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Thaddeus Dudek Obituary

FRELINGHUYSEN - Thaddeus "Ted" Dudek, 55, passed away on Sunday, Nov. 2, 2008, at the University of Arkansas Medical Center in Little Rock, after a long, courageous and inspiring battle with cancer.

Born on Aug. 7, 1953, in Oswego, N.Y., Mr. Dudek grew up in Fulton, N.Y., and later moved to New Brunswick to attend Rutgers University, where he majored in environmental planning and landscape architecture. At Rutgers, he was a member of the varsity crew team. Mr. Dudek had been a resident of New Jersey for the past 30 years. For the past 29 years, Mr. Dudek served as principal and vice president with CMX Engineering (formerly Schoor DePalma, Inc.), a multi-disciplinary design firm. He was also a member of the American Institute of Certified Planners, the American Planning Association, the American Society of Landscape Architects, and the National Association of Environmental Professionals. He actively participated in local sports as a coach for soccer and baseball in the Blairstown area during the time his children participated in sports.

The son of the late Thaddeus L. Dudek, Mr. Dudek is survived by his wife, Crystal; his daughter, Jessica; his son, Court and his wife, Sara, of Westminster, Md.; his mother, Constance Dudek of Lima, N.Y.; and his sister, Cynthia Schofield, also of Lima.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10 a.m. on Saturday at Good Shepherd R.C. Church, Route 517, Andover Borough. Interment will follow at Tranquility Cemetery. Visitation will be held Friday, from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m., at the Smith-McCracken Funeral Home, 63 High St., Newton. A memorial service will be held from 5 to 6:30 p.m. on Sunday, Nov. 16, 2008, at Kirkpatrik Chapel, Rutgers University in New Brunswick.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Myeloma Institute for Research and Therapy (MIRT), 4301 W. Markham St., Little Rock, AR 72205.

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Published by The New Jersey Herald on Nov. 6, 2008.

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Court Dudek

November 2, 2019

You are greatly missed. New Jersey is but a memory right now, so are you. But you affected me in many ways teaching me to love nature and adventure seeking the beauty of cross-country travel and the wonders of National Parks. Thank you for instilling the love of aesthetics in landscaping and architecture. For giving me and Jess the chance for a good education. Remembrance is not a sentimental thing; you exist in the eternal memory which will be made present in the resurrection of the body. I will see you then, I pray.

Court Dudek

June 9, 2009

Thank you for all who signed this guestbook and who continue to pray for the family and remember my Dad. I miss him greatly.
I miss his laugh and sense of humor as many do. I miss his presence and regret that I will not be able to discuss many things with him--share my life with him.
Thank you to all who showed their support and honored my Dad.

Susan Berninger

November 6, 2008

I will never forget all the really fun times Ted and I had while working at Schoor. He was a great friend and a super fellow to work with. You could always count on Ted for a good laugh. My prayers and thoughts are with Crys and family. He fought a very long, brave fight and was always in the best of spirits even when he felt his worst. He was a great inspiration to all of us. Ted will be missed by many but never forgotten. He was a true friend and we'll all have stories to tell for decades. It is with a sad heart that I sign this guest book but a happy heart of fond rememberances.

Fern Ippolito

November 6, 2008

Words cannot tell you how sorry I am for your terrible loss. My heartfelt prayers are with your family at this time.

Amanda Rush

November 6, 2008

Prayers are with you and your family I knew Ted only from working with him over the phone I work with the NJ Dept of Trans. Permit office in Mt. Arlington. He was always a Gentlemen and a Professional at his job. May fond memories and happy times be in your thoughts at this time.

Sheri Arnold

November 6, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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