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John H. Foster, 70 WESTBROOK -- John H. Foster, 70, of Graham Road, passed away peacefully on Sunday, March 8, 2009, at the Gosnell Hospice Home in Scarborough, with his family by his side. He was born in Westbrook, the son of John C. and Bertha Charland Foster. John was raised in Westbrook and attended St. Hyacinth School and Cheverus High School. He later attended St. Francis X University in Nova Scotia. John worked for many years for Jordan Marsh and Strictly Formal, retiring in 1999. He also served in the Air Force. He was a member of St. Anthony's Church. He was active in the church, volunteering for the Soup Kitchen and the Decorating Committee. He was a member and past President of the Holy Name Society. John enjoyed gardening, walking on the beach and the lake. He especially enjoyed spending time with his family, especially his grandchildren. He is survived by his wife Janice Galloway Foster of Westbrook; a son Brian of Portland, two daughters, Beth and her husband Eric Busque of Westbrook and Allison Foster of Merrimack, N.H.; two grandchildren, Ashlyn and Andrew Busque; two aunts, Theresa King and Harriet Charland; a dear cousin Jean Kein; and various nieces, nephews and cousins. Visiting hours will be from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. Wednesday at Blais & Hay Funeral Home, 35 Church St., Westbrook. A memorial Mass will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Thursday at St. Anthony's Church. Interment will be at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to: The Gosnell Hospice House 180 U.S. Route 1 Scarborough, Maine 04074 or to St. Jude's Children's Hospital 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, Tennessee 38105 John H. Foster


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Published by Portland Press Herald/Maine Sunday Telegram on Mar. 9, 2009.

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Leslie Runser

March 25, 2009

Dear Beth and Family,

Your father was a very wonderful person. He is the one who really "ran" Strictly Formal; it was his dedication that allowed it to run as smoothly as it did. My favorite memories of your father include the incredible support he and David gave me and Tom before our wedding. I don't know what we would have done without them.

During every Christmas season, I think of his love for the holiday and Handel's Messiah; when I hear it I think of him.

I'm so sorry for your loss and your grief. I want you to know that my life was made better with John in it and that he meant a lot to me.

Love, Leslie

Ginger Williams

March 22, 2009

Jan,Beth,Allison,Brian & Family
I am so sad with the loss of John.When I married Ray, I became part of the Foster family. Little did I know after Ray's passing that I would always be still so very close to your family. Even though I remarried John always encluded us in family gatherings. Its been fourty years now and we are still close,still cousins.
We will miss you John thanks for all the wonderful memories.
Love Owen & Ginger

Dick - Richard "John" King

March 21, 2009

Jan & Family,

Please know that Johnny's love and energy and fun lives on through the great memories he created with others. I and the King family all have such fond feelings for him and we each have stories about his impact on our lives. I especially feel connected to Johnny since he was my “godfather” and namesake.

I know my brother Gregg and I will never forget you guys driving us down to Uncle Bob’s in the dark of night in October 1970. You calmly guided us, with a sense of protection & love we so needed, as you drove us down to West Springfield to our new home.

Likewise, I can so clearly picture Johnny dancing with Pam and my mother in years past at weddings (a family of 8 has lots of weddings :-) Pam, with her “serious” dance face on and Johnny flying and twisting around the floor, equally as intent upon soaking up every minute of fun. That is the Johnny I will always remember!

Jan, you & Johnny were always so very good to me and my brothers & sisters. Thank you!

Love, Dick

Psalm 46:1 God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.

Doug & Cheri King

March 11, 2009

To Jan and family,
We were saddened to hear about John. We will always remember what fun he was at all the family gatherings. He was a special man. Our thoughts are with you.

Linda & John Michalczyk

March 11, 2009

Dear Jan,Beth,Allison & Brian

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Johnny always loved to have a good time with his family and friends. You were his world. I am so glad I was able to have such a wonderful visit with you and Johnny when you came to see my mother.His eyes sparkled when he spoke of his grandchildren. I am also thankful that Pam and I visited him in the hospital. I am sure Johnny is up in haven and playing cards with Aunt Bertha, Aunt Loza, Uncle Bob and the rest of the family. All our love. Linda & John Michalczyk

Ann Klenakis

March 10, 2009

Dear Jan and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Johnny was such a sweet and gentle man. We will always remember his visits to West Springfield and all the fun times we had. Dad and Mom thought of him as a third son. The memories will live on for a long time.
Prayers and Love.
John, Annie, Chrissy, Sarah Klenakis and Aunt Harriette

Cathy (King) Whitney

March 10, 2009

Dear Jan, Beth, Allison and Brian,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Johnny was a funny guy,who loved his family dearly. I loved listening to his many stories. God bless.
Cathy(King)Whitney

Larry & Carol King

March 9, 2009

Dear Jan & Family, Carol & I were so sorry to hear about John. He was always such a kind and friendly guy. Our sincerest sympathy to you & the family througt this most diffcult time.

David,Lori & Brett Charland

March 9, 2009

Dear Jan,
Sorry to hear of John's passing. Our condolences to your family. It was alway a pleasure to see the two of you. John will always be remebered.

Susanne Charland-Jegelewicz

March 9, 2009

Please know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Our love goes out to all of you.......

Ed Moses

March 9, 2009

Dear Jan and family,

I was so sorry to hear about Johnny. He was such a part of the Foster clan and we all have special memories . He was a wonderful husband , father and friend. He will be missed. Prayers and love during a difficult time ,

Dan,Mary,Stephanie & Stacey Sylvester

March 9, 2009

Dear Jan & family,
Our most sincere sympathy to you upon reading of John's passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.

Mary Alexander(Caouto)

March 9, 2009

Sorry to hear about Johnny. Patty e-mailed me and sent his Obit. My thoughts are with you Jan and my Uncles children.

David Cormier

March 9, 2009

Our sincerest sympathy to Jan, the children, and John's family. It has been a long time since our Cheverus days but we always happily remember our times spent with John. We will miss him.

Darlene Kein

March 9, 2009

We will miss your loving and kind spirit. Thank you for always making us feel special when we visited. Our deepest sympathy to Aunt Jan. We hope all your memories will bring you comfort at this very sad time.

Love & Peace,
Kevin, Darlene, Jake & Max Kein

Dawn Day Drown

March 9, 2009

Jan,
I am so sorry for your loss, John will be missed. I don't think I ever saw him without a smile on his face. If I don't make it to the visiting hours Wednesday, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids.

Love,
Dawn

Alphee and Judy Lefebvre

March 9, 2009

Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your husband and father. As you know, we have known John since Grammar School. We have some very fond memories. He was definitely a very special person and will be greatly missed. You are with us in our prayers.

Henry (Hank) Charland

March 9, 2009

Dear Jan and Family: My deepest condolences to you all.
Johnny was such a great guy,quiet,(except after a few drinks), caring and loving . I'll always remember the good times at the "Harrison House",yards of beer w/Dan Burke,Mom,Dad and family. Also Johns great pride and love for Jan when he finally introduced her to us all.

Remember the good times.
May John rest in peace and may we always keep in mind the times we had w/him.
I'm so sorry for you loss. Hank

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