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James Stefango Obituary

(News article) James E. Stefango, an electrical engineer whose perseverance as a university student resulted in a job and tuition help from a prominent Toledo firm, died Thursday in ProMedica Flower Hospital. He was 60.

Mr. Stefango of Springfield Township died from complications of Type 2 diabetes, his daughter Jilian said. Because of the condition, he retired about three years ago.

In his 30-year career, Mr. Stefango made sure the invisible worked flawlessly as an electrical engineer on hospital, stadium, parking structure, and other large-scale projects around the country.

"They'?re the unsung heroes of construction," his daughter said. "My dad didn'?t care that no one said anything. He always thought it was cool. That'?s all that mattered."

Back in 1977, Mr. Stefango was married and working full time while a part-time electrical engineering student at the University of Toledo. The architectural and engineering firm then known as Samborn, Steketee, Otis, and Evans Inc. regularly looked for prospects, even students, who demonstrated promise through patient effort. SSOE hired him as a full-time electrical draftsman and in time helped pay his tuition. He later was given small design duties on large projects. Design became his chief duty as he approached graduation, summa cum laude, in 1981.

He remained with the firm until 1983 when he was hired by Advantage Electric Inc., founded three years earlier by Levi Cook, Jr., and Lawrence Henning and, eventually, one of the region's largest electrical contractors.

"He was very talented, a very bright guy, so we considered it quite a coup for us to land a talent like his," said Mr. Cook, now with a California firm. "He was a first stringer."

Mr. Stefango became Advantage vice president of operations.

"He had a knack for dealing with customers and understanding their projects and needs," Mr. Cook said. "He found creative ways to make things happen with their projects.

"Likewise, with the people around him, everybody was made better by his talents and skill sets, so he kind of raised the whole team up."

For more than a decade, Mr. Stefango was affiliated with Michigan firms and, after a divorce, moved to Ann Arbor. He was chief electrical estimator for Barton Malow in Southfield and Edgewood Electric in Madison Heights and was a senior electrical estimator for Skanska USA in Southfield.

Mr. Stefango, a licensed professional engineer, later returned to the Toledo area and was an electrical engineer for SSOE and for Transtar Corp..

He was born Jan. 1, 1954, to Florence and George Stefango and was a 1972 graduate of Ottawa Hills High School. He attended the University of Michigan for about a year.

He was a fan of U-M, the Tigers, and the Red Wings -- and of Pink Floyd and Guns N'? Roses. He liked to cook, and was skilled at chili, but also sauces.

"He had a refined taste. He liked to do fancier things," his daughter said.

He was formerly married to Anne Ferrando-Klemet.

Surviving are his wife, Jan, whom he married on March 20, 1976. They divorced in 1993 and remarried on March 20, 2009. Also surviving are son, Jared Stefango; daughters, Jamie Sheskey and Jilian Stefango; brothers George and Deny Stefango; sister, Janet Thieme, and four grandchildren.

Memorial services will be at 7:30 p.m. Tuesday in the Foth-Dorfmeyer Mortuary, where the family will greet guests after 5 p.m.

The family suggests tributes to the American Diabetes Association or the University of Michigan athletics annual fund.

Contact Blade Staff Writer Mark Zaborney at: [email protected] or 419-724-6182.
Published by The Blade on Jul. 13, 2014.

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James Pritchard

July 27, 2014

Jim was a classmate at OHHS. I have warm memories of Jim-- he was a really nice guy who seemed like a friend to all. My sincere sympathies to the Stefango family.

Nancy Tuttle

July 16, 2014

Jan and family,
I wish you peace and comfort in this difficult time. I didn't know Jim but Jan and I are friends from grade school and I love you, Jan, with all my heart. Hang in there and be strong. You can do this!
Sending strength, comfort, peace and love.
Nancy Tuttle

Jane Saxby-Primrose

July 15, 2014

My deepest sympathy to all the Stefango family. I was in school with Jim at OHHS for ten years. I still think of the wonderful picture of him senior year with his long "blonde" hair. I hope your memories will help bring you peace in this difficult time.

July 14, 2014

Jan,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I will be coming up tomorrow from Cincinnati to see you and Jim. My thoughts are with you.
Tim Jones (Ottawa Hills now Cincinnati)

Brian Walters

July 14, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. May God bless you in this time of sorrow.

Jane Ockuly

July 13, 2014

George, Deny, Janet & Jan,
We are deeply saddened to learn of Jim's passing. Our family has many fond memories of Jim & all of you during our years as neighbors. Please know that you are in our thoughts & prayers now & in the days to come.


Jane Ockuly, Sharon, Jim & Joni

July 13, 2014

I am so very saddened to hear the loss of Jim. My thoughts are with you all and please know all of us remember the fond memories of Jim while growing up in OHHS. I have all but great memories of Jim and I feel a void now that he has left us. Peace be with him and the Stefango family. We have lost a great friend way to early.

Janet Thieme

July 13, 2014

Mike Bernard

July 13, 2014

My deepest of condolences to you Jan and the rest of the Stefango family on your loss. Jim was a kind and gentle man. He will be missed.

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Denis Stefango

July 13, 2014

Susan Wenner

July 13, 2014

I know your hearts are broken and pray that your love and treasured memories will help comfort and sustain you through these most difficult of times. Know that, through them, Jim will forever live on in each of you until the day you are reunited for eternity. My heart breaks, too, and my thoughts, love and prayers are with you all.

Carolyn Jones

July 13, 2014

Praying for the Stefango family. Though I didn't personally know your loved one. I worked with Jackie in the 90's. Just wanted you all to know that I send my condolences to your family.

Jill Noviski

July 13, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with the Stefango families in your time of loss. To lose someone so young is a tragedy.

Patti Humphreys

July 13, 2014

Jan, I so understand how difficult this is for you, your kids, and family. Be as strong as you feel you can, sweetheart. May you be surrounded by love that will help you in the coming days and months. ~ Patti

Jenny Kraft

July 12, 2014

I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I graduated High School with Jim and remember him as kind sweet boy.

S.K. & Marcia Davis

July 12, 2014

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead. May your memories of Jim provide comfort and peace.

Amy and Nick Licata

July 12, 2014

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

July 12, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. May remembering the good times with Jim give you hope and peace.
Charlotte and Terry Fye

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