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Frederick Butts Obituary

Frederick Butts Jr., 72 PORTLAND -- Frederick Butts Jr., 72, passed away peacefully during the afternoon of March 1, 2009, at the Gosnell Memorial Hospice House with his wife Evelyn and their children holding him closely. Frederick Jr. was born in Portland, the proud and adventurous son of Frederick Butts Sr. and Marie (Landry) Butts. Frederick attended St. Patrick's Catholic School, and went on to graduate from Cheverus High School in 1955. He joined the U.S. Marines shortly after to serve his country and see the world. It was here in his two years with the Marines that he cultivated his first passion in life, Boxing. Freddie was never one to fight much out of the ring, but he carried a deep passion for boxing through many years, peaking with a North East Welter Weight Championship title around 1962. During his rising career as a fighter, Freddie met what would become his life partner and soul mate, Evelyn Ricci, a daughter of James and Julia Ricci. It was this junction that sparked Freddie's truest passion in his life, his family. He married Evelyn in August of 1963 in a ceremony filled with love and laughter. In December of 1964, Freddie and Evie started their family with their daughter Julia, followed by Frederick III and Mary Ann. Freddie and his surviving wife Evie, lived their lives with the tender and complete devotion of love to one another and their children. Before he married Evie, he started what would be a 22-year career working for the Portland Fire Department, protecting the citizens of Portland. Here he made lifelong friendships with many of his fellow firefighters and police officers as well. He enjoyed the camaraderie and endless opportunities to pull practical jokes on his co-workers, as well as being deeply involved in all the department sporting teams. Near the end of his career, he was elected to the position of Fire Department Union President with the aspirations of making the work environment and benefits better and safer for the men serving the safety of Portland. Freddie concurrently worked another full time job at St. Johnsbury Trucking Company so that his wife Evie could be home to love and raise their three children. Often at the total dismay of all that knew him, Freddie would cram over 80 hours of work into his week, so that he could give his wife and children the life he wanted for them. In spite of these arduous work hours he somehow managed to always be there when needed as a husband or a father. He loved late nights of dancing with his wife Evie and their friends, and playing with his children during every spare moment he was had. For many people, working like this would have seemed unfair, but for Freddie the opportunity to selflessly give to his family filled his heart with more love then anything in the world. For Freddie, Frederick Butts Jr. his whole world revolved around his family. In Freddie's later years he and the rest of the family were blessed with the addition of the first grandchild in the family. In January 2001 Freddie's daughter Mary Ann gave birth to Ella Julia Butts. Ella fast became the light in Freddie's and the whole family's eyes. Ella has brought the whole family so much happiness and laughter as only a child can. She will continue to carry her Papa's spirit long into the future of the Butts family name. Freddie Butts led his life with the most admirable set of principles, and spent so much of his life trying to put a smile on the faces of those he loved and cared about. He left a mark of sincerity and compassion on all that he encountered. He is the life's hero of his family and is now their protector from above. Freddie was predeceased by his brother Mossy and wife Vicky. He is survived by his sisters Dotty Connolly and husband Ed, Jeanette Holmes, and his brothers Gerry and wife Nancy, Tommy and wife Lisa, and Johnny and wife Donna. All the Butts children grew up in the Libby Town area of Portland, and shared in the love and growth of Freddie and his family throughout his life. Freddie would want to make sure special mention was given to the family of Evelyn (Ricci) Butts whom he shared so much of his life and love with. He was especially grateful to Marry Ricci for her never ending care of him and his family throughout his life, as well as Evie's other siblings, James Ricci, Dolores Sylvester, Patrick Ricci, Helen Guimond, preceded by Ann Guimond and Ursula Carson. Our family would like to extend our deepest thanks and appreciation to all the staff at the Gosnell Memorial Hospice House. They provided us with the most precious and tender experience we could have ever wished for in the passing of our father. A visitation will be held from 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. on Friday, March 6, at Conroy-Tully Crawford South Portland Chapel, 1024 Broadway, South Portland. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 1 p.m. Saturday, March 7, at the Cathedral of Immaculate Conception, 307 Congress St., Portland. Online condolences may be expressed to the family at www.ctcrawford.com. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to: Gosnell Memorial Hospice House 11 Hunnewell Rd. Scarborough, Maine 04074 or The Salvation Army Portland 297 Cumberland Ave. Portland, Maine 04101


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Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Mar. 4, 2009.

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Dan & Mary (Foley) Sylvester

March 9, 2009

Dearest Evie & family,
Our most sincere sympathy upon hearing of Freddie's passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
God Bless.

Carole ann Tanerillo

March 9, 2009

Uncle Freddy will live on in my happiest memories as will my awsome cousins and family.I am blessed to have the love of such a wonderfull man like Freddy Butts and the Ricci clan.

Donald Campbell

March 9, 2009

Dear Butts Family,
My wife and I are very sorry to hear of Fred passing to God's hands. We grew up in Libbytown with Fred and were very fond of the whole family. He will be truly missed by all.
Sincerly,
Don and Cathy (Foley) Campbell.

Pat Guimond

March 8, 2009

Evie and family
My thoughts and prayers are with you . May God fill you with all of His
love and peace at this time. Remember the happy times and this will help you through this time of your life until you are with Fred again!!!!
God bless!!!!

Pat Guimond(Markley)

Pat Guimond(Markley)

Joe Jackson

March 7, 2009

Evie,Jules,Mary and Fred. So sorry for your loss. Very honored to have known him. He always made me feel very welcomed in your home. And was always on the ball with a good joke everytime. He will be missed and always remembered. Your ol' friend.....Moonie

Deirdre Johnson

March 6, 2009

Dear Evie, I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband.You took great care of him and always spoke of him with such love.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

henry minervino

March 6, 2009

pat and I are so sorry to hear about fred. we know how much he will be missed by all the people whose lives he touched.

Paul Reny

March 6, 2009

Little freddie,to you and your family I am sorry for your loss of a great dad. I remember,I remember. We had great times as kids,the one I will always remember is him saving me from the abandoned home by the old shoe shop,we got in trouble for that,from that day on he was that young childs hero. Paul Reny

Steven & Gail Landry

March 6, 2009

Please accept our heartfelt expression of sympathy. We are so sorry we can’t be with you at this time of grief to offer in person our condolences and healing hugs. Though the sudden loss of dear Freddie is profoundly felt, we are comforted and blessed by having known him and delighted in his love, laughter, strength and kindness over the years. The memory of his twinkling, laughing eyes will pierce the sorrow of the days. We trust in God’s grace and know your sweet Freddie is going on in his spiritual life—in the happy company of loved ones gone on before. Truly he and they live on in our hearts and in God’s heaven.
Please know you are in our prayers.
Love always,
Steve & Gail

Carol Murray

March 6, 2009

Julia really sorry to hear about your father. My prayers are with you and your family.

Jerry & Annette DiMillo

March 5, 2009

Annette and I were very saddened to hear of Freddy's passing. We are in Florida and were visiting with the Murdocks and Libbys. We talked the afternoon away about the joy of working with Freddy. His humor, his positive outlook on life and the love of his family were always visable and worn on his sleeve for all the world to see. We told some very funny stories today and I know Fred was right there with us. Our love and sympathy goes out to Evie and your children. And may Fred rest in the peace and comfort he so richly deserves.

Greg & Bernadette(Connolly) Jones

March 5, 2009

Evie, Julie, Freddie & Mary Ann,
Uncle Freddie was full of love and fun and merged them in an amazing way. He welcomed everyone into his family, very much like his father did years before. I have so many fond memories that I will hold close to my heart forever, most important is that my husband Greg Jones and I were blessed to have Uncle Freddie perform our ceremony when we we married, almost 13 years ago. To have him standing in front of us on the most important and wonderful day of our lives made it all that more special. We will hold this memory and the advice he offered close, and never forget all he did for us. We will miss him, but will hold him in our hearts forever. We send you all our love and prayers.

Christin Huffmire

March 5, 2009

I am very saddened to learn of the passing of Fred. I have very fond childhood memories, as I too, am one of Moe's stepchildren and Fred and Moe looked so very much alike. Moe would tell us stories of his brothers and their childhood which brought him great joy. Fred will be missed by many. My sympathies extend to Eva and family in your time of sorrow and loss. Many Blessings to you all-

Brenda Stauffer

March 4, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of Fred's passing. I had the pleasure of being one of his brother Moe's stepchildren and remember visiting his Maine family. I feel fortunate to have met and known the extended Butts' family. I hope Fred and Moe enjoy meeting again in heaven. They must have a lot to catch up on! May God comfort you, Evie and family and the happy memories last forever.

Don & Nancy Murdoch

March 4, 2009

Dear Evie and family,
Our hearts go out to you in this time of deep grief. We are currently in Florida and are sadden that we cannot be there to extend our sympathies to you and the family. We will always remember Freddie's endless energy, dancing to all hours at the fire dept.s dances. Don often reminisces about the jokes he & Freddie played on each other in the fire dept. He was loved by all and will be sorely missed.
With our deepest sympathies,
Don & Nancy Murdoch

jean & bill giroux,jr

March 4, 2009

our deepest condolences to evie and the family, sorry we can not attent service as we are in florida...may god bless

Joseph (Skip) Libby

March 4, 2009

The last round is over and the bell has been rung And the champ has been laid to rest. Fredrick Butts for all those who knew him they are truely blessed to have had the honor to have know such a wonderful and humerous person. I'am one of the lucky ones to have been able to say I knew Freddie and grew up across the street from him. My prayers to his lovely family he his with God now.

Walter& Judy olsen

March 4, 2009

Wally and I send our deepest sympathy to all your family.
We are sorry we cannot attend the funeral as we are in Florida.
God bless

anne sabourin

March 4, 2009

with depest sympathy to the butts family.

Jean McCurdy

March 4, 2009

Evelyn, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sending a hug your way. God Bless

Jean McCurdy

The Staff of Interim Healthcare

March 4, 2009

Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Jessica Butts

March 4, 2009

Oh.What to say about this beautiful man?
I was so very blessed to have him as my loving,sparkling,joy-filled uncle.
Growing up he,Evie,his children and the whole Ricci clan were a part of my holiday tradition.
I've spent all week remembering him(both happily and tearfully) at the head of the table looking at his wife and children with so much happiness in his heart it was contagious.
He built an amazing family with Evie that made everyone feel lucky to be in their presence.
On Fourth of July it was always Uncle Freddy that got the kids together for the silly backyard games,Freddy laughing just as much as the kids while water balloons sailed through the air.
I'm so grateful for the time I had with him and the gift he gave me of not only his immediate family, Evie,
Julie, "Little" Freddy, Maryanne and Ella but also my "Italian side," the Riccis.

I miss him terribly already and wish I could have spent more time in Maine with my family these last few years.
I love you all,
Jessica Butts and Ivy (Butts) Alan

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