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Memories and Condolences
for Jay Sappington
Sponsored by Roberta and Jim Sappington.
Lisa U.
July 1, 2025
20 years you've been gone. We had plans to hang out when I got down to Florida that never happened. Your memory will never be forgotten my dear friend. Everytime my phone rings, I hear your song. It makes even spam calls enjoyable because I get to hear your voice :) I miss you Jay <3
May your memories be a blessing to so many!
Rivka Roberta Sappington
July 1, 2025
Each year Jay´s holy soul gets stronger and deeper into our hearts. This is the first year he has his father with him in the next life. Jay´s best friend Chris has rejoined our family and showed us his beautiful wife and three kids. He is living Jays dream for both of them. Jay always said he would love to have a wife and lots of kids. And now Chris makes great music like Jay did. Best friends!
Visit sappingtonmusic.com to enjoy one part of Jay´s legacy. Sending love to all! Jays mom.
Rivka Roberta Sappington
May 31, 2025
Dear two fine people who posted comments even though they never met Jay:
Thank you. Bless you. Get to know Jay a bit and enjoy his playing and singing at Sappingtonmusic.com.
Gabe´s words match my heart exactly and I posted something similar last week but don´t see it in the legacy notes. So I´m trying again. You did great!
Gabe
May 30, 2025
It is heartwarming to see people who never met Jay take the time to leave a note for him here. I'm glad his memorial is still in tact and that people notice it. Jay was a person who showed warmth, humor, and friendship to everyone, and I'm sure his soul is smiling down us remembering his beauty and strength.
Anonymous
May 27, 2025
I didn´t know Jay, but today I drove past his memorial and decided to look him up. After reading everyone´s memories and looking up his website, he seemed like such a talented young light in this world. I´m currently a UCF student & am so happy his memory can live on.
Elaine
April 8, 2025
To Jay´s family and friends: I pass by Jay´s memorial on the side of Hwy 50 each time I return home from visiting my daughter at UCF. I looked up his name today. He was truly a remarkable person and was deeply loved by all. May his memory always bring a smile to your faces.
Mom
July 2, 2024
Nineteen years, unbelievable. His soul of love keeps getting stronger. May we merit the ultimate redemption and see no more death, suffering, war and hate. We want Moshiach now!
Alexis Rotstein
July 1, 2024
I think of Jay more and more as the years pass. His memory is a blessing.
Erin
July 1, 2024
Jay, I still look for you in my dreams! You are missed.
Carol Arvin
July 1, 2024
Jay you are very much loved and missed by many.
Lisa
July 1, 2024
I still think of you and miss you all the time Jay. You were such a wonderful friend.
Alexis Rotstein
July 1, 2023
Loving and missing Jay.
roberta Sappington
April 9, 2023
What a wonderful message from Valerie. Great to read those magical words. Please keep them coming!
Valerie
April 4, 2023
Jay, thinking of you with Passover tomorrow. Peace, love and manatees
Jim and Roberta Sappington
October 15, 2022
Jim and Roberta Sappington
October 15, 2022
Tomorrow, Oct 16, 2022, is Jay´s 39th birthday. That makes 18 birthdays his soul has celebrated in the World of Truth. His friends have remained true and his family embraces his essence in words and deeds. Please give him the gift of an extra good deed you do in his merit, one for you and one for him. The best way to honor his birthday. And post a message here to keep his legacy alive and growing.
Thank you.- Jay's mom.
Gabe Genauer
August 25, 2021
I think of Jay every day. The emotions run from deep sorrow to light hearted laughter. One thing I know for sure...Jay would want to leave us with smiles on our faces. Or at least a curious eyebrow raise. Here is a photo of my son Jay showing off the expression he inherited from his uncle. I'm sending you so much love up in heaven little bro.
Jim and Roberta Sappington
July 1, 2021
Every July 1, we think of all the people who loved Jay and stuck by us all these years. Of course our hearts are full of Jay absolutely every day. But today all of you join us in our treasured memories and gratitude for every moment we´ve had with Jay and for his eternal soul continuing to bless our lives.
Carol Bennett-Tate
July 1, 2020
I didnt know Jay personally but I know his parents and his sister and I know the grief they felt. Jay was talented and loved by many. So many happy memories shared by all that love him.
Jim and Roberta Sappington
July 1, 2020
Jays soul is a great source of strength today and every day. As we carry him in our hearts, we give love to everyone he loved and we keep doing good deeds in his merit. Please enjoy Jays music at Sappingtonmusic.com and have a great day NO MATTER WHAT on this, the anniversary of his passing.
Roberta Sappington
July 5, 2019
Unbelievable that it's been 14 years since Jay was taken into the World of Truth. We, his family, are doing all we can to insure that nothing he stood for has died with him. He has transformed the way we think about life and death, what is important and what is trivial.
Jay's father and I were laughing recently, as we often do, about some endearing memories we have of Jay. At 18 months, on the way to Gabe's 12th birthday party, he busted out singing "We Are The World" in a perfect Bruce Springsteen imitation. Hysterical! Amazing!
Then, 16 years later, while practicing basic chords and strums, he asked me how I can play the guitar and sing at the same time. He figured it out pretty fast, because he sang and played like a pro.
Blessings to all Jay's friends and family. -Jay's mom
Carol Bennett-Tate
July 4, 2019
Jay you are always loved and remembered.
Jana Kimball
September 3, 2018
My prayers & thoughts are continually with you and your wonderful family, Roberta.
Jim and Roberta Sappington
September 3, 2018
Great to get notified that someone visited Jay. Last week I renewed Sappingtonmusic.com for the next ten years. Please visit and listen to a song or two, look at some pictures.
Jay's father and I feel so much gratitude and joy whenever we experience people connecting to our thrilling, vibrant and loving son. Evidence of eternal life.
August 31, 2018
It's been a long time since I wrote to ya jay, but not a day goes by where I don't think of you. I miss you brother and your beautiful music.
Jonathan Brownhill
April 3, 2018
Roberta Sappington
October 20, 2016
On Sunday, Oct. 16, Jay would have turned 33 years old. Here's what his big brother, Gabe wrote:We just came back from having a birthday dinner for Jay T. I brought along a photo album of him and gave the kids a scavenger hunt of sorts...like finding the picture of him where he is closest to their age, youngest, oldest, etc. I like finding ways of getting them to relate to their Uncle Jay. As painful as it is, I like to reflect on what an awesome Uncle he would have been, and how much fun he and Jay Kuppel and Talia and Max and Dov would have had together. His sense of humor, playful attitude, and love of family were as good as it gets, and I know he smiles down from heaven at his little niece and nephews.
Roberta Sappington
October 18, 2015
Thank you, everyone who gave light and beauty to all who read this legacy book. Your messages are "slender threads of insight" connected to truth that never ends. May you be blessed with all your hearts' desires and may we merit peace now and forever. Love, jays mom and family.
Kyle Francis
October 17, 2015
Happy Birthday Jay! I still think of you everyday and really miss my friend. Jay was honest, hilarious and the true definition of a good friend. His integrity was simply unmatched. I love you buddy!
Christine Le
October 17, 2015
Happy birthday in heavens, Jay. Thinking of you and your family on this day, Roberta & family.
Trish LaMadeleine
October 17, 2015
Saw Jay's picturein yje news journal, on his birthday and wanted to say we think of all of you often. The memorial site is a lovely way to honor him.Enjoyed his music and pictures.
Rebecca Buchanan
October 16, 2015
I'm sorry I didn't get to meet you. I saw the loving memory in the newspaper today from your family. It touched my heart since I lost my 19 year old granddaughter in 2012. Your music is beautiful and I know your family and loved ones treasure it. Happy 32nd birthday in heaven and on earth and God please bless your family.
Amber Pacetti Wilson
October 16, 2015
I was a friend of Jay's all through middle and high school. He was such a great, fun loving guy and I think about him often.
Anthony Johnston
October 16, 2015
Would of been 32 years old this year and completely happy somewhere in your life for that I'm sure. Your image and pesonalitly was 1 of a kind and will never be forgotten you touched so many souls !! Miss you Slap wish my son could of meet you.
Lisa Shaw
October 16, 2015
Happy Birthday Jay. It is such a moving tribute to you to have your Mom celebrate your life in this way.
Uncle Walrus and Sharon Jones
June 13, 2015
Jay, you are so loved and missed! Sorry we could not make your celebration!
June 11, 2015
Tonight I witnessed a beautiful celebration of Jay's life amongst his family and friends. It's hard to believe ten years have passed. Tears fell this evening as special guests offered great enlightenment into the mystery of life and the motifs behind Jay's imperishable compassion for others. He is missed but he is forever remembered; his songs remain the same.
May 5, 2015
I listen to our old recordings all of the time. Jay was a fantastic musician.
May 4, 2015
Here's Jay's youngest nephew, Dov Jacob Weintraub. He's 1-1/2 years old now and very fun loving. Deena is a great mom, as her husband Mitch and three year old son Max would eagerly agree.
The family is sponsoring a special dinner in memory of the tenth anniversary of Jay's passing. It will be an evening where, like his lyrics, "Slender threads of insight are somehow connected to truth." Please call if you want more information so you can attend. Love, Jay's Mom, Roberta, 386-672-9799
April 16, 2015
Miss you every day old friend. Your passion for music inspires me to this very day. You played a beat on my heart that I will never forget. Thank you so much. I love and miss ya, bro.
After a concert at the House of Blues
Valerie Wilson
April 4, 2015
Deep thoughts at Islands of Adventure
Valerie Wilson
April 4, 2015
UCF 2003
Valerie Wilson
April 4, 2015
Cinnabon at Islands of Adventure!
Valerie Wilson
April 4, 2015
Islands of Adventure
Valerie Wilson
April 4, 2015
UCF 2003
Valerie Wilson
April 4, 2015
Roberta and family,
I just realized it's Passover. I am a friend of Jay's and spent Passover with your family and Irit years ago. I will always remember it as one of the most beautiful experiences. I still think about Jay often and my mom, who only met him one day for a few hours at Universal Studios, still does too. She instantly saw what a wonderful person he was. His spirit was simultaneously so innocent and wise, and his life was a beautiful expression of faith and peace. I learned a lot from his example. He and your family will always be in my thoughts and memories. Peace to you all, Valerie
December 19, 2014
Dear Roberta
I sat today after giving you your facial and listened to all of Jay's music and looked thru all those beautiful photos of you son ,he I looks exactly the way you describe him ! So very handsome and you can just see the kindness in his face !
Today being my sons 14 th birthday was so very special to share your son's music with him ! I am so so very sorry for your loss but how very blessed you were to have had such a special angel in your life !
I am hugging you and praise you for constant uplifting spirit and how you keep your son alive and sharing him with all of us ,I thank you for your beautiful memories always keep them close to your heart
You make me smile
Love Karin Finch
Robera Sappington
October 17, 2013
Yesterday Jay would have been 30 years old. Our new reality without Jay in this physical world is still unfolding. Ashlee and her beautiful children visited so I could give her the present for HER thirtieth, but she was all about Jay. Tears for the children he never had, the awful twist of fate that led to his death despite how clean, healthy, strong and bright he was. Ashlee cried all our tears.
Gabe and Deena also had so much to say about their beloved brother. We all know that Jay's soul needs us to be happy or he will suffer in the World of Truth. Let's keep sending love and light. Blessings to all. Amen
Beth Weissman
June 16, 2013
The beautiful way you give his blessed memory honor is inspirational. As was his music. Sending much love your way.
Keith Haney
June 16, 2013
Jay, thank you for showing me the futility of "bucket lists" and attempts at filling them when we finally accept that life is short or we find out we don't have much time left, for one reason or another. You didn't need a bucket list...you had a full bucket every day because you kept it full with your enthusiasm, adventerous spirit, zest for enjoying and experiencing every minute of life, all while being a ray of sunshine to Jim, Roberta, Gabe, and Deena and all of us who had the unique and blessed privilege of knowing and loving you. Feel our love until we see you again. Keith and Ginger
Roberta Sappington
June 16, 2013
Jeremy and Brian, thanks for your soulful messages in Jay's guest book. You give his family light and joy as you reflect on his essence. You are doing just what Jay would want by keeping the music alive.
We still have all the equipment Jay was using to record, so if you have ideas for what we should do with these items, please advise us, even to say after all these years, the technology might be obsolete. We welcome you any time so please visit! Roberta Sappington, 386-672-9799
Jeremy Mares
June 13, 2013
Hi, family and friends of Jay. I was a friend of Jay's when he was at UCF (I knew him through a mutual friend, Amir Tal), and I played a few shows with Jay at Natura Cafe in Orlando. I always loved and admired Jay's music and, of course, I was completely stunned and deeply saddened when he passed away... I have never seen this website until today, and I was almost brought to tears when I listened to "Park Bench" for the first time in years. I'm so glad that you posted his music. I will always remember how friendly, energetic and positive Jay was. But in addition, I will keep his memory alive through his music. In fact, I was listening to it with my 9-month old son just now :) One day, when I play it again for him, my son might ask "Who wrote this song, daddy?" and I will tell him it was written by a friend I knew long ago, a good man, who was a brilliant musician and an inspiring friend. He was taken from us too young, but God left us his music to remember him by.
I wish his family the best. Thanks for the music, Jay. As Brian said, save me a seat on the park bench!!!
Roberta Sappington
May 27, 2013
In the Jewish calendar which is lunar, the anniversary of Jay's passing will be June 3, and I will light his candle at nightfall, Sunday June 2. Of course his memorial will be in the News Journal July 1 on the solar calendar date. I'm taking your ideas that you write or call to give me about what text to put with the photo this time. Love to all who love Jay. Ma 386-672-9799
NIKISHIA COLLINS
May 26, 2013
MY NAME IS NIKISHIA COLLIN N JAY WAS OLDER THEN ME BUT I HAD THE BIGGEST CRUSH ON HIM AND MARK NEUTERMAN N I WILL NEVER FORGET WHEN I HEARD THAT U HAD PASSED I THOUGHT PEOPLE WAS LIEING TO ME I KNO I HADNT SEEN U IN A LONG TIME BUT I WAS ALWAYS THINKING OF MY FRIEND N WISHING I HAD THE CHANCE TO SEE U BEFORE U LEFT BUT I DIDNT AND NOW I MUST HOLD ON TO 4 YEARS I WAS AROUND U AND TALKED TO U ON THE PHONE I WILL FOR EVA MIS U MR SAPPINGTON
Gabe Genauer
March 6, 2013
Brian, what a beautiful message, thank you for posting it! I am Jay's brother Gabe and I was with him when he wrote that song you referered to...Park Bench. He was visiting me in Portland and I took him to a park where i was going for a swim and when I got out of the water and met back up with him he was so excited about what he had just written that he couldn't wait to play it for me. The kid was pure inspiration and passion for music and for life. It is heartwarming to know that so many other people saw this in him and that his legacy and memory lives on. Keep playing and listening!
March 4, 2013
My name is Brian Buffaloe. If it wasn't for Jay Sappington, then I am not sure what I would have become. Thanks to Jay, I am a musician. Every time I sit behind my instrument, I can't help but think about Jay. Reason being......Jay was the first person to let me play hand percussion on original material. That's right....no practice...and no doubts. He had faith in what little experience I had at the time. I forever give thanks to Jay and his ability to mold my life of music. I would give anything for his guidance and input on everything that I have done. But either way, I know he would be proud. I miss you every day, old friend. You have a huge impact on my life and I wouldn't change it for the world. When it's my time to go, will follow the big white light until I find you. Just save me a seat on your park bench. I love you, Jay.
Christine Le
December 16, 2012
Dear Roberta and family,
Jay's music was beautiful. Thank you for sharing it with me. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Christine Le
Roberta Sappington
October 25, 2012
Lindsey, your message brought joy to our family and true appreciation from Jay in heaven. He loved attention in this world and you gave him a fine dose for the next. I read your words to my husband(Jay's father). He echoes my feelings. If you record any of Jay's songs, we'd love to hear them. Blessings and thanks. Jay's mom Roberta
Lindsey Trefz
October 24, 2012
Dear Jay,
It's been 7 years since I've written in this, and boy, have things changed. I have since recorded some of my own original music, and began reflecting on people I knew who were great songwriters and just had to listen to your music again. Tons of memories came back to me and I felt very compelled to write you again. I'd love to do a cover of one of your songs sometime...we never did get to write together like I'd hoped. After all these years, I still have yet to find someone who can compare to you-you truly were one of a kind. You cracked me up so much. I definitely feel like it was fate that we ran into each other so close to your passing and just had a great, random time hanging out and catching up. I think it was meant to be. I pass by your old condo every day and not a day goes by that I don't turn my head and look at your building and think of all of the laughter and fun that was had in that place. I remember you had an interesting roommate with a cat named Eola. And one time the cat did something gross and she was screaming at the cat and dry heaving at the same time. You used to impersonate it when she wasn't around...hahahah!!! But it sounded exactly like it! I'm literally cracking up typing this. Hilarious..I can not believe I still remember that ridiculous story! You were such a great storyteller, which I'm sure is why it still sticks out in my mind. You'd appreciate those random weird moments of hilarity and always bring it back to life with your spot-on impersonations. Man, do I wish I could have spent more time with you. You had such a zest for life and a fearlessness that I will never forget. You just embraced everything head on with no regrets and drank in everything life could offer you. It was so admirable. Love and miss, still after all these years.
Denise
July 3, 2012
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. You are always in my mind and definatley can hear you'r laughter every day <3 Love you always
Chasity Martiz
July 2, 2012
You're still in my heart and on my mind! Miss you constantly.....there are always moments where I say "Jay would love this, or wouldn't it be great if Jay were here to endure this!" You are not forgotten....nor will you ever be! Love you!
MJ Harris
July 1, 2012
Dear Jay,
We will never forget you. It is comforting to know, that wherever you are, God is taking care of you. We love you.
Donna Godwin
July 1, 2012
Hello family of Jay, I listened to some of Jays songs and saw some of the family photos.Our son played drums. I also lost my son in 2005 in an accident.He was 28. I know your pain. Donna Godwin
Joan Stemen
July 1, 2012
I did not know your son, but what I have read, he was a wonderful young man. My heart goes out to you and your family. I just loss my son six months ago at 41 years of age. I do not know when the day will come that I will stop crying. No one knows what a parent feels when a child is lost. Each day hurts. I do know first hand what you are going through. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
October 18, 2011
Roberta,
I did not know precious your son and can only imagine the depth of your grief. I am so sorry for your loss.
Judy Fournier Bingham
Ashlee Roberson
October 16, 2011
Happy Birthday, Jay.
John Cencerik
October 16, 2011
Jim, Roberta, Gabe and Deena , we are thinking of you, my grandma lit a candle for Jay today. this is a wonderful site to see and hear Jay. Love you all
The Cencerik's
Debra Flaherty
October 16, 2011
Roberta: I had the opportunity to view Jay's site. I am saddened that you and your family suffered this loss. I heard a wonderful saying at my husband's mother's service -- you never die when you live on in the hearts he leaves behind. I will do a mitzvah in your son's name at Chabad this week. You and your family are in my prayers. Debra Flaherty
Arline Rocco
October 16, 2011
On occasion, when I walk by Jay’s tribute wall … I smile, wish you all peace, know that he had great parents and ponder what a wonderful person he was.
September 28, 2011
B"H
Jay in Heaven, your sister and brother in law are naming their son after Mitch's beloved grandfather and you. I appreciate what good care you took of little Max Jay's soul while it was up in the World of Truth with you. May this New Year bring the ultimate redemption where there is no death, no sickness or war or pain, and we will all be together again. Love, Ma
September 25, 2011
Roberta, Thank you for sharing this site with me. It is truely amazing. I never had the pleasure in meeting Jay or hearing his music live, but in knowing you, even in this short time, I can only imagine what a wonderful and talented young man he was.
Josephine Antar ( at Gold's)
Joe Colella
July 3, 2011
Roberta, Jim, Gabe and Deena- Hard to believe it's been 6 years. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sharon Jones
July 2, 2011
Awww...Love you Jay
Love Uncle Walrus and Sharon
Chasity Skinner
July 1, 2011
From time to time I still dream of him. In my dreams he's always carrying his guitar, smiling at me and leading me to somewhere I cannot remember by the time I'm awake. It's been 6 years and I still miss his warm smile. A great friend to me, and will forever be missed by me.
Renee Silverman
July 1, 2011
Jay was a wonderful young man. I remember him with a smile on my face. His humor, talent and love for his family will always live on. G-d bless you all!
July 1, 2011
Roberta, It was so nice to meet your husband Jim. He told me about your son and I can't imagine how you feel. I wish you both the best on such a hard day . Richard Druckman
July 1, 2011
Your ad touched my heart. I have a young son and cannot imagine life without him. When God takes someone so special from us he leave the rest of our family and friends to help us heal. May God Bless you and your family. Janie Burke South Daytona Beach
Rena Katz
July 1, 2011
Sending warm thoughts on a day that will always be a sad one, sorry to say.
Jon Pennett
May 7, 2011
Hey jim, it was great talking with you tonight. I love the website. It was nice to see and hear jay voice. He was a great person and he is missed dearly.
Anthony Bennett
February 25, 2011
Your son was very talented. This web site you created in his memory is such a very nice thing to do for his family and friends. It leaves his mark on us all. We wish you the Best!
Elena Lowery
December 24, 2010
Roberta and Jim, Remembering your precious angel Jay at Christmas time and always...
I'm wishing you have a Christmas filled with love, joy and peace and the wonderful memories you have of Jay will warm your heart and bring you comfort. Merry Christmas and I hope you have a Happy and Healthy New Year!
Elena Lowery
December 11, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss. Your son, Jay was a very handsome and talented young man. I know your pain. This road of grief is never one I would have chosen but we're on it and God will carry us through until we're with our son's again. Thank you for your kind message you left in my son, Dennis's guest book. Love and hugs....
Susan Romanello
October 16, 2010
I don't know your family, but I too, lost a son who was only 19, to cancer. I know your pain and the fact that you made this website is fantastic for people to go to. It's the friends that keep the vision alive and I thank God every day for my son's friends who keep in contact with me. God bless each of you, and you know he is looking down on you every day. I'm sure my son must have known your son if he went to FPCHS and DBCC. I'm sure they have met in heaven. God bless...
Pat Herold
September 21, 2010
I met Jay's parents at Gold's Gym. His music is very touching. It is wonderful that it can be kept alive on this website. Thank you for sharing with me.
Brittany Gooch
September 15, 2010
I didn't know Jay, but i cut his mothers hair a couple weeks ago and she had given me one of her cards that she carries around with his website on it. I have also lost a sister, 2 years in january. I think his voice is beautiful and his lyrics are very touching. I know the pain that his family is going through and my prayers go out to ya'll! God bless each and every one of ya'll :)
August 24, 2010
Jay was a friend of mine in high school. I will always remember his smile and positive outlook on life. He was a beautiful person.
August 4, 2010
Jay, we had lunch with your mom and dad yesterday. Of couse your name came up (always)... We all love and miss you everyday. You would be so proud of the strenth your mom and dad have and show to everyone the meet.
Love you Uncle Walrus and Aunt Sharon
Chasity Skinner
July 8, 2010
I still think of Jay from time to time. Everytime I pass White St., I blow a kiss to him to let him know I still love him and miss him very much. On occassion, when I'm on Daytona State Campus for some classes, I'll walk over to his graveside to visit. He's always on my mind.
How could you forget such a wonderful soul! I've never met a person like him and I don't think I ever will find someone that will come close to his spirit! He had a way of seeing the beauty in everything! He was my protector in school when I wasn't such the popular one. He would stick up for me and defend my honor. I'll never forget that! He was always there when I needed advice or a good laugh. He was my brother, and one of my best friends. Time cannot replace him, nor will I ever forget him. I'm constantly reminded of him through the music he loved, and the beauty he found in the world. Dave Matthews Band has become one of my favorite bands too! Roberta & Jim, you guys are always on my mind as well! I know I haven't visited in a while, and I am sorry for this! At first it was a bit too painful to talk about him, now I have no excuse and a visit is long over due! Ray and I will need to come visit you sometime soon! Until then, may this note find you well!
July 6, 2010
July 1, on the secular anniversary #5 since Jay's passing, we put a notice in the paper (see News-Jrnlonline.com) and asked people to call us if they remember Jay. We got 39 calls that day, and several more since.
I eat humble pie, Dear Jay, for hassling you about the expensive haircuts you would get at Shear Dimensions, because one of the best calls was from Ron, a man who said he remembered you from the haircuts. You helped him with his livelihood and appreciated his talent. Then there was this elderly woman who remembers you from 1999 when you were 15 and would walk to Fazoli's from Seabreeze for lunch, lighting up her day.
I want this memory book to keep alive, to grow with messages every now and then. Whoever reads this, please drop in a few words to maintain momentum. We will need these connections as long as we live, and we will thank you forever. -Jay's parents, Jim & Roberta
Tabitha Parsons
May 3, 2010
Roberta and Family,
This website is amazing! It brings back many wonderful memories of Jay! By the way... Hello There Jay! Just to see your face again, is incredible. I sure do miss your smile, and the laugh that always accompanied it. =)
Listening to your voice in your music, instantly gave me goosebumps, and even made me a little teary eyed. Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful memories of Jay! Jay - I'll always miss you.
Amir Tal
April 1, 2010
Just dropping a line.
Hope Passover is Kosher :)
March 22, 2010
Hi Dr. Sappington,
My husband, Leonard, and I met you and your husband, Jim, across from the cementery in Daytona Beach (during bike week). We all were visiting the gravesites of loved ones. You shared the website to listen to your son's music, thank you. His singing is beautiful and I love good singing. God bless you and your family. PS: I will e-mail a picture of your very nice blue trike.
A. L. Haizlip
February 12, 2010
Roberta and Family:
What a wonderful and happy celebration of Jay, his love, his spirit and all that was him.
I am so blessed by coming to your website.
I thank you for sharing your joy, your love, your celebration, and the tenderness of your hearts.
A. L.
January 19, 2010
Jay, you were with us Sunday, Jan. 17 on a memorial ride that Smiley's Tap does once a year for everyone who has loved ones "upstairs." I gave out your card to a girl who was 2 years behind you at Seabreeze, named Deanna. And everyone who loves you can read how a woman I work with who came from DC took your card, visited your web site at sappingtonmusic.com and really GOT the beauty and magic of your songs. Her message below mine is just what warms my heart and keeps me going.
You'll be getting a brother-in-law on May 30th when Deena and Mitch get married. Please put it on your heavenly calendar to be there! Love, Ma
Mitzi Warren
January 16, 2010
Roberta, family of Jay and friends!
Wow, I only met Roberta in person a week ago at CMEL where she lovingly shared the website and memories of Jay. After sharing, although a short time with Roberta, I visited the website,,, now, where to begin.
Jay's music is incredible, so touching and inspiring. My personal favorites are Memories and Lessons, and Waves. The picture album tells it all...Jay's smile and photos of him with family and friend shows an incredible love for each of you and life..and your love for him.
Roberta, thank you for sharing Jay with me--I feel now as if I know him and he's touch my heart. I'll definitely be down loading the music to my IPOD and sharing with my friends and family.
Roberta Sappington
October 2, 2009
Hello Jay and everyone who loves you. We made a really cool sign for your 26th birthday, coming up 10/16/09. It's a joyful mewmorial and they've put it up at the Iron Horse in time for Biketober Fest. How you loved to people-watch there! And we made extras for people who love you and stay in touch. It's 12 X 24 inches, shows you in two different situations, so happy! Thanks for the 21 years we had you in the material world and every moment now and forever for your eternal soul. Love, Ma.
Alexis Rotstein
August 10, 2009
Today was my first day as a fourth grade teacher... while my students were working independently I put one of Jay's CDs on... the kids asked who was singing and it brought so much joy for me to say it was Jay... his music and spirit is living in my classroom. Thanks Jay.
Jen Goertz
July 23, 2009
I miss you so much Jay. You're still such an inspiration to me. You got me though all the tough times and now you're legacy helps me make it through every day. Love, Jen
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