tracy,Dan, Mrs. Partyka~
I am very sorry to hear about Kim. I was so sad to read about her. I quickly remembered all the great times I was part of with the Partyka family, back when...in my memory, she was such a vibrant spirit. sending love and sympathy to you all,

Lee&Karen Barry

March 2, 2009

Ed, Jen and family~ We were so sorry to hear this news and are so sorry for your loss. Keep up your strength and please know that we are here for you. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Love Lee and Karen

Carolyn Bruner

March 1, 2009

Dr. Hancock,
I was so sorry to hear about your wife. I didn't know her but heard she was a wonderful person.I know that you and your sons and family will miss her terribly. She is in a wonderful place now and no more suffering. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Carol Rowland

March 1, 2009

Dr. Hancock and family,
Kim was truly a special person. She was always there to lend a hand and give all the nurse's guidance. I will miss her smile and her kind ways. May God bless each of you and give you courage during this difficult time.

Jane Thompson

March 1, 2009

My Dear Kim,
I am so sorry that we never had a chance to meet. I know that I would have liked you. I have come to know you through our children. That speaks volumes. We are our kids.....
My name is Jane Thompson, I am Kelsey Thompson's mother. She is seeing one of Stephen's friends, Colter. You were planning to meet her at school in a few weeks. From what I have learned, I am sorry that she never got that chance, I think she would have been the better for that. She thinks a lot of your son. She said that he was going to East Carolina, that is where she plans to go. If so, I am glad that she will have a friend. Your husband spoke to me in length the other day and made me feel so comfortable in turning my daughter over to you for the weekend. I really know that we would have gotten along. Kim, I feel that I am the worst for never meeting you. I realize that this may not be the place to say these things however I want you and your family to know what a testomony and legacy that you have left in your family. May you rest knowing that they are strong. God put you in our lives at the last minute for a reason. I thank him for that. Even though we may not know what God's plans are there is a reason.

Maria Gove Tringale

March 1, 2009

Kim was a wonderful friend to grow up with. Our family trips were so much fun and still something the Goves all refer to as highlights and adventures. There was always so much laughter. Kahtadin and skiing at Mt. Abrahms! Kim was fun, thoughtful and always true to herself. She will be missed--though her spirit will live through all those whom she touched. My heart goes out to her family.

Angie VoyleS

March 1, 2009

Dr. Hancock and boys, It was a terrible thing to hear of Kim's passing. I was only able to know her a short time but I quickly came to realize that she was and will always be a remarkable person who will never be forgotten. We all will have a piece of her in our hearts that we will think of her and smile often. She will truely be missed. My family will continue to keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Kelly Burton

March 1, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. We know that the wonderful memories you and the boys' have will bring you much needed comfort.
We only had a chance to meet and be around Kim that one day at the Citadel, what a wonderful person she seem to be.
I know she was proud of her boys.
We will be seeing Jim (Jimmy) at the Citadel. I hope he will call on us if he needs anything.
We will continue to pray for you all.

The Burtons
Anderson, SC

Charlotte and Gary Barringer

March 1, 2009

It was with great saddness that we learned of Kim's passing. Kim showed a zest and love of life and family that was unequalled by any other. Her legacy is in Jimmy and Steven. Her life continues in all of your hearts.

Angie Pennington

March 1, 2009

We just wanted to let all of the family know that our thoughts and hearts are with them. Kim touched everyone's lives in such a unique and special way that words cannot express how much she will be missed. The sorrow of the faithful is not that of permanent loss, but the tender sense of sadness that comes in saying goodbye for now to someone we love. May today's sorrow give away to the peace and comfort of God's love.

Daphne Hayes

March 1, 2009

Dr Hancock and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Kim was an exceptionally wonderful and caring person. She was loved by so many and will be dearly missed.

Honesty

February 28, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Todd Booth

February 28, 2009

I can honestly say that the world was a better place because of Kim Hancock. What an awesome, accomplished individual. To think of the countless number of lives that was touched and helped by Kim is truly amazing.

Dr. Hancock and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of sadness. Jesus is there for the asking. When you look back over this time, you will see that He carried you.

Jennie & Lew Gravis

February 28, 2009

We are so saddened by Kim's death. I really loved Kim and all the wonderful chats we used to have when we were out in the yard. She had so much courage and always smiling and upbeat. I don't believe I ever heard one complaint from Kim. Jim, we are right here next door to you, and if you ever need anything, please don't hesitate to call. We're here most of the time and would be happy to let Bear in and out, get the mail,or anything that could help you out. Please call on us when you need something.
You and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers, and Kim had been in our prayers for some time.
May God bless you all.

Jennie and Lew

Dari Caldwell

February 28, 2009

It is an honor to have known and been touched by Kim. She was such a wonderful person, and professional nurse and manager. I could always count on her genuine desire to push for the best for her patients. Her smile could light up a room, and I remember how she cherished and loved her children, as we would often compare notes on raising "our boys". She put everyone before herself, and gave more to the world in her shortened lifetime than most who live to an old age.

Teresa Jordan

February 28, 2009

I only knew her a short time but I will never forget her smile.my prayers are with your family

Kathy Langlais

February 28, 2009

Dr. Hancock, I am so sorry to hear that Kim has passed away. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and know that your pain clinic family is here for you.

Jodie Boyd

February 28, 2009

I am so sorry to hear about Kim. She was such a nice lady and I always enjoyed seeing her smiling face. It always made me feel good because Kim would make it a point and go out of her way to speak to anyone. She was such a pleasure to be around and know and she will be greatly missed. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you.

Julie Severt

February 28, 2009

Kim was not only an awesome manager, she was my friend and mentor. I loved her so much and she was always there for me when I needed a shoulder or advice. She was TRULY a wonderful human being with a HUGE heart. I will never forget her. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Patsy Bankhead

February 28, 2009

Dr. Hancock,
I'm so sorry to hear about Kim. I will remember her as a fun loving always laughing and ready to work in the O.R. Kim was always ready to help and show you how the job was done. I know she will be missed in your life and in our OR family life. Dr. Hancock I pray that God will Bless you with peace in the time of your storm, I pray He will comfort you when you cry. Dr. Hancock keep Him first and trust in His word and I promise you He will lead you and guide every step of the way. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
God Bless
Patsy G. Bankhead

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